The Tiny Big Joys

Paula Jurvanen

WE LOVE THAT YOU HAVE FOUND US, HIT FOLLOW TO ENSURE YOU WON'T MISS THE NEW EPISODES. The Tiny Big Joys is a parenting podcast covering pregnancy, birth, and the first years — built around the questions parents-to-be and new parents are actually asking. Created by the founder of Finland's #1 parenting podcast, each episode brings in a different expert guest, guided by hosts with their own parenting experiences. We're not here to tell you how to parent. We're here to give you the full picture so you can make choices that feel right for your family — without the noise, the guilt, or the conflicting advice. If you found value in the show, the greatest compliment is a share. Please share this to a friend, or post about it in your social media, your word-of-mouth allows us to keep creating content like this. Thank you! thetinybigjoys.com | @thetinybigjoys www.thetinybigjoys.com | @thetinybigjoys The information shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. While we bring you expert voices and real personal stories, the content is not intended as medical advice and should not replace guidance from your own healthcare provider. Every pregnancy, birth, and parenting journey is unique — what works for one family may not be right for another. Always consult a qualified medical professional with any questions or concerns about your health or your baby's wellbeing. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  1. 6h ago

    Gagging, Choking and Allergens: What Parents Actually Need to Know (Part 2)

    Part 2 is the one parents are nervous about. Where Part 1 covered readiness and first vegetables, this one takes on the things that keep people awake: the noise a baby makes that isn’t actually an emergency, the foods that genuinely need care, and the allergens everyone was told to delay for years and now aren’t. Nutritionist Charlotte Stirling-Reed walks through all of it without a single scare tactic — and then gets practical about iron, portions, pouches and the mess. In this episode: ✔️ Gagging versus choking — and why one is loud and red, and the other is silent ✔️ “Loud and red, let them go ahead” ✔️ Why she recommends first aid training before you start weaning ✔️ The choking risk foods, and how to prepare each one so it stays on the menu ✔️ Allergens: why the advice flipped, and what the EAT and LEAP studies found ✔️ Small amount, build up, keep offering — the pattern that maintains tolerance ✔️ What a reaction looks like, mild to severe, and when to call for help ✔️ Salt, sugar and honey: the reasons behind the rules ✔️ Cow’s milk, soft cheeses, eggs and the foods that are really about food poisoning ✔️ What a balanced baby meal looks like, in three parts ✔️ Iron: why it matters so much now, and where to get it without meat ✔️ Vitamin D from birth, and A and C from six months ✔️ Why there are no portion size guidelines — and what to do instead ✔️ Serve small: why a loaded plate backfires with a cautious eater ✔️ Responsive feeding, and the loop of learning you build at every meal ✔️ Teaching a six-month-old to sign “finished” ✔️ Baby food pouches: when they’re exactly right, and how to serve them ✔️ The avocado, banana and peanut butter trick ✔️ The one thing to take away: variety No fear, no pressure. Options to consider, not the way you have to do it. About our guest: Charlotte Stirling-Reed is a Registered Nutritionist and the author of the Sunday Times bestseller How to Wean Your Baby, the UK’s number one weaning book. She began her career in the NHS after degrees in nutrition and human biology and in nutrition and public health, and has since supported thousands of families through her books, her online weaning course and her Instagram community of 370,000 parents. She is mum to Raffy and Ada. Missed Part 1? Signs of readiness, the first meal, veg-led weaning, purées versus baby-led, textures, and why eating together matters more than you’d think. Listen first if you can. Charlotte’s guidance here follows UK recommendations. If you’re listening elsewhere, use your own country’s emergency number and food safety advice. The Tiny Big Joys: Pregnancy & Birth — Questions from Parents Like You is out now on Amazon. Created by founder Paula, it brings together real experiences, expert guidance and some of the most loved conversations from the original podcast series — honest support without pressure, fear or overwhelming advice. Join our newsletter community for a direct line to our team: share comments, suggest topics, and send questions for future guests. https://thetinybigjoys.kit.com/profile If you found value in today's episode, the greatest compliment you can give us is a share. Send it to a friend who needs it, or post about it — your word-of-mouth is what allows us to keep creating content like this. Thank you! www.thetinybigjoys.com | Instagram @thetinybigjoys Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  2. Nov 3

