That Bitch

Kim Arneson
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  • Entrepreneurship

That Bitch is the podcast about becoming her. Real conversations about the moments that made you who you are. The obstacles, the pivots, the choice to say I deserve better and then actually do something about it. The full messy path to choosing your highest vision again and again. For the woman who’s done playing small and living like she’s a big deal because she knows we are all so much more capable than we’ve been told. That bitch didn’t happen overnight, but she was always on her way.

  1. 2d ago

    From NOLA to Texas, Canva to Creative Director: How Abrielle Laurent Built Her Legacy Brand

    She left her job as an assistant principal mid-year, moved to a new city where she knew nobody, bought a house with zero income, and had two kids depending on her. And she did it anyway — on nothing but a vision. Kim sits down with her own creative brand director, Abrielle Laurent, and they go ALL the way in. From growing up in New Orleans to climbing to the top of her education career, leaving it behind to move to Texas, teaching Canva tutorials on Instagram, and evolving into a sought-after creative director and brand strategist — Abrielle's story is a masterclass in choosing yourself before you have the evidence to back it up. This one is for every woman who's been told her pivot doesn't make sense on paper. We cover: • Why Abrielle walked away from a career she'd worked years to build — mid-year, with no plan B • What it actually felt like to move to a new city with no income, two kids, and a husband on the edge of a breakdown • How a pandemic journal side project turned into a full business pivot • The truth about reinventing yourself in public — and why it's harder than it looks • How she went from Canva tutorials to becoming a creative director for top entrepreneurs • The identity shifts required every time you level up (and how to coach yourself through them) • What it means to build a "legacy brand" and uncover your true body of work 0:00 Intro — Meet Abrielle Laurent 2:00 What a "That Bitch" moment actually means 2:45 The decision: leaving assistant principal mid-year 3:45 Moving to Texas with no job, no income, two kids 5:30 The fear of reinventing yourself in public 6:00 No income, new home, and a husband freaking out 7:15 Why she left New Orleans — and what Texas represented 8:00 Moving before you have the evidence 8:15 How Abrielle came into Kim's mastermind 8:45 Teaching Canva on Instagram — where it all started Also search: How to start over in a new city as an entrepreneur Leaving a stable career to start a business How to reinvent yourself when you have no backup plan Building a personal brand from scratch after a career change From teacher to entrepreneur success story 📲 Follow Abrielle Laurent on Instagram 💬 Join the FREE Money Making Queens Telegram 📱 Follow Kim on Instagram #ThatBitchPodcast #MoneyMakingQueens #WomenInBusiness #BrandStrategy #CareerPivot #EntrepreneurMindset #LeaveYour9to5 #PersonalBrand #CreativeDirector #WomenEntrepreneurs #LegacyBrand #BusinessGrowth

  2. Sep 16

    That Bitch Standards: The Non-Negotiables That Change Every Square Inch of Your Life

    "Where are you not being that bitch right now?" This is the question Kim comes back to again and again in this episode, and she promises the minute you ask yourself, your subconscious will tell you the truth. In this solo, Kim gets into the standards nobody wants to talk about, the ones she says could get her canceled, but that actually explain how she built what she's built. She starts with the hardest one: your circle. She'll tell you straight that the people around you probably aren't where you want to be, and walks through exactly how she grew a network of powerful women from zero — no virality, no big events, just genuine (non-pitchy, non-fangirl) DM conversations, one woman at a time. From there she covers the standards that govern how you actually operate day to day, and why your personal life and your business results are never separate — with real client stories to prove it. We cover: Why your network equals your net worth — and how to build one when you're broke and unknownThe unsexy DM strategy that grew Kim's circle of powerful womenWhy pedestaling successful women keeps you small (and why insecurity is a repellent she can "smell")Keeping commitments to yourself as the fastest way to build self-securityHow to consciously shift your energetic state instead of letting circumstances shift it for you"Who you are in one place is who you are everywhere" — why leaving the life stuff at home is terrible adviceThe client whose clients disrespected her because she was being disrespected at home — and what changed when she held the lineReal transformations: 100 lbs lost, marriages saved, a client who went from not wanting to wake up to living her dream lifeIf you want the results, you have to raise the standard. End of story. CHAPTERS 0:00 Intro — the standards that must exist 1:30 Who's really in the Femme Power Grid (and why it's the standard) 3:00 Standard #1: your circle probably sucks 5:00 Your network equals your net worth 7:30 The unsexy way Kim built a network of powerful women online 10:30 Why you feel like you don't belong in the room — and how to stop 13:00 Insecurity is a repellent she can smell 15:00 Standard: are you actually doing the f*****g thing? 17:30 Keeping commitments to yourself builds security 19:00 Standard: shifting your energetic state on purpose 23:00 Why your external circumstances shouldn't run your state 25:30 "Who you are in one place is who you are everywhere" 27:00 Why personal problems ARE your business problems 28:30 The client being disrespected at home AND by her clients 32:00 Where are you NOT being that bitch right now? 34:00 The standards you've quietly let slip 36:30 Real client transformations that prove it works 41:00 Raise your f*****g standards — end of story Also search: How to build a network of successful women entrepreneurs Why raising your standards changes your business results How your relationships affect your business success CTAs 📲 Join the free Money Making Queens Telegram 💫 Want to be in the room with powerful women? The Femme Power Grid 📱 Follow Kim @iamkimarneson 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts · Spotify · YouTube #ThatBitchPodcast #MoneyMakingQueens #FemmePowerGrid #RaiseYourStandards #WomenInBusiness #FemaleEntrepreneur #NetworkingForWomen #SelfConcept #ThatBitchEnergy #EntrepreneurMindset

