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  1. What Happened When a Morehouse Man Who Moved to Colombia Talked About Mental Health

    1d ago

    What Happened When a Morehouse Man Who Moved to Colombia Talked About Mental Health

    Carrie Connects™ | Show Recap | June 13, 2026 If you missed today’s episode of Carrie Connects™ with Jason Wilson, the replay is live and this one went places I did not expect. Jason is a Morehouse College graduate, full time podcast producer, founder of Circle of Friends Club, CEO of Spirit Linc, and a 24 year expat building a global ecosystem from Bogotá, Colombia. We brought him on during Men’s Mental Health Month because he is not just talking about mental health. He is living it, building around it, and dedicating his life’s work to it. The Man Behind the Mission Most people know Jason as the podcast producer who handles everything so his clients just show up. But today we learned where the real motivation comes from. His mother was his best friend. He watched her transform from a happy, gregarious woman into someone who spent most of her days in bed, battling bipolar depression and suicidal ideation. He flew home from Colombia four and five times to show up for her. He never stopped trying. She passed in 2014. From that moment Jason made a decision: everything he builds from here on out would be dedicated to her memory and centered on mental health. That is not a brand strategy. That is a son honoring his mother the only way he knows how. The Loneliness Epidemic Nobody Is Talking About Enough One of the most important things Jason said today was simple and urgent. There is a loneliness epidemic. And it is getting worse. That is the motivation behind Spirit Linc, his faith-based dating and connection platform for entrepreneurs, athletes, leaders, and entertainers who are ready for meaningful relationships. Not just romance. Real connection rooted in shared values. When high-performing people build everything around their careers and arrive at the top alone, that is not success. That is the loneliness epidemic in a suit. Spirit Linc was built for that person. Circle of Friends Club and What Men Experience Inside It Jason built Circle of Friends Club as a mental wellness community that holds space for the conversations men benefit from learning how to start. Depression. Anxiety. PTSD. The things that do not come up in the locker room or the boardroom. Men are statistically the least likely demographic to seek mental health support. Jason built a community specifically designed to change that, quietly, consistently, and with the kind of warmth that makes people feel safe enough to show up. His Advice for Aspiring Podcasters One of the audience questions gave us one of the best pieces of practical wisdom of the entire show. Jason started his first podcast on a laptop with no microphone, no green screen, and no camera. The image was grainy. He posted it anyway. His advice: figure out what you are passionate about and just start. Do not wait for the perfect setup. Resilience and perseverance build audiences. Equipment comes later. Twenty four years of building in a country where most people were afraid to visit taught him that waiting for perfect conditions is how you never begin. Go Watch the Replay and Connect With Jason The replay is live now across all platforms. Watch it, share it, and then go find Jason Wilson where he is building. * 💼 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/jwthewingman * 📘 Facebook: facebook.com/jasonwilson008 * 🌐 Spirit Linc: spiritlinc.com * 🌐 Circle of Friends Club: circleoffriendsclub.com * 📸 Instagram: @circleoffriendsclub * ▶️ YouTube: youtube.com/@circlebacktoyoupodcast Carrie Connects™ airs every Saturday at 2:00 PM CST | 3:00 PM EST Hosted by Coach Carrie Willis | A Clarity From The Heart™ Production Real Conversations. Real Connections. 💗 Thank you to everyone who tuned into my live video! Join me for my next live video in the app. Get full access to Clarity from the Heart™ at gr8finances.substack.com/subscribe

    56 min
  2. Your Job Will Post Your Position Within Two Weeks. Your Family Table Will Sit Empty for Years.

    Jun 6

    Your Job Will Post Your Position Within Two Weeks. Your Family Table Will Sit Empty for Years.

