That Bitch

Kim Arneson
  • 5.0 (7)
  • Entrepreneurship

That Bitch is the podcast about becoming her. Real conversations about the moments that made you who you are. The obstacles, the pivots, the choice to say I deserve better and then actually do something about it. The full messy path to choosing your highest vision again and again. For the woman who’s done playing small and living like she’s a big deal because she knows we are all so much more capable than we’ve been told. That bitch didn’t happen overnight, but she was always on her way.

  1. 2d ago

    What If You Actually F*****g Went For It? Playing Full Out to Get What You Say You Want

    You say you want the sold-out mastermind, the $50K launch, the 50-person event. But when Kim watches how you actually market, sell, and show up, it doesn’t match. This episode is about the gap between saying you’re going for it and actually going for it. Kim breaks down why most people secretly hold back: the fear of what if I go all the way, ride it till it’s dry, and STILL don’t get it? And how that fear becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy that hands you the exact outcome you didn’t want. She makes the case that if you’re not getting what you want anyway, going all the way in costs you nothing, the worst case is you’re exactly where you already are. She walks through what “going for it” actually looks like in real time, using her own events, her clients’ wins, and the 24-hour sprints that sold out rooms, plus why selling multiple times a day, putting your ass on the line, and refusing to care what the “weenies” think is how you build unstoppable velocity. We cover: Why “I posted and nobody bought” is the bare minimum, not going for itSelling twice a day — the morning and afternoon opportunities you’re skippingThe client who won a 25-min spot on a major stage by going for it out loudPutting your ass on the line: why risk of embarrassment is the pointThe Obsession London event: how Kim and Susie sold 10 more tickets in 24 hoursWhy “dry biscuit” energy repels buyers (and what sells instead)Burnout, balance, and why alignment makes playing full out sustainableStretching your capacity by holding more — not by breathing more deeplyWriting, telling, and living the most insane story so there’s nothing left in the tankIf you’ve been operating at baseline and calling it effort, this is your wake-up call. CHAPTERS 0:00 Intro — what if you actually went for it? 2:00 The gap between saying it and showing up for it 4:00 Why holding back becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy 6:30 What “going for it” actually looks like 8:00 18-20 reels batched before Paris and London — no excuses 10:30 Making the event a big deal: 40+ women flying in worldwide 13:00 Challenging a client to sell twice a day 15:30 Putting your ass on the line and not shutting up about your offer 17:30 The client who won a major stage by going for it out loud 22:00 Who cares what the weenies think of you 25:00 Selling 10 more Obsession tickets in a 24-hour sprint 28:00 Creating your own momentum and velocity 30:30 “Dry biscuit” energy vs. energy that sells 34:00 Playing full out — did you do everything you could today? 37:00 Burnout, balance, and why alignment changes everything 40:00 Stretching your capacity by holding more 43:00 Student teaching: why you learn by doing, not studying 46:00 Nothing left in the tank — write the insane story 48:30 Where are you NOT playing full out? Also search: How to sell more consistently in your online business How to build momentum and velocity as an entrepreneur How to stop caring what people think and go for your goals 📲 Join the free Money Making Queens Telegram 📱 Follow Kim on Instagram → @iamkimarneson 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts · Spotify · YouTube #ThatBitchPodcast #MoneyMakingQueens #PlayFullOut #WomenInBusiness #FemaleEntrepreneur #SalesStrategy #ThatBitchEnergy #MoneyMindset #BusinessMomentum #EntrepreneurMindset

  2. Oct 21

    Perimenopause Symptoms in Your 30s & 1 Million Followers — What No One Tells You ft. Jessica Barac

