Stories We Weren't Supposed To Tell

Sunshine Faye
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Welcome to Stories We Weren’t Supposed to Tell. This is a survivor led podcast where we speak the truth about abuse, manipulation, and what it really takes to rebuild your life after it. These aren’t watered down stories. These are real experiences from real people who lived it, survived it, and chose to tell it anyway. You’ll hear the patterns most people miss love bombing, gaslighting, control, trauma bonds broken down in a way that finally makes sense. Alongside each story, we dive deeper with The Manipulation Whisperer episodes, connecting the dots between what happened, why it happened, and how to take your power back. This space is for the ones who: – questioned their reality – stayed longer than they should have – are trying to find themselves again And it’s also for the ones watching from the outside the friends, the family, the people who have ever asked: “Why didn’t they just leave?” This will help you understand what abuse actually does to a person how it rewires thinking, creates attachment, and makes leaving far more complex than it looks. You’re not crazy. You’re not alone. And you’re not the only one this happened to. If you’ve ever felt like something wasn’t right but couldn’t explain why… this podcast will give you the words for it. And once you see it, you won’t unsee it. Sunshine Faye ☀️

  1. 4d ago

    E24: Mercede's Episode-His Dream Her Nightmare-Part One

    In this episode of Stories We Weren’t Supposed to Tell, Mercedes shares what it In this episode of Stories We Weren’t Supposed to Tell, Mercedes shares what it was like to slowly lose trust in her own reality inside a relationship built on manipulation, fear, isolation, and psychological control. Mercedes didn’t know she was being abused. She believed she was the problem. She believed she was causing the chaos. And little by little, the reality being created around her became the only reality she knew. What began as a relationship quickly became a world filled with accusations, mysterious text messages, a supposed stalker, paranormal experiences, unexplained packages, missing pets, threats, isolation, and constant accusations of cheating. Mercedes also shares how religious expectations and not having healthy relationship examples made it even harder to recognize what was happening. As the relationship progressed, the control intensified—psychological abuse, attempted strangulation, isolation from family and friends, threats involving her daughter, animal abuse, and a constant rewriting of reality that left her questioning herself instead of the person hurting her. This is Part 1 of Mercedes’ story. Sometimes abuse happens so slowly that you don’t realize your reality has changed until you no longer recognize yourself. ⚠️ Trigger Warning This episode contains discussions of: Domestic violence Attempted strangulation Emotional and psychological abuse Coercive control Gaslighting and manipulation Religious trauma Isolation Stalking and harassment Animal abuse Pregnancy and birth Threats involving a child Depression and anxiety Please listen at your own pace and take breaks if needed. Disclaimer Stories We Weren’t Supposed to Tell is a survivor-led podcast created to educate, raise awareness, and encourage healing. The experiences shared reflect one individual’s personal story and should not be used to diagnose yourself or others. This podcast is not a substitute for professional medical, psychological, or legal advice. If you are experiencing abuse or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified professional or local emergency services. Episode Highlights 00:00 – Introduction & Trigger Warning 01:13 – Meet Mercedes 04:00 – Life before the relationship 07:00 – Meeting him & the first warning signs 12:00 – Reconnecting & ending her engagement 16:00 – The proposal & moving in together 19:00 – Strange messages & a changing reality 23:00 – Paranormal experiences, fear & sleep deprivation 27:00 – Marriage, COVID & escalating control 31:00 – When the violence became physical 35:00 – The “stalker,” random numbers & paranoia 40:00 – Isolation, gaslighting & questioning herself 45:00 – Pregnancy & psychological abuse 49:00 – Packages, fraud & explicit messages 53:00 – Missing pets & animal abuse 57:00 – Isolation, accusations & being tested 1:00:00 – Giving birth while essentially alone 1:04:44 – Final thoughts & what comes next 💛 If Mercedes’ story resonated with you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who may need to hear it. Every conversation helps break the silence surrounding abuse and manipulation. Next week, Mercedes returns for Part 2 to share what happened when the reality she had been living in finally began to unravel—and what it took to escape. Connect with Sunshine Faye Media 🌐 sunshinefayemedia.com

