Where We Are?

Dr Alon Aviram
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What if the distance you feel in your relationship isn't a sign that something is broken? What if it's a sign that you've lost your location inside it?Where We Are is a podcast about orientation, not diagnosis. Hosted by Dr. Alon Aviram, each episode maps a relationship pattern you'll recognize from your own life and shows you where you actually stand.Eleven episodes. One season. For anyone who's done the reading, tried the therapy, and still can't name why the connection feels off. No blame. No quick fixes. Just the language for what you already feel.

  1. Aug 18

    Why Am I So Sensitive?

    Someone walks into the room, and before a word is spoken, you already know. The mood shifted, and you felt it land on your skin. A hard conversation ends and everyone else moves on, and you are still carrying it three days later. Somewhere along the way you got handed a label for this. Too sensitive. In this episode, Dr. Alon Aviram treats sensitivity as a skill instead of a defect. Through the story of a woman named Eve, who walked out of every gathering carrying everyone's feelings in her own body, he reframes "too sensitive" as standing at the open end of a spectrum: a fine instrument that plays at full volume all day, with no case and no knob. The work is not to feel less. It is to find your hand on the knob, so open becomes a place you choose, not a place you are stranded. Not advice. Not a diagnosis. A closer look at the gift that exhausts the person holding it, and the small practice that puts a hairline of space between you and a feeling that was never yours. New episodes weekly. Where We Are is a podcast about where you are, not what's wrong with you. Hosted by Dr. Alon Aviram, psychotherapist. The show is built on the framework he uses in his practice: a way of finding where you're standing across the different parts of a life — the body, the self, relationships, groups, and meaning — and finding your way back to movement. If something in this episode landed, you can go deeper at dralonaviram.com, where a free tool helps you find where you actually stand. The newsletter, The Shift, lives on Substack. And you can follow along on Instagram. New episodes every week. Drop the label.

    Why Am I So Sensitive?

  2. Aug 11

    Why Am I So Lazy?

    Lazy. Maybe someone said it to you once and it stuck, deep, where you cannot reach to pull it out. Or maybe nobody had to say it, because you say it to yourself now, every time you sit down, every time the day ends with the list untouched. In this episode, Dr. Alon Aviram picks that word up and turns it over. Through the story of a woman named Hannah, who carried too much for too long and then, the moment she was allowed to, simply stopped, he separates laziness, which is a verdict, from rest, which is half of how a body stays whole. What we call lazy is very often a body standing at the recovery end of itself, doing exactly what it is supposed to do, waiting for permission it has never been given. Not advice. Not a diagnosis. A closer look at the debt a body collects when it is never allowed to rest, and how the drive comes home once you stop punishing yourself for standing still. New episodes weekly. Where We Are is a podcast about where you are, not what's wrong with you. Hosted by Dr. Alon Aviram, psychotherapist. The show is built on the framework he uses in his practice: a way of finding where you're standing across the different parts of a life — the body, the self, relationships, groups, and meaning — and finding your way back to movement. If something in this episode landed, you can go deeper at dralonaviram.com, where a free tool helps you find where you actually stand. The newsletter, The Shift, lives on Substack. And you can follow along on Instagram. New episodes every week. Drop the label.

    Why Am I So Lazy?

  3. Aug 4

    Why Cant I Stop Working?

    It is Saturday. You promised this one was yours. And here you are at the desk, because there was just one thing, and the one thing had another thing behind it. You are not doing this because you love it. It is more like a hand at your back that never quite lets you sit down. In this episode, Dr. Alon Aviram sits with the person who cannot stop. Through the story of a man named Sam, he separates working hard, which is a choice, from not being able to stop, which is a position you get backed into, usually by a very old belief that you are only worth something while you are producing. The body keeps an honest ledger, and it always, eventually, collects. Not advice. Not a diagnosis. A look at a magnificent engine that forgot it has a second half, and what it takes to let the drive last. New episodes weekly. Where We Are is a podcast about where you are, not what's wrong with you. Hosted by Dr. Alon Aviram, psychotherapist. The show is built on the framework he uses in his practice: a way of finding where you're standing across the different parts of a life — the body, the self, relationships, groups, and meaning — and finding your way back to movement. If something in this episode landed, you can go deeper at dralonaviram.com, where a free tool helps you find where you actually stand. The newsletter, The Shift, lives on Substack. And you can follow along on Instagram. New episodes every week. Drop the label.

    Why Cant I Stop Working?

  4. Jul 28

    Why Can't I Get Myself Going?

    There is a list. It is not even a hard list. And you sit there, and you do not do it. Not because you decided not to. There is just a pane of glass between you and your own life that you cannot get your hands through. In this episode, Dr. Alon Aviram sits with the flat that so many people mistake for laziness. Through the story of a woman named Claire, he traces how a body that pushed at full power for too long can quietly pull its own charge down to survive, and why shame is the one thing that will never bring it back. He also names the line clearly: some kinds of flat are weather you can turn, and some are a condition that deserves a doctor's care. Not advice. Not a diagnosis. A careful look at a body that powered down for a reason, and the small current that starts it turning again. New episodes weekly. Where We Are is a podcast about where you are, not what's wrong with you. Hosted by Dr. Alon Aviram, psychotherapist. The show is built on the framework he uses in his practice: a way of finding where you're standing across the different parts of a life — the body, the self, relationships, groups, and meaning — and finding your way back to movement. If something in this episode landed, you can go deeper at dralonaviram.com, where a free tool helps you find where you actually stand. The newsletter, The Shift, lives on Substack. And you can follow along on Instagram. New episodes every week. Drop the label.

