Intimacy Directors and Coordinators Podcast

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  • Performing Arts

Where Intimacy Professionals in TV, Film, and Theatre come together to keep their finger on the pulse of the industry.

  1. 2d ago

    Reclaiming Your Power in an Unjust World

    🎙️ Podcast Show Notes Introduction What if the thing holding you back in your career isn’t a lack of skill, experience, or opportunity, but the way your brain is trying to keep you safe? As intimacy professionals, we spend so much of our time advocating for other people. We protect boundaries. We speak up when something isn’t right. We navigate complicated power dynamics. But what happens when we struggle to do those same things for ourselves? In this episode of the IDC Podcast, Marie Percy sits down with success coach Brad Bizjack to explore what it really means to reclaim your personal power in an unjust world. They unpack why giving away your power can actually feel safer, how past experiences can shape your nervous system responses, and why setting professional boundaries can feel much riskier than it actually is. Most importantly, this conversation offers a powerful reframe. You don’t have to shame yourself for the ways you’ve learned to survive. You can understand them, work with them, and choose a different way forward. Because standing in your power isn’t about controlling other people. It’s about recognizing what is yours to choose, and having the courage to act on it. 👂 What to Listen For Why intimacy professionals can be great at advocating for others, but struggle to advocate for themselves, especially when it comes to boundaries, rates, and workload.The surprising reason giving away your personal power can feel safe, even when it is keeping you stuck, exhausted, or frustrated.How past experiences can shape your nervous system responses on set, and how to recognize when you may be responding to what happened before instead of what is happening now.The warning signs that you may be giving your power away, including stories of powerlessness, “always” and “never” thinking, anxiety, anger, resentment, or hopelessness.Brad’s simple daily practice for changing your emotional state, using three tools: physiology, focus, and language.🔗 Important Links How to Become an Intimacy Professional Free WebinarIntimacy Directors and Coordinators Home PageHow Aspiring Intimacy Professionals Can Build Their First KitBrad Bizjack’s Success Accelerator

  2. Sep 28

    The Importance of Integration

    🎙️ Podcast Show Notes Introduction You can know the definition of consent. You can understand the process. You can check every box on the checklist. But does that mean you’re ready to do the job? In this episode, Marie Percy and Claire Warden explore the difference between knowing how to do something and actually having the skills integrated enough to do it under pressure. They break down the stages of learning, the importance of practice and failure, and why intimacy professionals need to understand their level of competency before taking on higher risk work. Because learning the information is only the beginning. 👂 What to Listen For Why knowing something is different from being able to do it when the pressure is onWhat an intimacy professional is actually managing when an actor changes their boundary on setThe four stages of learning and how to recognize where you are in your own professional developmentWhy safe practice and failure are essential to becoming a competent intimacy professionalHow to assess your level of competency and the level of risk before saying yes to a job🔗 Important Links How to Become an Intimacy Professional Free WebinarIntimacy Directors and Coordinators Home PageHow Aspiring Intimacy Professionals Can Build Their First Kit💡 Learning the information is only the beginning. The real work is practicing, integrating, and building the skills you need to do this work well.