  3. Sep 9

    She Left the Mormon Church, Built 7 Figures, & Sold Out 19 Retreats: Madi Maple on True Confidence

    Madi Maple went from hiding crop tops and nose rings inside a Mormon community to building a 7-figure confidence coaching empire — 19 sold-out retreats, 1,000+ paid clients, and 130,000 women transformed through her free content alone. And she did it by being more herself, not less. Kim and Madi get into the real story: what it actually cost Madi to leave the Mormon church, what true confidence is built on (hint: it's not a mindset hack), and why the women who are most visibly "themselves" online are still doing the deep work of becoming more. This one is for you if you've ever dimmed yourself down to fit in — and wondered what would happen if you just... didn't. We cover: • Growing up in a 90% Mormon community north of Salt Lake City and what it cost her to be herself • Why hiding parts of yourself (even small ones) makes it impossible to build real confidence • The layers of authenticity that exist even when you think you've already arrived • How Madi built to 7 figures and sold out 19 retreats by refusing to morph for an audience • Why "that bitch" is not a destination — it's an infinite devotion to becoming • The trap of accidentally adopting someone else's philosophy when you're surrounded by online noise • What it actually looks like to go deeper into your own authenticity as your business grows 0:00 Intro 1:15 Kim introduces Madi Maple — confidence coach, retreat host, DJ, cat mom 2:20 Why showing up with audacity is the first move toward being known 3:00 The drunk girl and a cigarette reel — why being fully yourself online is the whole strategy 4:00 The nuance: even the most confident women are still becoming 5:00 The infinite journey of "that bitch" — why you never fully arrive 6:15 What trolls miss when they don't get it 6:50 Madi's origin story — growing up in Mormon culture north of Salt Lake City 8:00 When 85-90% of your school is Mormon and being yourself isn't an option 8:45 Coffee, crop tops, and rap music — the small things that got her in trouble 9:10 "You're going to hell and never see your family again" — the real stakes of leaving 9:45 Hiding parts of herself depending on who she was around 10:00 The septum ring she had to flip up in her nose — and what that symbolizes 10:30 You cannot love yourself if you are not being yourself Also search: how to build confidence as an entrepreneur leaving the Mormon church and starting over women confidence coach 7 figure business how to stop hiding yourself online authenticity in personal brand building Madi Maple confidence coach 📲 Follow Madi Maple 📲 Join the free Money Making Queens Telegram 📱 Follow Kim on Instagram #ThatBitchPodcast #MoneyMakingQueens #MadiMaple #ConfidenceCoach #WomenInBusiness #PersonalBrand #AuthenticityInBusiness #LeavingTheMormonChurch #7FigureBusiness #WomensEmpowerment #ConfidenceBuilding #ThatBitch

  4. Sep 2

    Why Every Opportunity Lands in My Lap: The Identity That Commands Money, Rooms & Respect

