Ern and TaTa

Ernest Holmon
  • 5.0 (2)
  • Relationships

After 15 years of marriage and raising a blended family of 9 kids, Ernest and Tyera bring honest conversations about love, conflict, growth, parenting, and everything in between—without the sugarcoating. From viral relationship debates to everyday situations couples actually face, nothing is off limits. You’ll hear both perspectives—the male and female point of view—sometimes aligned, sometimes completely opposite… but always real. Whether it’s communication issues, trust, finances, modern dating standards, or “who’s really right,” this podcast challenges how people think about relationships today. If you’ve ever said “that’s exactly how it is in my house,” this is the podcast for you.

Episodes

  1. When intimacy leaves the relationship

    2d ago

    When intimacy leaves the relationship

    In this episode of the Ern & TaTa Podcast, we tackle a topic that many couples experience but don't always talk about openly: What happens when intimacy leaves a relationship? Is it a sign that the relationship is over, or is it simply a season that couples must work through together? Ern and TaTa share their honest thoughts and personal experiences on why intimacy can fade over time, the common reasons couples drift apart physically and emotionally, and what can be done to reconnect before it's too late. From the pressures of parenting and everyday life to communication breakdowns, stress, resentment, and changing priorities, we explore the factors that can impact intimacy in long-term relationships and marriages. More importantly, we discuss practical ways couples can rebuild connection, strengthen their bond, and create space for affection, vulnerability, and romance again. Whether you're currently struggling with intimacy, have overcome those challenges, or simply want to strengthen your relationship, this conversation is for you. 💬 Have you ever experienced a season where intimacy faded in your relationship? How did you handle it? Let us know in the comments below. 🔔 Don't forget to Like, Subscribe, and Share for more real conversations about love, marriage, family, and relationships. #ErnAndTaTa #Marriage #Relationships #Love #Intimacy #Couples #RelationshipAdvice #MarriageTalk #Communication #Podcast #Family #Dating #MarriageMatters #LoveAndRelationships #fyp #ernandiso4president

    28 min
  2. Kehlani's "Folded" Hit Too Close to Home? | Our Make Up to Break Up Story

    4d ago

    Kehlani's "Folded" Hit Too Close to Home? | Our Make Up to Break Up Story

    Have you ever listened to a song and felt like the artist was telling your story? In this episode of the Ern & TaTa Podcast, we break down Kehlani's emotional song Folded and discuss why the message resonates with so many people in relationships. From communication breakdowns and emotional distance to love, forgiveness, and reconciliation, the song opens the door to a deeper conversation about what really happens behind closed doors in long-term relationships. Ern and TaTa also get personal as they share stories from their own marriage, including some of their biggest disagreements, the moments that almost pushed them apart, and the lessons they've learned from their own "make up to break up" experiences. Can love survive repeated conflict? How do you know when to fight for a relationship and when to walk away? And why do certain songs seem to capture emotions we struggle to put into words? Join the conversation as we unpack all of that and more. 💬 Have you ever had a "make up to break up" relationship? Let us know in the comments! 👍 Like, Share & Subscribe to support the channel. 🔔 New episodes of the Ern & TaTa Podcast drop regularly. #Kehlani #Folded #ErnAndTaTa #RelationshipPodcast #MarriageTalk #RelationshipAdvice #LoveAndMarriage #CouplesPodcast #CommunicationInRelationships #BlackLove #PodcastLife #fyp #ernandiso4president