    Series: Carrie Connects | Saturday, June 7, 2026 There is a moment in this week’s episode of Carrie Connects that will stay with you. Mark Brezzell, former Cardiovascular Perfusionist, Johns Hopkins graduate, Type 1 Diabetes Advocate, and Corporate Wellness Consultant, was talking about what happens when high stress professionals ignore the warning signs their body is sending. And then he said this: Who is missing you the most? Is it the empty chair at your family table or the empty desk at your corporation? Because if you fall over with a heart attack today, that job is posted within a week or two. But that table setting is going to sit there a long time. That is a fact from a man who spent 10 years in cardiac surgery and watched the consequences up close. This Was Round Two Mark first joined Carrie Connects on May 9th. That conversation covered the biology of stress, what 30 years in cardiovascular medicine taught him, and why resilience is built through awareness, not willpower. He came back June 7th because one conversation was not enough. This time, we went deeper. Here is what the room heard. Stress Does Not Appear on the Death Certificate One of the most important things Mark said is that stress does not get listed as a cause of death. What gets listed are the things stress caused: heart attack, stroke, peripheral arterial disease. He described stress as the trigger and the accelerator. He broke down what high stress actually does to the body over time. Judgment gets impaired. Cognitive function drops. Sleep breaks down. Metabolism shifts. Blood pressure rises. And when those things compound, the body starts sending signals that most people ignore. The warning signs he named: frequent headaches, increased irritability, sleeplessness, a racing mind that will not quiet down, and then the physiological escalation into chest pain, elevated blood pressure, and the kind of symptoms that require a doctor visit, not a push through. Men treat pushing through like a badge of honor. But pushing through is setting you up for a serious setback. He was clear about what the endgame of that badge looks like. Heart attacks. Strokes. Widow makers, which is what they call the left main stem blockage, a specific kind of arterial blockage named for what it does to the person left behind. The Blood Conservation Story and What It Taught Him About Adaptability One of the most remarkable moments in the conversation came when Coach Carrie asked Mark about the blood conservation technology he introduced at Toledo Hospital, including techniques that allowed Jehovah’s Witness patients to undergo open heart surgery without receiving blood transfusions. His mentor, who he calls the godfather of blood conservation, was the first to demonstrate that over-transfusing blood is almost like giving an organ transplant. The body treats foreign blood as a foreign substance. His work was about finding smarter ways to work with the body instead of overwhelming it. For Jehovah’s Witness patients who could not accept any blood product, the surgical team managed fluid levels precisely, controlled blood pressure pharmacologically, and kept patients in a tight window throughout the procedure. Mark said he does not remember a single patient from those 10 years who needed a transfusion using those techniques. Their recovery was consistently excellent. It was very labor intensive. But these people came out with excellent levels. It just goes to show you how adaptable the body is when you work with it instead of against it. He carries that lesson into his wellness work. The body is more capable than we give it credit for. The goal is to stop working against it. Diabetes Is a Global Crisis and Most People Do Not Know It Mark does international diabetes advocacy work in Africa and India. He made something very clear: diabetes is not a lifestyle disease that only affects certain types of people in certain types of bodies. It is a global crisis touching communities with wildly different resources. In many African nations, access to continuous glucose monitoring equipment is only just arriving. Insulin pumps remain out of reach for many. Legislative battles over open access to therapies are ongoing. People are managing serious conditions with limited tools. He also cleared up a myth that comes up constantly. You do not have to be overweight to have diabetes. You can weigh 110 pounds and have it. Diabetes is about whether the pancreas is functioning properly and whether the body is absorbing insulin