The S.P.O.U.S.E. Podcast

Jeff and Lexie Bodenmuller

Learn from other power couples on what makes them tick, how they grow their family, their lives, their business and so much more! We are Jeff and Lexie Bodenmuller, parents, authors, personal coaches, business owners and real estate investors. Seeking to grow and learn more from these amazing couples! We are so excited to bring this to you, to encourage, grow and build your lives! Here's to a successful marriage and life!

  1. Oct 19

    Losing Our Son to Suicide, and Finding Hope Together | John & Lynda Shelhamer

    Summary In this episode, Jeff and Lexie sit down with John and Lynda Shelhamer, married 55 years, for a story of faith, loss and joy. John was framed in Vietnam and came to Jesus through a Gideon New Testament. A blind date in Alaska turned into an engagement six weeks later. After losing their 15-year-old son Josiah, they found a way through grief together, and now they help grieving moms through Heavenly Hope and Healing. Key Topics Finding Jesus in the Army in VietnamA blind date in Alaska and a six-week engagementLosing a child, and walking through grief as a coupleWhy God is a giver, not a takerHeavenly Hope and Healing and the Sparrow booksA Lake Powell camping story the kids told at schoolKeeping the spark after 55 years: never go to bed angry, marriage is 100/100Staying healthy and active at 78The S.P.O.U.S.E. rapid fireChapters 00:00 Intro from Jeff and Lexie 00:56 The S.P.O.U.S.E. Podcast theme 01:24 Welcome, and a rooster named John 05:08 John's childhood 07:03 Framed in Vietnam, and finding Jesus 11:58 Alaska Bible College 13:00 Lynda's story 17:01 The blind date 19:17 A picnic proposal six weeks in 23:03 Early marriage in Alaska 27:16 Seminary, Montana and a growing family 28:47 Josiah's story 34:10 God gives, he doesn't take 36:26 Grief is like a rip current 39:47 Finding comfort by comforting others 41:01 Heavenly Hope and Healing and the Sparrow books 47:27 Family trips and the Grand Canyon 49:17 Lake Powell, the tent and the hungry birds 53:03 Keeping the spark after 55 years 57:22 Games, laundry and being on the same team 59:23 Healthy and running at 78 01:03:01 S.P.O.U.S.E. rapid fire 01:11:55 What the church is for, and wrap-up Resources: HeavenlyHopeAndHealing.org · UmbrellaMinistries.com · A Sparrow Falls and A Sparrow Sings (Amazon) This episode talks about suicide. If you or someone you love is struggling, call or text 988 (Suicide & Crisis Lifeline). Listen and subscribe: https://thespousepodcast.riverside.com/

    Losing Our Son to Suicide, and Finding Hope Together | John & Lynda Shelhamer
  2. Sep 7

    Fitness

    Summary In this episode, Jeff and Lexie explore the vital connection between physical and mental fitness, emphasizing how mental strength enhances physical health and vice versa. They share practical tips for maintaining mental clarity, overcoming challenges, and staying motivated on the fitness journey. Key Topics The importance of mental fitness for overall healthHow older adults are crushing fitness goals and inspiring othersThe impact of mindset on physical health and motivationPractical tips for mental clarity, including journaling and breathing exercisesThe role of diet and good nutrition in physical and mental well-beingOvercoming physical limitations through mental resilienceThe significance of sunlight and outdoor activity for mental healthThe influence of media and news on mental state and how to manage it Chapters 00:00 Introduction and overview of fitness as a holistic concept 02:16 Observations from older adults crushing fitness goals 04:39 The long-term effects of lifestyle choices on health 05:07 The connection between mental and physical fitness 06:02 Activities that fuel brain health: reading, writing, prayer 07:00 Jeff's perspective on physical fitness and health 08:00 Overcoming physical limitations and staying active 09:23 The resilience of Lexie in battling fibromyalgia and RA 10:46 The power of mindset in physical fitness 12:13 Visual progress in the gym reflects mental change 13:40 Maintaining mental health through journaling, prayer, and breathing 17:20 Breathing exercises and their benefits for focus and calm 18:48 The importance of outdoor activity and sunlight for mental clarity 20:36 Nutrition and food choices as fuel for body and mind 23:10 The body as a temple and the importance of self-care 24:04 Making time for healthy eating and physical activity 25:03 Summary: The interconnectedness of mental and physical fitness

  3. Aug 21

    Family

    In this episode, Jeff and Lexie explore the importance of family legacy, values, and intentionality in building strong family bonds across generations. They share insights from a family retreat and practical steps to start creating a meaningful family legacy today. Key Topics The importance of family in entrepreneurial successCreating a family mission statement and core valuesThe role of legacy beyond wealth, including character and faithPractical steps to start building a family legacyThe impact of intentionality and family traditionsLearning from successful family retreats and community programsThe importance of involving children in value creationOvercoming resistance in passing down values to older childrenThe significance of love and relationship focus over controlLong-term benefits of family legacy for future generations Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Family Legacy and Its Importance 02:29 Why Family Is the Core of Success and Community 04:49 Passing on Values, Not Just Money 07:08 Learning from Family Retreats and Building a Mission Statement 08:58 The Decline of Family Connection and How to Rebuild It 09:27 Studying Successful Families and Their Legacy Practices 13:50 Defining What Legacy Truly Means Beyond Wealth 15:17 The Power of Values, Character, and Faith in Legacy 17:34 Handling Differences in Beliefs and Building Relationships 19:32 Starting Small and Being Intentional in Family Building 22:20 Creating Family Mission and Value Statements 23:42 The Role of Traditions and Consistency in Legacy Building 26:52 Questions to Engage Your Family in Defining Values 27:52 The Impact of Love and Relationship in Family Legacy 28:49 Resources and Next Steps for Building Your Family Legacy

  4. Jul 2

    This is Lexie's Story

    In this episode, Lexie shares her incredible journey through near-death experiences, chronic illness, and life's challenges, highlighting resilience, faith, and perseverance. Her story offers powerful lessons on overcoming adversity and the importance of never giving up. Takeaways Never take life for granted; each day is a gift. Faith and prayer can be powerful tools in crisis. Resilience and perseverance are key to overcoming life's challenges. Hard times can lead to personal growth and strength. Support from family and community is vital during tough times. Your mindset determines your ability to overcome adversity. God's timing and purpose often reveal themselves later. Sharing your story can inspire and help others. Never give up, no matter how difficult the journey. Life's challenges can be a testimony to others. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Lexie's Journey 01:48 Childhood Adventures and Early Life 08:03 The Impact of Family Dynamics 14:11 Miraculous Survival: The First Drowning Incident 22:12 A Second Chance: The Beach Incident 29:54 Reflections on Hardship and Growth 35:57 Softball Dreams and Health Challenges 42:02 Navigating Life Changes and New Beginnings 44:53 Navigating Career Changes and Family Dynamics 47:51 Health Crises and Their Impact 53:36 Learning from Stress and Communication 56:21 Home Renovations and Personal Growth 01:01:51 Facing Chronic Illness and Resilience 01:04:17 Unexpected Life Changes and New Beginnings 01:10:22 Reflections on Growth and Future Aspirations

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Learn from other power couples on what makes them tick, how they grow their family, their lives, their business and so much more! We are Jeff and Lexie Bodenmuller, parents, authors, personal coaches, business owners and real estate investors. Seeking to grow and learn more from these amazing couples! We are so excited to bring this to you, to encourage, grow and build your lives! Here's to a successful marriage and life!