    Is My Baby Ready for Solids? The Three Signs That Actually Matter (Part 1)

    Part 1 is the beginning. Not the fears, not the allergens, not the lists of what to avoid — those come next week. This half is about the part that comes first: working out whether your baby is ready, what you actually put in front of them, and why the broccoli comes before the banana. Charlotte Stirling-Reed is the nutritionist who put vegetables first on the map for a generation of parents, and she is clear that the whole thing rests on one word — confidence. In this episode: ✔️ Why confidence matters more than getting it right ✔️ The three signs of readiness — and why the calendar isn’t one of them ✔️ What to do when the guidance where you live says four months, not six ✔️ The first meal, step by step: one meal a day, one single vegetable ✔️ Why babies are pre-programmed for sweet — and what that means for apple purée ✔️ Veg-led weaning, and the research behind starting with the hard flavours ✔️ The face they pull at broccoli, and why it isn’t a no ✔️ Why a food can take 10, 15, 20 goes before it’s accepted ✔️ Already started with fruit? Why the window hasn’t closed ✔️ Purées or baby-led — and why the NHS has recommended both for years ✔️ Finger foods: the size of an adult finger, soft enough to squash ✔️ Why purée should be a short stage, not the whole first year ✔️ What to do when most of it ends up on the floor ✔️ The step most parents miss: eat with them ✔️ Letting your baby eat off your plate No fear, no pressure. Options to consider, not the way you have to do it. About our guest: Charlotte Stirling-Reed is a Registered Nutritionist and the author of the Sunday Times bestseller How to Wean Your Baby, the UK’s number one weaning book. She began her career in the NHS after degrees in nutrition and human biology and in nutrition and public health, and has since supported thousands of families through her books, her online weaning course and her Instagram community of 370,000 parents. She is mum to Raffy and Ada. Part 2 is next: gagging and choking, allergens, salt, sugar and honey, iron and supplements, portion sizes, and the practical side of feeding a family. Follow the show so you don’t miss it. The Tiny Big Joys: Pregnancy & Birth — Questions from Parents Like You is out now on Amazon. Created by founder Paula, it brings together real experiences, expert guidance and some of the most loved conversations from the original podcast series — honest support without pressure, fear or overwhelming advice. Join our newsletter community for a direct line to our team: share comments, suggest topics, and send questions for future guests. https://thetinybigjoys.kit.com/profile If you found value in today's episode, the greatest compliment you can give us is a share. Send it to a friend who needs it, or post about it — your word-of-mouth is what allows us to keep creating content like this. Thank you! www.thetinybigjoys.com | Instagram @thetinybigjoys Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  3. Oct 27

    Your Early Feeding Questions, Answered (Part 2)