    She thought she was having a nervous breakdown at 37. Panic attacks, apathy, exhaustion, and a body that stopped responding to everything she was doing. Then her mum said four words that changed everything: "Could it be perimenopause?" Jessica Barac, registered nutritionist, personal trainer, and founder of What the Menopause, joins Kim to share the raw, real story behind building a global platform of over one million women. This is what it looks like to hit rock bottom, figure something out, and then decide the whole world needs to know about it. We cover: • The exact moment Jessica's husband told her she had to do something and why that became her turning point • Why perimenopause hit her at 37 (and why most women have no idea it can start that early) • The symptoms nobody talks about: anxiety, panic attacks, apathy, and feeling like a shadow of yourself • How she rebuilt her health brick by brick using nutrition, breathwork, and movement • Why she gave up alcohol and how that decision changed everything • How she turned her personal journey into a content platform and global movement • The moment the menopause conversation exploded online and how she was already there Kim also gets wildly transparent about her own perimenopause experience at 38, because that's just how she rolls. 📲 Follow Jessica Barac: Instagram: @whatthemenopause Website: whatthemenopause.com 0:00 Intro 1:15 Meet Jessica Barac and What the Menopause 2:07 Why perimenopause hit Jessica at 37 3:28 The anxiety, panic attacks, and feeling numb 4:02 Going to the doctor and being told "everything is fine" 4:46 How a conversation with her mum changed everything 5:04 The research deep dive — nutrition, hormones, and what actually works 5:38 How she rebuilt her life with breathwork and movement 6:08 How the platform started and why the content took off 6:58 Kim gets real about her own perimenopause at 38 8:10 When your body stops responding to everything you're doing 9:26 The rock bottom moment — crying in the car outside her house 10:32 The unexpected decision: giving up alcohol Also search: Perimenopause symptoms in your 30s How to know if you're in perimenopause Building a wellness brand to 1 million followers Menopause anxiety and panic attacks What the menopause Jessica Barac Women's health content creator success story 📲 Join Kim's FREE community → [Money Making Queens Telegram] 📱 Follow Kim on Instagram →[@iamkimarneson] 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts · Spotify · YouTube #ThatBitchPodcast #MoneyMakingQueens #Perimenopause #Menopause #WomensHealth #WhatTheMenopause #MidlifeWomen #HormoneHealth #WomenInBusiness #HealthPodcast #JessicaBarac

  3. Oct 14

    How To Stop Saying Yes When You Mean No as a Woman Entrepreneur

    That bitch doesn't abandon herself for any client, any dollar, any opportunity, any person. Period. In this solo episode, Kim gets real about the sneaky ways women are abandoning themselves every single day in their businesses, their relationships, their health, and their goals, and why it's costing them more than they realize. This isn't a woo-woo conversation. This is a direct line to the pattern that's keeping you stuck. Kim shares a real story from a mastermind client who recorded a podcast with a major industry name and then had to decide whether to post it even though something felt off. Kim's advice? Don't f*****g post it. And that's what this episode is really about: having the spine to honor what you actually know, even when the opportunity looks good on paper. HIGHLIGHTS → Why abandoning yourself is wildly expensive in dollars, energy, and results → The mastermind client story: when a big-name collab felt wrong and what Kim told her to do → How self-abandonment in your personal life bleeds directly into your business → The sneaky ways you're abandoning yourself with pricing, clients, content, and commitments → Why the gap between you and the woman who has what you want is only a 5-degree shift → What you said 2026 was going to be and whether you're already abandoning that promise 0:00 Intro — That Bitch Never Abandons Herself 2:10 Why abandoning yourself is wildly expensive 5:30 Real mastermind client story: the podcast collab she almost posted 9:15 Abandoning yourself for the almighty dollar 13:00 How personal self-abandonment bleeds into your business 16:20 Pricing, clients, content — the everyday ways you betray yourself 20:45 The 5-degree shift between you and the woman who has what you want 24:30 What did you say 2026 was going to be? Also search: How to stop self-sabotaging your business as a woman entrepreneur Why women entrepreneurs abandon themselves for clients and money How to set standards in your business and actually keep them Self-abandonment and business success for women 📲 Join the free Money Making Queens Telegram 📱 Follow Kim on Instagram →@iamkimarneson 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts · Spotify · YouTube #ThatBitchPodcast #MoneyMakingQueens #WomenEntrepreneurs #SelfAbandonmentHealing #BusinessMindset #FemaleFounders #BossWomen #WomenInBusiness #PersonalGrowth #MoneyMindset

  4. Oct 7

    Psychedelics, Frequency Spankings & Your Next Level: A Deep Dive w/ Modern Medicine Woman Tam Burke