correctly. Weight can influence inflammation, which can contribute to Type 2, but thinness is not protection. And for anyone who thinks cutting out cookies will keep them safe: highly processed foods, ketchup, sauces, hot dogs, foods with high fructose corn syrup all spike blood sugar in ways the pancreas has to work to compensate for. Over time, that wears the system down. The issue is not just dessert. It is the full picture of what we eat. The American Diabetes Association Call The president-elect of the American Diabetes Association personally called Mark after he applied for a board role. The message was direct: your background is valuable, but you need more local advocacy experience first. Mark did not hear that as a rejection. He heard it as a roadmap. He connected with TD1 Michigan, a Type 1 diabetes advocacy group in his state. He began reaching out to regional and national organizations, offering expertise, guidance, and the one thing no textbook can give: lived experience. His brother also has Type 1 diabetes. He knows the condition from the inside. You can read a ton of books all you want. But there is something about living with it that takes it to a whole other level. What Corporate Wellness Actually Looks Like When stress has been running the culture of a law firm or finance team for years, here is what Mark says you start to see: productivity drops, absenteeism rises, turnover increases, and then the acute events start. Someone collapses. Someone has a cardiac event. Someone does not come back. The resistance he runs into most when he brings a wellness program into an organization is the fear that wellness will distract from productivity. His response: the best productivity is availability. If your people are burning out, calling in sick, working through illness while performing at 60 percent, or leaving entirely, that costs far more than investing in their health. He is expanding his focus beyond legal and financial professionals. Healthcare workers are next. The people who take care of everyone else are among the most stressed people in any system. He has 30 years of surgical experience to speak to them from. Building a Business With Family Mark runs his platform with a family based team that includes his nieces. He said what he values most about that structure is the trust that already exists. You do not have to build it from scratch. You grow together. And the people around you become examples to others in the family who are watching. He calls it each one reach one. The model is not just about building a business. It is about building a standard that younger people in the family can see and reach toward. Three Things You Can Do This Week Mark closed the show with three specific actions he asked everyone in the room to try before next Saturday. No gym membership required. No major lifestyle overhaul. Sleep. Go to bed an hour earlier or sleep an hour later. Add something to your routine that helps you wind down. Your body recovers during rest. Without it, the machinery starts to fail. Move. Walk around the block. Walk up and down your stairs. Movement is one of the most effective tools for managing blood sugar, supporting cardiovascular health, improving sleep, and reducing stress. Start small. Hydrate. Drink more water. You do not have to hit a number all at once. Carry a bottle and sip throughout the day. That steady hydration supports every system in your body. Those three things in and of itself, you will start noticing a profound change in just how you feel. Watch the Full Episode This article is a summary. The full conversation covers more ground than any recap can hold. Mark goes deeper into the biology of stress, the connection between cardiovascular health and the head, heart, and legs, what to tell teenagers about monitoring their bodies, and what exercise does to insulin resistance. Watch the full episode on Facebook, YouTube, LinkedIn, Substack, and Instagram. Search Carrie Connects or find the replay on all platforms @ gr8finances where the show airs live every Saturday at 2 PM CST. Connect with Mark Brezzell at linktr.ee/mdbliveconnextllc. If someone in your life needs to hear this, share it with them. That table setting matters. Coach Carrie Willis | Gr8Finances | A Clarity From The Heart Production Confusion is expensive. Clarity pays for life. Thank you to everyone who tuned into my live video! Join me for my next live video in the app. Get full access to Clarity from the Heart™ at gr8finances.substack.com/subscribe

