Sex with Anja and Amelie

Anja and Amelie
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Sex with Anja and Amelie is a bold, unfiltered podcast exploring intimacy, relationships, spirituality, and self-liberation. Hosted by two former Mormons turned creators and seekers, they dive into non-monogamy, consent, desire, marriage, autonomy, tantra, and raising kids while living unconventionally. With humor and radical honesty, they challenge mainstream ideas about love and ownership. This isn’t just about sex — it’s about freedom, connection, and reclaiming your life on your own terms.

  1. Jul 19

    021 A P***y Full of Snakes: All Three Holes, All Night: The DP Fantasy That Delivered

    What actually happens inside a polycule when someone falls head over heels in love? This week Anja takes the lead on one of the most honest conversations they've had yet — what new relationship energy does to your existing relationships, your sex life, and your sense of self. Not just the butterflies. The ripples. They get into: Kitchen table polyamory vs. lap sitting (yes, that's a real term)Why NRE can be terrifying — it changes your perception of reality and everyone around youHow creating adult content together changed Anja and Nico's relational sex — and what they did about itFree use dynamics: what it actually means to be someone's free use hole, and why it worksLong-term relationship sex on autopilot — and the unexpected gift of a new relationship shining a light on itCreative babies: what to do with breeding energy when you're done having actual childrenEye gazing as the bedrock of connected sex — and what happens when it quietly disappearsSystems theory, Bayesian priors, and why every relationship is always either expanding or dyingSexy Story Time — two for the books: Anja finally fulfills a fantasy she's been consciously manifesting for years: a full night with both Nico and her new lover — all three holes, two vasectomies, no condoms, orgasms she lost count of, a double cream pie, and at the end, one-on-one time with each of them while holding the other's hand. Then Amelie describes what happened when someone who genuinely loves eating p***y finally spent the time — and how she spent the aftermath lying in what she can only call luminosity, moving healing light into her gut, meditating inside her own orgasm. "This is the medicine. This is what the magic is. That is God." This episode contains explicit conversations about polyamory, kink dynamics, and graphic sexual content. 18+ only.

  2. Jul 12

    020 The Forced Orgasm and the Fight We F****d Through

    What do you do when your play partner is addicted to novelty and you've run out of ideas? This week Anja and Amelie sit down to genuinely brainstorm — running through a full menu of kink play options, sensation tools, and creative scene ideas for the switchy, curious, and chronically under-entertained. They also get into why kink isn't just fun: it's nervous system work, it's somatic therapy, and sometimes it's the only thing that gets you past a verbal impasse. They cover: Wax play — candle types, temperature, removal, and the art of an full-body wax exoskeletonViolet wands, electricity play, and why you should test your aluminum foil theorySensation tools you already have at home (butter knives, metal spoons, ice cubes)Sushi and Shibari parties, Saran Wrap bondage, and forced orgasms as a psychedelic-adjacent experienceWhy Amelie has never done pretend play — and what happened when Anja walked her through one live on the podcastRole play 101: how to build a fantasy when your brain refuses to cooperateMetering your energy with a play partner who just wants to make you come for an hour straightSex as a somatic practice — and why it belongs in the same category as yoga, breathwork, and psychedelicsSexy Story Time: Anja takes us back to a week-long Shibari conference in Chicago — 400 people, an open dungeon, and pegging Nico in suspension at the entrance to a ballroom full of strangers. Then Amelie shares what happened when a fight with a partner hit a total verbal wall: no words, no eye contact, just ten minutes of heart-to-heart contact and then f*****g it out — both of them crying, both of them coming, and by the end actually able to look at each other again. "Sex is a tool of liberation. That is my mission." This episode contains explicit conversations about kink, BDSM, and intimacy. 18+ only.

