Real Talk Real Healing

Desi & Lisa
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Real Talk Real Healing is a space for honest conversations about the human experience. In a world filled with filters and surface-level messages, we believe healing begins with truth and a little bit of magic. Through raw stories, authentic dialogue, and uncomfortable but necessary conversations, we explore the full range of emotions, energetics, spirituality, and physical well-being that come with being human. Because real healing isn’t about perfection, it’s about honesty, awareness, and the courage to grow.

  1. 1d ago

    Episode 13 : The Protectors We Create to Survive: Why You're Not Actually a People Pleaser, Perfectionist, or "Too Much"

    Have you ever stopped and wondered… Am I actually this anxious… this independent… this people-pleasing… or did I become this because it felt safer? In this episode, we're exploring the protective parts of ourselves that were created long before we had the words to explain them. These aren't personality flaws—they're survival strategies. Episode Summary As children, we couldn't change our environment, so we changed ourselves. We became who we needed to be to feel safe, loved, accepted, or to avoid getting hurt. Over time, those adaptations became the identities we carried into adulthood—the people pleaser, the perfectionist, the overachiever, the strong one, the hyper-independent. In this episode, Desi explores how these protectors are formed, why they're still running the show, and how healing isn't about getting rid of them—it's about understanding them with compassion. Because when you move from shame to curiosity, your authentic self finally has room to emerge. What You'll Hear • What protectors are and why every child develops them • How your nervous system creates survival strategies to keep you safe • Why people-pleasing, perfectionism, overachievement, hyper-independence, and emotional shutdown aren't personality traits—they're adaptations • The powerful question every child asks: "What do I need to become to be loved, accepted, or avoid getting hurt?" • Why your nervous system keeps using old strategies, even when you're no longer in danger • The difference between your authentic self and your protective self • Why healing isn't about fighting your protectors—it's about helping them feel safe enough to soften • How curiosity creates lasting healing 🌿 Ready to Go Deeper? If today's episode felt like it was describing your life, know that you don't have to navigate this healing journey alone. Inner Child Haven is my 4-month healing container where we gently uncover the protective patterns you've been carrying, reconnect with your inner child, and create lasting safety from within. This isn't about fixing yourself—it's about understanding yourself with compassion and coming home to who you've always been. 🤍 Book a Connection Call We'll have a conversation, hear your story, and explore whether Inner Child Haven is the right next step for your healing journey. Hang out and follow us on IG! Leave a review, screenshot & DM us on IG - Enter to win a 30 min session with Desi (Akashic reading) and Lisa (Oracle Card or Birth Chart Reading)

    22 min

  2. Jul 1

    Episode 12: Astrology Update with Lisa - What the cosmos are Activating for You Right Now (Full Moon in Capricorn & Jupiter in Leo)

    Lisa is flying solo this episode — and she's bringing the cosmic weather report you didn't know you needed. With the full moon currently in Capricorn and Jupiter making a major move into Leo, there is a lot shifting in the sky right now — and it's affecting every single one of us. Whether you're brand new to astrology or you've been reading your horoscope since the magazine days, this episode breaks it all down in a way that's relatable, practical, and genuinely eye-opening. In this episode: What your sun, moon, and rising signs actually mean — and why your rising sign is the most important one for reading horoscopes - Look up your Birth Chart hereHow the moon affects your emotions, your body, and your 28-day cycleWhat the full moon in Capricorn is asking you to release, reflect on, and realign with — especially mid-yearWhy Jupiter moving into Leo is a BIG deal and what it means for creativity, confidence, romance, and expansionMini horoscopes for every rising sign — where this full moon and Jupiter in Leo are activating YOUR chart specificallyFull moon in Capricorn journal prompts: Where is my energy and focus since my January new moon intention?Have I made real progress — and where have I been sabotaging my own goals?What can I release or forgive right now?What can I do today that my future self will thank me for?This is your cosmic permission slip to reflect, release, and step into the second half of the year with clarity and confidence. ✨ 🎙️ Real Talk Real Healing — Solo episode with Lisa Resources & Links: 🔮 Book a Birth Chart reading or Oracle Card Reading with Lisa✨ Ask about synastry readings for you and your partner📧 Get on Lisa's new moon & full moon email list — DM to be addedFree Midweek Reset - once per month!🌀 Instant Shift — Lisa's new 5-week beta program is launching soon with limited spots. Reach out now to learn more📲 Find us at Real Talk Real Healing Podcast on Instagram⭐ Leave us a review to win a session with both Lisa & DesiShare what you enjoyed for this episode and if you want more astrology updates!! Hang out and follow us on IG! Leave a review, screenshot & DM us on IG - Enter to win a 30 min session with Desi (Akashic reading) and Lisa (Oracle Card or Birth Chart Reading)