    Part 2 is where the myths come out. Where Part 1 covered the early weeks of latching and weight gain, this one goes further: pumping that works with your body rather than against it, why the old mastitis advice has been turned on its head, and the "thrush" diagnosis that, as Olivia Hinge explains, very often isn't thrush at all. Then she looks ahead to starting solids, moving on from formula, night feeds, and breastfeeding through a new pregnancy. And she ends with a message for the mum who is finding feeding hard right now. In this episode: ✔️ Flange fit: why most of us were given the wrong size, and how to measure ✔️ Pump more often, not longer: frequency matters more than time ✔️ Power pumping vs micro pumping, and which one makes the difference ✔️ Combining pumped milk safely with the pitcher method ✔️ Milk storage at room temperature, in the fridge and in the freezer ✔️ Mastitis: why it's now ice, gentle lymphatic massage and rest, not heat and deep massage ✔️ When mastitis does need a GP and antibiotics ✔️ Blocked ducts explained, and the gentle "breast gymnastics" technique ✔️ The thrush myth, and what burning and itching usually mean instead ✔️ Starting solids: why you don't need to change milk feeds, and why iron matters ✔️ From formula to cow's milk at 12 months, and why follow-on milks aren't needed ✔️ Night feeds and night weaning: there's no magic age ✔️ Breastfeeding through pregnancy, tandem feeding, and sibling connection ✔️ A message for the mum who's finding feeding really hard right now No fear, no pressure. Options to consider, not the way you have to do it. About our guest: Olivia Hinge is an NHS midwife, lactation consultant, author and mum of three. She became a lactation consultant after finding it deeply hard to breastfeed her own first child, even as a midwife, and she now helps families find skilled support early. Missed Part 1? Sleepy babies, tricky latches, tongue tie, weight gain and cluster feeding. Listen first if you can. The Tiny Big Joys: Pregnancy & Birth — Questions from Parents Like You is out now on Amazon. Created by founder Paula, it brings together real experiences, expert guidance and some of the most loved conversations from the original podcast series — honest support without pressure, fear or overwhelming advice. Join our newsletter community for a direct line to our team: share comments, suggest topics, and send questions for future guests. https://thetinybigjoys.kit.com/profile If you found value in today's episode, the greatest compliment you can give us is a share. Send it to a friend who needs it, or post about it — your word-of-mouth is what allows us to keep creating content like this. Thank you! www.thetinybigjoys.com | Instagram @thetinybigjoys Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  4. Oct 20

    Your Early Feeding Questions, Answered (Part 1)

    Olivia Hinge is back, and this time your questions lead the way. Part 1 covers the early weeks of feeding: the sleepy baby who drifts off at the breast, the latch that looks right but still hurts, the weigh-in that leaves you second-guessing, and the evenings when your baby wants to feed on and off for hours. NHS midwife and lactation consultant Olivia Hinge answers each one calmly and practically, and almost every answer starts in the same place: look at the whole picture, not just one moment. In this episode: ✔️ Is my baby's poor sleep because of my milk supply? Where to start ✔️ Helping a sleepy baby feed: skin to skin, no gaps, and the foot-stroke trick ✔️ Breast compressions, the most underrated feeding technique ✔️ When the latch looks good but still hurts, and what to check first ✔️ Tongue tie: why releasing it should be the last piece of the jigsaw ✔️ Assisted births, bodywork, and the gentle power of baby massage ✔️ Normal tenderness or time for help? Clear signs to know ✔️ Chin first, not nose to nipple: a small shift that changes the latch ✔️ A slow return to birth weight, and why big babies sometimes "catch down" ✔️ Topping up: formula, expressed milk, and why triple feeding should be short ✔️ Cluster feeding: why evenings are the hardest, and when to get it checked ✔️ Growth spurts, mental leaps, and why green poos can be perfectly normal No fear, no pressure. Options to consider, not the way you have to do it. About our guest: Olivia Hinge is an NHS midwife, lactation consultant, author and mum of three. Her first episode in our pilot series was one of our most listened-to, so we brought her back to answer the questions you sent in after it. Coming next week, Part 2: pumping and flange fit, milk storage, mastitis and blocked ducts, the thrush myth, starting solids, night feeds, breastfeeding through pregnancy, and Olivia's tiny big joy. The Tiny Big Joys: Pregnancy & Birth — Questions from Parents Like You is out now on Amazon. Created by founder Paula, it brings together real experiences, expert guidance and some of the most loved conversations from the original podcast series — honest support without pressure, fear or overwhelming advice. Join our newsletter community for a direct line to our team: share comments, suggest topics, and send questions for future guests. https://thetinybigjoys.kit.com/profile If you found value in today's episode, the greatest compliment you can give us is a share. Send it to a friend who needs it, or post about it — your word-of-mouth is what allows us to keep creating content like this. Thank you! www.thetinybigjoys.com | Instagram @thetinybigjoys Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  5. Oct 13

