5d ago

I Have So Much to Tell You About Being a Stay at Home Mom

I was a stay-at-home mom. I'd do it again. But I'm still going to tell you everything nobody warned me about. In this one, we'll start with the "tradwife" moment blowing up online — the influencer who sold a fantasy she wasn't actually living — and my own real story: staying home for my son's development, and quietly refusing to become financially invisible while I did. In this episode: Why I was forced into staying home — and why it was still the best time of my lifeThe "tradwife" persona problem, and why 90% of what you're watching is a businessProtecting your resume: the career gap, why it's judged harder for women, and how part-time work bridges itFinancial independence as a safety net — not just for divorce, but for widowhood and a partner who can't earnThe $200K of unpaid labour, retirement contributions, and the CPP box Canadian parents forget to tickThe identity crash nobody talks about: who are you when they don't need you the same way? "You were someone before you had those children. You will be someone after." If it resonates, send it to someone who needs it — and start the conversation your future self will thank you for.

Aug 7

I Have So Much to Tell You… About Unsupportive Partners (and How They Quietly Torch Your Career)

Sit me at a table with a man who says "she gave up her career, and now I have to pay support to take care of her" and watch my blood boil in real time. Because I've got questions. Were you there for the morning school runs? The late nights? Did you clear a single obstacle for her the way she cleared every one of them for you? No? Then shut your mouth. She didn't give up. She got left behind — and there's a difference I will die on this hill defending. This is the episode where I say the things I usually keep to myself. I spent seven years as a stay-at-home mom while being the higher earner — a CPA in the making, out-earning my husband, with the bigger ceiling — and mine was still the career we sacrificed, because of gender roles nobody in that house ever agreed to out loud. I lost years. I lost hundreds of thousands of dollars. And Harvard has the receipts: they studied 25,000 people and found the thing quietly torching women's careers wasn't the kids — it was the husbands. I also tell you about the Canadian food celebrity I interviewed who was so insufferable — "my wife, my wife, my wife" while she was clearly the entire foundation and he was the showpiece — that I refused to publish the piece. You'll know the type. And because I'm an accountant, not a fairy godmother, I don't stop at the rage. I tell you how to renegotiate the social contract you never signed, why resentment ends relationships before anything else does, and the truth I rebuilt my whole life on: the most powerful thing in the world is no longer needing anyone. I started over in my late thirties. Best eight years of my life. It's not too late for you. Bring your rage. We're mapping our way out of it.

Jul 30

I Have So Much to Tell You About Bad Bosses

It's 2026. So why are so many bosses still running their teams like it's 1985? In this episode, I'm pulling back the curtain on what I've actually witnessed spending eight years moving in and out of companies — from $30 million shops to $2 billion giants. The yelling at the coffee station. The cameras that don't just watch you, they listen. The "approved" vacations interrupted by a boss who didn't check the calendar. The unpaid overtime dressed up as a "learning opportunity." The bathroom breaks — yes, bathroom breaks — being tracked at someone's desk. I'll tell you about the micromanager I escaped by whispering four words to my old boss at his promotion party. The $18-billion-dollar VP offer I turned down (the math didn't math). And the woman I worked with who was quietly forced to choose between her job and her dying parent — and what that says about all of us. Here's the thing: a title is just a position on an org chart. Being a boss and being a leader are not the same thing — and the difference shows up in the behavior every single time. Whether you've got a bad boss, you are a boss who's willing to look in the mirror, or you're stuck deciding whether to stay or go — this one's for you. Because I'm not going to tell you to manifest a better situation. I'm an accountant. I'm going to tell you to map it. Employee morale belongs on the balance sheet. Let's talk about why. 🎧 Beyond the Numbers — my book on seeing your true value and leading from where you are — comes up in this one. If the episode hits, the book goes deeper.