    25 min
  3. Why Do You DO That?! | Married Couple Pet Peeves

    May 29

    Why Do You DO That?! | Married Couple Pet Peeves

    What happens when two people who have been together for years finally sit down and talk about all the little things that drive them crazy about each other? 😂 In this episode of the Ern & TaTa Podcast, we dive into the funny, frustrating, and surprisingly relatable world of relationship pet peeves. From stealing food off each other's plates and leaving things where they don't belong to annoying phone habits and those little quirks that somehow become bigger over time, nothing is off limits. The truth is, every couple has habits that get under their partner's skin. The real question is: can you laugh about them together? Join Ern and TaTa as they share stories, roast each other, and discover that sometimes the little things create the funniest moments in marriage. In This Episode:The habits that annoy us mostMarriage pet peeves we never expectedFood, phone, and household frustrationsFunny arguments couples haveThings we've learned to accept about each otherWhy love sometimes means tolerating annoying habits 😂 What is YOUR biggest relationship pet peeve? Let us know in the comments! 👍 Like 💬 Comment 📢 Share 🔔 Subscribe Follow the Journey: Instagram: @ernest_and_tyera

    25 min
  4. Relationship Advice we'd tell our younger selves...

    May 26

    Relationship Advice we'd tell our younger selves...

    # **You’d Be Surprised What We’d Tell Our Younger Selves… | Ern & TaTa** In this episode of the **Ern & TaTa Podcast**, the couple sits down for one of their most honest and reflective conversations yet — asking themselves a powerful question: *“What relationship advice would we give our younger selves?”* From love, communication, heartbreak, trust, ego, growth, and marriage… Ern and TaTa look back at the lessons they had to learn the hard way and the things they wish someone would’ve told them earlier. The duo opens up about mistakes, maturity, toxic habits, patience, and what it really takes to build a lasting relationship in today’s world. This episode is funny, heartfelt, emotional, and full of real conversations that couples — and singles — can relate to. Whether you’re dating, married, healing, or just trying to figure relationships out, this conversation might hit closer than expected. 💬 What advice would YOU give your younger self about relationships? Drop it in the comments! ❤️ Like, Comment, Subscribe & Share if you’re rocking with the journey. #ErnAndTaTa #RelationshipAdvice #MarriageTalk #CouplesPodcast #LoveAndRelationships

    43 min
  5. Living Together But Feeling Alone? The Truth About Relationships

    May 22

    Living Together But Feeling Alone? The Truth About Relationships

    In this episode of the Ern & TaTa Podcast, the couple tackles a question that hits deeper than most people admit… can you be in a relationship and still feel lonely? From emotional disconnect, lack of communication, feeling unseen, and simply going through the motions, Ern & TaTa have an honest conversation about the quiet loneliness many people experience while still being “in love.” They speak on marriage, emotional support, companionship, isolation, intimacy, growing apart, and what it really takes to stay connected in long-term relationships. Is loneliness always a sign the relationship is over? Can two people love each other but still fail to understand each other? And how do couples reconnect before resentment takes over? Tap in for another real, vulnerable, and relatable conversation from Ern & TaTa. 💬 Comment below: Have you ever felt lonely while being in a relationship? 📌 Subscribe for more conversations on marriage, relationships, culture, family, and real life discussions. #ErnAndTata #Relationships #MarriageTalk #Loneliness #Love #CouplesPodcast

    54 min
  6. Michael Jackson, Music Taste & Movie Nights

    May 19

    Michael Jackson, Music Taste & Movie Nights

    What happens when two people with completely different music and movie tastes sit down and really talk? 🤔 In this episode of the Ern & TaTa Podcast, the couple opens up about what they’re currently watching, streaming, and listening to right now — from movies and TV shows to the music that’s been in heavy rotation lately. But the conversation really heats up when they dive into the highly talked about MICHAEL movie and give their honest takes on Michael Jackson. TaTa comes in as a passionate lifelong fan, while Ern takes a more skeptical and analytical approach, leading to a deep conversation about Michael’s legacy, fame, family dynamics, pressure, and the complicated conversations that still surround his life today. Is Michael Jackson still misunderstood? Did fame help or hurt him? Can you separate the artist from the controversy? The couple gives raw, honest, and emotional perspectives while also sharing laughs, relationship banter, and personal stories throughout the episode. If you enjoy real conversations, music debates, movie talk, relationship energy, and unfiltered opinions — this episode is for you. 🎙️ Subscribe to the Ern & TaTa Podcast for more real conversations on relationships, culture, music, marriage, and everyday life. 💬 Comment below: What’s YOUR take on Michael Jackson and the new movie? #ErnAndTata #MichaelJackson #MichaelMovie #RelationshipPodcast #CouplesPodcast

