The Rhythm of Money

Indigo Dutton

The Rhythm of Money is a podcast for women who want to be clear and capable with money. It's for those ready to build the type of wealth that follows a personal vision of steady success. Hosted by a retired investment advisor and former business consultant, this show starts where most money conversations skip past: the nervous system, old beliefs, avoidance, quiet shame, and the emotional patterns that have been shaping financial choices long before any spreadsheet entered the picture. Money isn't only math. It's also rhythm, safety, attention, timing, and trust. From the first episode, The Rhythm of Money offers a steady place to begin again, with practical insight, emotional honesty, and a compassionate yet effective way to build financial thriving over time. The podcast is built as a progression, with each episode building on the last, so be sure to subscribe, and we'll build this together. The Rhythm of Money. Living Your True Note.

  1. Episode 5

    The Missing Language of Money - S1E5

    You can understand exactly why your financial life isn't quite where you want it to be. You can name the patterns, recognize where they came from, and still find that something in you sidesteps the accounts, defers the decisions, and keeps the real picture slightly out of focus. That gap, between what the mind understands and what the body does, is where most financial change quietly stalls out. This episode is about starting to close that gap. In this episode, we introduce the work of psychologist Eugene Gendlin, whose decades-long study of what actually makes people change revealed something almost no one talks about. The decisions that shape a financial life are not made on spreadsheets. They are made in the body, in the moment of contact, before language gets there. And if you can't hear what your body is telling you in those moments, you are making decisions in the dark. We begin to change that. You will learn what your body's financial signals actually are, why they are worth listening to, and how to begin recognizing them in four common money situations. This is the first layer of a language your body has been speaking your entire life. Today is Day One of learning your personal alphabet. This show builds on itself. Start with Episode 1 if you're new, and follow or subscribe so the next episode finds you. Next week:  You’ll learn how to catch the flinch, the half-second when your body reacts and your mind rushes in to explain, dismiss, or override what you felt.  No financial advice is offered or implied. For guidance specific to your situation, consult a licensed financial professional.

    25 min
  2. Episode 8

    The Cost of Avoidance: How to Stop Paying It - S1E8

    If manifestation hasn’t fixed your relationship with money, it might be because you're fighting a nervous system response. What if ending financial avoidance began with addressing the “energy drain” at its somatic root?  In this episode you’ll learn why financial avoidance can be so hard to stop, especially for midlife women who may have income, responsibility, experience, and intelligence, yet still feel financial anxiety when it’s time to look directly at money.  We’ll look at the connection between high income anxiety, overworking and money, and the hidden energy drain that can keep you avoiding balances, decisions, conversations, or financial tasks. You’ll also learn why financial healing often has to begin in the body, especially when old money fear, pressure, or money trauma keeps your nervous system bracing before you ever take action. 00:00 The hidden cost of avoidance 01:52 When money tasks become charged 04:10 A charged example 05:27 Avoidance uses energy 07:33 What "Focusing" is (And how it shifts avoidance) 08:56 Why money avoidance lives in the body 09:50 The neighbor story and the feeling of being disregarded 13:28 Why inner work doesn't replace outer action 15:25 Guided Focusing practice for releasing financial avoidance 24:10 What to practice this week to anchor this new ability 25:20 What’s coming in the next two episodes  In this episode of The Rhythm of Money, we explore the cost of avoidance, not as a character flaw, but as an energy pattern your body may have learned to repeat. Then we move into a guided practice to help you notice where avoidance lives in your body, soften the charge around it, and begin creating a different relationship with financial clarity.  If this episode names something you recognize in yourself, the most helpful thing you can do for the show right now is leave a rating on Spotify or Apple Podcasts. It takes about thirty seconds, and it helps the show find the next woman who needs it. Thanks so much if you do.   In the next episode, we’ll be looking at how to anchor your day in what sustains you, so there’s less to clear and more to build from. Follow or subscribe so you don’t miss it.  This is The Rhythm of Money. Living your true note. No financial advice is offered or implied. For guidance specific to your situation, consult a licensed financial professional.

    27 min
  3. Episode 9

    The Daily First Receiving Practice S1E9

    What if body awareness didn’t have to begin with a problem? In this episode of The Rhythm of Money, I’m sharing The Daily First Receiving Practice, the simple morning embodiment practice I use to begin the day from awareness, receiving, and gratitude before effort begins. We’ll cover: 1:45 Why Body Awareness Shouldn’t Begin With a Problem 4:15 Building a Habit of Receiving Before All Else 9:15 Guided Practice: The Daily First Receiving Practice 18:30 Weekly Practice: Build an Abundance Money Baseline  This is not the practice you reach for when money has already triggered you. That’s what the Reset is for. The Daily First Receiving Practice is different. It’s something you do when nothing is wrong, before the day starts pulling on you, so your body learns that embodiment isn’t only for crisis. Through light, breath, ground, water, and gratitude, this practice helps you return to your body in an ordinary moment. Over time, that steadier baseline can help you hear your body’s guidance more clearly as you move through financial decisions, daily pressure, and the full rhythm of your life. For midlife women navigating financial anxiety, money avoidance, overthinking, money mindset work, or the pressure to finally look at the full financial picture, this episode offers a simple way to begin from receiving instead of bracing. Comment if you can: What does your body usually receive first in the morning? Dread, pressure, a mental list, quiet, light, or something else?  In the next episode, we’ll sit down with your financial life as it is right now, the full picture. We’ll bring enough steadiness to see what’s there clearly, with everything we’ve built here supporting you as you do. This is The Rhythm of Money. Living your true note. No financial advice is offered or implied. For guidance specific to your situation, consult a licensed financial professional.

    21 min

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The Rhythm of Money is a podcast for women who want to be clear and capable with money. It's for those ready to build the type of wealth that follows a personal vision of steady success. Hosted by a retired investment advisor and former business consultant, this show starts where most money conversations skip past: the nervous system, old beliefs, avoidance, quiet shame, and the emotional patterns that have been shaping financial choices long before any spreadsheet entered the picture. Money isn't only math. It's also rhythm, safety, attention, timing, and trust. From the first episode, The Rhythm of Money offers a steady place to begin again, with practical insight, emotional honesty, and a compassionate yet effective way to build financial thriving over time. The podcast is built as a progression, with each episode building on the last, so be sure to subscribe, and we'll build this together. The Rhythm of Money. Living Your True Note.