  2. Sep 3

    E23: Devin's Manipulation Whisperer Episode

    After hearing Devin's powerful survivor story, we take a step back to examine the manipulation hiding beneath the surface. In this episode of Stories We Weren't Supposed to Tell: Manipulation Whisper, we break down the psychological tactics that shaped Devin's childhood and followed him into adulthood. Together, we explore how financial control, moving the goalposts, parentification, silent treatment, triangulation, emotional neglect, unpredictable parenting, and chronic guilt quietly teach children to become caretakers, people-pleasers, and adults who struggle to believe they're enough. One of the most powerful moments comes when Devin unknowingly reveals the wound he carried for yearsand how a simple two-word answer, "Good job," says more about healing than he probably realizes. This episode isn't about blaming parents or assigning labels. It's about giving language to experiences many survivors have lived but never understood. Because once you can recognize the pattern, you can begin to break it. Whether you're healing from childhood emotional abuse, trying to understand why you constantly put everyone else first, or supporting someone on their healing journey, this conversation offers insight, validation, and hope. ⚠️ Trigger WarningThis episode contains discussions of: Emotional abuseChildhood traumaParentificationManipulation tacticsSilent treatmentFinancial controlFamily dysfunctionEmotional neglectMilitary deployment and family separationHypervigilanceMental health and healingPlease listen at your own pace and take breaks if needed. DisclaimerManipulation Whisper is an educational companion series within Stories We Weren't Supposed to Tell. The purpose of these episodes is to help listeners understand common manipulation tactics and trauma responses through real survivor stories. This discussion reflects our interpretations of the experiences shared by our guest and is intended for education and awareness, not to diagnose individuals or replace professional medical, psychological, or legal advice. Episode Highlights00:00 – Introduction & Why This Breakdown Matters 01:10 – Why the Camaro Story Says So Much 04:30 – Why Survivors Minimize Their Own Abuse 08:45 – People-Pleasing, Caretaking & Feeling Like a Burden 13:20 – Financial Control & Moving the Goalposts 18:15 – Walking on Eggshells & Hypervigilance 22:40 – Parentification & Emotional Responsibility 27:15 – Confabulation, Wedding Chaos & Attention Seeking 31:30 – Isolation, Silent Treatment & Boundary Punishment 35:45 – The Role of Healthy Attachment 38:30 – "Maybe She Did..." The Aha Moment 40:10 – Why "Good Job" Was the Most Powerful Answer 💛 If this episode helped put words to something you've experienced, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who may need it. Every conversation helps survivors understand that what they experienced wasn't "normal"—and that healing is possible. Connect with Sunshine Faye Media 🌐 https://sunshinefayemedia.com

  3. Aug 27

    E22: Devin's Episode- Just A Boy And His Camaro.

    In this episode of Stories We Weren't Supposed to Tell, Devin shares what it was like growing up in a home where emotional control, silent treatment, guilt, and manipulation shaped his childhood. Looking back as an adult, he begins connecting the dots between those early experiences and the way they influenced his relationships, self-worth, boundaries, and parenting. Together, we explore childhood conditioning, people-pleasing, hypervigilance, emotional neglect, therapy, meditation, and the courage it takes to break generational cycles. Devin's story is an honest reminder that healing isn't about pretending the past didn't happen—it's about understanding it so it no longer controls your future. Whether you're healing from childhood trauma yourself or trying to better understand someone who is, we hope this conversation reminds you that you're not alone. ⚠️ Trigger Warning This episode contains discussions of: Emotional abuseChildhood traumaFamily dysfunctionManipulationSilent treatmentEmotional neglectDivorceAlcoholismMilitary deployment and combat-related traumaMental healthTherapy and healingPlease listen at your own pace and take breaks if needed. Disclaimer Stories We Weren't Supposed to Tell is a survivor-led podcast created to educate, raise awareness, and encourage healing. The experiences shared in this episode reflect one individual's personal story and should not be used to diagnose yourself or others. This podcast is not a substitute for professional medical, psychological, or legal advice. If you are experiencing abuse or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified professional or local emergency services. Episode Highlights 00:00 – Introduction & Trigger Warning 01:35 – Meet Devin 08:30 – Growing up in a controlling household 18:40 – Divorce, manipulation & childhood memories 28:10 – Being kicked out at fifteen 39:00 – Gifts, control & conditional love 50:30 – Learning to recognize manipulation 58:45 – Family dynamics & sister's wedding 1:07:30 – Silent treatment & walking on eggshells 1:15:00 – Therapy, meditation & healing 1:23:00 – Parenting differently & breaking generational cycles 1:30:00 – Relationships, boundaries & being alone 1:37:30 – What he'd tell his younger self 1:41:00 – Final thoughts & hope for survivors 💛 If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who may need to hear it. Every conversation helps break the silence surrounding emotional abuse and healing. Connect with Sunshine Faye Media 🌐 https://sunshinefayemedia.com