    50 min

  3. Jun 24

    Episode 11: Celebrating Non-Traditional Milestones: Why Healing, Boundaries & Small Wins Deserve a Celebration Too

    We're taught to only celebrate the "big" stuff — graduations, weddings, promotions, buying a house. But what about the boundary you finally set? The toxic relationship you walked away from? The morning you got out of bed and showed up for yourself even though it was hard? This week, Lisa and Desi are celebrating 10 episodes and 150+ downloads across multiple countries (!) — and using that milestone as a launchpad into a conversation about why we struggle to celebrate ourselves, and how to start. In this episode, we cover: 🎉 Celebrating 10 episodes and 150+ downloads across the globeWhy society only teaches us to celebrate "big" milestones (graduation, marriage, promotions, kids)The non-traditional milestones that deserve celebration too: healing through hard seasons, setting boundaries, leaving toxic relationships, showing up consistentlyWhy we struggle to celebrate ourselves — productivity culture, comparison, and chasing the next goalThe celebration frequency: how receiving and gratitude open you up to manifesting moreEmotional milestones worth celebrating: responding instead of reacting, asking for help, releasing old labels, trusting yourself more deeplyCreating your own celebration rituals — big or smallLisa's celebration: completing 40 days of 3:30am morning sadhana practice as part of her kundalini certificationDesi's celebration: 90 women signing up for Sacred Return, Little Girl, Big HealingReflection Questions: What growth have I been overlooking?Where am I minimizing my progress?What am I celebrating this week?Connect with us: 📲 Real Talk Real Healing Podcast on Instagram — DM us what you're celebrating this week and we'll feature you on our story! ⭐ Leave us a review for a chance to win an Akashic reading + astrology reading 💬 Got a topic you want us to cover? Send it our way! Hang out and follow us on IG! Leave a review, screenshot & DM us on IG - Enter to win a 30 min session with Desi (Akashic reading) and Lisa (Oracle Card or Birth Chart Reading)

    37 min

  4. Jun 17

    Episode 10 - Why Healing Should Feel Like Play: Inner Child, Masks, & Coming Back to Joy

    We've made healing feel way too heavy — and this episode is the permission slip to change that. Lisa and Desi get into one of the most important (and most overlooked) parts of the healing journey: play. Not as a reward for doing the work, but as the work itself. Because somewhere between growing up and getting responsible, most of us stopped doing the things that made us feel most alive — and our inner child is still waiting for us to come back. In this episode: Why healing isn't just shadow work and therapy — it's joy, laughter, and getting on the swingsWhat your inner child actually is (hint: it's not just your five-year-old self)The masks we started wearing at 7-9 years old — and how they're still running the show todayPeople pleasing, perfectionism, overachieving, "I don't care" — which one is yours?How to reparent yourself without blaming your parentsReal talk: what happens when your inner child gets triggered at work in real timeSimple, intentional ways to bring play back into your actual lifeJournal prompts from this episode: What brings me genuine joy?When was the last time I played just for fun?What masks from childhood am I still wearing?At some point, healing becomes less about fixing yourself and more about fully living your life. This episode is that reminder. Sign up for Sacred Return - Desi's free event that is going on right now!!  Hang out and follow us on IG! Leave a review, screenshot & DM us on IG - Enter to win a 30 min session with Desi (Akashic reading) and Lisa (Oracle Card or Birth Chart Reading)