    1h 11m
  3. Jun 1

    P2P Presents - Keeping your kids engaged and responsible in the summer.

    What happened when Coach Carrie sat down with Dr. Tania Farran to talk about keeping kids engaged and responsible all summer long. June 1, 2026 | Coach Carrie Willis Tonight I had the pleasure of joining Dr. Tania Farran live on P2P Presents for a conversation every parent with kids at home this summer needed to hear. Dr. Tania Farran is the author of Raising the Well-Adjusted Child, A Parent’s Manual and the host of Parent2Parent. She is also someone I connected with a few months ago over a coffee chat and we hit it off immediately. So when she invited me to come on and talk about keeping kids engaged and responsible in the summer, I said yes without hesitation. Here is what we talked about. STRUCTURE DOES NOT TAKE A VACATION The first question Dr. Farran asked me was how I handle summer with my son. My answer was simple. Structure does not take a vacation just because school does. In my house, the routine changes but the expectations do not. Free time is earned, not assumed. And one of the things I love most about our summers is that we plan them together. My son has input. We agree on the plan. And then we hold each other accountable to what we said we would do. When kids have a say in the plan, they show up differently for it. That is what I have seen firsthand. RESPONSIBILITY IS A PRACTICE, NOT A LECTURE We talked about how responsibility gets built in a home. My answer was that it is not built through conversations. It is built through doing. In my house, everyone has a role. Real contributions and not just busy work. My son makes his bed. He does laundry. He takes out the trash. And now that he is older, he has time in the kitchen too. He tells me what is on the menu and I step aside. When a child sees that the household runs because of their effort, they internalize something important: their actions matter. THE MOST POWERFUL PARENTING TOOL YOU HAVE Dr. Farran ended our time together by asking for one tip for parents. Here is what I said. Make the expectation clear and make it theirs. Sit down with your kids before summer starts. Ask them what kind of summer they want to have. Help them build the plan. When they own the goal, they show up for it differently. And then hold the line. Love them enough to mean what you say. Because consistency is the most powerful parenting tool we have. CHILDREN REMEMBER TIME, NOT MONEY We also talked about fun. And this was one of my favorite parts of the conversation. The best memories my son and I have are not the expensive ones. They are the ones we did not plan. One morning we decided at 10am we were done sitting at home. We filled up the tank, grabbed some snacks, and drove to Atlanta. Just like that. No agenda. Just us. Children remember the time you give them. Not the money you spent. IF YOUR KID IS GOING TO WORK THIS SUMMER, READ THIS FIRST Dr. Farran referenced an article I recently published on Substack about work from home opportunities and financial moves for teens. If you have a teen who wants to earn money this summer, that article covers the real income streams available to teens 16 and older, the scams to watch out for, and the one financial move most families never make but absolutely should. You can read the full article here: Worthy Wednesday: Your Teen Wants to Work From Home This Summer The short version: any teen with documented earned income this summer is eligible to open a custodial Roth IRA. One summer of work. Decades of compounding. That is the conversation most families are not having and it is the one that changes everything. I can open these accounts for you. WE ARE COMING BACK At the close of the show, Dr. Farran said something I am holding onto. We need to talk about money and kids. We need to have you back. And we will. The next conversation will go deeper into financial strategies for families and what parents can do right now to set their kids up before the window closes. Stay tuned for that date. In the meantime, follow Dr. Tania Farran and Parent2Parent on YouTube, Spotify, and TikTok. She is doing real work for parents and the community she has built around it is worth being a part of. If tonight’s conversation sparked something for your family and you want to talk about what your next financial move looks like, I have time for you. Book a Confidential Financial Clarity Session at calendly.com/gr8finances/clarity. Both spouses or financial partners need to be present. No cost. No obligation. Just clarity. Confusion is expensive. Clarity pays for life. Coach Carrie Willis | @gr8finances | gr8finances.com #CarrieConnects #P2PPresents #SummerParenting #CoachCarrieWillis #Gr8Finances #WorthyWednesday #TeenFinances #ParentingWithPurpose #ClarityPaysForLife Thank you to everyone who tuned into my live video! Join me for my next live video in the app. Get full access to Clarity from the Heart™ at gr8finances.substack.com/subscribe

    34 min
  4. Coffee Chat Chronicles: The Conversation That Would Not Stay in One Episode

