Altar'd Reality

ALTAR'D REALITY

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  1. 5d ago

    Altar'd Moment No. 3: Surrender and Self Control

    Welcome to another Altar'd Moment! In these shorter mini-episodes, Lauren steps in for a quick devotional to give listeners an opportunity to pause, dig deeper, and allow the Lord to examine our hearts. In this segment, she gets honest about the link between surrender and self-control, sharing how everyday disruptions, hunger, and impatience reveal the places we are still trying to hold onto control. In this Altar'd Moment, Lauren covers:The Root of Lacking Self-Control: Instead of simply asking, "Why didn't I have more self-control?", Lauren began asking, "Was there something in that moment I wasn't willing to surrender?"The Negotiation Trap: Whether in spiritual commitments, healthy habits, or daily reactions, we are often tempted to renegotiate our choices when follow-through becomes inconvenient or uncomfortable.Fruit of the Spirit vs. Willpower: Self-control is not a product of human determination or personality; it is a fruit produced by the Holy Spirit as we stay connected to God.Everyday Surrender: True surrender isn't just for life's big decisions; it happens in the ordinary, moment-by-moment choices to yield our attitudes, plans, and rights back to Jesus. Scripture to StudyJohn 15:4-5 - Jesus as the Vine and we as the branches; apart from Him, we can do nothing.Galatians 5:22-23, 25 - Self-control as the fruit of the Spirit and walking in step with the Spirit in every area of life.Romans 6:13 - Presenting ourselves completely to God.Philippians 2:13 - God at work within us, giving us both the desire and the power to do what pleases Him. Today's Altar'd ReflectionTake a quiet moment with the Lord today and ask yourself: "Where am I asking God for self-control while still resisting surrender? What am I holding onto that the Lord is asking me to lay down?" When He highlights an area, let it lead you not into guilt or condemnation, but into gentle surrender at His feet.

  2. Nov 1

    They Found What? Archaeological Discoveries That Prove the Bible

    Welcome back to Altar’d Reality! It feels like every single week archaeologists are digging up ancient coins, inscriptions, or cities that validate the truths of Scripture. In this episode, Jen and Lauren launch part one of a special series exploring real-world archaeological finds that connect directly to some of the most surprising and incredible stories in the Bible. In this episode, we cover:Balaam, the Talking Donkey, and the Star of Jacob (Numbers 22–24): The famous story of King Balak hiring Balaam to curse Israel, the angel on the road with the talking donkey, and Balaam's prophecy of a star rising out of Jacob. Discover how the 1967 discovery of the Deir Alla Inscription in Jordan provided extra-biblical historical proof that "Balaam, son of Beor" was an actual historical figure.Rahab and the Collapsed Walls of Jericho (Joshua 2 & 6): How excavations at ancient Jericho uncovered the collapsed city walls, along with a single standing section of the wall that aligns with the biblical account of Rahab's house on the city wall being preserved by the scarlet cord.Isaiah 53 and the Dead Sea Scrolls: Exploring the "Suffering Servant" prophecy written hundreds of years before Christ, its fulfillment in Jesus (as read by the Ethiopian eunuch in Acts 8), and how the Dead Sea Scrolls confirm the incredible accuracy of the biblical text through the centuries.Jesus and the Two Pools (John 5 & John 9): Unpacking the 1st-century archaeology behind the Pool of Bethesda (with its unique 5-colonnade structure where Jesus healed the paralytic man without using the water) and the Pool of Siloam (where Jesus sent the blind man to wash his eyes and receive his sight). Scripture ReferencesNumbers 22–24: King Balak, Balaam's donkey, and the prophecy of the Star of Jacob.Joshua 2 & 6: Rahab, the spies, and the fall of Jericho.Isaiah 53 & Acts 8: The Suffering Servant prophecy and Phillip evangelizing the Ethiopian eunuch.John 5:1–18: Healing the paralytic man at the Pool of Bethesda.John 9:1–11: Healing the man born blind at the Pool of Siloam. Research & ReferencesWant to dig into the archaeological reports and history for yourself? Check out these articles and resources mentioned in today's episode: Balaam & The Deir Alla InscriptionBiblical Archaeology Society: Who Is Balaam Son of Beor?Wikipedia: Deir Alla Inscription The Pool of BethesdaWikipedia: Pool of Bethesda The Pool of SiloamBiblical Archaeology Society: The Siloam Pool — Where Jesus Healed the Blind ManBiblePlaces.com: The Pool of Siloam Overview & PhotosWikipedia: Pool of Siloam History & Excavations Resources Logos Bible Software: An incredible study tool with AI features to help you dig deeper. Use our link to sign up for Logos. You get a 30 day free trial and $10 off your purchase. If you sign, up we get a credit to our account so we can purchase more resources. Grab your favorite cool beverage and join us as we remind ourselves that, in the end, it is Jesus over everything, always!

