The Mentor Sessions

BigMike Coyle
  • 5.0 (3)
  • Kids & Family

The Mentor Sessions is a podcast about the people who shape us—and the responsibility we carry to do the same for others. None of us become who we are on our own. Behind every leader, every parent, every builder, every person striving for something more… there was someone who took the time to guide them. In each episode, BigMike sits down with people from all walks of life—leaders, veterans, coaches, entrepreneurs, and everyday individuals with extraordinary stories—to uncover the mentors who changed their lives, the lessons they carry forward, and the wisdom they’re passing on. These aren’t surface-level conversations. These are real discussions about: Connection and belongingLeadership and responsibilityResilience, failure, and growthPurpose, identity, and legacyThe moments—and people—that define us If you’ve ever had a mentor… needed one… or felt the pull to become one—this is your place. Because none of us walk the path alone.

Episodes

  1. 3d ago

    From Kentucky Farms to Idaho Football Fields: Lessons on Discipline and Resilience

    Most successful coaches and mentors aren’t just the ones with fancy titles—they’re the ones who teach through life, challenge through honesty, and push us to be more than we thought possible. Tony Cade’s journey from Kentucky childhood to Idaho coaching legend reveals the power of discipline, authenticity, and relentless resilience in shaping the next generation—and himself.Imagine a coach calling you “average” to ignite your drive rather than crush your spirit. Tony shares how tough love, built on trust and rapport, turns ordinary players into extraordinary achievers. He breaks down the significance of honest feedback, the impact of real mentorship, and why adversity isn’t your enemy—it's your greatest lesson. You'll discover the philosophy behind inspiring kids to rise above setbacks, how to build genuine relationships that foster trust, and why embracing failure is the secret to unstoppable success.This episode is a masterclass for coaches, educators, parents, and anyone who believes that true mentorship is about serving others before yourself. Tony’s stories from coaching in small-town Kentucky to leading teams through adversity in Idaho are packed with concrete tactics, powerful lessons, and honest reflections. Whether you’re a teacher, a parent, or a leader, you’ll come away inspired to lead with passion, stand firm in your values, and lift others as you climb.Why does the cycle of hardship persist in many lives? How can you foster resilience in a world that often rewards softness? Tony’s insights show that toughness—coupled with compassion and integrity—can rewrite the narrative for generations to come. Every setback, he explains, is an opportunity to teach what truly matters: accountability, perseverance, and service.Tune in if you’re ready to challenge conventional wisdom, learn from a coach who’s lived the hard lessons, and discover how to build a legacy of strength and kindness. Perfect for mentors, teachers, and anyone committed to making a difference—this is your chance to see how real leaders turn adversity into victory, one life at a time.Tony Cade is a veteran educator and coach with over 27 years of experience shaping young minds on and off the field. His background in football, juvenile justice, and community service fuels his passion for mentoring today’s youth and tomorrow’s leaders.Get ready for a conversation that will inspire you to be your best self, push past obstacles, and serve others with authenticity and resilience. Because greatness isn’t about never falling—it’s about rising every time we do.

    1h 20m

  2. Jun 5

    From Ranch Life to Law Enforcement: How Early Lessons Still Guide Today's Leaders

    The conversation with Darin Durfey covers his journey, life lessons, career path, personal growth, mentorship, leadership, and his experience with running for sheriff. Darin shares insights into his background, impactful experiences, and the challenges of leadership and defeat. The conversation delves into the themes of preparing for the next step, defining success, mentoring the next generation, advocating for opportunities, acknowledging mentors, transparency and openness, and gratitude and appreciation. It explores the generational differences in defining success, the impact of hardship on perspective, and the importance of sharing knowledge and mentorship. The conversation emphasizes the significance of integrity, open communication, and the influence of family and mentors in shaping one's career and values. Takeaways Career journey and life lessonsPersonal growth and mentorship Generational differences in defining successImportance of mentorship and sharing knowledge Chapters 00:00 The Journey of Darin Durfey13:52 Personal Growth and Mentorship21:09 Leadership and Sheriff Candidacy31:48 Preparing for the Next Step38:47 Mentoring the Next Generation47:38 Advocating for Opportunities54:26 Acknowledging Mentors01:00:38 Gratitude and Appreciation

    1h 1m

  3. May 28

    The Unexpected Power of Just Two True Friends in a Life Full of Acquaintances

    The conversation delves into the impact of supportive mentors and family members, the challenges of parenting, and the transformative power of martial arts and sports. It highlights the profound influence of mentors and family members on personal growth, the importance of maintaining a strong support system, and the positive impact of martial arts and sports on character development. The conversation delves into the impact of emotional decision-making and the consequences of failure, highlighting the importance of mentors and support systems in guiding individuals through challenging times. Takeaways Supportive mentors and family members can have a profound impact on personal growth and development.Parenting challenges and the importance of maintaining a strong support system.The transformative power of martial arts and sports in shaping character and providing a positive outlet for personal growth. Emotional decision-makingThe impact of failureThe importance of mentors and support systems Chapters 00:00 The Transformative Power of Martial Arts and Sports39:58 Emotional Decision-Making and the Impact of Failure53:10 The Role of Mentors and Support Systems

    1h 15m

  4. Apr 29

    Overcoming Trauma to be a Present Father

    The conversation delves into the Justin's early life, military service, challenges of fatherhood, impact of trauma, and the role of mentorship and guidance in personal growth. It explores the themes of resilience, healing, and the importance of supportive networks in navigating life's challenges. The conversation covers the journey of finding purpose in videography, building a meaningful relationship with a follower, reaching out to someone in need, building a family, overcoming personal struggles, dealing with loneliness and mental health, the power of listening and support, the journey to recovery and self-improvement, using daily messages for personal motivation, seeking brotherhood and camaraderie, overcoming challenges in football and life, and representing yourself and your team. The conversation delves into the importance of building a family bond within a sports team and the growth and mentorship experienced in the journey of a Marine Corps veteran. It highlights the impact of relationships and mentorship on personal and professional development. Takeaways Mentorship and guidance from influential figuresImpact of trauma and the journey to healing The power of human connectionOvercoming personal struggles Family bondGrowth and mentorship Chapters 00:00 Early Life and Influential Figures05:21 Challenges of Fatherhood and Emotional Expression19:31 Shared Experiences and Support Networks30:23 Mentorship and Personal Growth42:47 Finding Inspiration and Mentorship in Unexpected Places48:36 Reaching Out to Someone in Need55:20 Overcoming Personal Struggles and Seeking Help01:02:11 Using Daily Messages for Personal Motivation01:07:22 Overcoming Challenges in Football and Life01:16:31 Representing Yourself and Your Team01:31:31 Building a Family Bond

    2h 7m
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The Mentor Sessions is a podcast about the people who shape us—and the responsibility we carry to do the same for others. None of us become who we are on our own. Behind every leader, every parent, every builder, every person striving for something more… there was someone who took the time to guide them. In each episode, BigMike sits down with people from all walks of life—leaders, veterans, coaches, entrepreneurs, and everyday individuals with extraordinary stories—to uncover the mentors who changed their lives, the lessons they carry forward, and the wisdom they’re passing on. These aren’t surface-level conversations. These are real discussions about: Connection and belongingLeadership and responsibilityResilience, failure, and growthPurpose, identity, and legacyThe moments—and people—that define us If you’ve ever had a mentor… needed one… or felt the pull to become one—this is your place. Because none of us walk the path alone.

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  • Creator
    BigMike Coyle
  • Years Active
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  • Episodes
    4
  • Rating
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    © 2026 BigMike Coyle
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