    May 30

    Coffee Chat Chronicles: The Conversation That Would Not Stay in One Episode

    Sensei Fred Jordan Returns and We Go Deeper: Whole Self-Alignment™ Part Two Some conversations end when the time runs out. This one did not. When Sensei Fred Jordan joined me on Carrie Connects™ on March 28th we ran almost 15 minutes over time and he still had more to say. So he came back. On Saturday May 30th Sensei Fred returned for Part Two and what happened in that room was exactly what I knew it would be. Deeper, more practical, and more personal than the first time. If you missed it, this article is your invitation to watch it. If you were there, this is your reminder of what you heard and your invitation to share it with someone who needs it. What This Episode Was Actually About We went straight into Whole Self-Alignment™. Sensei Fred Jordan is a United States Marine, Professor of Martial Arts Science, world record holder, doctoral degree holder, licensed investment advisor and founder of the International Martial Arts Science Association. A man who has served over 4,000 people across 300 plus schools, corporations and communities in 23 years. But none of that is what Saturday was about. Saturday was about the framework he built from all of it. And what it can do for you. The Tricycle You Are Riding on One Wheel One of the most clarifying moments in the episode came when I asked Sensei Fred what happens when someone only works on one dimension of themselves; the physical, the mental or the emotional and ignores the other two. He said it simply: you are not riding a unicycle. You are riding a tricycle with one wheel aligned and two going in different directions. You might be moving. You might even think you are making progress. But the drag is real, the time cost is real and the wear on your nervous system is real. That landed differently for me than I expected. Because I have been that person. Pouring everything into one lane while the other two pull me sideways without me even realizing it. The Blue Ford Tempo Moment There was a moment in this episode that I will be talking about for a long time. I shared something personal about driving my old blue Ford Tempo down the South Side of Chicago with bad wheel alignment and no power steering fluid. Every block took more effort than it should have. I knew where I wanted to go. I was pointed in the right direction. But I was fighting the wheel the whole way there. Sensei Fred picked that up immediately and added something that stopped the room. Misalignment does not just slow you down. It puts wear and tear on your nervous system. You can feel it in your body when you are out of alignment. Most of us have just learned to call it stress and keep driving. The First Step Out of Chaos I asked him what the real first step is for someone who has been living inside chaos so long they do not even know what peace feels like anymore. He said: you just have to want to. Not in the way we usually mean it. Not the kind of want that buys a book and never opens it. The kind of want that makes you stop and ask yourself why do I want to do this? What do I actually believe? And then start there. With your breathing. With awareness. Not deep breathing techniques. Just noticing that you are breathing and what it does to your body when you pay attention to it. That is where the alignment begins - in a breath. What Buries the Knowing He revisited something he said in March that this community has not stopped talking about: the baby stands up on two feet without anyone teaching it how. That knowing never leaves. It just gets buried. On Saturday he told us what buries it. Circumstances shape the mind. Environment, influence and what we are told about ourselves begins to quiet the internal voice that already knows. We do not lose it. We just stop hearing it because other voices get louder. And eventually we begin to define ourselves by how other people define us without even realizing that is what we are doing. The work of Whole Self-Alignment™ is learning to hear your own voice again. Not performing alignment for the world. Feeling good about yourself because of what you know about yourself. What Sensei Fred Knew at Eight Years Old In the Q & A one of our audience members asked what inspired him to become a Sensei. He said he knew at eight years old. Not in words. Not with a plan. But he knew that at some point he was going to be teaching a perspective of humanity. Martial arts gave him the platform. The framework came later. But the knowing was always there. He said his family thought he was weird. He said it with a smile that told you everything about what it means to trust the thing inside you that other people cannot see yet. If You Missed It Watch it. The full episode is available now across YouTube, LinkedIn, Facebook and Substack. This is not a highlight reel kind of conversation. It is the kind that asks something of you while you are watching it. It asks you to look at which wheel you have been neglecting. It asks you to notice what you are feeling in your nervous system right now. It asks you to remember something about yourself that the noise has been covering up. Come back to it more than once. Different things will land at different times. If You Were There Thank you for being in the room. Share this with one person this week who is riding that tricycle on one wheel and does not know it yet. You might be the reason they finally stop fighting the wheel. And yes. Part Three is coming. Connect With Sensei Fred Jordan 💼 LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/senseifredjordan 📝 Substack: substack.com/@senseifredjordan 📘 Facebook: facebook.com/senseifredjordan 📸 Instagram: instagram.com/senseifredjordan 🎵 TikTok: tiktok.com/@senseifredjordan ▶️ YouTube: youtube.com/@senseifredjordan 🌐 IMASA: imasa.world This feature is part of my ongoing Coffee Chat Chronicles, spotlighting the incredible humans in my network. No pitch. No agenda. Just people doing meaningful work who deserve to be seen. A Carrie Connects™ Feature | Clarity From The Heart™ Productions Coach Carrie 💗 Confusion is expensive. Clarity pays for life. Thank you to everyone who tuned into my live video! Join me for my next live video in the app. Get full access to Clarity from the Heart™ at gr8finances.substack.com/subscribe

    1h 13m
  5. Carrie Connects Antoinne Duane Jones: ΖΦΒΣ Sat Down to Talk About Mental Health