    The Importance of Integration

  3. Sep 14

    Re-Release: Certification FAQ

    🎙️ Podcast Show Notes Introduction Thinking about becoming a certified intimacy professional, but stuck in the questions? You’re not alone. We’re re-releasing this episode because these questions are just as relevant today, and because IDC’s certification program is officially opening its doors today! If you’ve been wondering what certification actually means, whether intimacy work can become a sustainable career, or how to get your foot in the door, this episode is a great place to start. We’re breaking it all down. Not with fluff. Not with vague advice. But with real, grounded insight from inside the industry. We’re diving into what certification actually does, how careers in intimacy work really get built, and what separates people who struggle from those who build something sustainable. Because this isn’t just about getting trained. It’s about building a career that lasts. And if becoming certified has been on your mind, now is the time to take the next step. Our certification program is open for enrollment for a short time, so make sure you enroll while the doors are open! 👂 What to Listen For Why the “rush to get hired” mindset is quietly sabotaging new intimacy professionalsThe truth about whether intimacy work is a sustainable long-term careerWhat most people don’t see when they watch experienced ICs and IDs workHow credibility and trust actually get built in this industryHow certification helps you get your foot in the door (even without connections)A behind-the-scenes breakdown of IDC’s 5-phase certification pathway🔗 Important Links Enroll in IDC CertificationHow to Become an Intimacy Professional Free WebinarIntimacy Directors and Coordinators Home PageHow Aspiring Intimacy Professionals Can Build Their First Kit⏰ Enrollment is open now—but only for a short time. If you’ve been waiting for the right moment to begin your certification journey, this is it.

    Re-Release: Certification FAQ

  4. Aug 31

    One creative ally has the power

    🎙️ Podcast Show Notes Introduction What if changing a toxic industry culture doesn’t require a movement to start with thousands of people? What if it starts with one person willing to say something? In this episode, we explore what it really means to speak up when something feels wrong at work. They unpack why people so often stay silent when they witness microaggressions, harmful behavior, or unsafe practices, and how the desire to be agreeable can allow toxic industry norms to continue.  But speaking up is not as simple as reacting in the moment. Effective advocacy requires self-awareness. It means understanding your own values, recognizing when you are activated, and learning how to regulate yourself so you can choose how you want to respond. Sometimes the most effective form of allyship happens immediately. Other times, it means taking a breath, gathering information, and finding the right moment to have a conversation. How can curiosity can make difficult conversations more productive? Why do policies and procedures actually create more freedom? How can intimacy professionals use structure, communication, and community to prevent problems before they happen? Through real stories from their careers, Marie and Amanda show how one person stepping in can create a ripple effect. A single creative ally can give others permission to speak, shift a rehearsal or production, and help create a workplace where people feel safer and more supported. Whether you're an intimacy professional or simply someone who wants to become a better ally, this episode offers practical tools for speaking up without losing yourself in the process. 👂 What to Listen For Why most people stay silent when they witness a microaggression, unsafe practice, or harmful behavior at workHow one person speaking up can create a ripple effect and give others permission to challenge toxic industry normsThe difference between reacting from anger, panic, or judgment and practicing intentional, effective advocacyHow to use curiosity, regulation, and self-awareness to navigate difficult conversations and build trustWhy creating clear structures, policies, and protocols can make workplaces safer while giving people more freedom to do their best work 🔗 Important Links 📧 Email: info@idcprofessionals.com 🎓 How to Become an Intimacy Professional Free Webinar 🌐 Intimacy Directors and Coordinators Home Page 🛠️ How Aspiring Intimacy Professionals Can Build Their First Kit

    One creative ally has the power

  5. Aug 17

    Don't Overstep

    🎙️ Podcast Show Notes Introduction The fastest way to lose trust on a production is not by making a mistake, it's by forgetting where your role begins and ends. In this episode, Jessica Steinrock and Claire Warden share honest stories from their own careers about the times they overstepped, why it happened, and what those experiences taught them. Together, they explore the pressure many new intimacy professionals feel to constantly prove their value, the temptation to say yes to everything, and why true confidence comes from serving the production instead of your ego. If you have ever wondered whether you were doing too much, stepping into someone else's lane, or struggling to balance confidence with collaboration, this episode will give you practical tools to navigate those moments with greater clarity. 👂 What to Listen For  Why the pressure to prove your value can lead even the best intimacy professionals to overstep their role  How quiet confidence allows you to support a production without needing constant validation  The simple questions to ask before answering requests that may fall outside your responsibilities  Why saying "I don't know, but let's figure it out" builds more trust than pretending to have every answer  Three practical habits that will help you stay grounded, collaborative, and effective on every production 🔗 Important Links  📧 Email: info@idcprofessionals.com 🎓 How to Become an Intimacy Professional Free Webinar 🌐 Intimacy Directors and Coordinators Home Page 🛠️ How Aspiring Intimacy Professionals Can Build Their First Kit

