This Seems Personal

Leigh Gall

This Seems Personal is not a perfectly packaged self-help space. It's me, Leigh Gall, telling the truth in real time and saying the things most of us are too scared to say out loud. I'm done hiding, done performing, done pretending any of us have it all together. This is for anyone who has ever worn a mask in their own life. The overthinkers. The achievers. The people pleasers. The ones who read every room, anticipate every need, and still feel disconnected from themselves even when everything looks fine on the outside. If you've ever wondered whether everyone else is faking it too, you're not alone, and you're in the right place. Here's what I keep coming back to. Your brain is a keep-you-alive machine running on outdated software. So we overthink. We over-function. We abandon ourselves without ever noticing, because by now it's as easy as breathing. We ran these survival responses so many times they stopped being reactions and became who we are. A skillset you never asked for but somehow mastered. And here's the part nobody tells you: it's also your superpower. So across these episodes I get into the real stuff. Self-abandonment, the nervous system, the inner critic, people-pleasing, overthinking, self-sabotage, and all the things we quietly do for everyone else without realizing it. I share the stories I used to hide. Nothing polished. Nothing perfect. Just the truth, the way I actually learned it. What you won't get here is "just go do it." I'm not interested in toxic positivity or faking it till you make it. I'm interested in what's actually getting in your way, and how to put that fire out instead of white-knuckling your way through it. I'm putting myself out here raw because someone has to go first. If you hear something and think, finally, someone is saying what I've been feeling, welcome. This is This Seems Personal. It always is.

  1. 3d ago

    You Can Read a Room in 2 Seconds — Traumatic Intelligence

    Send us Fan Mail You Can Read a Room in 2 Seconds — Traumatic Intelligence  | This Seems Personal Podcast S.3 Ep.3 Can you read a room in two seconds, see everything coming, and stay calm when everything goes bananas? That might be traumatic intelligence: survival responses like hypervigilance and people pleasing that get so practiced they start looking like your personality, and your career. In this one, I’m bringing it back, owning that I’m the poster child for it, and responding to a comment telling anxious people to just “suck it up.” If you’ve ever been the dream employee and the burnt-out one at the same time, this one’s for you. 📌 WHAT WE COVER: - The comment that said anxious people should “suck it up,” and my reply - Why I’m not recruiting for the anxiety club - Why your body reacts before your brain does - Traumatic intelligence: reading rooms, three steps ahead, holding it all together - When those skills turn into people pleasing, over-functioning, and burnout - How it shaped my sales career (yes, pom-poms, all of it) - Where this wiring comes from: childhood, family, and generational norms 📺 Season 1 episode on traumatic intelligence:  https://youtu.be/lDBMwuleeiY 💬 LET’S CONNECT: Website: leighgall.com Instagram: @theleighgall TikTok: @thisseemspersonal LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leighgall/  🎤 WORK WITH ME: I’m a speaker and coach who helps people figure out where they’ve abandoned parts of themselves for success, a title, or keeping everyone happy, so they can act from what they want and not from fear. leighgall.com 👉 If you’re the reliable one, subscribe, and send this to the other reliable one in your life. #traumaticintelligence #peoplepleasing #hypervigilance #fawnresponse #traumaresponse #burnout #nervoussystem #thisseemspersonal

    You Can Read a Room in 2 Seconds — Traumatic Intelligence
  2. Nov 2

    Anxiety Shaming and Why “Just Stop Worrying” Makes It Worse

    Send us Fan Mail Anxiety Shaming: “Just Stop Worrying” | This Seems Personal S3 Ep. 2 Anxiety shaming is a thing, and if you’ve ever been told to “just stop worrying” or “stop caring what people think,” you’ve probably been on the receiving end. In this episode, I’m naming it, sharing the real comments I got when I outed one of my own anxious quirks, and giving my threat people the simple tool I use when my body treats an email like a tiger. If you’ve ever thought, “I don’t want to care what people think. I genuinely don’t. But I do,” this one’s for you. 📌 WHAT WE COVER: - What anxiety shaming is, and why it’s so easy to miss -Why no one is opting into anxiety - Cilantro, colorblindness, and why you can’t understand what you don’t experience - The driving video I posted, and the “Girl, what? 🙀” comment it got - Why “just don’t care what people think” isn’t advice - “No threat”: the two words I say when my body hits the alarm - How tigers and bears turned into emails and unanswered texts - An invite to send me your anonymous questions 💬 LET’S CONNECT: Website: leighgall.com Instagram: @theleighgall TikTok: @thisseemspersonal LinkedIn: @LeighGall 🎤 WORK WITH ME: I’m a speaker and coach who helps people understand why their brain does what it does, and how to stop letting old wiring run the show. If you’re thinking, “okay, but what about MY brain? MY situation? MY mom?”, let’s talk. leighgall.com 👉 If this one hit home, subscribe and send it to someone who needs to hear it, on either side. #anxietyshaming #anxiety #overthinking #nervoussystem #traumaresponse #innercritic #thisseemspersonal