    51 min
  7. “Love Languages”

    May 14

    “Love Languages”

    Everybody says they want love… but do they actually know how to GIVE it? ❤️ In this episode of the Ern and TaTa Podcast, the couple dives deep into the world of LOVE LANGUAGES and how different people receive love in completely different ways. From words of affirmation to quality time, physical touch, acts of service, loyalty, consistency, emotional safety, and more — Ern and TaTa break down how misunderstandings in relationships can happen when two people speak different emotional languages. The duo also shares personal experiences from their 15+ year journey together, discussing what makes people feel appreciated, wanted, respected, and emotionally secure in a relationship. Is love enough by itself? Or does understanding HOW your partner receives love matter even more? Topics Discussed: ❤️ The 5 traditional love languages 🗣️ Why communication matters in relationships 💰 Financial security as a love language 🧠 Emotional safety and feeling understood 😂 Roasting, joking, and sharing memes in relationships ⏳ Quality time vs. simply being present 💔 What happens when love languages don’t align 💍 Lessons learned through marriage and growth Whether you’re dating, married, healing, or trying to better understand your partner — this conversation is for you. LIKE 👍 COMMENT 💬 SUBSCRIBE 🔔 📺 Available on YouTube and all podcast platforms. #LoveLanguages #Relationships #Marriage #DatingAdvice #ErnAndTata #Podcast #CouplesPodcast

    44 min
  8. Single Mothers Edition | Mother’s Day Special 💐

    May 12

    Single Mothers Edition | Mother’s Day Special 💐

    Single Mothers Edition | Mother’s Day Special 💐 In this special Mother’s Day episode of the Ern & TaTa Podcast, the couple dives into the realities, pressures, sacrifices, and emotional weight carried by single mothers. TaTa opens up about her personal experiences raising children as a single mom before marriage, while Ern reflects on what it was like being raised by a single mother and the things he understands now as an adult that he didn’t see as a child. The duo discusses: * the emotional burnout many single mothers face * balancing work, bills, childcare, and survival * the lack of support systems * how children are affected by single-parent households * why many mothers feel unseen and underappreciated * and the difference between surviving and truly living This episode isn’t about judgment. It’s about understanding, empathy, and honest conversation. Happy Mother’s Day to all the mothers, grandmothers, stepmothers, and women doing their best every single day. ❤️ LIKE • COMMENT • SUBSCRIBE #MothersDay #SingleMothers #Relationships #Parenting #Marriage #Podcast #ErnAndTaTa #Family #Love #fyp

    45 min
  9. The Marriage Hot Seat 🔥 Part 2

    May 7

    The Marriage Hot Seat 🔥 Part 2

    We’re back in The Marriage Hot Seat… and this time it gets even deeper. In Part 2, Ern & TaTa tackle the questions that most couples avoid—the ones that force you to reflect, be honest, and really look at your relationship from the inside out. After 15 years of marriage, growth, challenges, and building a blended family, this conversation goes beyond surface-level love and gets into what it actually takes to stay together. 🧠 Deep Questions We Answer: How have we changed since we first met?What did marriage teach us that we didn’t expect?What did we have to unlearn to make this work?How do we keep choosing each other after all these years? 🎯 Hot Seat Questions (No Filter): What almost broke our marriage—but made it stronger?What’s something you NEVER tell your spouse… but probably should?If we met today, would we still choose each other?What’s the real secret to staying married this long?Who was right in our biggest argument ever? 👀What’s something we love about each other… but never say out loud? This isn’t just a conversation—it’s real insight into love, growth, accountability, and what it takes to build something that lasts. 💬 Now we want to hear from YOU: Which question hit the hardest? And how would YOU answer it? 👍 Like, Comment & Subscribe for more real conversations 📲 Follow us: @ernest_and_tyera 🔥 HASHTAGS#MarriageHotSeat #ErnandTaTa #RelationshipTalk #MarriageRealTalk #BlackLove #CouplesPodcast #LoveAndMarriage #RealConversations #RelationshipAdvice #PodcastClips #fyp #ernandiso4president

