Icons of Influence

Sheryl Plouffe

You already know how to build a business. What you need now is a different conversation. Icons of Influence brings together established coaches, consultants, and service providers who are scaling seven-figure enterprises the right way—with integrity-driven systems, AI-powered leverage, and zero tolerance for the kind of performative nonsense that has dominated online business for the last decade. Every episode is a masterclass in what it actually looks like to build something that matters. Not a highlight reel. Not a sales pitch. A real conversation between people who have earned the right to have it. This is the show for founders who are done playing small and done pretending. sherylplouffe.substack.com

  1. How to Turn Claude Into a Thinking Partner, Not a Yes-Machine

    May 8

    How to Turn Claude Into a Thinking Partner, Not a Yes-Machine

    Most people are using AI wrong, and they don’t even know it. They ask Claude a question. Claude gives a confident, well-structured answer. They walk away feeling validated. But here’s what actually happened: Claude told you what you wanted to hear. That’s not a bug. It’s the default. AI models are trained to be helpful, which often means agreeable. And agreeable feels good until you launch the wrong offer, double down on a broken strategy, or miss the blind spot that costs you six months. The fix is simpler than you think. It’s one setting. In Claude’s Personal Preferences field, I wrote this: “Be my strategic sparring partner. Challenge my thinking, name my blind spots, and don’t default to agreement. Push back when I’m rationalizing, avoiding, or chasing shiny objects. But give me room to think and respond — don’t pile on before I’ve had a chance to engage. The goal is sharper thinking, not a beating.” The difference is immediate. Instead of a polished agreement, you get pushback. Instead of Claude completing your thought in the most flattering direction, it names the assumption you didn’t question. How to set it up Desktop: Settings → Profile → Personal Preferences → type your instructions → Save. Mobile: Profile icon → Profile → scroll to Personal Preferences → same thing. It applies to every conversation automatically. No re-prompting. No remembering. One calibration note If your instructions are too aggressive, “be ruthless” or “hurt my feelings,” you’ll get a dynamic that’s more combative than useful. Tune it until it reads like your best advisor on a good day: direct, honest, and on your side even when pushing back. AI is only as useful as the quality of thinking it produces in you. If it’s just confirming what you already believe, you’re not using it; you’re using it to feel better about decisions you’ve already made. Set it up to challenge you.— Sheryl Plouffe This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sherylplouffe.substack.com/subscribe

    2 min
  2. Divorce Isn't a Failure. It's a Turning Point. — with Becky Swanson

    May 7

    Divorce Isn't a Failure. It's a Turning Point. — with Becky Swanson

    Most people navigating divorce focus on surviving it. Becky Swanson built an entire methodology around something more strategic, making sure women don’t walk away from the process having left six figures on the table. Becky is a Certified Divorce Coach and ICF Professional who has carved out a niche at the intersection of emotional intelligence, financial strategy, and legal navigation. She works with women with children going through divorce and has structured her practice around a results-based guarantee; clients protect $100,000 or more in avoidable costs, or the engagement isn’t complete. This is a conversation about building in a category that didn’t fully exist when she started, what it takes to create credibility in an unrecognized profession, and why the most underserved clients are often the most high-stakes. In this episode: * Why paying your attorney to process your emotions is one of the most expensive mistakes divorcing women make * How Becky built a structured, stage-based program with a results guarantee in a space dominated by informal support * What it actually takes to help a client reclaim financial control when they’ve been disengaged from their own money * Why building a vetted referral network is central to her delivery model * The mindset shift that separates women who navigate divorce strategically from those who don’t Connect with Becky Swanson: beckyswanson.com Connect with Sheryl & ICONMAKER®: iconmaker.io This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sherylplouffe.substack.com/subscribe

