Stories We Weren't Supposed To Tell

Sunshine Faye
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Welcome to Stories We Weren’t Supposed to Tell. This is a survivor led podcast where we speak the truth about abuse, manipulation, and what it really takes to rebuild your life after it. These aren’t watered down stories. These are real experiences from real people who lived it, survived it, and chose to tell it anyway. You’ll hear the patterns most people miss love bombing, gaslighting, control, trauma bonds broken down in a way that finally makes sense. Alongside each story, we dive deeper with The Manipulation Whisperer episodes, connecting the dots between what happened, why it happened, and how to take your power back. This space is for the ones who: – questioned their reality – stayed longer than they should have – are trying to find themselves again And it’s also for the ones watching from the outside the friends, the family, the people who have ever asked: “Why didn’t they just leave?” This will help you understand what abuse actually does to a person how it rewires thinking, creates attachment, and makes leaving far more complex than it looks. You’re not crazy. You’re not alone. And you’re not the only one this happened to. If you’ve ever felt like something wasn’t right but couldn’t explain why… this podcast will give you the words for it. And once you see it, you won’t unsee it. Sunshine Faye ☀️

  1. 1d ago

    Gayleen's Episode- She Saves Everyone but Herself.

    In this episode, Gayleen shares her journey through childhood trauma, abuse, addiction, and recovery. She reflects on growing up in a fractured family, the lasting impact of not being believed when she spoke up, and the patterns that followed her into adulthood. Gayleen opens up about domestic violence, gang culture, meth addiction, incarceration, and the difficult road to rebuilding her life. Along the way, she discusses the role self-worth played in her choices, the lessons learned through survival, and what ultimately helped her break free from the cycles that kept her stuck. This conversation explores resilience, healing, recovery, and the courage it takes to start over. Gayleen's story is a powerful reminder that your past does not define your future, and that hope can exist even in life's darkest moments. Takeaways • The lasting impact of childhood trauma and not being believed • How abuse and addiction can become intertwined • The role self-worth plays in relationships and recovery • Why healing requires both honesty and self-compassion • Hope, resilience, and life after survival Chapters 00:00 Introduction 01:35 Gayleen's Story Begins 09:32 Finding Her Voice 16:07 Self-Worth and Survival 21:31 Early Signs of Abuse 28:21 Addiction and Escaping Reality 38:45 Recovery and Accountability 46:12 Leaving and Starting Over 52:30 Healing Through Motherhood 55:14 Life After Survival

  2. Jul 23

    Teresa's Manipulation Whisperer Episode

    The conversation dives into the harrowing story of manipulation, abuse, and control experienced by Teresa. It explores the insidious tactics used to groom, isolate, and trap her in a cycle of trauma and dependency. The narrative sheds light on the devastating impact of emotional and physical abuse, as well as the complexities of leaving an abusive relationship. Takeaways Emotional attachment and conditioning play a significant role in maintaining control over the victim.Isolation, financial control, and substance abuse are key tools used to perpetuate the cycle of abuse. Chapters 00:00 The Manipulation Whisperer08:48 Isolation and Financial Control15:32 Conditioning and Learned Entrapment23:12 Substance Use and Tracking29:06 Normalization of Abuse

  3. Jul 16

    Teresa's Story- She Took Back Control

    The episode tells a story into the speaker's journey of overcoming trauma, the impact of past experiences on present choices, and the progression of an abusive relationship. It explores the dynamics of raising children, dealing with trauma and mental health, early work relationships, red flags, building trust, recognizing unhealthy patterns, marriage and family dynamics, control and isolation, escalation of abuse and substance use, life after leaving and returning, and the first experience of physical abuse. The conversation covers the early signs of abuse, discovery of meth use, forced drug use and abuse, attempts to escape, protecting the child, hiding and survival, violence and police involvement, law enforcement and victim blaming, pivotal moment and escape, recovery and therapy, support and healing, choosing self-care, and encouragement to the broken self. The interviewee shares her journey through trauma bonds, addiction, and the impact of childhood abuse on her acceptance of abuse in adulthood. Takeaways Overcoming trauma and finding strengthThe impact of past experiences on present choices Trauma bonds and addiction can trap individuals in abusive relationships.The impact of childhood abuse can influence acceptance of abuse in adulthood. Chapters 00:00 First Experience of Physical Abuse37:01 Forced Drug Use and Abuse42:50 Violence and Police Involvement49:17 Pivotal Moment and Escape55:03 Support and Healing01:03:44 Choosing Self-Care

  4. Jul 10

    Dovah's Manipulation Whisperer Episode

    Randin and Krystle break down the impact of trauma and manipulation on an individual's life, highlighting the use of various tactics such as gaslighting, coercion, and medical neglect. It also emphasizes the importance of boundary-setting and self-advocacy in the healing process. Takeaways Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) is an effective emotional survival toolkit for regulating emotions and setting boundaries.Manipulation tactics such as gaslighting, DARVO, and medical neglect have a profound impact on survivors, leading to self-doubt and trauma responses. Chapters 00:00 Understanding Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)12:06 Impact of Gaslighting and Coercive Control21:33 The Use of DARVO and Smear Campaigns31:17 Medical Neglect and Self-Advocacy43:04 Challenges with Boundaries and Autonomy• • 50:24 Surviving and Overcoming Trauma