  3. Jul 7

    019 Drunk on Sex Chemicals: Falling in Love Mid-F**k

    Is it ever just sex? Anja and Amelie don't think so. This week they dive into one of the most electrifying — and terrifying — experiences in sexual life: when feelings start to develop. What does that opening actually feel like? When do you act on it? And how do you know if you're about to deepen something beautiful or accidentally blow up something that was already working? They get into: How feelings expand, contract, and move through a sexual connectionThe desire for more — more intimacy, more of the person, more of who you become around themWhy escalating a relationship is genuinely scary (and sometimes a mistake)Love bombing, going slow, and what two years of intentional patience looks likeThe compatibility test no one talks about: what happens when you leave the bedroomWhy Buddhism says desire is the root of all suffering — and why Anja doesn't careThe deathbed research: the top regret people have around loveSexy Story Time — two very different nights: Amelie shares the overnight that changed everything: sleeping next to someone for the first time, going bare for the first time, and saying "I love you" mid-sex — only to find out he already knew, because he'd been listening to the podcast. Anja's story goes somewhere entirely different: primal camping sex, a leash, a hike to a place called F**k Rock, biting, breeding kinks, and calling someone daddy for the first time in her life. Both stories end in the same place — wanting more, and not knowing what to do with that. This episode contains explicit conversations about sex, intimacy, and emotional vulnerability. 18+ only.

  4. Jun 28

    018 How to Have Sex When You're Not Feeling Sexy

    What do you do when you're not feeling sexy, but you still want sex? This week, Anja and Amelie tackle one of the most universal — and least talked about — sex problems: how to bridge the gap between "not in the mood" and actually showing up for intimacy. Spoiler: it's not about forcing it. It's about getting curious about what's actually in the way. They get into: Why sex belongs higher on the priority list, not at the bottom of the to-do listThe research on regular sex, orgasms, and long-term healthScheduling sex (and why "three strikes you're out" might be the boundary you need)How to name what's really going on — vulnerability, safety, feeling disconnected — instead of pretending it isn't thereMasturbation as a meditative practice, and what to do when it feels boringBody care, music, oils, and other slow on-ramps into your own arousalWhy going slow is countercultural — and often more erotic than going fastHow live streaming taught Anja to "show up" sexually on a schedule, mood or no moodSexy Story Time: A massage that turned into one of the most devotional, unhurried encounters Amelie has ever had — with someone in a sexless marriage who couldn't remember the last time they'd been touched. Slow hands, consent checked every step of the way, and the kind of aftercare that changes how someone understands intimacy. By the end, two hosts who started the episode "not sexy and mildly depressed" land somewhere a lot warmer. Funny, tender, and honest about what it actually takes to come back to your body. This episode contains explicit conversations about sex, masturbation, and intimacy. 18+ only.

  5. Jun 21

    017 From OnlyFans to AI Porn: The Future of Human Connection

    What does it really mean to become a content creator in the attention economy? In this episode, Amalie and Anja dive into the complicated, exciting, and sometimes terrifying process of creating content online. What starts as a conversation about OnlyFans quickly expands into a discussion about authenticity, visibility, creativity, algorithms, AI-generated porn, personal branding, and the ethics of sexual content. Amalie shares her hesitation about becoming a public figure, fears around being seen, and her journey toward creating content that feels aligned with her artistic vision. Anja reflects on how she accidentally stumbled into OnlyFans, why livestreaming feels so alive, and why people ultimately seek real human connection rather than just explicit content. Together they explore: The rise of the attention economy and personality-driven businessesWhy authenticity matters more than chasing algorithmsThe emotional risks of putting yourself onlineOnlyFans, Fansly, Chaturbate, and creator platformsAI-generated pornography and the future of human connectionThe difference between consumption and creationWhether sexual content can be part of a healthy “pleasure landscape”Building a life that supports creativity, pleasure, and self-expressionFor Sexy Story Time, the conversation turns toward rope bondage, livestreamed BDSM, altered states of consciousness, and a memorable evening involving rope, rice, restraint, and surrender. A thoughtful, funny, philosophical, and unexpectedly vulnerable conversation about sex, art, creativity, and what it means to share yourself with the world.

