Unhinged: The Intuitive Weirdos

Keri Halvorsen & Jane-Marie Fajardo

Unhinged: The Intuitive Weirdos is a podcast for people doing the inner work while still very much being human. Through honest conversations, emotionally intelligent humor, spiritual curiosity, and lived experience, Jane and Keri explore the questions many of us carry but rarely feel safe enough to ask out loud. Together, they untangle the beliefs that shape us, the relationships that challenge us, the grief that transforms us, and the beautifully messy experience of becoming more ourselves. No gurus. No dogma. No pretending to have life figured out. Just two intuitive weirdos who are still doing the work, still asking big questions, still laughing at themselves, and still trying to make sense of this wonderfully absurd human experience. If you’ve ever questioned everything, felt too much, laughed through heartbreak, trusted your intuition, or found yourself wondering, “What the hell just happened?”… pull up a chair. You’re among friends. Welcome to emotionally intelligent chaos. Stay self-aware. Stay a little unhinged.

  1. My Body Has Been Personally Offending People Since Birth (AKA: Society Would Like Me Apologize for Existing)

    Jul 3

    My Body Has Been Personally Offending People Since Birth (AKA: Society Would Like Me Apologize for Existing)

    Send us Fan Mail Most of us have been taught that our bodies determine our worth. Whether you've felt "too much," "not enough," too big, too small, too old, too sick, too scarred, or simply uncomfortable in your own skin, chances are you've experienced body shame in some form. In this episode, we explore the complicated relationship we have with our bodies; from food and self-image to family messages, societal expectations, and the stories we quietly carry about who deserves love, respect, and belonging. Through personal experiences, humor, and honest conversation, we ask bigger questions: What if our bodies were never the problem? What if we've spent our lives trying to fix something that was never broken? And what would it feel like to stop waiting for our bodies to change before allowing ourselves to fully live? This isn't a conversation about diets, weight loss/gain, or body positivity. It's about self-compassion, curiosity, and reclaiming the relationship with the one home we'll live in for our entire lives. Because maybe the goal was never loving every inch of ourselves every single day. Maybe it's simply learning that we were always worthy of taking up space. Jane’s 65 foot cliff jump is the coverart for this week.   💫 Email us at theunhingedintuitives@gmail.com for questions, comments, or topic requests, we would love to hear from you! 🌿 Work with Jane-Marie: www.transformativehealings.com ✨ Follow, rate, and share if this resonated.

    1h 6m
  2. Jun 26

    Permission to Keep Living, Part II: Turns Out... You Survive

    Send us Fan Mail A quick note before we begin: Today's conversation includes grief, death, and loss. If you're in a tender place, we invite you to listen when and if it feels supportive. Please take care of yourself first. In Part II of Permission to Keep Living, we continue one of the most personal conversations we've ever had. This episode isn't about "moving on." It's about what happens after the casseroles stop coming, when the world keeps spinning, and you're left figuring out how to keep living. We talk honestly about what grief actually looks like, the well-intentioned things that hurt, the unexpected acts of kindness that helped, why talking about the people we've lost matters, and how healing isn't about forgetting. It's about learning to carry love and loss at the same time. We also explore the surprising role of expressive writing, why asking for help can feel impossible, and how even our deepest pain can become a source of compassion, purpose, and connection. Whether you're grieving someone you love, supporting someone who is, or carrying a loss that still feels close, we hope this conversation reminds you that there is no "right" way to grieve, and that you don't have to do it alone. Stay self-aware. Stay a little unhinged. And remember: you have permission to keep living. Katalina’s book: https://heyzine.com/flip-book/589021b59c.html 💫 Email us at theunhingedintuitives@gmail.com for questions, comments, or topic requests, we would love to hear from you! 🌿 Work with Jane-Marie: www.transformativehealings.com ✨ Follow, rate, and share if this resonated.

    53 min
  3. Permission to Keep Living_Part I: Finding Your Way Through Grief

    Jun 12

    Permission to Keep Living_Part I: Finding Your Way Through Grief

    Send us Fan Mail Content Warning: This episode contains discussion of child loss, death, grief, suicidal thoughts, and trauma. What if the reason you're stuck isn't because you don't know what to do, but because you're waiting for permission? In this deeply personal episode, Keri shares the unimaginable grief of losing her daughter, mother, and aunt within weeks of each other while navigating young motherhood, college, and survival. Together, Jane and Keri explore what it means to keep going when life breaks you open, how healing rarely arrives all at once, and why curiosity can become a lifeline when hope feels out of reach. This conversation dives into grief, resilience, gratitude, self-trust, and the unexpected ways life offers us doorways forward. It's an honest exploration of what happens when you're completely stuck, how small moments can become catalysts for healing, and why the path back to yourself often begins with one tiny step at a time. If you've ever felt overwhelmed by loss, unsure how to move forward, or wondered whether there's something more waiting on the other side of your pain, this episode is for you. In loving memory of Katalina September 5, 1990- June 4, 1992 💫 Email us at theunhingedintuitives@gmail.com for questions, comments, or topic requests, we would love to hear from you! 🌿 Work with Jane-Marie: www.transformativehealings.com ✨ Follow, rate, and share if this resonated.

