Time Out Podcast

Ashley J. Antoine

Time Out is where women's basketball meets real talk for sports families. Host Ashley Antoine — women's basketball media personality, athlete branding strategist, and sports mom raising an elite hooper — covers girls hoops from high school to EYBL to college to the pros. The watchlist. The rising stars. The coaching stories. The game breakdowns. If you want to stay plugged into where the game is heading, Time Out is your spot. But Time Out is more than basketball analysis. It's also the show Ashley wished existed when her own daughter started playing at the elite level and the family was figuring it all out in real time. Every week, Ashley sits down with the people IN the trenches — players, parents, coaches, college recruiters, brand experts, mental performance coaches — and has the honest version of the conversation. About recruiting. About NIL. About mental health. About injuries and recovery. About the sacrifice, the money, the pressure, and the joy. About the parts of this journey nobody puts in the highlight reel. No script. No PR voice. Just the truth of what it actually takes. Whether you're a fan of the game, a sports parent in the thick of it, an athlete chasing the dream, or a coach pouring into the next generation — pull up a seat. This one's for you. New episodes every week. Hit follow so you don't miss one. Time Out is part of the Black Sports Parents League — a community helping families navigate the modern athlete journey. Join the free weekly newsletter at: https://bit.ly/4t0grOb Read more longform reporting from Ashley at Legacy Lines on Substack: https://bit.ly/4mlsItV Follow on Instagram: @ashleyjantoine

Episodes

  1. Oct 12

    Ep. 8 Development Before Exposure - The Real Path to Division I and Why Louisiana Girls Basketball Is Losing Talent Too Early

    The odds are brutal: in Louisiana, only about 1 in 220 senior girls signs D1. So what actually moves a talented kid from “good” to scholarship-level? Carl Antoine Jr. and Chris Desdunes get honest about the numbers, the sacrifice, and the development most families miss long before exposure ever matters. Carl breaks down why family buy-in is nonnegotiable, how his own daughter’s journey changed after being cut at 9, and why practice in the driveway and on the concrete can matter more than expensive hype. Chris adds the coach’s perspective, challenging the idea that travel ball, trainers, or shoe circuits are automatic shortcuts and explaining when a program is actually helping a kid grow - and when it’s just collecting talent. You’ll discover: Why “development before exposure” is the real formula for girls basketballThe questions every parent should ask before paying for AAU or travel ballHow roster size, practice reps, and coaching fit can make or break a player’s progressWhy New Orleans and Louisiana lose talent without stronger local systemsWhat elite parents do differently when the goal is D1 and a free education Carl and Chris also get into the frustrating reality of girls basketball in Louisiana - limited gym access, weak youth pipelines, and too many families driving to Texas, Atlanta, and Houston for opportunities that should exist closer to home. But this conversation isn’t just about what’s broken. It’s about what parents, coaches, and communities can start doing now to keep more young women in the gym, in the game, and on a path to college. Essential listening if you’re a basketball parent, coach, or family member trying to help a young athlete chase a real future without wasting time, money, or years on the wrong path. If this episode resonated, do three things for me: Hit follow on Time Out so new episodes show up automatically.Leave a quick rating on Apple Podcasts or Spotify — it's the biggest thing that helps the show find new listeners.Send this episode to one sports parent who needs it.For the game. For the family.  — Ashley

  2. Aug 11

    Ep. 7 Broken Promises

    This isn't your normal conversation. This is the side of the game that seldom gets talked about. This week on The Parent Seat, Carl Antoine sits down with Isiah Stevens — father of Isiah Stevens Jr., a 6'1" point guard out of New Orleans who prepped at Shaun Dumas Academy and later starred at Crescent City Christian, where he helped lead the team to a state championship. But the road to get there was anything but smooth. Isiah pulls back the curtain on broken promises in the basketball world — the promises coaches and programs make to get your kid in the door, the moments when reality doesn't match what was sold, the politics, the playing time battles, and the hard decisions he had to make to protect his son's future and his love for the game. He also opens up about navigating coaching changes, program instability, what the system really looks like from the inside, and what sports families need to know before they trust a program with their child's dream. Plus — Isiah shares his YouTube series, The Blackball Effect, in which he's challenging the system head-on and giving families a voice. If you've ever felt like the basketball world wasn't built to protect your kid, this series is for you. Whether you're deep in travel ball or just getting started, this episode could save your family from a mistake you can't undo. If this episode resonated, do three things for me: Hit follow on Time Out so new episodes show up automatically.Leave a quick rating on Apple Podcasts or Spotify — it's the biggest thing that helps the show find new listeners.Send this episode to one sports parent who needs it.For the game. For the family.  — Ashley

Ratings & Reviews

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2 Ratings

About

Time Out is where women's basketball meets real talk for sports families. Host Ashley Antoine — women's basketball media personality, athlete branding strategist, and sports mom raising an elite hooper — covers girls hoops from high school to EYBL to college to the pros. The watchlist. The rising stars. The coaching stories. The game breakdowns. If you want to stay plugged into where the game is heading, Time Out is your spot. But Time Out is more than basketball analysis. It's also the show Ashley wished existed when her own daughter started playing at the elite level and the family was figuring it all out in real time. Every week, Ashley sits down with the people IN the trenches — players, parents, coaches, college recruiters, brand experts, mental performance coaches — and has the honest version of the conversation. About recruiting. About NIL. About mental health. About injuries and recovery. About the sacrifice, the money, the pressure, and the joy. About the parts of this journey nobody puts in the highlight reel. No script. No PR voice. Just the truth of what it actually takes. Whether you're a fan of the game, a sports parent in the thick of it, an athlete chasing the dream, or a coach pouring into the next generation — pull up a seat. This one's for you. New episodes every week. Hit follow so you don't miss one. Time Out is part of the Black Sports Parents League — a community helping families navigate the modern athlete journey. Join the free weekly newsletter at: https://bit.ly/4t0grOb Read more longform reporting from Ashley at Legacy Lines on Substack: https://bit.ly/4mlsItV Follow on Instagram: @ashleyjantoine