    54 min
  10. The Marriage Hot Seat 🔥 Part 1

    May 5

    The Marriage Hot Seat 🔥 Part 1

    What happens when real questions meet a real marriage? 👀 In this episode of Ern & TaTa, we step into The Marriage Hot Seat and answer some of the most honest, uncomfortable, and thought-provoking relationship questions. Nothing is off limits. From love, respect, and communication… to the things couples don’t always say out loud—this conversation gets real FAST. Whether you’re married, in a relationship, or just trying to understand one, this is the kind of dialogue you don’t want to miss. 🔥 Topics we touch on: Love vs respect in a marriageThe little things that turn into big argumentsReal-life relationship challengesHonesty, growth, and accountabilityThe questions couples usually avoid This is Part 1 of The Marriage Hot Seat—and it only gets deeper from here. 💬 Join the conversation: Answer the questions in the comments—let’s see where y’all stand. 👍 Like, Comment & Subscribe if you appreciate real conversations like this 📲 Follow us for more: Instagram: @ernest_and_tyera #MarriageHotSeat #ErnandTaTa #RelationshipTalk #MarriageRealTalk #CouplesPodcast #LoveAndMarriage #RealConversations #BlackLove #PodcastClips #RelationshipAdvice #fyp #ernandiso4president

    58 min
  11. “Right Person, Wrong Time”

    Apr 30

    “Right Person, Wrong Time”

    Can you really meet the right person at the wrong time… or is that just something we tell ourselves to make sense of it? In this episode of Ern & TaTa, the couple reacts to a powerful soliloquy from a content creator breaking down the idea of “Right Person, Wrong Time.” It’s emotional, it’s real, and it hits home. But Ern & TaTa don’t just react—they unpack it from lived experience. They share personal moments from their own journey where timing may have played a role in love, growth, and connection… and challenge the idea of whether timing is truly the problem—or if something deeper is at play. To close it out, the duo reacts to another creator who gives a bold take on what actually ruins relationships. Is it communication? Ego? Timing? Or something most people overlook? This is one of those conversations that might have you rethinking your past—and your future. 👉 Tap in, join the conversation, and let us know: Have you ever experienced “Right Person, Wrong Time”?

    36 min
  12. Love is...

    Apr 28

    Love is...

    What is love… really? In the debut episode of Ern & TaTa, Ernest and Tyera sit down to define love from their own real-life experience—15 years of marriage, a blended family of 9 kids, and everything that comes with it. This isn’t the fairytale version. This is the real version. They break down what love actually looks like over time, how it changes, what people get wrong about it, and the difference between what sounds good… and what actually works in real life. From personal perspectives to honest disagreements, this episode sets the tone for a podcast built on truth, experience, and conversations most couples avoid. If you’ve ever questioned what love really means—or if what you’re experiencing is even love—this is where the conversation starts.

    1h 5m
  • 12 Episodes

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After 15 years of marriage and raising a blended family of 9 kids, Ernest and Tyera bring honest conversations about love, conflict, growth, parenting, and everything in between—without the sugarcoating. From viral relationship debates to everyday situations couples actually face, nothing is off limits. You’ll hear both perspectives—the male and female point of view—sometimes aligned, sometimes completely opposite… but always real. Whether it’s communication issues, trust, finances, modern dating standards, or “who’s really right,” this podcast challenges how people think about relationships today. If you’ve ever said “that’s exactly how it is in my house,” this is the podcast for you.

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  • Creator
    Ernest Holmon
  • Years Active
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  • Episodes
    12
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © Copyright 2026 Ernest Holmon
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