The Kinky Bros Podcast

The Kinky Bros

Two brothers—one gay, one not—accidentally discover they’re both part of the kink community. What begins as an awkward revelation becomes an intimate, funny, and surprisingly educational exploration of desire, identity, masculinity, and the bonds that survive our most vulnerable truths.

Episodes

  1. 2d ago

    S2Ep4: Sex After 50- Getting Older, Getting Kinkier

    Jason is turning 50—and after spending the last few years dreading the number, he’s finally standing at the door and realizing… everything still works. In this episode, we talk honestly about aging, sex, health, confidence, and what happens when you stop caring quite so much about what everyone else thinks. From testosterone and recovery time to kink bucket lists, intimacy, daddy energy, and the surprising realization that sex may actually get better with age, this conversation is less about slowing down and more about finally getting out of your own way. In This EpisodeWhy turning 50 felt heavier than turning 40How kink can make aging feel more expansive—not lessTestosterone, sexual health, and knowing your bodyWhy sex, intimacy, and pleasure can improve with experienceThe difference between being horny and actively seeking pleasureLetting go of shame and giving yourself permission to exploreJason’s kink bucket list—and Gryff’s emerging daddy eraWhat we wish we could tell our younger selvesSend Us Your Kink ConfessionsHave a kinky story, secret, question or discovery you’ve been dying to get off your chest? DM us on social media or email info@thekinkybros.com. Your confession may be featured in a future episode—anonymously, unless you tell us otherwise. Follow The Kinky Bros PodcastWebsite: thekinkybros.com Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social X: @KinkyBrosPod Email: info@thekinkybros.com Enjoying the show? Please follow, rate and review The Kinky Bros Podcast wherever you listen. Yes, we are shamelessly begging. It helps new listeners find us—and it reassures our parents that this whole thing wasn’t a terrible idea. The Kinky Bros Podcast is intended for adults only. Gryff and Jason are not therapists, medical professionals or kink experts. They are two real-life brothers sharing their own experiences, asking questions and figuring out the kink world one conversation at a time.

  2. Aug 12

    S2Ep3: Taking It Like A Man- Pegging, Pleasure & the P-Spot

    S2Ep3: Pegging, Pleasure & Letting GoIt’s Jason’s turn to take the lead—and Gryff has questions. A lot of questions. This week, the brothers are talking about pegging: what it actually is, why Jason enjoys it and why the subject still makes so many straight men deeply uncomfortable. Jason shares how one unexpected finger led to a whole new world with his girlfriend. He explains how they explored pegging together, what they got completely wrong at first and why being able to laugh through the awkward moments made the experience even better. They also tackle the bigger misconceptions surrounding anal pleasure, masculinity and sexual orientation. Sometimes pleasure is just pleasure—and sometimes the dildo is blue because the person receiving it likes the blue one. In This EpisodeWhat pegging actually meansWhy porn gives people a distorted picture of peggingJason’s first experience discovering anal pleasureHow self-exploration gradually led to partnered playWhy their first attempts were awkward, funny and still incredibly hotWhat the giving partner can enjoy about peggingWhy penetration doesn’t automatically create a dominant/submissive dynamicWhy straight men often connect anal pleasure with shame or fearThe persistent—and incorrect—question: “Does this make me gay?”Why pegging remains surprisingly taboo within parts of the swinging communityWhy preparation, communication and plenty of lube matterWhy sex should leave room for laughter, mistakes and the occasional little bit of “residoo-doo” Pegging didn’t change Jason’s sexuality. It expanded his understanding of pleasure, vulnerability and what he and his partner can explore together. Send Us Your Kink ConfessionsHave a kinky story, secret, question or discovery you’ve been dying to get off your chest? DM us on social media or email info@thekinkybros.com. Your confession may be featured in a future episode—anonymously, unless you tell us otherwise. Follow The Kinky Bros PodcastWebsite: thekinkybros.com Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social X: @KinkyBrosPod Email: info@thekinkybros.com Enjoying the show? Please follow, rate and review The Kinky Bros Podcast wherever you listen. Yes, we are shamelessly begging. It helps new listeners find us—and it reassures our parents that this whole thing wasn’t a terrible idea. The Kinky Bros Podcast is intended for adults only. Gryff and Jason are not therapists, medical professionals or kink experts. They are two real-life brothers sharing their own experiences, asking questions and figuring out the kink world one conversation at a time.

  3. Aug 5

    S2Ep2: Getting Into Rubber- Why is it SO HOT?!