    What Can We Actually Do About Baby Sleep? (Part 2)

    Part 2 is the "so what can we actually do?" half. Part 1 was about what's normal. This one is the practical side, with no cry-it-out and no rigid plan. Sleep consultant Lucy Bagwell walks through simple bedtime routines, day and night, nap transitions and every way there is to settle a baby. She also takes on the idea that feeding your baby to sleep is a "bad habit". Then come three real questions from parents: nursery naps for a toddler who's always been fed to sleep, the baby who sleeps in the cot until midnight and then wakes every hour, and the 8.5-month-old with false starts. She is clear that you're not mucking it up. In this episode: ✔️ What working with a holistic sleep consultant actually looks like ✔️ A bedtime routine can be four simple steps, and no element is compulsory, not even the book ✔️ Day and night: why newborns don't need to nap in a blackout room ✔️ Sleep pressure explained, and why a big day of naps shows up at night ✔️ Signs your baby is ready for a nap transition, and why you cap before you drop ✔️ Never make a big change after one bad night ✔️ Listener question: longer first nap or longer second nap at 8.5 months? ✔️ Separation anxiety at bedtime: act like you're never leaving ✔️ How long a bedtime routine needs to be ✔️ Feeding to sleep: biologically normal, very effective, and not a bad habit ✔️ Night weaning, honestly, and why nobody should push you into it ✔️ Listener question: nursery naps for a 13-month-old who's always been fed to sleep ✔️ Listener question: in the cot until midnight, then hourly wakes ✔️ The red flags worth checking: mouth breathing, snoring, feeding discomfort, low iron No fear, no pressure. Options to consider, not the way you have to do it. About our guest: Lucy Bagwell is a certified gentle and holistic infant sleep consultant (Level 6 OCN), mum of two, and founder of Second Star to the Right Sleep. She supports families all over the world through one-to-one consultations, guides and webinars, with no cry-it-out, ever. Her approach looks at the whole child: red flags, feeding, temperament, development and what each family actually wants. Missed Part 1? What normal baby sleep looks like, why babies wake, sleep regressions, high and low sleep needs and the "sleeping through the night" myth. Listen first if you can. The Tiny Big Joys: Pregnancy & Birth — Questions from Parents Like You is out now on Amazon. Created by founder Paula, it brings together real experiences, expert guidance and some of the most loved conversations from the original podcast series — honest support without pressure, fear or overwhelming advice. Join our newsletter community for a direct line to our team: share comments, suggest topics, and send questions for future guests. https://thetinybigjoys.kit.com/profile If you found value in today's episode, the greatest compliment you can give us is a share. Send it to a friend who needs it, or post about it — your word-of-mouth is what allows us to keep creating content like this. Thank you! www.thetinybigjoys.com | Instagram @thetinybigjoys Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  6. Oct 6

    Is My Baby Sleeping Badly, or Is This Normal? (Part 1)