    May 25

    Carrie Connects Antoinne Duane Jones: ΖΦΒΣ Sat Down to Talk About Mental Health

    Clarity from the Heart™ is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Carrie Connects™ | Blue and White Edition Recap | May 24, 2026 If you missed tonight’s special Blue and White Edition of Carrie Connects™ with Antoinne Duane Jones, the replay is live and this one deserves your full attention. Antoinne is a traveling photographer with 21 years of experience, founder of Majority Greek Magazine, member of Phi Beta Sigma Fraternity, Inc. for 27 years, co-host of The Opinionated Podcast with Cocoa Brown, and one of the most honest voices on Black men’s mental health I have ever had the privilege of sitting across from. As a member of Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Inc., this Blue and White Edition in honor of Mental Health Awareness Month was personal for me. And Antoinne showed up for every second of it. Men Do Not Need a Safe Place. They Need a Sacred One. The line that stopped the entire conversation came when Antoinne shared something a therapist said at a men’s mental health event he had just attended. Men do not need a safe place. They need a sacred one. The difference matters. Safe implies protection from judgment. Sacred implies that what you bring into that space is treated as something holy, something that will not be minimized, mocked, or used against you. That is the environment Antoinne has spent years trying to build for Black men through his Brothers Do Brunch events, his fatherhood programming, and his willingness to stand on stage and say out loud that he has struggled with depression. When he does that, he said, the light bulbs go off like fireworks in the room. Men who have never said those words out loud suddenly realize they are not alone. We Are in Civil Rights 2.0 Antoinne did not shy away from the urgency of this moment. When asked why civic education and Black history preservation feel more pressing than ever, he said something that landed hard. If you close your eyes and think about the political environment, the racial environment, the work environment right now and ask yourself what year it feels like, most people would not say 2026. They would say somewhere around 1970. We are in Civil Rights 2.0. And if we go any further back we are in pre-voting rights territory. That context is why his political education series bringing elected officials into real conversations with Black communities is not just programming. It is infrastructure. Being a Full-Time Entrepreneur Is Like Being a Hunter One of the most relatable moments of the night came when Antoinne talked about the mental health challenges of entrepreneurship itself. Being a full-time entrepreneur, he said, is like being a hunter. You do not eat if you do not kill. Not everyone is built for that. And the beginning of this year was hard because when people are worried about gas prices and paying bills, how many photos are they booking? He said it plainly: sometimes people tell him to just go get a job. And he said he would probably get fired in ten minutes. As soon as they told him he clocked in at 8:01 instead of 8:00 he would be done. The audience laughed. But the honesty underneath it was real. Entrepreneurship is a mental health conversation that does not get had enough. The Pillars of the Black Community Antoinne closed with a tribute to Phi Beta Sigma Fraternity, Inc. and Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Inc. that gave the Blue and White Edition its full meaning. He said that if you peel away the layers and look at the pillars of the Black community, you will find members of these organizations. Councilmen. Representatives. Senators. Mayors. Doctors. Judges. Lawyers. The infrastructure of Black leadership has always had Greek letter organizations at its foundation. Twenty seven years a Sigma. And still diving deeper. Go Watch the Replay and Connect With Antoinne The replay is live across all platforms. Watch it, share it, and then go find Antoinne Duane Jones on Instagram, LinkedIn, TikTok, Facebook, and Substack. Support his photography business at ADJ Media. Listen to The Opinionated Podcast with Cocoa Brown. And follow Majority Greek Magazine. He is doing beautiful work. Bold work. And he proved it on this stage. Carrie Connects™ airs every Saturday at 2:00 PM CST | 3:00 PM EST Hosted by Coach Carrie Willis | A Clarity From The Heart™ Production Real Conversations. Real Connections. 💗 Thank you to everyone who tuned into my live video! Join me for my next live video in the app. Get full access to Clarity from the Heart™ at gr8finances.substack.com/subscribe

    1h 12m
  6. Carrie Connects Sameerah Jones: Childhood Friend Brought Her Whole Heart to the Stage

    May 23

    Carrie Connects Sameerah Jones: Childhood Friend Brought Her Whole Heart to the Stage