  4. Aug 20

    E21: Randin's Manipulation Whisperer Episode

    In this episode of Stories We Weren't Supposed to Tell: Manipulation Whisper, we step back from Randin's survivor story to examine the manipulation hiding beneath the surface. Together, we break down the psychological tactics that kept her trapped in a cycle of abuse, addiction, and self-doubt. We explore love bombing, future faking, gaslighting, blame shifting, projection, DARVO, JADE, FOG, triangulation, coercive control, financial exploitation, intermittent reinforcement, trauma bonding, emotional blackmail, hypervigilance, and the slow conditioning that made unhealthy feel normal. One of the most powerful moments comes when Randin shares the advice she would give her younger self: "Don't listen to yourself." Not because her intuition was wrong, but because years of trauma, addiction, and manipulation had distorted the way she spoke to herself. That realization becomes a powerful conversation about gratitude, self-talk, rewiring the brain, and learning to replace shame with compassion. This episode isn't about assigning blame or pretending survivors are perfect. It's about understanding how manipulation changes the way we think, why leaving is rarely as simple as walking away, and how accountability and healing can exist together. Whether you're healing from an abusive relationship, struggling with the aftermath of addiction, or trying to understand why you stayed longer than you wanted to, we hope this conversation reminds you that you're not broken you were manipulated. And once you can recognize the pattern, you can begin to break it. ⚠️ Trigger Warning This episode contains discussions of: Domestic violenceEmotional abuseManipulation tacticsGaslightingTrauma bondingStrangulationAddiction and recoveryInfidelityFinancial exploitationCoercive controlEmotional blackmailHypervigilanceMental healthGrief and healingPlease listen at your own pace and take breaks if needed. Disclaimer Manipulation Whisper is an educational companion series within Stories We Weren't Supposed to Tell. These episodes explore common manipulation tactics and trauma responses through real survivor stories to educate, raise awareness, and encourage healing. The perspectives shared reflect our interpretation of the experiences described by our guest and are intended for educational purposes only. They should not be used to diagnose yourself or others and are not a substitute for professional medical, psychological, or legal advice. Episode Highlights 00:00 – Introduction & Why This Breakdown Matters 01:22 – Love Bombing & Future Faking 07:15 – Gaslighting, Blame Shifting & Projection 13:10 – DARVO, JADE & FOG 22:45 – Triangulation & Emotional Blackmail 30:10 – Financial Exploitation & Coercive Control 38:30 – Hypervigilance, Intermittent Reinforcement & Trauma Bonds 43:50 – Accountability vs. Abuse 46:00 – "Don't Listen to Yourself" & Rewiring Your Inner Voice 💛 If this episode helped put words to something you've experienced, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who may need to hear it. Every conversation helps survivors understand that what they experienced wasn't love it was manipulation. And healing is always possible. Connect with Sunshine Faye Media 🌐 https://sunshinefayemedia.com

  5. Aug 13

    E20: Randin's Episode- I Thought I Deserved It.

    In this episode of Stories We Weren't Supposed to Tell, Randin shares the deeply personal story of the abusive relationship that forever changed her life. From addiction and trauma to love bombing, manipulation, repeated violence, and ultimately becoming the father of her daughter, she opens up about the cycle that kept pulling her back and what it finally took to break free. Together, we explore trauma bonding, coercive control, gaslighting, strangulation, addiction, pregnancy, the justice system, recovery, and the complicated grief that comes with losing someone who both loved and harmed you. Randin reflects on the choices she made, the shame she carried, and how healing allowed her to reclaim her life and become the woman she is today. Whether you've experienced domestic violence, struggled with addiction, or are trying to understand why leaving an abusive relationship isn't as simple as walking away, we hope this conversation reminds you that healing is possible and that your past does not define your future. ⚠️ Trigger Warning This episode contains discussions of: Domestic violenceStrangulationTrauma bondingLove bombingEmotional abuseGaslighting and manipulationAddiction and substance usePregnancy during abuseIncarcerationGrief and homicideMental health and recoveryPlease listen at your own pace and take breaks if needed. DisclaimerStories We Weren't Supposed to Tell is a survivor-led podcast created to educate, raise awareness, and encourage healing. The experiences shared in this episode reflect one individual's personal story and should not be used to diagnose yourself or others. This podcast is not a substitute for professional medical, psychological, or legal advice. If you are experiencing abuse or are in crisis, please seek support from a qualified professional or local emergency services. Episode Highlights00:00 – Introduction & Trigger Warning 01:26 – Meet Randin 08:45 – Love bombing & the beginning of the relationship 20:30 – The first lies, manipulation & betrayal 34:30 – Violence begins to escalate 48:00 – Trauma bonds, addiction & staying stuck 1:05:00 – Pregnancy, strangulation & surviving abuse 1:25:00 – Recovery, rebuilding & becoming a mother 1:40:00 – Steven's death & complicated grief 1:50:00 – What healing looks like today 💛 If this episode resonated with you, please subscribe, leave a review, and share it with someone who may need to hear it. Every conversation helps break the silence surrounding abuse, addiction, and healing. Connect with Sunshine Faye Media 🌐 https://sunshinefayemedia.com