    51 min

  5. Jun 10

    Episode 9: Your Voice, Your Truth, Your Healing :The Cost of Staying Silent

    In this episode, Desi and Lisa explore the powerful connection between healing, self-trust, and using your voice. They dive into why so many women suppress their emotions, needs, and truth, and what happens when those feelings remain unexpressed. Together, they discuss the conditioning that teaches us to stay quiet, the fear of being judged or misunderstood, and the impact emotional repression can have on our bodies, relationships, and overall well-being. This conversation is an invitation to stop abandoning yourself, start honoring your truth, and recognize that using your voice is one of the most powerful healing tools you have. What You'll Hear • Why speaking your truth matters for healing and personal growth • The connection between your voice and self-trust • Why so many people suppress their emotions and needs • Fear of rejection, conflict, and being misunderstood • What happens in the body when emotions are not expressed • "The Body Keeps the Score" and how emotional suppression can create dis-ease • Why emotions are energy in motion and are meant to be felt and expressed • The cost of staying silent: resentment, burnout, disconnection, and people-pleasing • Practical ways to begin using your voice in everyday life • How honesty creates deeper relationships, stronger boundaries, and more alignment Reflection Questions • What truth am I afraid to express? • What would change if I trusted my voice more? We're extending our giveaway through the end of June 🤍 Leave a rating or review for the podcast and get entered to win: • A 30-minute Akashic Records session with Desi • A 30-minute Birth Chart Reading or Oracle Reading with Lisa To enter: Leave a reviewScreenshot itDM us on Instagram @real.talk.real.healing.podcastIf this conversation resonates with you, we'd love to invite you to join us for Sacred Return on 6/14/2026.  Sacred Return is a FREE 8 day live online healing experience for women who are ready to slow down, reconnect with themselves, and return to the little girl within. Through inner child healing, nervous system regulation, breathwork, and guided healing practices, you'll learn how to feel safer, softer, and more at home within yourself.  Hang out and follow us on IG! Leave a review, screenshot & DM us on IG - Enter to win a 30 min session with Desi (Akashic reading) and Lisa (Oracle Card or Birth Chart Reading)

    50 min

  6. Jun 3

    Episode 8: Triggers Are Teachers: What Your Emotional Reactions Are Trying to Tell You

    Have you ever reacted to something and immediately thought, "Why did that bother me so much?" In this heartfelt and honest conversation, Lisa and Desi dive deep into the world of emotional triggers and why they're often about so much more than the moment we're experiencing. Triggers aren't signs that something is wrong with you. They're invitations to explore unresolved emotions, unmet needs, and wounds that may still be asking for your attention and healing. In this episode, we explore: • What triggers actually are (and what they're not) • Why your emotional reactions often have roots in past experiences and childhood wounds • How your inner child influences your responses today • The difference between reacting and responding • Common trigger patterns like people-pleasing, conflict avoidance, fear of rejection, and emotional reactivity • Practical steps to work through triggers in real time • How to use self-awareness, curiosity, and self-compassion to create lasting change Through personal stories, real-life examples, and vulnerable reflections from our own healing journeys, we invite you to see your triggers through a new lens—not as something to fear or fix, but as powerful messengers guiding you toward deeper healing. Reflection Questions: ✨ What trigger keeps showing up in your life? ✨ What might it be trying to teach you? ✨ How would your life change if you responded instead of reacted? Remember: your triggers are not your enemy. They may just be pointing you toward the healing you've been ready for all along. Connect with us on Instagram @real.talk.real.healing.podcast and don't forget to leave a review, share this episode with a friend, and enter our podcast giveaway! SIGN UP FOR DESI'S FREE EVENT: Sacred Return: Virtual Journey - Little Girl, Big Exhale Hang out and follow us on IG! Leave a review, screenshot & DM us on IG - Enter to win a 30 min session with Desi (Akashic reading) and Lisa (Oracle Card or Birth Chart Reading)

    47 min

  7. May 27

    Episode 7: When You're Pushing Your Edges: Creation, Rejection, and Coming Back to Yourself

