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我們相信，當孩子感受到被尊重、有能力，並且與他人建立連結時，他們才能真正地茁壯成長。育兒不是控制，而是引導、連結與共同成長。在每一集節目中，我們會分享實際而可行的方法，幫助父母理解孩子的行為、培養孩子的獨立性，並在同理、合作與彼此尊重的基礎上，建立一個更平和的家庭環境。 We believe children thrive when they feel respected, capable, and connected. Parenting isn’t about control — it’s about guidance, connection, and growth. Each episode explores practical ways to understand children’s behaviour, encourage independence, and build a peaceful home based on empathy, cooperation, and mutual respect. Spotify, Apple Podcast — Parents Daily Youtube — Parents Daily by BAMBINI HOUSE 合作/聽眾投稿: hello@bambinihouse.co

  1. Jun 19

    【EP16】 為什麼2-6歲的孩子「就是沒辦法乖」? The real reason your child melts down and it’s not your fault!

    這一集，我們來聊聊一件很多爸媽都不知道的事——孩子在幼兒階段的「不當行為」，其實跟他們的大腦發育直接相關。 你有沒有試過，孩子做了某件事，你心裡清楚知道他「懂得」那樣做是不對的——但他還是做了？ 其實，他可能真的還不懂。 不是因為他壞。不是因為你教養失敗。而是因為他的大腦，在神經學上，真的還沒有發展到能夠理解大人期望的程度。 我們經常在懲罰孩子「不乖」——但事實上，他們只是有一個還在快速成長、還沒發育完全的大腦。 在兩歲到六歲這個階段，孩子的行為挑戰，很多時候不是故意的反抗，而是一個發育中、還不平衡的大腦，自然會產生的結果。 大腦裡一個非常重要的部分——前額葉皮質。前額葉皮質是大腦的「指揮中心」——負責衝動控制、情緒調節、時間管理，還有邏輯思考。 但你知道嗎—這個部分，要到大約25歲才完全發育成熟。 而在兩歲到六歲之間，它才剛剛開始建立最基本的神經連結。 所以當你的三歲孩子在超市地板上打滾、當你的五歲孩子因為積木倒塌而崩潰大哭、當你的四歲孩子搶了弟弟的玩具卻完全不覺得有問題，他不是在故意跟你作對，他只是有一個還在努力建設中的大腦。 而我們的工作，不是懲罰那個大腦。 而是幫助它成長。 The Brain & Age-Appropriate Behaviour: Why the 2-to-6 Brain can’t just behave? This episode explores how rapid brain growth directly drives challenging behaviours in early childhood. Children are often punished for being “naughty” when their brains literally haven’t developed enough to comprehend adult expectations. Instead of intentional defiance, “misbehaviour” at this stage is often a predictable byproduct of an imbalanced, developing brain. The prefrontal cortex —the brain's command centre for impulse control, emotional regulation, time management, and logical thinking—takes until at least age 25 to fully mature. Between ages 2 and 6, it is only just beginning to form its primary connections. Spotify, Apple Podcast — Parents Daily Youtube — Parents Daily by BAMBINI HOUSE 合作/聽眾投稿: hello@bambinihouse.co #parentsdaily #LittleLeapsBigDiscoveries #小小跨步大大發現

    14 min

  2. Jun 12

    【EP15】 你說的話，孩子根本沒在聽! My child is not listening!