    Part 1 is the "is this normal?" half. Before any tips or techniques, sleep consultant Lucy Bagwell goes back to the question underneath almost every sleep worry: is my baby actually sleeping badly, or is this just what babies are like? She covers the waking, the regressions, the "sleeping through the night" comparisons and the pressure to fix it all by six months, and she is clear about one thing: how your baby sleeps is not a measure of how well you are doing. In this episode: ✔️ What "holistic" sleep support really means, and why how your baby falls asleep isn't the priority ✔️ What normal sleep looks like in the first year: up and down, changeable, and that's okay ✔️ 80% of six- to 18-month-olds wake up to three times a night ✔️ Why babies wake so much, and why needing comfort is a valid need ✔️ Sleep regressions reframed: a heightened need, not a step backwards ✔️ "You give support because they need it, not they need it because you gave it" ✔️ What "sleeping through the night" actually means in the studies ✔️ High and low sleep needs, and why the wake window chart might not fit your baby ✔️ Sleepy or just bored? The "one new thing" test ✔️ Listener question: a baby who wakes every one to three hours ✔️ Sensory seekers, sensitive sleepers and the bedtime chase that changed everything ✔️ Listener question: do naps matter if nights are good? ✔️ Overtiredness, undertiredness, and why we can stop being frightened of a tired baby ✔️ Listener question: what to actually be intentional about in the early months No fear, no pressure. Options to consider, not the way you have to do it. About our guest: Lucy Bagwell is a certified gentle and holistic infant sleep consultant (Level 6 OCN), mum of two, and founder of Second Star to the Right Sleep. Her fascination with sleep began with her own son, and today she supports families all over the world with no cry-it-out, ever. Her approach looks at the whole child: red flags, feeding, temperament, development and what each family actually wants. Coming in Part 2: what you can actually do. Bedtime routines, day and night, nap transitions, settling and feeding to sleep, and whether "bad habits" even exist. The Tiny Big Joys: Pregnancy & Birth — Questions from Parents Like You is out now on Amazon. Created by founder Paula, it brings together real experiences, expert guidance and some of the most loved conversations from the original podcast series — honest support without pressure, fear or overwhelming advice. Join our newsletter community for a direct line to our team: share comments, suggest topics, and send questions for future guests. https://thetinybigjoys.kit.com/profile If you found value in today's episode, the greatest compliment you can give us is a share. Send it to a friend who needs it, or post about it — your word-of-mouth is what allows us to keep creating content like this. Thank you! www.thetinybigjoys.com | Instagram @thetinybigjoys Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  7. Sep 29

    The First Weeks at Home- Newborn Basics Nobody Explains (Part 2)

    Part 2 is the honest half. Where Part 1 covered cord care and car seats, this one covers the things that are harder to ask about: the baby who wakes the second you put him down, the crying that peaks just when you thought things were settling, and the moment — home alone, exhausted — when you feel yourself about to break. Midwife Miranda Sykes gives an exact plan for that moment, and she is clear that it happens to everybody. In this episode: ✔️ Why your baby sleeps on you — and why that's biology, not a bad habit ✔️ Wake windows: hugely popular, and no scientific evidence behind them ✔️ How to swaddle safely, and when to stop ✔️ The crying peak at four to six weeks, and when crying does need checking out ✔️ The step-by-step safety plan for an overwhelmed parent ✔️ Why the visitor conversation belongs at 36 weeks — and the one-hour trick ✔️ What a partner should actually say at 3am ✔️ Building a support network from scratch when your family is far away ✔️ Baby blues or something more? The two-week rule ✔️ Intrusive thoughts, and why almost every parent has them ✔️ Why not feeling instant love is more common than anyone admits ✔️ Grieving a birth that didn't go the way you hoped ✔️ Why recovery takes closer to a year than six weeks ✔️ Why the tracker apps might be doing more harm than good No fear, no pressure. Options to consider, not the way you have to do it. About our guest: Miranda Sykes has worked as an NHS midwife for over a decade — her NHS role is as a specialist midwife in mental health — and founded Midwife Miranda in 2021 to offer families a hybrid model of care alongside their NHS care. She added her lactation consultant qualification a couple of years ago. Much of her work, privately and within the NHS, is what she calls demystifying your newborn. Missed Part 1? Skin to skin, cord care, what's normal and what needs a GP, the car seat myth and the hat myth — listen first if you can. — The Tiny Big Joys: Pregnancy & Birth — Questions from Parents Like You is out now on Amazon. Created by founder Paula, it brings together real experiences, expert guidance and some of the most loved conversations from the original podcast series — honest support without pressure, fear or overwhelming advice. Join our newsletter community for a direct line to our team: share comments, suggest topics, and send questions for future guests. https://thetinybigjoys.kit.com/profile If you found value in today's episode, the greatest compliment you can give us is a share. Send it to a friend who needs it, or post about it — your word-of-mouth is what allows us to keep creating content like this. Thank you! www.thetinybigjoys.com | Instagram @thetinybigjoys Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  8. Sep 22