  5. Jul 2

    Dovah's Story- They Didn't Break Me

    The conversation begins with an introduction and the sharing of a personal story, leading into a discussion about the chaotic and oppressive childhood environment. This segues into the feeling of being unsafe and unprotected, followed by the impact of trauma on the teenage years. The coping mechanisms and misunderstandings are explored, leading to a discussion about the physical and mental health effects of trauma. The conversation covers the journey of belief, relief, and the importance of advocating for oneself. It delves into mental health abbreviations, disorders, and the diagnosis of functional neurological disorder. The discussion also explores struggles, survival, healing, and self-discovery, along with the impact of generational trauma and the importance of spirituality in life transformation. Takeaways Generational trauma impactSurviving childhood traumaPhysical and mental health effects of trauma Advocating for oneself is crucialUnderstanding mental health abbreviations Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Personal Story10:02 Impact of Trauma on Teenage Years25:03 Coping Mechanisms and Misunderstandings32:04 Physical and Mental Health Effects39:08 Belief and Relief45:23 Life Changes and Family Dynamics54:23 Healing and Self-Discovery01:00:27 Generational Trauma and Understanding01:06:48 Personal Growth and Confidence01:12:24 Life Transformation and Spirituality

  6. Jun 25

    Mia's Manipulation Whisperer Episode

    Randin and krystle go deep into the experience of recognizing and overcoming manipulation, coercion, and boundary erosion in relationships. It highlights the importance of self-love, healing, and understanding self-worth, as well as the impact of conditioning, gaslighting, and fear-based control. The narrative also explores survival planning, clarity, and the journey of learning and growth. Takeaways Recognizing manipulation and coercion in relationshipsThe importance of self-love, healing, and understanding self-worth Chapters 00:00 Recognizing Manipulation11:53 Boundary Erosion and Coercion22:01 Self-Love and Healing28:29 Conditioning and Gaslighting34:29 Fear-Based Control and Intimidation40:43 Physical Control and Intimidation48:22 Survival Planning and Healing55:21 Clarity and Self-Realization

  7. Jun 18

    Mia's Story- The Princess who Slayed her Dragon

    Randin tells Krystle the horrifying story into Mia's journey as a single mom, her experience with abuse and manipulation, and the power of self-healing. It explores the impact of past abuse, the recognition of red flags, and the escalation of abuse in relationships. The importance of self-worth, boundaries, and the decision to leave are highlighted, emphasizing the transformative journey of healing and self-discovery. Takeaways Surviving abuse and manipulationThe power of self-healing Chapters 00:00 Maya's Story: A Mother's Struggle 01:57 Navigating Relationships: The Tinder Experience 04:39 Red Flags and Manipulation 06:44 Escalation of Control and Abuse 09:59 The Cycle of Abuse: Understanding the Dynamics 12:32 Physical Violence and Its Impact 15:10 Isolation and the Illusion of Control 16:41 Resources and Support for Victims 18:27 Conclusion and Reflection 25:12 Breaking the Cycle of Abuse 30:25 Finding Clarity and Strength in Adversity 32:03 The Journey of Self-Discovery and Healing 39:44 Embracing Worth and Personal Power 42:55 Understanding the Gravity of Domestic Violence 44:27 Resources and Support for Survivors

  8. Jun 11

    Cliff's Manipulation Whisperer Episode

    Randin and Krystle discuss the predatory behavior of stepfathers targeting vulnerable single mothers, the grooming process, the impact on the children, the role of the mother, and the journey of healing and closure for the survivor. Takeaways Predatory behavior targets vulnerable single mothersGrooming process involves gifts, appearance, and positioning as a stable adultSurvivor's journey involves acknowledging the bad and finding closureHealing involves training the nervous system to relax and allowing something differentEnding on a positive note can change one's demeanor Chapters Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Context Setting 01:51 Targeting Vulnerable Individuals 04:25 Grooming and Manipulation Techniques 09:23 The Impact of Neglect and Abuse 13:34 Survival Mode and Coping Mechanisms 18:48 Family Dynamics and Enabling Behaviors 23:26 Healing and Moving Forward 26:58 Understanding Abuse and Its Impact 28:57 Resilience and Healing in the Face of Trauma

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Welcome to Stories We Weren’t Supposed to Tell. This is a survivor led podcast where we speak the truth about abuse, manipulation, and what it really takes to rebuild your life after it. These aren’t watered down stories. These are real experiences from real people who lived it, survived it, and chose to tell it anyway. You’ll hear the patterns most people miss love bombing, gaslighting, control, trauma bonds broken down in a way that finally makes sense. Alongside each story, we dive deeper with The Manipulation Whisperer episodes, connecting the dots between what happened, why it happened, and how to take your power back. This space is for the ones who: – questioned their reality – stayed longer than they should have – are trying to find themselves again And it’s also for the ones watching from the outside the friends, the family, the people who have ever asked: “Why didn’t they just leave?” This will help you understand what abuse actually does to a person how it rewires thinking, creates attachment, and makes leaving far more complex than it looks. You’re not crazy. You’re not alone. And you’re not the only one this happened to. If you’ve ever felt like something wasn’t right but couldn’t explain why… this podcast will give you the words for it. And once you see it, you won’t unsee it. Sunshine Faye ☀️

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  • Creator
    Sunshine Faye
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    18
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Sunshine Faye