  3. Oct 25

    Altar'd Moment No. 3: Being Comfortably Uncomfortable

    Welcome to another Altar'd Moment! In these shorter mini-episodes, we step in for a quick devotional and deep dive into God's Word between the regular group episodes. In this segment, Jennifer gets real about what happens when God calls us far outside our comfort zones, sharing a recent personal challenge and reflecting on how God responds when we feel completely inadequate for the task. In this Altar'd Moment, Jen covers:Behind the Microphone vs. In Front of the Crowd: Jen shares a recent experience where Lauren asked her to speak in front of a live group of people. While Jen feels completely comfortable sitting in a quiet studio talking into a microphone, standing in front of a room full of people staring at her was terrifying.The Reaction to Step Out: When God asks us to step into something uncomfortable, our immediate knee-jerk reaction is often, "Lord, please don't ask me to do that!"Moses at the Burning Bush: Examining Exodus 3:11-12, when God called Moses to go before Pharaoh and lead Israel out of Egypt, Moses questioned his own abilities, asking, "Who am I that I should go?"Presence Over Qualifications: God did not respond to Moses with a list of his personal qualifications or credentials. Instead, God simply promised, "I will be with you."Calling Stretches Us, Presence Steadies Us: We don't have to be completely comfortable with what God is asking us to do to be completely secure in the God who is asking Him. When we focus on our limitations, we forget the God who is sending us. Scripture to StudyExodus 3:11-12 - Moses questioning his qualifications and God promising His presence.Jeremiah 1:4-9 - God calling Jeremiah and promising to put His words in his mouth. Our background music for this episode is "Tendril" by Artist Nitzan Rom. We get all of our background music from Artlist.io

  4. Oct 18

    Interruptible, But Not Controlled

    Welcome back to Altar’d Reality! Piggybacking off Lauren’s recent Altar'd Moment devotional, Jen and Lauren dive deep into a topic every busy person, parent, and leader struggles with: how to live an interruptible life without becoming controlled by the constant demands, expectations, and urgencies of everyone around you. By looking at how Jesus navigated crowd demands, urgent crises, and personal solitude in the Gospels, we explore how to discern the difference between a distraction and a true divine assignment. In this episode, we cover:The Core Tension: Jesus was constantly stopped, touched, and called upon by crowds, yet He was never controlled by interruption or panicked by the clock. We discuss whether we tend to lean toward over-availability or fierce protection of our plans, and why the ultimate question is who gets to decide what gets our "yes".Matthew 14 (The Crowd Interrupts Solitude): After John the Baptist was killed, Jesus withdrew to a desolate place to be alone. When the crowds followed Him, Jesus allowed them to change the timing of His solitude by showing compassion and feeding them, but He did not cancel His priority to go up into the mountain alone to pray afterward. An interruption can adjust your schedule without canceling your priorities.Mark 1 & Luke 4 (Leaving When Everyone Wants You): Early in the morning, after healing many people, the disciples told Jesus that "everyone is looking for you". Instead of staying, Jesus chose to leave for other towns, demonstrating that a legitimate, real need is not automatically your personal assignment.Mark 5 (Jairus, the Bleeding Woman, and the Markan Sandwich): On the urgent walk to heal Jairus's dying 12-year-old daughter, Jesus stopped for a woman who had suffered for 12 years to let her tell her full story. We explore the literary technique called the "Markan Sandwich" and see how what looked like a disastrous delay to Jairus was actually an essential part of God's story.The Prayer Rhythm Behind Discernment: Jesus did not wait for life to get quiet before He got quiet. He consistently withdrew to desolate places to pray (Luke 5 and 6) so that the Father's voice, not the crowd's expectations or sense of urgency, remained the loudest voice in His life.Boundaries, Guilt, and Capability: We unpack two opposite dangers: being so over-available that guilt and crowd demands drive your schedule, or being so fiercely protected by rigid boundaries that people become obstacles. We discuss asking ourselves whether we are carrying a burden simply because we are capable of carrying it, or because God actually gave it to us. Our Challenge to YouThis week, bring your schedule, your boundaries, your guilt, and your need to be needed to the altar. Practice holding your daily plans with open hands. When an unexpected disruption happens, pause before reacting with frustration or guilt, and pray: "Lord, is this an interruption, or is this the assignment?" Scripture & ResourcesMatthew 14:12-23: John the Baptist's death, withdrawal, feeding the 5,000, and mountain prayer.Mark 1:32-39 & Luke 4:42-44: Early morning prayer and leaving for other villages.Mark 5:21-43: Jairus, the bleeding woman, and the power of divine delays.Luke 5:15-16 & Luke 6:12-16: The ongoing prayer rhythm of Jesus.Resource: Working Preacher Commentary (Luther Seminary) on the "Markan Sandwich" technique in Mark 5.Logos Bible Software: An incredible study tool with AI features to help you dig deeper. Use our link to sign up for Logos. You get a 30 day free trial and $10 off your purchase. If you sign up we get a credit to our account so we can purchase more resources. Grab your favorite cool beverage and join us as we remind ourselves that, in the end, it is Jesus over everything, always!