    Don't Overstep

  6. Aug 3

    Industry Drama

    🎙️ Podcast Show Notes Introduction What kind of community are we building as intimacy professionals? As our field continues to grow, so do the conversations, disagreements, and differing approaches to the work. In this episode, Jessica Steinrock and Marie Percy take an honest look at the social dynamics shaping the intimacy profession today. They explore why good intentions can sometimes lead to judgment, policing, or division, and why building a thriving profession requires something much more powerful: trust, accountability, and genuine support for one another. If you've ever felt frustrated by conflict within the industry or wondered how to navigate disagreements with integrity, this conversation offers a thoughtful roadmap for creating a stronger community together. 👂 What to Listen For Why good intentions can sometimes turn into judgment, policing, and division within the intimacy community How to offer feedback that builds trust instead of damaging professional relationships Why context matters before making assumptions about another intimacy professional's work The difference between accountability, mentorship, and trying to control someone else's career How creating a culture of generosity and collaboration strengthens the future of the entire profession 🔗 Important Links Report concerns about an IDC Certified Professional through the accountability process on the IDC website. Email: info@idcprofessionals.comHow to Become an Intimacy Professional Free WebinarIntimacy Directors and Coordinators Home PageHow Aspiring Intimacy Professionals Can Build Their First Kit

    Industry Drama

  7. Jul 20

    Less is More

    🎙️ Podcast Show Notes Introduction You want to do a great job. You want to support the actors, protect the process, and make the work better. But somewhere along the way, that instinct can tip into something else. Overstepping. In this episode, Alicia Rodis and Amanda Pulcini unpack one of the most common mistakes intimacy professionals make in the field. Not because they are untrained or careless, but because they care deeply. This conversation breaks down how overstepping shows up, why it happens, and how to stay grounded in your role without losing your voice. If you have ever second guessed whether you were doing too much or not enough, this episode will give you the clarity to find that balance. 👂 What to Listen For  The subtle ways overstepping shows up and how it can unintentionally take power away from actors and directors  Why reading the room and understanding each set’s culture is essential to doing your job well  How too much structure or technical language can actually break trust instead of building it  The difference between facilitating collaboration and controlling the process  Why feedback in the moment is a gift and how to use it to adjust and grow in real time 🔗 Important Links How to Become an Intimacy Professional Free WebinarIntimacy Directors and Coordinators Home PageHow Aspiring Intimacy Professionals Can Build Their First Kit

    Less is More

  8. Jul 6

    You Can Make It!

    🎙️ Podcast Show Notes Introduction Have you ever been told that making it in the entertainment industry is nearly impossible? That even if you do succeed, you'll spend your life overworked, underpaid, and burned out? In this episode, Jessica Steinrock and Marie Percy challenge one of the most persistent myths in the arts and entertainment world. Together, they unpack what it really means to "make it," why success looks different for everyone, and how limiting beliefs about the industry stop talented people from pursuing meaningful careers. Whether you're an aspiring intimacy professional, actor, director, or creative entrepreneur, this conversation will help you rethink what's possible and take ownership of the career you actually want to build. 👂 What to Listen For Why the myth that "nobody makes it in the entertainment industry" keeps so many talented people from even trying How defining success on your own terms can completely change your career trajectory The surprising opportunities available to intimacy professionals beyond traditional film and television work Why waiting to be "discovered" may be holding you back from creating your own opportunities How resilience, creativity, and a willingness to adapt can help you build a sustainable career in the arts 🔗 Important Links How to Become an Intimacy Professional Free WebinarIntimacy Directors and Coordinators Home PageHow Aspiring Intimacy Professionals Can Build Their First Kit

    You Can Make It!
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