    孩子不聽話！說了一百遍也沒用！ 每次感覺自己在對著一面牆說話，真的會讓人又累又崩潰。但請放心——這是完全正常的發展階段，不代表你教養失敗，也不代表你是一個不好的爸媽。 孩子「聽不進去」，很少是因為故意跟你作對。大多數時候，這是因為他們的前額葉皮質還在發育中——這個部分負責切換任務、處理較長的指令、以及抵抗當下的衝動。對他們來說，這些事情真的還很難做到。 這一集，我們來聊聊——為什麼孩子不聽話，以及真正有效的方法。 1. 蹲到孩子的高度  不要站在遠處叫喊。走過去，蹲到孩子的高度，在開口說話之前，先建立溫和的眼神接觸。 2. 走近孩子，指令簡短清楚  拋棄距離——走近孩子再說話。同時把你的指令說得簡單、清楚、不要太長。 3. 說完之後，記得暫停等待  給你的學步兒或學齡前孩子一點時間，來處理你剛才說的話。說完之後，不要馬上重複——給他們空間慢慢反應。 I've said it a hundred times!  Why children don't listen and what actually helps?  It can be incredibly exhausting and frustrating when you feel like you are speaking to a wall, but rest assured that this is a completely normal developmental stage and not a sign of parental failure.  When children tune out, it is rarely due to intentional defiance. Instead, it usually stems from a developing prefrontal cortex that struggles to switch tasks, process long instructions, or resist immediate impulses. What actually helps: 1.⁠ ⁠Get on their eye level: Physically walk over, get down on their level, and make gentle eye contact before speaking. 2.⁠ ⁠Ditch the distance and keep your instructions short. 3.⁠ ⁠Remember to pause after giving instructions to allow your toddlers/preschoolers time to process. Spotify, Apple Podcast — Parents Daily Youtube — Parents Daily by BAMBINI HOUSE 合作/聽眾投稿: hello@bambinihouse.co #parentsdaily #LittleLeapsBigDiscoveries #小小跨步大大發現

    21 min

  3. Jun 5

    【EP14】語言塑造孩子 ｜ 你的話，比你想像中更有力量！Words shape children — Your voice is more powerful than you think.

    你有沒有試過——話一說出口，就後悔了？ 可能是累的時候。可能是被惹毛的時候。可能只是一個普通的早上，趕著出門，然後就脫口而出—— 「你怎麼這麼難搞？」 「你可不可以聽一次話？」 「你為什麼不能像你哥哥一樣？」 說完了，我們繼續過日子，可能連自己說過什麼都忘了。 但孩子沒有忘。 那些話留下來了，一遍一遍在他心裡重播。慢慢地，在你們都不知道的情況下，孩子開始用你隨口說的那些話，來定義自己是一個什麼樣的人。 這就是你的聲音力量。 但好消息是，它是雙向的！同樣可以悄悄傷害孩子自信的語言，也可以悄悄把它建立回來。只需要一個小小的說話方式的改變——感覺就會完全不一樣。 Have you ever said something to your child — and immediately wished you could take it back? Maybe it slipped out when you were tired. Frustrated. At the end of your rope. "Why are you so difficult?" "Can't you just listen for once?" "Why can't you be more like your brother?" We've all been there. And most of the time, we move on and forget we even said it. But here's the thing — our kids don't forget. Those words stick. They replay. And over time, without either of you realising it, your child starts to build their entire sense of self around the things you casually said on a Tuesday morning when you were just trying to get everyone out the door. That's how powerful your voice is. And the good news? It works the other way too. The same words that can quietly chip away at a child's confidence — can also quietly build it back up. One small shift in how you speak — and everything starts to feel different. Spotify, Apple Podcast — Parents Daily Youtube — Parents Daily by BAMBINI HOUSE Collab & Share your story: hello@bambinihouse.co #parentsdaily  #LittleLeapsBigDiscoveries #小小跨步大大發現

    29 min

  4. May 29

    【EP13】放手，才是第一天上學最難的功課｜First day of school. Who's really crying at the school gate — Your child or you?