  5. Oct 11

    Altar'd Moment No. 2: Learning to Be Interruptible

    Welcome to another Altar'd Moment! In these shorter mini-episodes, the team steps in for a bite-sized devotional between regular chats. In this moment, Lauren gets honest about the hustle of daily life, from endless emails and laundry to busy family schedules, and explores what it truly means to follow Jesus's example of being interruptible and leaving margin in our days to actually see people. In this Altar'd Moment, Lauren covers:The Busyness of Everyday Life: Between work, kids, appointments, practices, groceries, and emails, life moves fast. Can somebody please explain how we're supposed to keep a house clean while we're still living in it?Obstacles vs. People: When our days are scheduled down to the minute, an unexpected interruption can quickly feel like an inconvenience. Lauren challenges us to ask: Am I leaving enough room in my life to actually see people?Intentional Yet Interruptible: Jesus was deeply intentional with His mission: He withdrew to pray, invested in His disciples, and held clear boundaries. Yet, He was never so attached to His schedule that He stopped seeing the individuals along the way.The Interruption in Mark 5: Lauren walks through the story of Jairus begging Jesus to come heal his dying daughter. On the urgent walk to Jairus’s house, a woman who had been bleeding for 12 years touched the hem of Jesus's robe. Instead of rushing past, Jesus stopped, saw her, and called her "daughter." What looked like an inconvenient delay in a life-or-death emergency was actually another person Jesus loved.Praying on the Spot: Instead of just saying "I'll be praying for you," Lauren encourages us to stop right then, whether in aisle 7 at the grocery store or at home, and pray with someone in the moment.Discernment vs. Irresponsibility: Being interruptible doesn't mean every need is your responsibility or that you abandon your commitments. It means leaving margin so you can pause and ask: "Lord, is this actually an interruption, or is this what You have for me right now?" Scripture to StudyMark 5:21-34: Jesus stopping for the woman with the issue of blood on the way to Jairus's house.Mark 5:35-43: Jesus going on to heal Jairus's daughter. Today's Altar'd ReflectionThis week, try creating a little extra margin in your schedule. When an unexpected conversation or request pops up, pause before reacting with frustration. Ask the Lord whether the disruption to your plan might actually be His divine assignment for your day.