    This week Lisa and Desi get into the messy, beautiful, uncomfortable truth of creating something new — whether that's a business, a relationship, a new version of yourself, or all of the above. What comes up when you start pushing your edges? Everything that's been waiting to be seen. Desi gets real about the fear of rejection, her inner child work, and what happens when you're running an online event, detoxing from sugar, and hitting burnout all at the same time. Lisa holds space, they do a live "feeler" together, and they talk about what it actually looks like to honor yourself even when it feels like letting people down. In this episode: Why creation always brings up your unhealed parts (on purpose)Inner child work and the fiction we write when someone might say noWhat a "feeler" is and how to use it with the people in your life (outline below!)Energy, vibration, and how you show up in everything you doMicro practices to get back into alignment on hard daysDesi's upcoming free event: Little Girl, Big Healing (June 14–26)Growth doesn't happen in the comfort zone — and neither does this podcast. Come be human with us. ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------- The "Feeler" Practice A structured space for someone to fully feel their emotions and be witnessed without response or advice. How It Works One person asks for a "feeler" — the other agrees to hold space. The holder's only job is to be present, not to respond, fix, or advise. Setting the Container Take a few breaths together to arrive and settleThe holder sets a timer for 2–5 minutes based on what is neededThe space should feel safe, supportive, and loving — no interruptions, no reactionsThe Feels / Expressing emotions freely Timer starts — the person speaks freely on whatever they're feeling or thinkingNo filtering, no performance — just full expressionThe holder stays present and silent, offering their energy as supportClosing the Loop When the timer goes off, the holder asks: "Do you feel complete?"If yes → close with a few grounding breaths togetherIf no → extend for another 2–3 minutes if possible, then close with breathLet us know if you try the practice or reach out if you would like for one of us to support you in the practice!  ------------------------------------------------------------- Join Desi's FREE LIVE Event! Sign up here!! (6/14-6/26) ----------------------------------------------------------- 🎁 Giveaway Reminder We’re extending our giveaway through the end of June 🤍 Leave a rating or review for the podcast and get entered to win: • A 30-min Akashic Records session with Desi • A 30-min Birth Chart or Oracle Reading with Lisa To enter: Leave a reviewScreenshot itDM us on IG @real.talk.real.healing.podcastIf this episode resonates, share it with someone who’s stepping into something new. Follow along and leave a review to support the podcast 🤍 Hang out and follow us on IG! Leave a review, screenshot & DM us on IG - Enter to win a 30 min session with Desi (Akashic reading) and Lisa (Oracle Card or Birth Chart Reading)

    53 min

  8. May 20

    Episode 6: The Fear, The Feels & The Launch of Real Talk, Real Healing

    We're keeping it raw and real — this episode was recorded just two weeks before our launch, and we are IN it. The nerves. The excitement. The imposter syndrome. The "wait, why did we sign up for this again?" moments. All of it. We're talking about what it actually feels like to step into something big — to put your voice, your truth, and your most vulnerable self out into the world. Spoiler: it's terrifying. And we're doing it anyway. Because the mission has to be bigger than the fear. In this episode we get into: Why visibility feels so scary (even for coaches & healers)Imposter syndrome, comparison,a and the stories our minds tell usWhat recommitment actually looks like when you want to quitWhy being a mentor doesn't mean having it all figured outThe importance of having a hype girl in your corner 💗How to come back to your intention when fear takes the wheelThis one is for every woman who's ever asked herself "does anyone even care?" and did it anyway. We see you. We ARE you. 🎁 Giveaway Reminder We’re extending our giveaway through the end of June 🤍 Leave a rating or review for the podcast and get entered to win: • A 30-min Akashic Records session with Desi • A 30-min Birth Chart or Oracle Reading with Lisa To enter: Leave a reviewScreenshot itDM us on IG @real.talk.real.healing.podcastIf this episode resonates, share it with someone who’s stepping into something new. Follow along and leave a review to support the podcast 🤍 Hang out and follow us on IG! Leave a review, screenshot & DM us on IG - Enter to win a 30 min session with Desi (Akashic reading) and Lisa (Oracle Card or Birth Chart Reading)

    52 min
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Real Talk Real Healing is a space for honest conversations about the human experience. In a world filled with filters and surface-level messages, we believe healing begins with truth and a little bit of magic. Through raw stories, authentic dialogue, and uncomfortable but necessary conversations, we explore the full range of emotions, energetics, spirituality, and physical well-being that come with being human. Because real healing isn’t about perfection, it’s about honesty, awareness, and the courage to grow.

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    Desi & Lisa
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