    Anxiety Shaming  and Why “Just Stop Worrying” Makes It Worse
  3. Oct 26

    Overthinkers vs “Just Do It” People - Threat vs. No Threat

    Send us Fan Mail overthinkers vs. “just do it” people — threat vs. no threat | This Seems Personal S3 Ep. 1 If you overthink everything and someone keeps telling you to “just stop worrying,” this one’s for you. In the Season 3 premiere, I’m talking about overthinking, anxiety, and the two groups of people I think exist in this world: the threat group and the no threat group. By the end, you’ll know which one you’re in. (I have a guess.) If you’ve ever had a full-body reaction to something everyone else called “no big deal,” you’re in the right place. 📌 WHAT I COVER: The two groups: threat vs. no threatWhy some brains turn tiny moments into threatsAnxiety as a vision problem, not a character flawThe pickleball meltdown and why “it’s just a game” misses the pointWhat I overheard in a hair salon that broke my heartMy own weird ones: the dishwasher and the leftover gumbo (yes, really)How you can be in both groups depending on the triggerWhy “just do it” and “chill out” make it worse💬 LET’S CONNECT:  Website: leighgall.com  Instagram: @theleighgall  TikTok: @thisseemspersonal  LinkedIn: @LeighGall 🎤 WORK WITH ME:  I’m a speaker and coach who helps people figure out why their brain does what it does, and how to stop letting old wiring run the show. If you’re thinking “okay, but what about MY brain?”, let’s talk. leighgall.com 👉 If this one hit home, subscribe and send it to the overthinker in your life. Or the “just do it” person who needs to hear it. #overthinking #anxiety #nervoussystem #anxietyrelief #traumaresponse #innercritic #thisseemspersonal

    Overthinkers vs  “Just Do It” People - Threat vs. No Threat
  4. Sep 28

    "What Have You Done?" - My TEDx Behind the Scenes

    Send us Fan Mail "What Have You Done?" My TEDx Behind the Scenes. | This Seems Personal Ep. 12 What really happens behind a TEDx talk? The fear, the dread, and the imposter syndrome I had literally just recorded an episode about. Plus the letdown after a big goal that nobody warns you about. This is the behind-the-scenes version, not the highlight reel. If you've ever worked toward something huge and then panicked at the finish line, or felt weirdly flat once it was over, this one's for you. 📌 WHAT WE COVER: Why this podcast drifted from what I meant it to be, and where Season 3 is headedThe "Leigh, what have you done?" panic that hit me as we pulled out of the drivewayThe last time I felt that: a bathroom stall at DFW before I moved to LondonCoaching myself through fear when this is literally what I coach people onA Chris Stapleton song, a Harry Styles song, and a flood of texts from people I barely knewThe speaker dinner where someone admitted they were scared, and why that helped so muchTwo people chatting in the audience during my talk (yes, really)The dip that comes after a big goalWhy courage comes before confidence🎙️ BOOK AT APPOINTMENT: https://app.paperbell.com/checkout/bookings/new?package_id=166888&tab=2026-09-30 💬 LET'S CONNECT:  Instagram: @theleighgall  TikTok: @thisseemspersonal  LinkedIn: @leighgall 🎤 WORK WITH ME: www.LeighGall.com 👉 Season 3 is coming. Subscribe so you don't miss it, and send this to someone who's sitting on their own big, scary thing. #TEDx #impostersyndrome #anxiety #innercritic #courage #fearoffailure #thisseemspersonal

    "What Have You Done?" - My TEDx Behind the Scenes

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This Seems Personal is not a perfectly packaged self-help space. It's me, Leigh Gall, telling the truth in real time and saying the things most of us are too scared to say out loud. I'm done hiding, done performing, done pretending any of us have it all together. This is for anyone who has ever worn a mask in their own life. The overthinkers. The achievers. The people pleasers. The ones who read every room, anticipate every need, and still feel disconnected from themselves even when everything looks fine on the outside. If you've ever wondered whether everyone else is faking it too, you're not alone, and you're in the right place. Here's what I keep coming back to. Your brain is a keep-you-alive machine running on outdated software. So we overthink. We over-function. We abandon ourselves without ever noticing, because by now it's as easy as breathing. We ran these survival responses so many times they stopped being reactions and became who we are. A skillset you never asked for but somehow mastered. And here's the part nobody tells you: it's also your superpower. So across these episodes I get into the real stuff. Self-abandonment, the nervous system, the inner critic, people-pleasing, overthinking, self-sabotage, and all the things we quietly do for everyone else without realizing it. I share the stories I used to hide. Nothing polished. Nothing perfect. Just the truth, the way I actually learned it. What you won't get here is "just go do it." I'm not interested in toxic positivity or faking it till you make it. I'm interested in what's actually getting in your way, and how to put that fire out instead of white-knuckling your way through it. I'm putting myself out here raw because someone has to go first. If you hear something and think, finally, someone is saying what I've been feeling, welcome. This is This Seems Personal. It always is.