    孩子抱著你的腳不肯放，在校門口嚎啕大哭——你站在那裡，不知道該留下來，還是狠心離開？ 但故事有個轉折——有時候，捨不得放手的，其實是爸媽。 這一集，我們邀請到擁有16年幼兒教育經驗的 Felicia 老師，直接從教室第一現場分享她親身經歷的真實故事——孩子在爸媽離開之後到底發生了什麼？還有那些讓人又驚訝又心疼的瞬間，告訴我們：很多時候，比孩子更難熬的，是爸媽自己。 如果你曾經偷偷在窗外張望、九點前打了三通電話去學校、或是開車離開後自己在車裡哭了——Felicia 老師都見過。這一集，她要告訴你，什麼才是真正有幫助的。 Is your child clinging to your leg, crying at the school gate — and you're standing there not knowing whether to stay or walk away? Here's the twist — sometimes it's not the child who can't let go. It's the parents. In this episode, Teacher Felicia who spends 16 years in the early childhood education shares real stories straight from the classroom — what actually happens after you leave and the surprising moments that show us it's often the parents who struggle with separation more than the kids. If you've ever peeked through the classroom window, called the school three times before 9am, or cried in the car on the way home. Spotify, Apple Podcast — Parents Daily Youtube — Parents Daily by BAMBINI HOUSE 合作/聽眾投稿: hello@bambinihouse.co #parentsdaily #小小跨步大大發現 #LittleLeapsBigDiscoveries

    19 min

  5. May 22

    【EP12】孩子一直打人、搶玩具？試試正面管教這樣做 Child hitting and snatching? Positive discipline solutions that work.

    孩子會打人、搶玩具嗎？這一集用蒙特梭利與正面管教，帶你理解幼兒行為背後的原因。 學會在不打罵的情況下引導孩子情緒與行為，減少衝突，建立更合作的親子關係。 Does your child hit others or snatch toys?In this episode, we explore the reasons behind toddler behaviour through the lens of Montessori and Positive Discipline. Learn how to guide your child’s emotions and behaviour without yelling or punishment, reduce conflicts, and build a more cooperative parent-child relationship. 🎧** Follow & Share** Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@parentsdaily-co INSTA: https://www.instagram.com/parentsdaily.co/?hl=en 合作/聽眾投稿: hello@bambinihouse.co

    20 min

  6. May 15

    【EP11】母親節專訪 PART 2 ｜母職：沒有說明書，卻直接上場的人生角色 Motherhood: Thrown In without a manual

    這一集，我們邀請到 Jinny！一位6歲女孩的媽媽，同時也是攝影師與健身教練，分享母職如何徹底改變她的耐心、身份認同與人生視角。 從一開始對孩子世界的陌生，到走進這個像「高強度訓練營」般的母職旅程，她真誠地分享成長、掙扎與蛻變。 這是一集獻給每一位，一邊陪孩子長大，一邊也在重新成長的父母。 In this episode, we have our guest speaker, Ms. Jinny — a mom to a 6-year-old girl, photographer and fitness trainer. She shares how motherhood completely reshaped her patience, identity and perspective on life. From once feeling like a stranger in the world of children, to navigating one of life’s most demanding “bootcamps,” Jinny opens up about growth, struggle, and transformation. This conversation is for every parent who is learning, unlearning, and growing alongside their child. 🎧** Follow & Share** Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@parentsdaily-co INSTA: https://www.instagram.com/parentsdaily.co/?hl=en 合作/聽眾投稿: hello@bambinihouse.co

    44 min

  7. May 8

    【EP10】母親節專訪 PART 1｜ 母職：沒有說明書，卻直接上場的人生角色 Mother's Day Story Part 1 | Motherhood: Thrown in without a manual

    這一集，我們邀請到 Jinny ！一位6歲女孩的媽媽，同時也是攝影師與健身教練，分享母職如何徹底改變她的耐心、身份認同與人生視角。 從一開始對孩子世界的陌生，到走進這個像「高強度訓練營」般的母職旅程，她真誠地分享成長、掙扎與蛻變。 這是一集獻給每一位，一邊陪孩子長大，一邊也在重新成長的父母。 In this episode, we have our guest speaker, Ms. Jinny — a mom to a 6-year-old girl, photographer and fitness trainer. She shares how motherhood completely reshaped her patience, identity and perspective on life. From once feeling like a stranger in the world of children, to navigating one of life’s most demanding “bootcamps,” Jinny opens up about growth, struggle, and transformation. This conversation is for every parent who is learning, unlearning, and growing alongside their child. 🎧** Follow & Share** Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@parentsdaily-co INSTA: https://www.instagram.com/parentsdaily.co/?hl=en 合作/聽眾投稿: hello@bambinihouse.co