    Clarity from the Heart™ is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. Carrie Connects™ | Sameerah Jones Show Recap | May 23, 2026 If you missed today’s episode of Carrie Connects™ with Sameerah Jones, the replay is live and it is one of the most personal conversations this show has ever had. Sameerah is the founder of Island Rose Essentials LLC, a handmade natural body care line built on one standard: she only sells what she would put on her own skin. She is also my childhood friend. Our mothers were close. We grew up close. And today she brought all of that history, all of that honesty, and all of that heart to this stage. The Four Chambers of Her Heart When I asked Sameerah about her family she said something that stopped the room. She called her four children the four chambers of her heart. A wife of nearly 30 years. A mother of four. And now a grandmother to baby Legend, a grandson she is raising full time because she refuses to let him spend his early years in daycare. At almost 52 she is chasing a toddler every day and loving every exhausting minute of it. That is who Sameerah Jones is before you ever get to the business. The Products Her Kids Test First Sameerah’s children are not just her inspiration. They are her quality control team. Every new formula goes to them first. If a soap dries the skin they tell her. If a scent does not work they say so. They are her biggest supporters and her most honest critics, which is exactly the kind of feedback that builds a product line worth trusting. Her full range includes handmade soaps, body butters, candles, castile soap, and bath soaps, all formulated with organic and natural ingredients she personally researches and vets before they ever touch a product. Simple formulations. Transparent ingredients. Made by hand with intention. Breaking the Generational Cycle for Legend One of the most powerful moments of today’s conversation came at the very end when Sameerah talked about what she wants for her grandson. Legend already has a life insurance policy. His bank account is coming. Stocks and bonds are on the way. By the time Legend is old enough to need that money Sameerah wants it waiting for him, a down payment, a foundation, a head start that her own children had to build without. Her children got it out of the mud. Legend will not have to. That is not just a financial goal. That is a grandmother’s love expressed as a generational decision. What Is Coming From Island Rose Essentials Sameerah is building and she is not slowing down. Here is what is on the horizon: Her website islandroseessential.com is launching within the next 30 days. Shop, click, and she ships it out. Candle making classes and shirt making classes are coming, developed in partnership with her craft collaborator Itisha Felder. And the next class already in promotion is a perfume making class featuring handmade roll-on perfumes. Date and time are being finalized now so stay connected. Go Watch the Replay and Support Sameerah The replay is live now. Watch it, share it, and then go find Sameerah on Facebook at Sameerah Jones and on her business page Island Rose Essentials LLC. Shop her products. Watch for the website launch. And sign up for a class when the dates drop. She is building something real and she deserves a community behind her. Coming Up Tomorrow on Carrie Connects™ Tomorrow Sunday May 24th at 6:30 PM CST and 7:30 PM EST Carrie Connects™ presents a special Blue and White Edition in honor of Mental Health Awareness Month. My guest is photographer, community builder, and member of Phi Beta Sigma Fraternity, Inc., Antoinne Duane Jones. As a Zeta I cannot wait for this one. Come be in the room. Carrie Connects™ airs every Saturday at 2:00 PM CST | 3:00 PM EST Hosted by Coach Carrie Willis | A Clarity From The Heart™ Production Real Conversations. Real Connections. 💗 Thank you to everyone who tuned into my live video! Join me for my next live video in the app. Get full access to Clarity from the Heart™ at gr8finances.substack.com/subscribe

    1h 11m
  7. Carrie Connects Leah Garcia: What Happened When a Black Belt and a Financial Strategist Talked About Showing Up

    May 16

    Carrie Connects Leah Garcia: What Happened When a Black Belt and a Financial Strategist Talked About Showing Up

    If you missed today’s episode of Carrie Connects™ with Leah Garcia, the replay is live and it is worth every minute. Leah is a financial strategist, life insurance & health professional, and third degree black belt in Shotokan Karate whose conversation today went far deeper than any LinkedIn profile could have prepared us for. What started as a conversation about authentic engagement turned into one of the most honest hours we have had on this show. The Black Belt Story Nobody Saw Coming Leah started training karate at 35 years old. Not because she wanted a black belt. Not because she was athletic. Because she had been in a car accident, was carrying 220 pounds, could not sit or walk for any length of time without excruciating pain, and had already tried everything else. A girlfriend suggested karate. She showed up. She saw the mirrors. She almost left. But the white belts trained on the side without mirrors. So she stayed. She never trained for the belt. She trained to heal, to strengthen, to refine herself in mind, body, and spirit. Nearly three years later the black belt came as a byproduct of all of that work. That is not just a fitness story. That is a blueprint for how Leah Garcia approaches everything she does. Closed Mouths Do Not Get Fed The heart of today’s conversation was authentic engagement and what it actually costs people to keep showing up generously in online communities without expecting anything in return. Leah made a point that landed hard: the no pitch coffee chat is one of the most controversial things she talks about. Not her financial strategies. Not her investment philosophy. The idea that you can sit down with someone, give generously, and walk away without asking for anything. People resist it because of scarcity. They worry about giving too much. They calculate their time against the return. And in doing so they close the very doors they are trying to open. Her challenge to every professional in the audience was direct: it is 2026, get in the mix. Leave a comment. Share someone’s content. Have the coffee chat. Because closed mouths do not get fed and it is not that things are too expensive, it is that most people are not making enough money to make the expense irrelevant. The way to change that is not to hoard what you know. It is to show up so generously that the right doors cannot help but open. What She Wants You to Do Starting This Week Leah’s closing message was simple and specific. If you watched the show and did not leave a comment, did not share it with someone, did not give someone a shout out, that is your starting point. Do that. This week. Not someday. Connection is the currency. Engagement is how you spend it wisely. Go Watch the Replay and Connect With Leah The replay is available now across all platforms. Watch it, share it, and then go find her. She also hosts Wealthy Wednesdays on YouTube at Dynasty Builder 93940 every Wednesday at 10:00 AM Pacific. Go show up for someone who showed up for all of us today. Connect with Leah Garcia: 💼 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/leahgarciaceo/ 📹 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheDynastyBuilder93940 Coming Up Next on Carrie Connects™ Next Saturday’s show is moving to Sunday May 24th at 6:30 PM CST and 7:30 PM EST for a very special Blue and White Edition in honor of Mental Health Awareness Month. My guest is photographer, community builder, and member of Phi Beta Sigma Fraternity, Inc., Antoinne Duane Jones. As a Zeta, I cannot wait for this one. Stay tuned. Carrie Connects™ airs every Saturday at 2:00 PM CST | 3:00 PM EST Hosted by Coach Carrie Willis | A Clarity From The Heart™ Production Real Conversations. Real Connections. 💗 Thank you to everyone who tuned into my live video! Join me for my next live video in the app. Get full access to Clarity from the Heart™ at gr8finances.substack.com/subscribe

