Snatched Up

Jennifer Clancy and Amber Hartley
  • 5.0 (19)
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Snatched Up is the unfiltered podcast for women who've lived through some shit & learned to laugh about most of it. Hosted by Jenn Clancy & Amber Hartley — two single moms, two best friends, two careers we're proud of, & zero successful relationships between us — yet. Every week we're talking about the things your group chat won't shut up about: relationships & dating in real time, money, single mom life, blended family chaos, health, hormones, the 3 a.m. wake-ups, the Target parking lot meltdowns, & the "is this normal or do I need therapy" conversations. (Spoiler: it's always both.) We've made the mistakes — most of them twice — & spent a small fortune on therapy so you don't have to. We're not pretending we have it figured out. We're just further along than yesterday, & we want to bring you with us. Some weeks we'll make you think. Some weeks we'll make you cry. Most weeks, we'll make you laugh so hard you'll have to pull over. Welcome to Snatched Up. Let's get into it.

  1. 4d ago

    I'm Tired of Being Tired

    This week on Snatched Up, Jenn and Amber are talking about the kind of exhaustion sleep doesn't always fix: mental load, decision fatigue, overstimulation, burnout, and the invisible list of things constantly running through your brain. Because sometimes it's not the laundry that breaks you — it's remembering the laundry exists, knowing the detergent is low, scheduling the appointment, answering 47 questions, figuring out dinner, and then having someone ask you where the ketchup is. We're also getting real about why we disappeared for a few weeks and why sometimes even the things you love can start to feel like one more responsibility when life is already overflowing. Maybe balance isn't doing everything consistently. Maybe it's deciding what gets dropped for a minute — and refusing to feel guilty about it. Jenn and Amber dig into the mental load women often carry, the difference between someone "helping" versus actually owning a responsibility, weaponized incompetence versus different standards, being overstimulated and touched out, and why exhausted adults sometimes stay up way too late just because nighttime is finally theirs. And because this is Snatched Up, we're not turning burnout into another wellness assignment. We're talking about realistic resets, lowering the standard on purpose, letting some things be "good enough," and asking the most important question of adulthood: chef for life or personal assistant for life? If you've ever turned the radio off because one more sound might send you over the edge, ordered takeout because you physically could not make another decision, or stayed awake scrolling even though you were exhausted… this episode is for you.

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  3. Aug 19

    Money Matters

    This week on Snatched Up, Jenn and Amber are talking about something that can make or break a relationship faster than almost anything else: money. In Episode 13: Money Matters, we're getting into the conversations couples sometimes avoid until they absolutely can't — spending habits, debt, income, budgeting, financial independence, combining finances, and what happens when two people have completely different relationships with money. How much should you disclose when you start dating? When does someone else's debt become your concern? Should couples combine everything, keep separate accounts, or do a little of both? And what happens when one person is a saver while the other treats Amazon Prime like a financial strategy? We're also talking about the bigger issues underneath the numbers: trust, communication, control, expectations, lifestyle, and the importance of knowing exactly what you're signing up for before love starts making financial decisions on your behalf. Whether you're single, dating, divorced, rebuilding, or already sharing a checking account with somebody, this episode is a reminder that financial compatibility matters — and avoiding the conversation doesn't make the numbers disappear. Grab your coffee, your calculator, and maybe your latest credit card statement. It's time to talk Money Matters.

  4. Aug 7

    Amber Alert

    Amber didn't ask for this... but the internet definitely showed up anyway. After Jenn jokingly posted that she was taking applications to find her best friend a man, the video exploded—61,000 Instagram views and 56,000 TikTok views, with thousands of likes, comments, and hundreds of "qualified" (and very questionable) applicants. In this hilarious episode of Snatched Up, Jenn officially becomes Amber's self-appointed dating recruiter. The ladies break down the viral response, review some of the best (and worst) applicants, debate what actually makes someone relationship material, and reveal the non-negotiables every single woman should have. From man hands to fish pictures, gym selfies, widowers, beards, and everything in between, nothing is off limits. If you've ever survived online dating, this episode will have you laughing, nodding your head, and wondering if romance should require an actual application. Warning: Side effects may include laughing out loud, questioning humanity, and wanting to submit your own application.