  6. Aug 6

    E19: Gayleen's Manipulation Whisperer Episode

    This conversation breaks down the manipulation, abuse, and survival patterns hidden throughout Gayleen's story. Randin and Krystle explore how childhood boundary violations, grooming, love bombing, surveillance, minimization, intimidation, sexual coercion, trauma bonding, future faking, and fear conditioning shaped Gayleen's beliefs about herself and the relationships she accepted. They also discuss the fixer trap, self-worth, boundaries, healing, and the powerful moment Gayleen began seeing herself through a different lens. Through honest conversation, they reveal how manipulation changes not only how survivors see others, but how they see themselves and why naming these tactics is often the first step toward healing. TakeawaysAbuse often begins with boundary testing, grooming, and normalization, not physical violence.Love bombing, surveillance, minimization, and intimidation are powerful tools of control.Trauma bonds are strengthened through intermittent reinforcement and cycles of hope and disappointment.Future faking keeps survivors invested in potential rather than reality.Self-blame and low self-worth can become internalized long after the abuse ends.Being a fixer can keep people trapped in unhealthy relationships for years.Boundaries are essential for healing, even when they feel uncomfortable.Healing is not linear; it requires self-awareness, honesty, and choosing yourself repeatedly.Chapters00:00 The Manipulation Hidden in Plain Sight 08:12 Grooming, Boundary Testing, and Love Bombing 14:27 Surveillance, Control, and Walking on Eggshells 19:48 Minimization, Intimidation, and Sexual Coercion 25:36 Trauma Bonds and Intermittent Reinforcement 31:18 Future Faking and False Hope 35:42 The Fixer Trap and Self-Sacrifice 42:15 Self-Blame, Worthiness, and Internalized Messages 48:51 Boundaries, Healing, and Choosing Yourself 55:24 Get Up: The Turning Point Toward Recovery

  7. Jul 30

    E18: Gayleen's Episode- She Saves Everyone but Herself.

    In this episode, Gayleen shares her journey through childhood trauma, abuse, addiction, and recovery. She reflects on growing up in a fractured family, the lasting impact of not being believed when she spoke up, and the patterns that followed her into adulthood. Gayleen opens up about domestic violence, gang culture, meth addiction, incarceration, and the difficult road to rebuilding her life. Along the way, she discusses the role self-worth played in her choices, the lessons learned through survival, and what ultimately helped her break free from the cycles that kept her stuck. This conversation explores resilience, healing, recovery, and the courage it takes to start over. Gayleen's story is a powerful reminder that your past does not define your future, and that hope can exist even in life's darkest moments. Takeaways • The lasting impact of childhood trauma and not being believed • How abuse and addiction can become intertwined • The role self-worth plays in relationships and recovery • Why healing requires both honesty and self-compassion • Hope, resilience, and life after survival Chapters 00:00 Introduction 01:35 Gayleen's Story Begins 09:32 Finding Her Voice 16:07 Self-Worth and Survival 21:31 Early Signs of Abuse 28:21 Addiction and Escaping Reality 38:45 Recovery and Accountability 46:12 Leaving and Starting Over 52:30 Healing Through Motherhood 55:14 Life After Survival

  8. Jul 23

    E17: Teresa's Manipulation Whisperer Episode

    The conversation dives into the harrowing story of manipulation, abuse, and control experienced by Teresa. It explores the insidious tactics used to groom, isolate, and trap her in a cycle of trauma and dependency. The narrative sheds light on the devastating impact of emotional and physical abuse, as well as the complexities of leaving an abusive relationship. Takeaways Emotional attachment and conditioning play a significant role in maintaining control over the victim.Isolation, financial control, and substance abuse are key tools used to perpetuate the cycle of abuse. Chapters 00:00 The Manipulation Whisperer08:48 Isolation and Financial Control15:32 Conditioning and Learned Entrapment23:12 Substance Use and Tracking29:06 Normalization of Abuse

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Welcome to Stories We Weren’t Supposed to Tell. This is a survivor led podcast where we speak the truth about abuse, manipulation, and what it really takes to rebuild your life after it. These aren’t watered down stories. These are real experiences from real people who lived it, survived it, and chose to tell it anyway. You’ll hear the patterns most people miss love bombing, gaslighting, control, trauma bonds broken down in a way that finally makes sense. Alongside each story, we dive deeper with The Manipulation Whisperer episodes, connecting the dots between what happened, why it happened, and how to take your power back. This space is for the ones who: – questioned their reality – stayed longer than they should have – are trying to find themselves again And it’s also for the ones watching from the outside the friends, the family, the people who have ever asked: “Why didn’t they just leave?” This will help you understand what abuse actually does to a person how it rewires thinking, creates attachment, and makes leaving far more complex than it looks. You’re not crazy. You’re not alone. And you’re not the only one this happened to. If you’ve ever felt like something wasn’t right but couldn’t explain why… this podcast will give you the words for it. And once you see it, you won’t unsee it. Sunshine Faye ☀️

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  • Creator
    Sunshine Faye
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    24
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 Sunshine Faye