    1h 11m
  8. What Happened When a Man Who Has Seen 2,000 Hearts Told Us to Take Care of Ours

    May 10

    What Happened When a Man Who Has Seen 2,000 Hearts Told Us to Take Care of Ours

    If you missed this Saturday’s episode of Carrie Connects™ with Mark Brezzell the replay is waiting for you and you need to go watch it. Mark is a Johns Hopkins trained cardiovascular perfusionist, health and wellness strategist, Type 1 Diabetes advocate, and author who spent over 30 years inside operating rooms and medical affairs before leaving it all to build something the medical system was missing: a focus on the whole human being, not just the body part in crisis. What he brought to this conversation was not theory. It was 30 years of watching what chronic stress does to the human body from the inside out. And he did not hold back. What He Said That Stopped the Room Mark made one thing crystal clear before the hour was up: Your health is your greatest asset. Every goal, every dream, every aspiration you are working toward will be jeopardized if your health is not where it needs to be. You can pour time, effort, and energy into everything around you, but if you are not capable of showing up for the milestones you set for yourself, all of it goes up in smoke. That is not a wellness platitude. That is a clinical observation from a man who has seen what happens when people ignore the warning signs long enough. The Insight That Changed How I See the Body One of the most powerful moments in the conversation came when Mark talked about what those 2,000 surgeries actually taught him. Survival, he said, is more than biology. The body is not a collection of disconnected parts. Everything is interconnected. And chronic stress combined with lifestyle patterns is shaping people’s trajectories in ways they cannot yet see but will absolutely feel later. Internal aging happens before the external signs appear. By the time most people notice something is wrong, the body has been sending signals for years. The Work He Is Doing Right Now Mark left his clinical career eight months ago to build a wellness platform serving lawyers, executives, and high stress professionals, the people who are burning both ends of the candle and calling it success. He shared that the American Bar Association now has a wellness pledge that law firms are actively signing onto. Law schools are beginning to weave wellness into their curriculum. The conversation is shifting and Mark is already in those rooms helping lead it. His message for every high performer in our audience: take care of yourself first. Everything else depends on it. Go Watch the Replay This conversation is one you will want to watch more than once. Mark has a way of making clinical knowledge feel personal and urgent without ever being alarmist. The replay is available now across all platforms. Find it, watch it, and share it with every high achiever in your network who is performing at the top of their game while quietly running on empty. Connect with Mark Brezzell at linktr.ee/mdbliveconnextllc Carrie Connects™ airs every Saturday at 2:00 PM CST | 3:00 PM EST Hosted by Coach Carrie Willis | A Clarity From The Heart™ Production Real Conversations. Real Connections. 💗 Thank you to everyone who tuned into my live video! Join me for my next live video in the app. Get full access to Clarity from the Heart™ at gr8finances.substack.com/subscribe

    1h 14m

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