    Kim's COO looked at her and said: "I genuinely expect you to talk to somebody, and of course they're gonna pay you. Have you met you?" That one line became this entire episode. In this solo, Kim breaks down the real reason opportunities, collaborations, and paid clients keep landing in her lap — and it's not luck. It's identity. It's self-concept. It's the way she carries herself into every room, every conversation, every stage. She walks through how she built that self-concept from scratch after a childhood in survival mode, why she believes developing an identity was a "luxury" she never had, and the exact moment in 2020 she realized she didn't know who she was at all. She also gets into the leadership trap 99% of people are stuck in: outsourcing their decisions so they don't have to be responsible for the outcome — treating mentors "like your mommy" instead of letting them stretch you. We cover: Why your self-concept — not your strategy — determines the money you makeHow Kim turns podcast guests and dinner conversations into paid clients without ever pitchingThe difference between picking a mentor's brain and asking them to make the decision so you're off the hookWhy following society's "blueprint" isn't leadership at allThe $48K investment she just made to keep stretching — and the $1,800/month coach years ago that took two years to pay offProof you can be exactly who you are: loud, quiet, polished, or naked online — and still make millionsWhy she'll happily nerd out over upsells at Wednesday trivia (and own being a cool girl AND a nerd)If you want the bigger life, the bigger money, and the reputation — this is the inside game nobody tells you about. CHAPTERS 0:00 Intro — the COO comment that started it all 1:45 "Have you met you?" — turning every conversation into opportunity 3:00 Why your identity commands money, respect, and collaborations 4:30 Developing self-concept when you grew up in survival mode 6:30 The 2020 awakening: "I don't even know who the f**k I am" 9:00 Being bold enough to say you deserve to be paid 11:00 None of this is luck — it's inner work on purpose 13:00 The coach who told her "your energy says don't pay me" 15:00 Why most people think they're self-leading (and aren't) 17:30 Following society's blueprint isn't leadership 20:00 Treating your mentors like your mom — the habit she had to drop 23:00 Picking a brain vs. outsourcing the decision 26:00 The $1,800/month coach and the two-year ROI 30:00 Why women crave someone else making the decision 33:00 Where are YOU outsourcing your decision-making? 36:00 You can be anyone and make millions — pick who you are 40:00 Cornfields, comped meals, and the room going quiet 44:00 Nerd, cool girl, and that bitch — owning all of it 47:00 Show them who you are, don't tell them Also search: How to build confidence and self-concept as an entrepreneur Why identity is the key to making more money in business How to stop waiting for permission in your business CTAs 📲 Join the free Money Making Queens Telegram 💫 Ready to plug back into who the f**k you are? The Femme Power Grid 📱 Follow Kim @iamkimarneson #ThatBitchPodcast #MoneyMakingQueens #FemmePowerGrid #SelfConcept #IdentityShift #WomenInBusiness #FemaleEntrepreneur #MoneyMindset #ThatBitchEnergy #EntrepreneurMindset

  5. Aug 26

    You Know You're That Bitch When People Say Your Name Before You Enter the Room: Suzie Cuthbertson

    Suzie Cuthbertson told her teacher to sit down and let her read the story, on day one of school, before she could even read. That energy never left. In this episode, Kim sits down with her business partner, subconscious expander, shadow expert, and business strategist to the top 1% for a raw conversation about what it actually takes to become that bitch, and stay her. They get into the real moments: accelerating up the corporate ladder against a room of five men, being told to choose between a child and a career, walking away from a director and shareholder role that was "killing her," and building the Femme Power Grid to six figures in its first seven days. We cover: Why "you can't tell me I can't" is rocket fuel, not rebellionThe difference between standing up and passing the chair at the tableHow leadership is born from BOTH trauma and nurture — and why you're just reclaiming what's already in youWhy that bitch moves when it's uncomfortable, awkward, and she feels physically sick — not when it's convenientCompounding forwards vs. compounding backwards (and why sitting on the decision grows the thing you don't want)The standard that made Susie money: she gets paid every single day This one's a masterclass in conviction, standards, and refusing to abandon yourself on the way to what you want. CHAPTERS 0:00 Intro — welcoming Suzie Cuthbertson 2:14 The first "power panties" moment at age five 5:36 Being that bitch in a male-dominated corporate career 7:00 Five men, one job, and "better luck next time" 9:38 Why conviction and certainty is what actually sells 11:34 "It's not the woman you see, it's the woman you feel" 11:50 Told to choose between having a child and her career 15:38 Managing 110 people at 19 — how she won the room 18:41 Leadership born from trauma vs. nurture 21:55 Handing in her notice: "that job was killing you" 23:38 The niggle, the conflict, and the castle that's coming down anyway 26:42 Why that bitch moves when it's uncomfortable — not convenient 28:27 Building the Femme Power Grid to six figures in 7 days 31:50 Getting the redhead boy, the red dog, the country house 36:33 That Bitch Files: the belief she deleted 38:00 The standard that made her money 38:59 What she'd teach her younger self 42:36 You know you're that bitch when... Also search: How to build confidence as a woman entrepreneur Making bold decisions in business before you're ready How to lead a team when you're the youngest in the room GUEST 📱 Follow Suzie @suziecuthbertson and @theshadowbitch on Instagram CTAs 📲 Join the free Money Making Queens Telegram 💫 Ready to plug back in? The Femme Power Grid 📱 Follow Kim @iamkimarneson 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts · Spotify · YouTube #ThatBitchPodcast #MoneyMakingQueens #FemmePowerGrid #WomenInBusiness #FemaleEntrepreneur #LeadershipForWomen #ThatBitchEnergy #BusinessMindset #WomenSupportingWomen #EntrepreneurMindset