  5. Jul 17

    Dating with Witnesses

    Dating is complicated enough—but when you have kids, you are not just choosing a partner. You are choosing someone who could eventually become part of your children's lives. In this episode, Jenn and Amber are joined in person by Sarah Zipfel, a Licensed Professional Counselor with a master's degree in professional counseling. Sarah specializes in relationships, trauma, codependency, and helping people heal from toxic relationships. Together, they tackle the questions every single parent eventually faces: When should your kids know you are dating? How long should you wait before introducing someone? Should your children get a vote? What happens when they hate the person you are dating—or when two sets of kids do not get along? They also dig into sleepovers, discipline, house rules, different parenting styles, moving in together, and the biggest mistakes parents make when blending families. Because when you date as a parent, there are always witnesses—and sometimes those witnesses have very strong opinions. Listen now, follow Snatched Up, and share this episode with a single parent trying to date without emotionally traumatizing the entire household.

  6. Jul 8

    The Dating Aisle

    Dating after 40 is not for the weak — especially when the apps are terrifying, the green flags are hard to find, and someone suggests going to Home Depot on a Friday morning to meet available men. In this episode of Snatched Up, Jenn and Amber step into The Dating Aisle and talk about dating in the wild, pickleball green flag events, Home Depot O-ring experiments, golf course bar strategies, and the chaos of trying to meet men organically. Jenn shares that she is single again, but not quite ready to date. After a big move, a lot of personal and professional transition, and a recent autoimmune flare-up, she is focusing on healing, health, and honoring where she is instead of rushing back out there. She also opens up about falling hard for someone amazing, while recognizing that timing and real-life circumstances matter. Amber brings the laughs with her latest dating update, including a recent make-out session at Toy Story 5 and the realization that she may need to be honest about the podcast upfront when dating. This episode is funny, honest, a little unhinged, and full of real talk about dating while healing, meeting men in the wild, knowing when you're ready, and deciding what's snatched or sketched in the modern dating world. Follow Snatched Up on TikTok and Instagram for clips, behind-the-scenes chaos, and all the dating experiments we probably should not be trusted with. Until next time, stay Snatched Up.

  7. Jul 8

    Unhinged, Unfiltered & Uncut!!

    In Episode 9, Jenn and Amber are going completely unhinged, unfiltered, and uncut. No script, no filter, and possibly no responsible adult in sight. This episode is all about letting you get to know the real women behind Snatched Up - the friendship, the chaos, the hot takes, the things we probably should not say out loud but absolutely do anyway. We're answering hilarious, personal and slightly dangerous questions about dating, motherhood, hormones, body image, friendship, red flags, green flags, and what happens when two women with big personalities, big opinions, and even bigger group chats sit down with microphones.

  8. Jun 25

    Hot Shots & Hot Flashes

    I'm 46, hotter than I've ever been, and my body is proving it at 3am. This week we're getting into the stuff nobody warned us about — the shots, the hormones, and the bodies we've been fighting our whole lives. Jenn opens up about gaining weight at 25 with undiagnosed PCOS running in the background, two miscarriages at 42 and 43, and what it's like to land in perimenopause while dating younger men and figuring out if she's even supposed to tell them. Amber gets real about carrying weight since puberty, doing everything "right" for decades, and what it means that a weekly injection did what none of it could. We're talking GLP-1s and the judgment that comes with them, HRT and the fear that scared women away from it for 20 years, and the question every woman is quietly asking herself: am I treating my body, reclaiming it, or just caving to a world that was never going to be satisfied anyway? No lectures. No medical advice. Just two best friends telling you the truth — and reminding you that you're not crazy, and you're not alone. Plus a rapid-fire round of Snatched Up or Sketched Out you're going to want to argue with us about. Follow us on TikTok & Instagram @snatcheduppodcast and tell your group chat. 💕

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Snatched Up is the unfiltered podcast for women who've lived through some shit & learned to laugh about most of it. Hosted by Jenn Clancy & Amber Hartley — two single moms, two best friends, two careers we're proud of, & zero successful relationships between us — yet. Every week we're talking about the things your group chat won't shut up about: relationships & dating in real time, money, single mom life, blended family chaos, health, hormones, the 3 a.m. wake-ups, the Target parking lot meltdowns, & the "is this normal or do I need therapy" conversations. (Spoiler: it's always both.) We've made the mistakes — most of them twice — & spent a small fortune on therapy so you don't have to. We're not pretending we have it figured out. We're just further along than yesterday, & we want to bring you with us. Some weeks we'll make you think. Some weeks we'll make you cry. Most weeks, we'll make you laugh so hard you'll have to pull over. Welcome to Snatched Up. Let's get into it.

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  • Creator
    Jennifer Clancy and Amber Hartley
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    16
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2025
  • Show Website
    Snatched Up

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