    Getting Into Rubber: Why is it SO DAMN HOT!?Why rubber? It’s shiny. It’s tight. It squeaks. And, according to Gryff, it can make you feel absolutely untouchable. Metaphorically, at least. He’s actually very touchable in rubber. This week, Jason finally asks the question Gryff has been answering for years: What is it about rubber that turns him on so much? They talk about the first catsuit that caught Gryff’s attention, the sensory experience of wearing latex, the confidence it gives him and how slipping into a suit helps him become Gryff. But rubber has given him something even bigger than a very shiny ass: a welcoming, worldwide kink community. In This EpisodeWhy rubber feels—and sounds—so damn sexyHow gear can unlock confidence and a different side of yourselfThe surprisingly welcoming community surrounding rubber and latexFinding kink friends online and attending your first gear eventWhy you don’t have to own or wear rubber to belongChoosing your first rubber piece without spending a fortuneOff-the-rack sizing versus custom-made gearThe basics of washing, shining and storing latexLube people versus talc peopleGryff’s favorite suits—and Jason’s growing interest in transparent rubberThe time Gryff secretly wore a full rubber suit around their parents Rubber may be what brought Gryff through the door, but confidence and community are what made him stay. And Jason may be closer than ever to buying his first piece. Send Us Your Kink ConfessionsHave a kinky story, secret, question or discovery you’ve been dying to get off your chest? DM us on social media or email info@thekinkybros.com. Your confession may be featured in a future episode—anonymously, unless you tell us otherwise. Follow The Kinky Bros PodcastWebsite: thekinkybros.com Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social X: @KinkyBrosPod Email: info@thekinkybros.com Enjoying the show? Please follow, rate and review The Kinky Bros Podcast wherever you listen. Yes, we are shamelessly begging. It helps new listeners find us—and it reassures our parents that this whole thing wasn’t a terrible idea. The Kinky Bros Podcast is intended for adults only. Gryff and Jason are not therapists, medical professionals or kink experts. They are two real-life brothers sharing their own experiences, asking questions and figuring out the kink world one conversation at a time.

  4. Jul 29

    S2Ep1: The Art of Almost- Why We Love Edging

    The Art of Almost- Why We Love EdgingThe Kinky Bros are back—and it takes them roughly eleven minutes to embarrass each other.  Season 2 begins with a topic Gryff and Jason both know very well: edging. What starts as a conversation about lasting longer quickly becomes a much bigger discussion about anticipation, self-control, headspace, communication and why the buildup can sometimes feel even better than the finish. The brothers compare techniques, talk about learning your body’s signals and reveal just how long their longest sessions have lasted. Spoiler: one of them measures his record in minutes. The other measures his in work shifts. In This EpisodeWhat edging actually is—and why people do itJason’s “practice how you play” approach to lasting longerHow rubber led Gryff deeper into edging and sensory playUsing breathing, focus and meditation to control arousalWhy edging is as mental as it is physicalLearning where your edge is—and the disappointment of going one stroke too farGryff’s personal recordA five-hour edging scene involving rubber, restraints, ice and a vacuum cubeJason’s experiments with cages, toys and hands-free orgasmsThe surprising gamification of edgingGiving control to a partner versus maintaining control yourselfRecognizing someone’s physical “tell”The emotional release that can follow a prolonged orgasmWhether edging counts as sexSensory deprivation, blindfolds and heightened awarenessHow beginners can start exploring edging safely and graduallyWhy anticipation may be the most powerful part of pleasureEdging may be about stopping before the finish line—but for Gryff and Jason, the real appeal is everything that happens along the way. Send Us Your Kink ConfessionsHave a kinky story, secret, question or discovery you’ve been dying to get off your chest? DM us on social media or email info@thekinkybros.com. Your confession may be featured in a future episode—anonymously, unless you tell us otherwise. Follow The Kinky Bros PodcastWebsite: thekinkybros.com Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social X: @KinkyBrosPod Email: info@thekinkybros.com Enjoying the show? Please follow, rate and review The Kinky Bros Podcast wherever you listen. Yes, we are shamelessly begging. It helps new listeners find us—and it reassures our parents that this whole thing wasn’t a terrible idea. The Kinky Bros Podcast is intended for adults only. Gryff and Jason are not therapists, medical professionals or kink experts. They are two real-life brothers sharing their own experiences, asking questions and figuring out the kink world one conversation at a time.