    Tam Burke went from internal auditor to modern medicine woman, and the turning point was a shamanic journey she didn't even see coming. Before she ever touched a psychedelic, a waking dream cracked her reality wide open and set her on a path that would eventually help her and her husband build, scale, and sell a yoga studio for multiple six figures after generating 3.2 million dollars in revenue. Now Tam brings her signature blend of energy work, spirituality, quantum mechanics, and neuroscience to women who want to feel happy, healed, hot, and rich, from the inside out. And today she and Kim are going all the way in. This is the episode Kim's audience has been asking for since the DMT episode broke records. We're pulling back the curtain on what it actually looks like to use psychedelics as a strategic, intentional tool for growth, not just a spiritual experience, but a business one. We get into: • Tam's very first 'that bitch' moment and why it happened before she ever touched a psychedelic • The shamanic waking dream that turned an accountant into a medicine woman • How the DARE generation got conditioned to fear the most powerful healing tools on earth • Why high-achieving women get 'spanked' by psychedelics and why that's actually the gift • Set and setting: what it means, why it matters, and what happens when you get it wrong • Kim's exact mushroom ritual at home (yes, the rainbow prism office is involved) • The difference between a pretty trip and a transformational one • Contraindications to know before you explore psychedelics • Why intentionality is everything — and how to set it before you journey • Tam's work at the first legal psychedelic retreat in the world in Jamaica • What frequency spankings actually are — and why they work If you've been called toward psychedelics and don't know where to start, or you've done them and want to go deeper, this episode is your permission slip and your roadmap. Also search: how to use psychedelics intentionally for personal growth psychedelics for high-achieving women mushrooms for mindset and business clarity set and setting for psychedelic experiences modern medicine woman breathwork and energy work shamanic journeying for entrepreneurs 📲 Connect withTam Burke on Instagram Learn more about frequency spankings and Tam's work at tamburke.com 💬 Join the [Money Making Queens Telegram] Kim's free community for women building wealth on their own terms 🔥 Tam was in Kim's Mastermind and is now inside the [Femme Power Grid] if you want to be in the room where this level of conversation happens, this is it 📱 Follow Kim on Instagram → @iamkimarneson 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts · Spotify · YouTube #ThatBitchPodcast #MoneyMakingQueens #Psychedelics #FrequencySpankings #ModernMedicineWoman #SpiritualEntrepreneur #MindsetWork #WomenInBusiness #EnergyWork #Breathwork #TamBurke #KimArneson #IntentionalLiving #HighAchievingWomen #MushroomMedicine

  5. Sep 30

    Not Owning Who You Are Is Costing You Millions

    That bitch owns her shit and it's literally making her more money. In this episode, Kim breaks down one of the most expensive habits women entrepreneurs have: refusing to fully see themselves. Not because they're not talented. Not because they don't have the receipts. But because somewhere along the way, they decided that owning their greatness was too much, too braggy, too risky. Spoiler: that decision is costing you thousands, possibly millions, a year. Kim pulls from a recent conversation with guest Abrielle about the "quiet standard" that doubled (then tripled) her rates practically overnight, not because she changed her skills, but because she finally saw the value she'd been sitting on. Then Kim gets real about her own experience as a Human Design Reflector, why seeing herself is her greatest challenge, and why your perceived value is the single most powerful lever in your business. This episode is a direct line to the part of you that already knows you're the f*****g shit, and just needs permission to stop hiding it. HIGHLIGHTS → Why not owning who you are is quietly costing you millions → The Abrielle story: how seeing your own value forces the market to respond → Why your resume brag energy needs to show up in your business too → The difference between arrogance and fully owning your power → How your perceived value affects your messaging, pricing, offers, and opportunities → Why protecting other people from your greatness is actually a trauma response → What congruence between internal value and external positioning actually looks like → Kim on why her brain is worth millions — and how she knows 0:00 Intro 1:30 The real cost of not owning who you are 4:00 The Abrielle story: from assistant energy to premium pricing overnight 7:15 Why your resume brag energy should show up in your business 9:45 "It's not bragging, it just is" — owning your greatness without apology 12:00 Kim's Human Design Reflector moment: the hardest person to see is yourself 14:30 There's nothing wrong with having more greatness than the people around you 17:00 Why hiding your value is a hypervigilance, trauma-based response 19:45 Perceived value: the internal thermometer that changes everything external 22:30 Closing the skill gap vs. owning the value you already have 25:00 "Everything I touch turns to gold" — Kim on her own receipts Also search: How to raise your perceived value as a woman entrepreneur Why women entrepreneurs undercharge and how to stop Owning your value in business to attract better clients How self-worth affects pricing and business growth Human Design Reflector entrepreneur business mindset 📲 Join the freeMoney Making Queens Telegram 📱 Follow Kim on Instagram → @iamkimarneson 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts · Spotify · YouTube #ThatBitchPodcast #MoneyMakingQueens #WomenEntrepreneurs #PerceivedValue #OwnYourWorth #PricingStrategy #FeminineLeadership #BusinessMindset #HumanDesignReflector #WomenInBusiness