    35 min

  8. May 3

    【EP9】蒙特梭利只適合6歲前？正面管教其實可以用一輩子 Is Montessori just for toddlers? Positive discipline explained.

    很多家長會問：蒙特梭利只適合6歲以前嗎？那正面管教呢？ 其實不是的。 蒙特梭利教育並不只適用於幼兒階段，雖然最常見的是2歲半到6歲，但完整的蒙特梭利教育其實是從 0歲一路到18歲 的連續學習歷程。 它是依照孩子的發展階段來設計的： 0–6歲：吸收性心智（孩子透過環境大量吸收與學習） 6–12歲：小學階段（發展思考能力與社會關係） 12–18歲：青少年階段（建立自我認同與責任感） 雖然很多人只接觸到「兒童之家」（2歲半到6歲），但其實蒙特梭利是一種長期、完整的教育理念，不只是幼兒園或學前教育模式。 那正面管教呢？其實正面管教同樣適用於各個年齡層，從幼兒到青少年，甚至成人之間的人際關係都可以運用。 蒙特梭利與正面管教有很多共通點： 兩者都強調尊重式教養、非懲罰式管教、建立內在動機與自我調節能力。 它們都相信： - 孩子需要在「有界限的自由」中成長， - 透過環境與引導，學會做出正向的行為選擇，而不是依賴獎勵或懲罰來改變行為。 這也是為什麼越來越多家長開始尋找： 👉 蒙特梭利在家怎麼做 👉 不打罵的教養方式 👉 如何讓孩子更自律、更合作 因為真正長遠有效的教養，不是控制孩子，而是幫助孩子成為有能力、負責任、並能與他人建立良好關係的人。 Is the Montessori method only applicable up to age 6? What about the Positive Discipline? No, the Montessori method is not applicable to children up to age 6. While 2 1/2 to 6 years old is most common, authentic Montessori program span from birth to 18 years. The method is structured around developmental planes. 0 - 6 years: The absorbent mind 6 - 12 years: Elementary 12 - 18 years: Adolescence While the Children's House (2 1/2 - 6 years) is the most popular, Montessori education is designed to be continuous lifelong approach rather than just a preschool model. While the Montessori method and the Positive Discipline harmonise by focusing on respectful, proactive guidance rather than punitive control, fostering internal motivation, and self-regulation in children. Both approaches emphasise treating children with dignity, allowing freedom within structure, and preparing an environment that encourages independence and positive behavioural choices, rather than rewarding "good" behaviour or punishing "bad" behaviour. 🎧** Follow & Share** Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@parentsdaily-co INSTA: https://www.instagram.com/parentsdaily.co/?hl=en 合作/聽眾投稿: hello@bambinihouse.co

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我們相信，當孩子感受到被尊重、有能力，並且與他人建立連結時，他們才能真正地茁壯成長。育兒不是控制，而是引導、連結與共同成長。在每一集節目中，我們會分享實際而可行的方法，幫助父母理解孩子的行為、培養孩子的獨立性，並在同理、合作與彼此尊重的基礎上，建立一個更平和的家庭環境。 We believe children thrive when they feel respected, capable, and connected. Parenting isn’t about control — it’s about guidance, connection, and growth. Each episode explores practical ways to understand children’s behaviour, encourage independence, and build a peaceful home based on empathy, cooperation, and mutual respect. Spotify, Apple Podcast — Parents Daily Youtube — Parents Daily by BAMBINI HOUSE 合作/聽眾投稿: hello@bambinihouse.co

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