Jul 24

I Have So Much to Tell You About Negotiating Your Way to the Top

Stop Saying "Whatever Works For You" — A Negotiation Intervention Real talk: if your negotiation strategy is smiling politely and hoping they offer you enough, we need to talk. Like, this week. Here's the thing nobody tells you: negotiating isn't a personality trait. It's not a gene some people got and some people didn't. It's a skill — which means it can be objectively, unglamorously practiced. But first, let's talk numbers, because I'm an accountant and numbers are how I flirt. Skipping one negotiation — just one — can cost you upwards of $1.5 million over a career. Not because you're bad at your job. Because compensation compounds, and every dollar you don't ask for at the start is a dollar missing from every raise stacked on top of it after. That's not a rounding error. That's a house. A retirement. A "what happens to me if something happens to you" kind of number. So this episode is part pep talk, part boot camp: The exact phrase swap that turns you from "asking for a favour" into "leading the conversation" (spoiler: it's questions, not demands)How to build your backup — your fancy-sounding backup plan that makes you instantly harder to say no toWhy practicing on something tiny and dumb makes the big scary ask so much easierThe two words — "yes, and" — that could change how every negotiation in your life goes from here on out I'm not here to hype you up with vibes. I'm here to hand you the script and the spreadsheet. Confidence is nice. Preparation pays better. Let's get into it.

Jul 10

I Have So Much to Tell You About Career Pivots

Stuck in a career that looks fine on paper and feels like nothing? I've been there — twenty years in, title intact, joy gone. Seven years ago I was unemployed. This episode is the story of what I rebuilt, and exactly how. In the first half, I'm telling you the version of my story I don't share on stages — the day I admitted corporate accounting had no more joy left for me, the fear of walking away from two decades of work, and the question that haunted me: was it all a waste? (Spoiler: it wasn't. It was inventory.) Then I hand you the blueprint. The exact framework from my free guide, Shaping Your Professional Path: ✨ The 4 foundations that reveal your unique strengths — passion, talent, skills, values✨ The Career Storyboard: the mind-mapping tool behind every major move I've made✨ How to spot the intersections where your most unique opportunities are hiding✨ The one question that makes every career decision easier You don't need luck. You need a map. 🔗 Take the free 2-minute Career Pivot Quiz + download the guide: https://www.stefaniericchio.com/careerquiz💬 Built your Storyboard? Tag me — I want to see it.

Jul 3

I Have So Much to Tell You About Toxic Coworkers...and Why We Keep Them

We've all had one. The coworker who makes Sunday nights feel sick. The one everybody dreads, who somehow never goes anywhere. But this episode isn't really about them. It's about the better question no one asks: why do companies let it happen? After a few real-life horror stories (yes, I went there), I get into the uncomfortable truth: leadership almost always has its reasons for looking the other way. Some sound perfectly practical, "they hold all the keys," "we don't have time to rehire." Some come down to a manager who just won't have the hard conversation. And then there's the reason nobody says out loud, the one that quietly keeps the wrong people in place far longer than they should be. I'll walk you through all of it. Then we get honest about what actually works, how this plays out differently in a giant corporation versus a small family business, what to do whether you're the boss or the one just surviving it, and how to tell the difference between a fight worth having and one that's futile. Because sometimes the most powerful move isn't staying. It's the door. Hit follow so you never miss an episode and share this with the coworker who needs to hear it. 🎧

Jun 26

I Have So Much to Tell You About Being Yourself w/Bethenny Frankel

She built the fastest-growing liquor brand in history, sold it, and never looked back. This week, Bethenny Frankel tells me how she really thinks about money. You know her name. But in this conversation, I wanted to get past the name and into the mind — because Bethenny Frankel is one of the sharpest businesswomen and investors out there, and the way she thinks about risk, money, and betting on herself is something every woman needs to hear. We get into all of it: why she "almost never" invests her own money, how she decides what's worth her time, when to take the deal and walk away from your own baby, and the one question she asks before she puts a single dollar into anything. Plus the mindset I can't stop thinking about — that being careful and being bold aren't opposites. They're the same skill. Whether you're building a business, eyeing your first investment, or you just want to borrow a little of her nerve, this one will change how you talk to yourself about money. Come get into it with me. 🎧 In this episode: Why protecting your downside matters more than chasing the upsideKnowing what you know — and getting help with what you don'tWhen to stop falling in love with your own ideasThe "flip or forever home" question for every money decisionHow to build the foundation that lets you eventually play with the house's money