    Why Can't I Get Myself Going?

  5. Jul 21

    Why Cant I Switch Off?

    The day is done. There is nothing left to do. And something in you is still standing up, still scanning, still braced for a thing that is not coming. Season two of Where We Are turns inward, from what happens between two people to what happens inside one body. In this opening episode, Dr. Alon Aviram sits with the person who cannot switch off: the one who is awake before the alarm, who reads every room, who is tired in a way that sleep never seems to reach. Through the story of a man named Daniel, he asks a gentler question than what is wrong with me. He asks where you have been standing, for how long, and whether staying switched on was ever really who you are. Not advice. Not a diagnosis. A slow look at a body that learned to stay alert a long time ago, and never got told it was safe to come down. New episodes weekly. Where We Are is a podcast about where you are, not what's wrong with you. Hosted by Dr. Alon Aviram, psychotherapist. The show is built on the framework he uses in his practice: a way of finding where you're standing across the different parts of a life — the body, the self, relationships, groups, and meaning — and finding your way back to movement. If something in this episode landed, you can go deeper at dralonaviram.com, where a free tool helps you find where you actually stand. The newsletter, The Shift, lives on Substack. And you can follow along on Instagram. New episodes every week. Drop the label.

    Why Cant I Switch Off?

  6. Jul 14

    Why did having a baby break something between us?

    What if the thing that broke when the baby came wasn't the relationship? What if it was the version of the two of you that no longer fits the life you're inside? This episode sits with the photograph on the fridge: the couple before, the couple after, and the quiet grief in between. It's not that you stopped loving each other. It's that you became two different people while no one was watching. The question isn't how to get back. It's who you're becoming together now. Where We Are is a podcast about where you are, not what's wrong with you. Hosted by Dr. Alon Aviram, psychotherapist. The show is built on the framework he uses in his practice: a way of finding where you're standing across the different parts of a life — the body, the self, relationships, groups, and meaning — and finding your way back to movement. If something in this episode landed, you can go deeper at dralonaviram.com, where a free tool helps you find where you actually stand. The newsletter, The Shift, lives on Substack. And you can follow along on Instagram. New episodes every week. Drop the label.

    Why did having a baby break something between us?

  7. Jul 7

    Why does my partner shut down when I try to talk to them?

    What if the shutdown isn't refusal? What if it's what happens when a nervous system crosses the line from engaged to flooded? This episode maps the moment before the fight: one partner presses in, the other goes quiet, and both read the silence wrong. It's not that they don't care. It's that they can't respond from where they've gone. The question isn't how to make them talk. It's how to meet them before the wall comes down. Where We Are is a podcast about where you are, not what's wrong with you. Hosted by Dr. Alon Aviram, psychotherapist. The show is built on the framework he uses in his practice: a way of finding where you're standing across the different parts of a life — the body, the self, relationships, groups, and meaning — and finding your way back to movement. If something in this episode landed, you can go deeper at dralonaviram.com, where a free tool helps you find where you actually stand. The newsletter, The Shift, lives on Substack. And you can follow along on Instagram. New episodes every week. Drop the label.

    Why does my partner shut down when I try to talk to them?

  8. Jun 30

    Why am I disappearing inside this relationship?

    What if disappearing isn't the cost of loving well? What if it's what happens when one partner keeps making room and no one notices the room is being taken from them? This episode sits with the self that has been quietly subtracted: the things you used to do, the person you used to be. It's not the relationship's fault. It's what two people can accidentally build when devotion has no brake. The question isn't how to leave. It's how to come back to yourself without leaving them. Where We Are is a podcast about where you are, not what's wrong with you. Hosted by Dr. Alon Aviram, psychotherapist. The show is built on the framework he uses in his practice: a way of finding where you're standing across the different parts of a life — the body, the self, relationships, groups, and meaning — and finding your way back to movement. If something in this episode landed, you can go deeper at dralonaviram.com, where a free tool helps you find where you actually stand. The newsletter, The Shift, lives on Substack. And you can follow along on Instagram. New episodes every week. Drop the label.

    Why am I disappearing inside this relationship?
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What if the distance you feel in your relationship isn't a sign that something is broken? What if it's a sign that you've lost your location inside it?Where We Are is a podcast about orientation, not diagnosis. Hosted by Dr. Alon Aviram, each episode maps a relationship pattern you'll recognize from your own life and shows you where you actually stand.Eleven episodes. One season. For anyone who's done the reading, tried the therapy, and still can't name why the connection feels off. No blame. No quick fixes. Just the language for what you already feel.

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  • Creator
    Dr Alon Aviram
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    17
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 © 2026 Human(s)e
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