  6. Aug 19

    I Did DMT and Met God: What the Universe Showed Me

    Kim had the most profound experience of her life this past weekend — and she's not holding anything back. After 30+ journeys with psilocybin and LSD, microdosing for nine months straight, and years of deep spiritual work, Kim sat with DMT for the first time. What happened inside those few minutes completely cracked her open — angels, creation, God, and a remembrance she can barely put into human language. This episode is raw, real, and unlike anything she's shared before. Whether you're curious about psychedelics, deep in your own spiritual awakening, or just here because a Threads post brought you, you're in the right place. HIGHLIGHTS → Why Kim believes anyone can transform their life — no matter how hellacious their past → Her background: trauma, dissociation, 30+ years of living disconnected from herself → Growing up Lutheran, dancing with atheism, working at a church for 11 years, and landing in a full spiritual awakening → The microdosing protocol that completely changed her life (9 months, structured cycles) → What Kim sees at the center of every woman's matriarch line on mushrooms — every single time → How her husband received DMT at a wedding from a stranger (divine timing, literally) → His experience: Mother Earth, Gaia, unconditional love, and grieving his father → Kim's DMT experience: being transported inside an angel made entirely of living creation → Seeing hundreds of lifetimes flash before her — births, bike rides, businesses, entire human stories → Hundreds of angels rushing toward her, each wanting to show her what they'd been creating → The feeling she can only describe as: "Mom, look how proud I am — look what I've been making while you were gone" → Why this experience isn't religious — and what it actually is → How to use psychedelics with intentionality (the exact intentions Kim sets every time) → Her core belief: the more you become who you are outside this physical body, the more you get everything you want 0:00 Intro — Are You Ready to Become That Bitch? 1:30 Welcome to New Listeners (and Why Kim's Story Matters) 3:00 Kim's Background: Trauma, Dissociation, and Why She Believes Anyone Can Do This 5:15 Her Spiritual Journey: Lutheran Upbringing, Atheism, and Working at a Church 7:00 How Psychedelics First Cracked Her Open — Psilocybin, LSD, and Feeling Unconditional Love 8:45 The Microdosing Protocol That Changed Everything (9 Months, 4x/Week) 10:30 What Kim Sees Every Time: Mother Mary and the Matriarch Line 12:00 How They Got DMT — The Wedding Story and Divine Timing 14:15 Her Husband's DMT Experience: Gaia, Mother Earth, and Grieving His Father 17:30 Kim Goes In: Her Intention Before the DMT Journey 19:00 Inside the Angel — Rings, Creation, and Living Beings 22:00 Watching Entire Lifetimes Flash in Two Minutes 25:00 Hundreds of Angels Rushing In — "Look What I've Been Creating" 27:30 What She Can Barely Put Into Human Language Also search: DMT experience explained spiritual awakening psychedelics for entrepreneurs and personal growth how to use psilocybin with intention spiritual awakening and business alignment microdosing protocol for women DMT angels what people see trauma healing through psychedelics becoming your highest self as a woman entrepreneur 📲 Join the free Money Making Queens Telegram 📱 Follow Kim @iamkimarneson 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts · Spotify · YouTube #ThatBitchPodcast #MoneyMakingQueens #DMTExperience #SpiritualAwakening #PsychedelicHealing #WomenEntrepreneurs #MindsetWork #EnergyWork #Microdosing #ThatBitch

  7. Aug 12

    She Gets Whatever She Wants: Quantum Mechanics, Wealth Energetics & Belief Systems with Emily Rose