  6. Sep 23

    From NOLA to Texas, Canva to Creative Director: How Abrielle Laurent Built Her Legacy Brand

    She left her job as an assistant principal mid-year, moved to a new city where she knew nobody, bought a house with zero income, and had two kids depending on her. And she did it anyway — on nothing but a vision. Kim sits down with her own creative brand director, Abrielle Laurent, and they go ALL the way in. From growing up in New Orleans to climbing to the top of her education career, leaving it behind to move to Texas, teaching Canva tutorials on Instagram, and evolving into a sought-after creative director and brand strategist — Abrielle's story is a masterclass in choosing yourself before you have the evidence to back it up. This one is for every woman who's been told her pivot doesn't make sense on paper. We cover: • Why Abrielle walked away from a career she'd worked years to build — mid-year, with no plan B • What it actually felt like to move to a new city with no income, two kids, and a husband on the edge of a breakdown • How a pandemic journal side project turned into a full business pivot • The truth about reinventing yourself in public — and why it's harder than it looks • How she went from Canva tutorials to becoming a creative director for top entrepreneurs • The identity shifts required every time you level up (and how to coach yourself through them) • What it means to build a "legacy brand" and uncover your true body of work 0:00 Intro — Meet Abrielle Laurent 2:00 What a "That Bitch" moment actually means 2:45 The decision: leaving assistant principal mid-year 3:45 Moving to Texas with no job, no income, two kids 5:30 The fear of reinventing yourself in public 6:00 No income, new home, and a husband freaking out 7:15 Why she left New Orleans — and what Texas represented 8:00 Moving before you have the evidence 8:15 How Abrielle came into Kim's mastermind 8:45 Teaching Canva on Instagram — where it all started Also search: How to start over in a new city as an entrepreneur Leaving a stable career to start a business How to reinvent yourself when you have no backup plan Building a personal brand from scratch after a career change From teacher to entrepreneur success story 📲 Follow Abrielle Laurent on Instagram 💬 Join the FREE Money Making Queens Telegram 📱 Follow Kim on Instagram #ThatBitchPodcast #MoneyMakingQueens #WomenInBusiness #BrandStrategy #CareerPivot #EntrepreneurMindset #LeaveYour9to5 #PersonalBrand #CreativeDirector #WomenEntrepreneurs #LegacyBrand #BusinessGrowth

  7. Sep 16

    That Bitch Standards: The Non-Negotiables That Change Every Square Inch of Your Life

    "Where are you not being that bitch right now?" This is the question Kim comes back to again and again in this episode, and she promises the minute you ask yourself, your subconscious will tell you the truth. In this solo, Kim gets into the standards nobody wants to talk about, the ones she says could get her canceled, but that actually explain how she built what she's built. She starts with the hardest one: your circle. She'll tell you straight that the people around you probably aren't where you want to be, and walks through exactly how she grew a network of powerful women from zero — no virality, no big events, just genuine (non-pitchy, non-fangirl) DM conversations, one woman at a time. From there she covers the standards that govern how you actually operate day to day, and why your personal life and your business results are never separate — with real client stories to prove it. We cover: Why your network equals your net worth — and how to build one when you're broke and unknownThe unsexy DM strategy that grew Kim's circle of powerful womenWhy pedestaling successful women keeps you small (and why insecurity is a repellent she can "smell")Keeping commitments to yourself as the fastest way to build self-securityHow to consciously shift your energetic state instead of letting circumstances shift it for you"Who you are in one place is who you are everywhere" — why leaving the life stuff at home is terrible adviceThe client whose clients disrespected her because she was being disrespected at home — and what changed when she held the lineReal transformations: 100 lbs lost, marriages saved, a client who went from not wanting to wake up to living her dream lifeIf you want the results, you have to raise the standard. End of story. CHAPTERS 0:00 Intro — the standards that must exist 1:30 Who's really in the Femme Power Grid (and why it's the standard) 3:00 Standard #1: your circle probably sucks 5:00 Your network equals your net worth 7:30 The unsexy way Kim built a network of powerful women online 10:30 Why you feel like you don't belong in the room — and how to stop 13:00 Insecurity is a repellent she can smell 15:00 Standard: are you actually doing the f*****g thing? 17:30 Keeping commitments to yourself builds security 19:00 Standard: shifting your energetic state on purpose 23:00 Why your external circumstances shouldn't run your state 25:30 "Who you are in one place is who you are everywhere" 27:00 Why personal problems ARE your business problems 28:30 The client being disrespected at home AND by her clients 32:00 Where are you NOT being that bitch right now? 34:00 The standards you've quietly let slip 36:30 Real client transformations that prove it works 41:00 Raise your f*****g standards — end of story Also search: How to build a network of successful women entrepreneurs Why raising your standards changes your business results How your relationships affect your business success CTAs 📲 Join the free Money Making Queens Telegram 💫 Want to be in the room with powerful women? The Femme Power Grid 📱 Follow Kim @iamkimarneson 🎧 Listen on Apple Podcasts · Spotify · YouTube #ThatBitchPodcast #MoneyMakingQueens #FemmePowerGrid #RaiseYourStandards #WomenInBusiness #FemaleEntrepreneur #NetworkingForWomen #SelfConcept #ThatBitchEnergy #EntrepreneurMindset