Jun 19

I Have So Much to Tell You | Kevin O'Leary

When the FTX crypto empire collapsed in one of the largest financial frauds in history, I sat down with Kevin O'Leary to make sense of it while the dust was still settling. Now the verdict is in. The founder is serving 25 years, customers are finally getting paid back, and the whole saga has a twist nobody saw coming. But here's the part that keeps me up at night: swap the word "crypto" for "AI," and this exact story is unfolding all over again right now. Same brilliant founders. Same "move fast, the rules will catch up later." Same dangerous belief that ethics and oversight are just speed bumps on the road to the future. In this episode, I'll set the scene on what FTX actually was, play you my original conversation with Kevin, tell you how it all resolved in the courts and for investors, and make the case for why this was never really a crypto story at all, it's a warning about the technology reshaping your life today. Because the people building the future move fast. You don't have to hand them your trust at the same speed.

Jun 12

I Have So Much to Tell You About Success & Friendship

Two years into my business, I'd doubled my growth and built brand partnerships I used to only dream about. And you know what happened? Nothing. No call. No card. No one sent flowers. In this episode, I'm telling you the story I usually keep to myself, what it actually felt like to hit the milestones and look up to find the people I loved most had gone quiet. If you've ever poured everything into something and felt invisible to the people closest to you, this one's for you. But this isn't an episode about hurt feelings. It's about what I figured out on the other side of them. We get into why friends and family so often go silent when you build something (spoiler: it's almost never about you), and then I walk you through the three things to focus on instead that actually work. We'll talk reputation, finding your real people, and why waiting for applause might be quietly draining the very drive that got you started. By the end, you'll stop counting who noticed and start buying your own flowers. In this episode: Why the people who love you most often can't see what you're buildingThe reputation move that matters more than any cheerleaderWhat the data on entrepreneurial loneliness should tell every founderThe motivation science behind validating yourself (and why chasing applause backfires)Your homework: three things to do this weekPress play. I have so much to tell you.

May 28

I Have So Much to Tell You About Love & Money

What happens to you if something happens to the person you love? In this episode, we're talking love and money — the conversations couples avoid, the documents that protect you, and why being financially prepared is one of the most loving things you can do. Real talk, practical tools, and a checklist you can actually use.

May 22

I Have So Much to Tell You About Financial Empowerment

If you've ever felt anxious about money, avoided looking at your accounts, or wondered why earning more still doesn't feel like enough — this episode is for you. Stefanie Ricchio, CPA and financial strategist, opens up about her own journey from debt at 18 to financial independence — and what she's learned from years of helping women move from money stress to money clarity. This isn't a budgeting episode. It's about the emotional side of money that nobody ever taught you. The beliefs you absorbed growing up. The patterns that follow you no matter how much you earn. And the one shift that actually changes everything. Money is not just math. It's behaviour. And once you understand that — everything is different.

Apr 4

I Have So Much to Tell You About Starting Over | Stefanie Ricchio

This episode is my story. Before the career, before the credentials, before the confidence, there was a period of my life where I was trying to figure out who I was, what I was capable of, and how I was going to build a life that felt secure and independent. In this first episode, I’m sharing the real story behind how I went from being a stay-at-home mom navigating financial uncertainty to becoming a CPA, a trusted advisor to business owners, and a go-to financial expert. This episode is about starting over, making decisions when you’re not sure what the outcome will be, and how money, career, and life are always more connected than we think. If you’re in a season of change, trying to rebuild, or just wondering what’s next for you, this episode is for you. In this session we talk about why we fear change, starting over and career transitions.

I Have So Much to Tell You

Episodes

I Have So Much to Tell You About Being a Stay at Home Mom

I Have So Much to Tell You… About Unsupportive Partners (and How They Quietly Torch Your Career)

I Have So Much to Tell You About Bad Bosses

I Have So Much to Tell You About Negotiating Your Way to the Top

I Have So Much to Tell You About Career Pivots

I Have So Much to Tell You About Toxic Coworkers...and Why We Keep Them

I Have So Much to Tell You About Being Yourself w/Bethenny Frankel

I Have So Much to Tell You | Kevin O'Leary

I Have So Much to Tell You About Success & Friendship

I Have So Much to Tell You About Love & Money

I Have So Much to Tell You About Financial Empowerment

I Have So Much to Tell You About Starting Over | Stefanie Ricchio

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