    16 min
  3. 11/11/2025

    Depth and Trust Outperform Visibility Alone

    There was a time when visibility was everything. Post more.Go live more.Be everywhere. This Substack is reader-supported. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber. That was the mantra.And for a while, it worked. But something has shifted. Audiences have grown wiser. Algorithms have grown louder.And somewhere along the way, trust became the new metric of influence. Today, it’s not about how visible you are.It’s about how deeply people believe you. Visibility Without Depth Is Just Noise We all know someone who looks successful online — great branding, polished Reels, constant content — yet their business isn’t actually growing. They won’t tell you that, of course, because admitting it would break the facade. Many influencers have hundreds of thousands, even millions of followers, but struggle quietly behind the scenes to turn that visibility into real revenue. It’s not because they lack talent or work ethic.It’s because they’ve built their brand on attention instead of trust. Visibility might get you followers, but without depth, it rarely gets you clients. People don’t want more content; they want meaning.They don’t want to be impressed; they want to be understood. Depth doesn’t mean producing more; it means saying something that matters.It means your audience feels safe trusting you because they sense your experience, your evidence, and your honesty. Trust Is the Real Algorithm Trust travels farther than reach. When someone trusts you, they share your message, recommend your programs, and remember you long after the scroll.It’s word-of-mouth in a digital world, and it compounds faster than any paid ad ever could. Trust doesn’t come from declaring authority.It comes from demonstrating alignment between what you say and what you do. As Brené Brown puts it, “Trust is earned in the smallest of moments. It’s not built through heroic deeds or highly visible actions, but through paying attention, listening, and gestures of genuine care and connection.”(The CEO Magazine) That’s true in leadership, and it’s true in marketing.People don’t remember who shouts the loudest; they remember who made them feel seen, understood, and safe to believe. That’s why in today’s marketing world, the entrepreneurs who thrive are the ones who build consistency around their principles, not their promotions. The Depth Advantage Depth gives you staying power. When your authority is rooted in substance and trust, it doesn’t matter what platform changes or what trend fades next week. Your influence holds. Because your audience isn’t following you for entertainment, they’re following you because you know what you’re talking about. They can feel the difference. It’s not about being the newest or the loudest voice in the room. It’s about being the one people turn to when they’re ready for real results. Where to Start If you’ve been feeling pressure to post more but connect less, pause. Ask yourself: “What do I know for sure that genuinely helps people?” Start there.Go deep, not wide. One well-articulated insight can do more for your authority than a month of random content. If you want help defining what that insight looks like for you, try my free GPT tool:👉 Content Planner – Message Clarity Starter It’s designed to help you clarify your message, organize your ideas, and create thought-leadership content that builds depth and trust, the real currency of visibility today. ScaleSmart Insight: Visibility gets attention. Depth earns trust. And trust is what scales. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sherylplouffe.substack.com/subscribe

    5 min
  4. 11/08/2025

    Authority Is Built Through Demonstration, Not Declaration

    I’ve noticed a pattern over the last few years. More and more people are declaring themselves experts, sometimes after reading one book, finishing one course, or spending one weekend learning something new. They hang a shingle.Update their bio.Add “coach,” “consultant,” or “strategist” to their title. And then they wait for the world to believe it. But the truth is, authority doesn’t come from what we declare.It comes from what we demonstrate. The Difference Between Desire and Depth You don’t need 10,000 hours of experience to be an authority at what you do.That’s an outdated idea. But you do need to be able to help someone get a result. That’s the difference between desire and depth. Because wanting to be seen as an expert isn’t the same as becoming one. I see this often with clients.When I ask, “What’s your actual mechanism for getting people results?” they pause. They’ve never been taught to think that way. Most have been told to start with sales and marketing:create an offer, build a funnel, post content, run ads. But few have ever been asked the foundational question: “Do you actually get people results? And how do you do it?” That’s the heart of real authority, not just knowing that you can help people, but how. The Deer-in-Headlights Moment When I ask, “What’s your method? What’s your mechanism? What’s the thing you do that gets people results?” I often get blank stares. Not because they don’t care, but because no one has ever asked them to articulate it. They’ve been busy marketing a message that isn’t yet proven. And that’s exactly where so many entrepreneurs stay stuck.They focus on looking like an expert instead of thinking like one. One of my favorite parts of our work with clients is helping them define their mechanism, to pinpoint exactly how they help people create transformation. When they finally see it clearly, everything shifts.Their confidence rises.Their content gets sharper.Their marketing starts working.Because they’re no longer selling an idea; they’re demonstrating a result. How I Learned This Firsthand When I first entered the online expert space in 2013, I didn’t have a framework.I just had a skill set from my background in broadcasting and video production, and a genuine desire to help people communicate more effectively on camera. Before I ever sold a program, I worked with a few people for free. Not many, just two or three. But those early clients helped me uncover how I helped people succeed. That’s when I developed my first methodology, what I called the 4P Framework: * Plan * Produce * Publish * Promote That simple process became the foundation of my early business. Why This Matters In a world where everyone has a microphone, the people who stand out aren’t the ones shouting the loudest. Your First Demonstration If you’re ready to stop This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit sherylplouffe.substack.com/subscribe

    6 min

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You already know how to build a business. What you need now is a different conversation. Icons of Influence brings together established coaches, consultants, and service providers who are scaling seven-figure enterprises the right way—with integrity-driven systems, AI-powered leverage, and zero tolerance for the kind of performative nonsense that has dominated online business for the last decade. Every episode is a masterclass in what it actually looks like to build something that matters. Not a highlight reel. Not a sales pitch. A real conversation between people who have earned the right to have it. This is the show for founders who are done playing small and done pretending. sherylplouffe.substack.com