  5. Jun 3

    S1Ep7: So, We Actually Did This… (And You Actually Listened)

    Can we just take a second to acknowledge that we actually did this? Seven episodes. One podcast. Countless unexpected conversations. And somehow… people actually listened. In this season one finale, we look back on everything that surprised us, challenged us, made us laugh, and brought us closer—from awkward first recordings and “plugged” confessions to hard conversations about spouses, friendships, and vulnerability. We talk about the feedback that genuinely moved us, what we learned about each other, and how this podcast changed our relationship in ways we didn’t expect. And yes… we’re talking about what’s next. Season 2? Oh, we have ideas. In This Episode:What surprised us most about each otherThe funniest moment of the entire season (spoiler: plugs were involved)The conversations that were hardest to have—and whyYOUR feedback that genuinely hit us in the feelsHow this podcast changed our relationship as brothersWhat we learned about vulnerability, openness, and trustSeason 2 ideas we’re very excited about  A Real Note Before You Listen:What started as a wild idea between brothers became something way more meaningful than either of us expected. Whether you listened to one episode or all seven… thank you. Seriously. Follow the Show:Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social X: @KinkyBrosPod Follow Us:Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (Instagram & BlueSky) Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (Instagram, BlueSky & X) Resources:Don’t forget to check out the Kinky Bros Resource Guide at: thekinkybros.com Books, communities, podcasts, subreddits, and resources we referenced throughout the season—all in one place. Season 2?Let’s just say… we’ve got thoughts. More guests. More specific kink deep-dives. More honest conversations. Definitely edging. You’ve been warned. Disclaimer: This podcast is intended for adult audiences only.

  6. May 27

    S1Ep6: 2 Kinky Bros Walk Into a Therapist’s Office (with Dr. Ty Lerman)

    This week, we brought in an actual expert. Like… a real doctor. After five episodes of two brothers oversharing about kink, relationships, communication, and discovery, it was time to bring in someone who actually knows what they’re talking about. Enter Dr. Ty Lerman—clinical sexologist, certified sex therapist. Together, we tackle some of the biggest questions listeners have been asking: Is kink “normal”? What’s the difference between a kink and a fetish? Is jealousy inevitable? Can open relationships actually work? And why are conversations about sex still so damn hard? This episode is honest, educational, validating, and probably the one you’ll want to send to someone else. In This Episode:Is it actually weird that two brothers talk openly about kink?The surprising stats on how many people are kinky (hint: way more than you think)Kink vs. fetish: what’s the actual difference?Why sex conversations still feel so tabooOpen relationships: what people get wrong before they startCompersion: the word more people need to knowJealousy vs. envy (and why they’re NOT the same thing)Dr. Ty’s advice for anyone exploring kink for the first timeA Real Note Before You Listen:This conversation is packed with information—but it’s still just that: a conversation. Not therapy. Not medical advice. Just honest discussion with someone who’s spent years helping people navigate these exact topics. Follow the Show:Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social X: @KinkyBrosPod Follow Us:Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (Instagram & BlueSky) Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (Instagram, BlueSky & X) Connect with Dr. Ty:Instagram: @tdlcounseling Website: https://tdlcounseling.com Next Episode:We wrap this first chapter of the Kinky Bros journey by talking about how to make these conversations easier—for couples, families, friends… and honestly, for all of us. Disclaimer:This podcast is intended for adult audiences only. This episode discusses sexuality, relationships, and kink in an educational and conversational context.

  7. May 20

    S1Ep5: Why Is This Easier To Tell Strangers?

    Who knows this side of you… and who doesn’t? In Episode 5, we shift the conversation beyond partners and into the wider world—friends, social circles, and the different “buckets” we keep our lives in. Why is it so hard to talk about this with the people we’ve known the longest? What do we gain—or lose—by keeping parts of ourselves separate? From “bro code” silence to unexpected support, we explore what it really looks like to navigate kink, identity, and curiosity in everyday life. In This Episode: Why some friendships never go there—and others surprise youThe “straight bro code” and why certain conversations don’t happenKeeping separate worlds: kink life vs. “vanilla” lifeHow stigma shapes what we share (and what we don’t)Finding community in unexpected places What happens when your identity starts to shift—and not everyone comes with youThe question we all face: is there a cost to staying quiet?A Real Note Before You Listen:This episode might make you think about your own friendships—and what you choose to share (or keep hidden). We’re not here to tell you what’s right. Just what’s been real for us. Follow the Show:Instagram: @KinkyBrosPodcast BlueSky: @kinkybrospodcast.bsky.social X: @KinkyBrosPod Follow Us:Gryff: @Gryffinrubber (Instagram & BlueSky) Jason: @PlaysBothSides.bsky.social (Instagram, BlueSky & X) Next Episode:We’re calling in back-up, and we’re get psych-y! Certified sex therapist & clinical sexologist (& kinkster) Dr. Ty, joins the Kinky Bros podcast to answer all sorts of questions!  ⚠️ Disclaimer:This podcast is intended for adult audiences only.

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Two brothers—one gay, one not—accidentally discover they’re both part of the kink community. What begins as an awkward revelation becomes an intimate, funny, and surprisingly educational exploration of desire, identity, masculinity, and the bonds that survive our most vulnerable truths.

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