  6. Oct 4

    From Survival to Stillness: Lauren’s Story Part 2

    Welcome back to Altar’d Reality! Today, Jennifer and Lauren continue with Part 2 of Lauren’s life testimony. Building on last week’s episode where Lauren shared about losing her mother to cancer, navigating foster care, and stepping into a safe home. This episode digs into what happened when the survival mechanisms that kept her safe in childhood began catching up with her in adulthood. Quick Recap & The Reality of "Toxic Positivity"Part 1 Recap: A quick look back at Lauren’s journey through childhood grief, separation from her sisters, and moving in with her cousins Samantha and James during high school.The Survival Mask: How Lauren adopted a brand-new identity built on resilience, joy, and "everything is fine," using emotional avoidance as a coping mechanism to keep moving forward without processing deep pain. In this episode, we cover:Young Marriage & Shoving Things Under the Rug: Lauren shares about meeting her husband, Brandon, at a young age, getting married at 18, and navigating early marriage while neglecting her own emotional needs and shoving marital struggles under the rug.The Turning Point in Community: After stepping away from church for a couple of years after getting married, Lauren and Brandon returned when preparing to start a family. Six years ago, Lauren experienced a major shift when she realized "toxic positivity" wasn't from God and began opening up vulnerably to trusted Christian community about her real struggles.When the Body Says Stop: Lauren describes the breaking point she reached over the summer, suffering physical panic attacks and burnout, which forced her to realize that intellectualizing her faith was not the same as letting Jesus heal her emotional heart.Intellectual Faith vs. Emotional Healing: Lauren reflects on core lies she carried without knowing it... believing her needs were a burden, that she had to stay positive to be safe or loved, and that she could only rely on herself.Learning to Be Still and Grieve: Through EMDR therapy with a Christian therapist and quiet time before God without distractions, Lauren is learning how to stop asking "God, what are you teaching me?" and start saying "God, this really hurt me," allowing Jesus into the broken memories.Resilient and Tender: Lauren shares that true healing doesn't mean abandoning the strength God built in her through hardship, but discovering that she can be both resilient and tender in the hands of the Lord.The Refiner's Fire: The episode closes with a reflection on how God refines us like gold and silver in the fire. Not to destroy us, but to purify us until His image is clearly reflected in our lives. Our Challenge to YouAre you running on autopilot, using busyness or "toxic positivity" to avoid feeling past pain? Take time this week to sit still with Jesus without distractions. Stop trying to figure out all the lessons right away, and simply allow Him to sit with you in your hurt, knowing that His presence is where true healing begins. Scripture & ResourcesPsalm 34:18 -"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit."Malachi 3:3 - "He will sit as a refiner and purifier of silver..."Philippians 4:8 - "Whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just..."Song Referenced: "Burn" by Brooke Ligertwood

  7. Sep 27

    Lauren’s Story of Resilience, Loss, and Redemption: Part 1

    In this episode, we cover:Surviving vs. Healing: Lauren reflects on her current season of life, sharing how physical panic attacks and emotional burnout over the summer forced her to stop and realize that the survival resilience that got her through childhood trauma was never meant to replace genuine spiritual and emotional healing. Early Childhood & Family Roots: Born on New Year's Eve in Chicago before moving to Southwest Missouri, Lauren grew up as the oldest of four girls in a sweet, close-knit family with a stay-at-home mom and a dad working in the medical field. A Mother's Cancer Battle & Legacy: At age eight, Lauren’s mom was diagnosed with stage four cancer, leading to a five-year battle that ended when Lauren was thirteen. Lauren shares the heartbreaking memory of saying goodbye in the hospital without fully understanding it was the end until sitting in the car afterward. She recalls her mom’s vibrant faith, her love for hymns like "It Is Well With My Soul," and her mom's desire for an altar call at her own funeral, where lives were transformed. Parental Rejection & Foster Care: Less than a year after her mother's death, Lauren's father remarried. An unsafe and emotionally abusive environment led to the state removing all four girls from the home. When her father chose his new wife over taking the girls back, Lauren experienced profound rejection from her only living parent. God as the Ultimate Father: In the midst of fatherly abandonment, Lauren turned to God not with anger, but as her true Father, clinging to Psalm 103:1 and discovering that while earthly fathers may fail, the Lord never leaves. Anchors of Community: Lauren details her time in kinship foster care living with her grandmother, aunt, and eventually her cousin Samantha and her husband James in a safe, loving Christian home. She highlights how her local church youth group served as her lifelong anchor and refuge through every storm. Our Challenge to YouIf you have survived hard things by burying your pain behind a wall of "resilience," know that Jesus doesn't just want you to survive. He wants to bring true healing to your heart. Take time this week to slow down, get quiet before the Lord, and allow Him into the places you've been afraid to feel. Scripture & ResourcesPsalm 34:18 - The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit."Proverbs 3:5–6 - "Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding..."Psalm 103:1 -"Bless the Lord, O my soul, and all that is within me, bless his holy name."

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