    The First Weeks at Home- Newborn Basics Nobody Explains (Part 1)

    Host Olivia sits down with Miranda Sykes, a London-based NHS and private midwife and lactation consultant, to answer the questions you sent in about those first few weeks at home with a newborn. Part 1 covers what to ask for before you leave hospital, what the first 24 hours at home really look like, and how much of what worries new parents is simply normal. In this episode: ✔️ The one thing Miranda would prescribe every family going home ✔️ What to actually ask for on the postnatal ward — and why you should film the nappy change ✔️ Why your newborn is a wild Tamagotchi you cannot train, and what red baby and green baby mean ✔️ Cord care, the first bath, and how you'd know if a cord was infected ✔️ Cradle cap, baby acne and nappy rash — what's normal and what needs a GP ✔️ How to dress a newborn, and the two-finger check that beats every rule about layers ✔️ Why you don't legally need a car seat to leave the hospital ✔️ The truth about newborn hats — and why nobody quite knows where the policy came from ✔️ How often a newborn really feeds, and the maths that explains why it feels constant ✔️ Responsive feeding for breast and bottle, and how to read hunger and fullness cues No fear, no pressure. Options to consider, not the way you have to do it. About our guest: Miranda Sykes has worked as an NHS midwife for over a decade and founded Midwife Miranda in 2021 to offer families a hybrid model of care alongside their NHS care. She added her lactation consultant qualification a couple of years ago. Much of her work, privately and within the NHS, is what she calls demystifying your newborn. Resources mentioned: The Lullaby Trust (safer sleep guidance) and UNICEF Baby Friendly's tool "How do I know my baby's getting enough?" Part 2 — sleep, crying, visitors, partner support, mental health and recovery — is out on Tuesday 29th September. The Tiny Big Joys: Pregnancy & Birth — Questions from Parents Like You is out now on Amazon. Created by founder Paula, it brings together real experiences, expert guidance and some of the most loved conversations from the original podcast series — honest support without pressure, fear or overwhelming advice. Join our newsletter community for a direct line to our team: share comments, suggest topics, and send questions for future guests. If you found value in today's episode, the greatest compliment you can give us is a share. Send it to a friend who needs it, or post about it — your word-of-mouth is what allows us to keep creating content like this. Thank you! www.thetinybigjoys.com | Instagram @thetinybigjoys Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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WE LOVE THAT YOU HAVE FOUND US, HIT FOLLOW TO ENSURE YOU WON'T MISS THE NEW EPISODES. The Tiny Big Joys is a parenting podcast covering pregnancy, birth, and the first years — built around the questions parents-to-be and new parents are actually asking. Created by the founder of Finland's #1 parenting podcast, each episode brings in a different expert guest, guided by hosts with their own parenting experiences. We're not here to tell you how to parent. We're here to give you the full picture so you can make choices that feel right for your family — without the noise, the guilt, or the conflicting advice. If you found value in the show, the greatest compliment is a share. Please share this to a friend, or post about it in your social media, your word-of-mouth allows us to keep creating content like this. Thank you! thetinybigjoys.com | @thetinybigjoys www.thetinybigjoys.com | @thetinybigjoys The information shared in this podcast is for educational and informational purposes only. While we bring you expert voices and real personal stories, the content is not intended as medical advice and should not replace guidance from your own healthcare provider. Every pregnancy, birth, and parenting journey is unique — what works for one family may not be right for another. Always consult a qualified medical professional with any questions or concerns about your health or your baby's wellbeing. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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