    Emily Rose went from growing up in poverty with a single immigrant mother to becoming a 20-year music industry veteran, global head of AI at one of the biggest companies in the world, AND running a boutique luxury hospitality business — all while building a coaching brand and hosting live events. Her secret? She gets whatever the f*ck she wants. And she knows exactly why. Kim and Emily go deep on the quantum mechanics and wealth energetics behind Emily's unapologetic, multi-industry success — the belief systems most people never unlock, the religious and societal conditioning keeping women small, and what it actually means to be a limitless divine creator. We cover: • Why Emily's bio keeps getting longer — and what that has to do with quantum mechanics • Growing up in poverty and how "The Secret" cracked everything open in her early 20s • The lag between your quantum field and your 3D reality (and why your life right now is just a mirror) • Deprogramming religious and conservative conditioning that kept her submissive and small • Why your passions aren't accidents — they're assignments • Breaking generational cycles: why our generation is the black sheep built to do it differently • The American Dream conditioning that's keeping women from their aligned path • What "remembering" actually means in a spiritual awakening — and why it clicks so fast for some people 0:00 Intro — Kim and Emily on being that bitch 2:10 Emily's bio keeps growing — here's why 3:15 "I get whatever the f*ck I want" — what that actually means spiritually 4:05 Growing up in poverty with a single immigrant mother 4:35 How The Secret changed everything in her early 20s 5:30 Being the black sheep who breaks generational cycles 6:00 Quantum mechanics 101 — your reality is coded from within 6:45 The lag between your quantum field and your 3D reality 7:10 Kim's spiritual awakening — the human that fought the belief 7:35 This 3D world is the part that's not real 8:00 Growing up with conservative religious programming — and deprogramming it 9:00 The American Dream conditioning keeping women trapped 9:35 Choosing your aligned path is a that bitch move in itself Also search: quantum mechanics manifestation for women entrepreneurs wealth energetics and belief systems how to break generational poverty cycles spiritual awakening and money mindset manifesting success as a multipassionate woman why your reality is a mirror of your beliefs 📲 Follow Emily Rose @theboldbougiehippie 📲 Join the free Money Making Queens Telegram 📱 Follow Kim @iamkimarneson #ThatBitchPodcast #MoneyMakingQueens #WealthEnergetics #QuantumMechanics #ManifestationForWomen #SpiritualAwakening #GenerationalWealth #MindsetShift #WomenInBusiness #BougieHippie

  8. Aug 5

    Why You're Tolerating Excuses That Are Keeping You Stuck

    Kim breaks down the one question that changed everything for her — and why it's the only question you need to ask yourself when you're ready to stop settling and start living like that bitch. She takes you to the Jaws Bridge on Martha's Vineyard (yes, really), where she stood shaking for 30 minutes while seven-year-olds held her hands — until her husband yelled up four words that rewired how she thinks about every single decision she makes. This episode is a gut-check and a fire-starter, all in one. HIGHLIGHTS → The inventory Kim wants you to do on your life RIGHT NOW → What you're actually saying when you tolerate excuses — and why it's costing you everything → The Jaws Bridge moment that gave Kim her signature drive and conviction → What story do you want to tell? The micro-decision framework for daily life and business → Why victimhood is the silent killer of every big vision you have → The client making $1,000/day as a travel nomad — and what it proves about your "I can't" stories → How to break generational narratives that were never yours to carry 0:00 Intro — Are you ready to be that bitch? 1:15 The life inventory: where are you settling right now? 3:45 What tolerating excuses is really telling the universe 6:20 The Martha's Vineyard story begins 8:00 Kim on the Jaws Bridge — shaking for 30 minutes 11:10 "What story do you want to tell?" — the moment everything shifted 13:30 How Kim applies this question to every single day (even period week) 16:00 You have more access than you think — the nomad client making $1K/day 19:45 The privilege conversation — and where it becomes a trap 23:00 Breaking generational chains and choosing a different narrative 26:15 The conscious choice: always tell the story you want to live Also search: How to stop settling in your life and business Mindset shifts for women entrepreneurs who want more How to build confidence and conviction as a woman Overcoming limiting beliefs in business Women's empowerment podcast for entrepreneurs What story do you want to tell 📲 Join the free Money Making Queens Telegram 📱 Follow Kim → @iamkimarneson 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts · Spotify · YouTube #ThatBitchPodcast #MoneyMakingQueens #WomenEntrepreneurs #MindsetShift #WomenEmpowerment #LimitingBeliefs #ConfidenceCoach #BusinessMindset #ThatBitch #EntrepreneurWomen

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That Bitch is the podcast about becoming her. Real conversations about the moments that made you who you are. The obstacles, the pivots, the choice to say I deserve better and then actually do something about it. The full messy path to choosing your highest vision again and again. For the woman who’s done playing small and living like she’s a big deal because she knows we are all so much more capable than we’ve been told. That bitch didn’t happen overnight, but she was always on her way.

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  • Creator
    Kim Arneson
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    22
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Kim Arneson

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