  6. Jun 14

    016 Ethical Pornography in an Attention Economy

    What does it really mean to become a content creator in today's attention economy? In this episode, Amalie and Anja dive deep into the realities of creating content online—from podcasts and social media to OnlyFans, livestreaming, and adult content. They explore the emotional, ethical, and creative challenges of becoming a public figure, building an audience, and staying authentic while navigating internet culture. Amalie shares her complicated journey toward creating adult content, including fears around visibility, judgment, AI, privacy, and the long-term impact of putting herself online. Anya discusses how she unexpectedly found success on OnlyFans, the importance of connection over pornography, and why personality is becoming one of the most valuable currencies on the internet. Together they explore: The rise of the attention economy and creator cultureOnlyFans, Chaturbate, Fansly, and online community buildingAuthenticity vs. audience expectationsThe ethics of pornography and sexual content creationAI-generated content and the future of intimacy onlineArt, creativity, and self-expressionFear of being seen and public scrutinyBuilding a sustainable creative lifeThe role of relationships, connection, and human experience in content creationThe conversation also wanders into philosophy, psychology, art, social media algorithms, and what it means to create from a place of genuine pleasure rather than performance. Plus, in Sexy Story Time, the hosts share a recent rope bondage experience involving livestreaming, ritual, sensation, trust, and the surprisingly meditative power of being tied up. If you've ever wondered whether to start creating content, launch an OnlyFans, share more of yourself online, or simply explore what authenticity means in a digital world, this episode is for you. #OnlyFans #ContentCreator #CreatorEconomy #AdultContent #Authenticity #Chaturbate #Fansly #SexPositive #Podcast #OnlineBusiness #PersonalBrand #Creativity #DigitalMarketing #Relationships #HumanConnection

  7. Jun 7

    015 Who Gets to Be Themselves? A Conversation on Gender

    In this episode of Sex with Anja and Amelie, we dive into one of the most personal, political, and surprisingly playful topics we've tackled yet: gender identity. Anja shares their experience using they/them pronouns, what changing pronouns unlocked for them, and how gender expression can become an act of liberation. Along the way, Amelie brings curiosity, questions, and a perspective shaped by feeling more connected to nature, creativity, and the vastness of being human than to any particular gender label. Together, we explore: What pronouns mean—and what they don't The relationship between identity, visibility, and belonging Gender roles, privilege, and societal expectations Why clothing, makeup, and self-expression shouldn't be limited by gender The pressures placed on men and women in modern culture How liberation often begins with questioning the rules we've inheritedPlus, we wander into conversations about festival culture, non-gendered clothing stores, consent-based cuddle events, touch, vulnerability, and what happens when people are given permission to simply be themselves. And of course, we wrap up with Sexy Story Time, featuring explorations of pleasure, curiosity, body awareness, and the many ways humans experience connection. This episode is thoughtful, funny, occasionally provocative, and filled with the kind of honest conversation that happens when two friends get curious about what it means to be seen. Topics: gender identity, nonbinary identity, pronouns, LGBTQ+, self-expression, sexuality, consent, intimacy, relationships, pleasure, vulnerability, personal growth

  8. May 31

    014 Degendering the A*****e: Pleasure Beyond the Binary

    What if pleasure has nothing to do with gender? In this episode of Sex With Anja and Amalie, we explore how gender expectations shape our sexual experiences—and what happens when we start questioning those assumptions. From dominance and submission to pegging, anal play, nipple sensitivity, and the vulnerability of surrender, we examine how cultural narratives influence who gets to give pleasure, who gets to receive it, and what kinds of experiences are considered "normal." Amelie shares a powerful story about their first experience using a strap-on and the unexpected emotions, intensity, and self-discovery that came with it. Anja discusses the unique vulnerability of penetration, the pleasure of role reversal, and why everyone deserves access to the full spectrum of erotic experience. Together, we challenge binaries, unpack assumptions about masculinity and femininity, and ask a simple question: What becomes possible when we stop gendering pleasure? Topics include: Dominance, submission, and power dynamics Pegging and role reversal The vulnerability of penetration Anal pleasure and common misconceptions Nipple sensitivity and awakening new forms of pleasure Receiving versus doing Gender identity and sexual expression Exploring pleasure beyond traditional labelsThis episode contains explicit conversations about sex, kink, anatomy, and erotic exploration.

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Sex with Anja and Amelie is a bold, unfiltered podcast exploring intimacy, relationships, spirituality, and self-liberation. Hosted by two former Mormons turned creators and seekers, they dive into non-monogamy, consent, desire, marriage, autonomy, tantra, and raising kids while living unconventionally. With humor and radical honesty, they challenge mainstream ideas about love and ownership. This isn’t just about sex — it’s about freedom, connection, and reclaiming your life on your own terms.

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  • Creator
    Anja and Amelie
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    21
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © Anja and Amelie
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