    42 min
  4. Jun 5

    Their Trauma Is Not Your Homework

    Send us Fan Mail Can someone be deeply wounded, deserving of compassion, and still not be desirable to have in your life? In this episode, we dive into the complicated space between empathy and self-respect. We explore what happens when understanding someone's trauma becomes the reason we tolerate behavior that continually hurts us. From family dynamics and boundary setting to vulnerability, accountability, and healing, we unpack the reality that compassion does not require self-sacrifice. We share personal stories about difficult relationships, criticism, emotional triggers, and the lessons that come from learning to honor our own needs. We discuss the difference between holding space for someone and becoming their emotional dumping ground, why hurt people sometimes hurt people, and how to recognize when a relationship is taking more from you than it gives. Most importantly, we explore the idea that understanding someone's wounds does not obligate you to absorb the consequences of them. Boundaries are not a punishment. They are an act of self-love. Sometimes growth means staying. Sometimes growth means walking away. And sometimes the most compassionate thing you can do is stop abandoning yourself in the name of understanding someone else.  Key Takeaway: You can have compassion for someone's pain without giving them unlimited access to your life. Understanding their story does not mean tolerating behavior that diminishes your peace, your well-being, or your sense of self. 💫 Email us at theunhingedintuitives@gmail.com for questions, comments, or topic requests, we would love to hear from you! 🌿 Work with Jane-Marie: www.transformativehealings.com ✨ Follow, rate, and share if this resonated.

    53 min
  5. May 29

    How to Lose Your Shit More Gracefully

    Send us Fan Mail Have you ever reacted to something and immediately thought, “Well… that could have gone better”? We've all been there—that moment when frustration, anxiety, anger, or overwhelm takes over and suddenly you're one inconvenience away from completely losing it. In this episode, Jane and Keri explore what happens when big emotions hijack our nervous system and how we can learn to navigate those moments with more awareness, self-compassion, and a little less collateral damage. From locked doors in the desert and spiraling thoughts to emotional regulation, self-soothing, and the power of co-regulation, this conversation dives into the messy reality of being human. They discuss recognizing emotional triggers, identifying how emotions show up in the body, finding healthier outlets for anger and frustration, and why healing isn't about never losing your cool; it's about catching yourself sooner and recovering faster. Along the way, they explore the difference between feeling emotions and being controlled by them, the importance of repair after conflict, and why emotional growth often looks less like perfection and more like shortening the time between reaction and awareness. If you've ever found yourself spiraling, snapping at someone you love, doom-scrolling to avoid your feelings, or wondering why the same triggers keep showing up, this episode offers practical insights, relatable stories, and a reminder that growth isn't about never losing your shit...it's about learning how to lose it a little more gracefully. Because being human isn't about mastering your emotions, it's about learning how to work with them. 💫 Email us at theunhingedintuitives@gmail.com for questions, comments, or topic requests, we would love to hear from you! 🌿 Work with Jane-Marie: www.transformativehealings.com ✨ Follow, rate, and share if this resonated.

    45 min
  6. May 22

    When Family Doesn’t Feel Like Home

    Send us Fan Mail Have you ever felt like the outsider in your own family? Family relationships can be some of the most meaningful—and most complicated—connections we experience. In this episode of Unhinged: The Intuitive Weirdos, Jane and Keri explore what happens when family dynamics leave us feeling unseen, excluded, misunderstood, or pressured to become someone we're not. Together, they discuss the difference between belonging and fitting in, the emotional toll of constantly seeking acceptance, and how family roles, expectations, and unresolved wounds can shape our lives long into adulthood. Through personal stories, candid reflections, and a healthy dose of humor, they examine when boundaries may strengthen a relationship, when distance may be necessary, and why letting go doesn't have to come from anger. The conversation also explores found family, ancestral healing, emotional triggers, self-worth, and the liberating realization that love and connection are not limited to blood relatives. Ultimately, this episode is a reminder that your value is not determined by anyone's approval—and that sometimes the greatest act of self-love is choosing peace over belonging where you were never fully accepted. Key Themes: Family dynamics and emotional triggersThe difference between belonging and fitting inHealthy boundaries versus cutting tiesFound family and chosen communityHealing generational patternsSelf-worth, acceptance, and authenticityReleasing relationships without resentmentIf you've ever felt like the outsider in your own family, this episode offers validation, perspective, and permission to stop shrinking yourself for acceptance. 💫 Email us at theunhingedintuitives@gmail.com for questions, comments, or topic requests, we would love to hear from you! 🌿 Work with Jane-Marie: www.transformativehealings.com ✨ Follow, rate, and share if this resonated.

    46 min

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Unhinged: The Intuitive Weirdos is a podcast for people doing the inner work while still very much being human. Through honest conversations, emotionally intelligent humor, spiritual curiosity, and lived experience, Jane and Keri explore the questions many of us carry but rarely feel safe enough to ask out loud. Together, they untangle the beliefs that shape us, the relationships that challenge us, the grief that transforms us, and the beautifully messy experience of becoming more ourselves. No gurus. No dogma. No pretending to have life figured out. Just two intuitive weirdos who are still doing the work, still asking big questions, still laughing at themselves, and still trying to make sense of this wonderfully absurd human experience. If you’ve ever questioned everything, felt too much, laughed through heartbreak, trusted your intuition, or found yourself wondering, “What the hell just happened?”… pull up a chair. You’re among friends. Welcome to emotionally intelligent chaos. Stay self-aware. Stay a little unhinged.