Acorns to Oaks

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Raising a child is never one-size-fits-all, and neither is therapy. Acorns to Oaks is a podcast about helping children grow, families feel supported, and care feel more human. Hosted by behavior analysts and healthcare professionals, each episode explores the real-world challenges families face, breaking down ABA, child development, feeding, behavior, and the systems that shape care today. We believe in individualized treatment, compassionate care, and asking the most important question first: what matters most to your family?

Episodes

  1. Jun 18

    The Hidden Challenges of Being a Behavior Analyst

    In this episode of Acorns to Oaks, Kristine and Sarah talk honestly about the challenges of being a behavior analyst. They discuss cancellations, scheduling, telehealth, assessment, insurance barriers, treatment integrity, building new programs, and the emotional reality of caring deeply while learning not to take every stress home. They also explore the pressure in the ABA field to constantly “do better,” and why improvement and pride in the work can exist at the same time. This conversation is for behavior analysts, RBTs, parents, caregivers, and anyone who wants a more human look at the work behind ethical, compassionate ABA. This episode speaks honestly about some of the harder realities inside ABA. Kristine and Sarah discuss insurance barriers, the pressure within the field to constantly “do better,” and the emotional weight of problem-solving work. The goal is not to dismiss criticism or avoid accountability. It is to hold two truths at once: the field should keep improving, and many behavior analysts are already doing thoughtful, ethical, meaningful work every day. That balance is central to Nurture & Nature’s approach: compassionate care, clinical humility, and pride in doing the work well. Acorns to Oaks is presented by Nurture & Nature ABA, providing compassionate ABA therapy and parent support in Valley Village and the San Fernando Valley. Learn more or schedule a consultation: nurtureandnatureaba.com Follow Nurture & Nature on Instagram, YouTube, Facebook, and LinkedIn. This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for individualized clinical care.

    15 min
  2. Jun 11

    When ABA Gets Complicated: Masking, Feeding, Trauma, and Trust

    In this episode of Acorns to Oaks, Kristine and Sarah discuss five of the most controversial topics in applied behavior analysis. They explore whether teaching social skills can become masking, why treatment goals should be tied to the individual’s autonomy, and how ethical care should never be about changing who someone is. They also talk about extinction, forced feeding, planned ignoring, distress, financial incentives, insurance pressures, and what trauma-informed ABA should look like in real life. This conversation is thoughtful, direct, and rooted in respect for the people and families receiving care. Rather than avoiding the hard questions, Kristine and Sarah talk through them with honesty, clinical experience, and a commitment to doing no harm. ABA is often discussed in polarized terms. For some families, it has provided support, communication, safety, and meaningful progress. For others, the history and practice of ABA raise serious concerns about compliance, masking, distress, and whether autistic traits are being treated as problems. This episode does not dismiss those concerns. Instead, Kristine and Sarah talk through them directly. They discuss where criticism has validity, especially around forced compliance, food, distress, and treatment that ignores the individual. They also explain how ethical ABA should be different: centered on autonomy, safety, functional skills, social validity, family support, and the goals of the person receiving care. The larger question is not simply whether ABA is good or bad. The better question is: what does ethical care actually look like, and how do we make sure the individual is respected at every step? Acorns to Oaks is presented by Nurture & Nature ABA, providing compassionate ABA therapy and parent support in Valley Village and the San Fernando Valley. Learn more or schedule a consultation: nurtureandnatureaba.com Follow Nurture & Nature on Instagram, YouTube, Facebook, and LinkedIn. This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for individualized clinical care.

    29 min
  3. Jun 5

    5 Controversial Topics in ABA: Consent, Compliance, Neurodiversity, and Modern Care

    In this episode of Acorns to Oaks, Kristine and Sarah discuss five of the most common and important controversies surrounding ABA therapy. They explore whether ABA helps children or teaches conformity, when intervention can become coercive, how consent and assent apply to young or nonverbal children, why total compliance should not be the goal, and whether modern ABA can support neurodiversity rather than suppress it. This conversation focuses on ethical, individualized care built around safety, autonomy, communication, family values, and meaningful goals. It is especially helpful for parents who have heard mixed things about ABA and want to better understand what compassionate modern ABA should look like. ABA has become a widely discussed and sometimes controversial topic, especially among parents, autistic adults, clinicians, and advocates. Some concerns come from outdated practices, some from poor implementation, and some from real experiences where therapy may have felt too focused on compliance, conformity, or suppressing differences. In this episode, Kristine and Sarah do not dismiss those concerns. Instead, they talk through them directly. They explain that modern ABA should not be about forcing a child to appear “normal” or teaching blind obedience. Ethical ABA should focus on meaningful goals, communication, safety, independence, family values, and the child’s autonomy. They also discuss why assent matters, why nonverbal communication should be respected, why total compliance can be unsafe, and why stimming is not automatically something to stop. The larger point is that ABA is not one-size-fits-all. The quality, philosophy, training, and values of the provider matter. Acorns to Oaks is presented by Nurture & Nature ABA, providing compassionate ABA therapy and parent support in Valley Village and the San Fernando Valley. Learn more or schedule a consultation: nurtureandnatureaba.com Follow Nurture & Nature on Instagram, YouTube, Facebook, and LinkedIn. This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for individualized clinical care.

    25 min
  4. May 21

    The Science of Friendship | Social Skills, Bullying, and the PEERS Program

    Kristine and Sarah discuss social skills, friendship development, bullying, cyberbullying, and the UCLA PEERS® program for autistic teens and young adults. This episode explores:  how friendships actually form  socially rejected vs socially neglected profiles  common interests and connection  meaningful friendship  social isolation  parent support  direct social skills instruction  online safety and cyberbullying An insightful conversation about why social connection matters deeply for long-term happiness and emotional well-being. Many people assume social skills are something children naturally “pick up,” but research and clinical experience show that social interaction is often a teachable skill set. This episode discusses the UCLA PEERS® program, which approaches friendship scientifically through direct instruction, rehearsal, modeling, and real-world practice. The conversation also challenges some traditional advice often given to children, such as:  forcing introductions  “just go tell a teacher”  assuming shared diagnoses automatically create friendships  believing social success should happen naturally Kristine and Sarah discuss how meaningful friendship is built through common interests, psychological safety, shared experiences, and gradual connection over time. Acorns to Oaks is presented by Nurture & Nature ABA, providing compassionate ABA therapy and parent support in Valley Village and the San Fernando Valley. Learn more or schedule a consultation: nurtureandnatureaba.com Follow Nurture & Nature on Instagram, YouTube, Facebook, and LinkedIn. This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for individualized clinical care.

    36 min

About

Raising a child is never one-size-fits-all, and neither is therapy. Acorns to Oaks is a podcast about helping children grow, families feel supported, and care feel more human. Hosted by behavior analysts and healthcare professionals, each episode explores the real-world challenges families face, breaking down ABA, child development, feeding, behavior, and the systems that shape care today. We believe in individualized treatment, compassionate care, and asking the most important question first: what matters most to your family?

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