  8. Sep 9

    She Left the Mormon Church, Built 7 Figures, & Sold Out 19 Retreats: Madi Maple on True Confidence

    Madi Maple went from hiding crop tops and nose rings inside a Mormon community to building a 7-figure confidence coaching empire — 19 sold-out retreats, 1,000+ paid clients, and 130,000 women transformed through her free content alone. And she did it by being more herself, not less. Kim and Madi get into the real story: what it actually cost Madi to leave the Mormon church, what true confidence is built on (hint: it's not a mindset hack), and why the women who are most visibly "themselves" online are still doing the deep work of becoming more. This one is for you if you've ever dimmed yourself down to fit in — and wondered what would happen if you just... didn't. We cover: • Growing up in a 90% Mormon community north of Salt Lake City and what it cost her to be herself • Why hiding parts of yourself (even small ones) makes it impossible to build real confidence • The layers of authenticity that exist even when you think you've already arrived • How Madi built to 7 figures and sold out 19 retreats by refusing to morph for an audience • Why "that bitch" is not a destination — it's an infinite devotion to becoming • The trap of accidentally adopting someone else's philosophy when you're surrounded by online noise • What it actually looks like to go deeper into your own authenticity as your business grows 0:00 Intro 1:15 Kim introduces Madi Maple — confidence coach, retreat host, DJ, cat mom 2:20 Why showing up with audacity is the first move toward being known 3:00 The drunk girl and a cigarette reel — why being fully yourself online is the whole strategy 4:00 The nuance: even the most confident women are still becoming 5:00 The infinite journey of "that bitch" — why you never fully arrive 6:15 What trolls miss when they don't get it 6:50 Madi's origin story — growing up in Mormon culture north of Salt Lake City 8:00 When 85-90% of your school is Mormon and being yourself isn't an option 8:45 Coffee, crop tops, and rap music — the small things that got her in trouble 9:10 "You're going to hell and never see your family again" — the real stakes of leaving 9:45 Hiding parts of herself depending on who she was around 10:00 The septum ring she had to flip up in her nose — and what that symbolizes 10:30 You cannot love yourself if you are not being yourself Also search: how to build confidence as an entrepreneur leaving the Mormon church and starting over women confidence coach 7 figure business how to stop hiding yourself online authenticity in personal brand building Madi Maple confidence coach 📲 Follow Madi Maple 📲 Join the free Money Making Queens Telegram 📱 Follow Kim on Instagram #ThatBitchPodcast #MoneyMakingQueens #MadiMaple #ConfidenceCoach #WomenInBusiness #PersonalBrand #AuthenticityInBusiness #LeavingTheMormonChurch #7FigureBusiness #WomensEmpowerment #ConfidenceBuilding #ThatBitch

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That Bitch is the podcast about becoming her. Real conversations about the moments that made you who you are. The obstacles, the pivots, the choice to say I deserve better and then actually do something about it. The full messy path to choosing your highest vision again and again. For the woman who’s done playing small and living like she’s a big deal because she knows we are all so much more capable than we’ve been told. That bitch didn’t happen overnight, but she was always on her way.

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  • Creator
    Kim Arneson
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    27
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Kim Arneson

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