Done Swiping

Kai Lovè · Matchmaker to the 1%
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You're done swiping. Done with algorithms that treat you like a data point and dates that feel like interviews for a job nobody wants. Done Swiping is for accomplished singles — executives, doctors, athletes, entrepreneurs, professionals — ready for a love worthy of the life they've built. Every episode, matchmaker to the 1% Kai tells you what no app ever will. This is not dating advice. This is the conversation your most trusted friend would have with you if she happened to know everything. New episodes drop weekly. Discretion guaranteed. Put the phone down. Stay Smitten.

  1. Jun 30

    Done Swiping | Why You Keep Choosing Men Who Confirm What You Already Believe About Yourself

    Three relationships, six years, different men, different cities — and somehow every one made you feel the exact same way. That's not bad luck. Here's what I found out after fifteen years behind closed doors. You're not failing at picking partners. You're succeeding at proving a belief you've never said out loud. This episode is about the client who finally named hers, and what changes the moment you stop proving a point and start letting someone disprove it. Text LOVE + your question to 808-978-9508. Your question might be the one answered next on Done Swiping.

  2. Jun 29

    Done Swiping | The Thing You Noticed and Decided Not to Notice

    First date. He said something small. Something in you went quiet for a second — and you chose not to notice it. Here's what I found out after fifteen years behind closed doors. That's not naïve. Naïve is not seeing it at all. What you did is harder, and harder to forgive. This episode is about the prosecutor who catches liars for a living, and still buried her own red flag for two years — plus the simple test for telling a real red flag from just being picky. Text LOVE + your question to 808-978-9508. Your question might be the one answered next on Done Swiping.

  3. Jun 18

    Done Swiping | You Didn't Lower Your Standards. You Got Tired. (And Those Are Two Very Different Things.)

    You didn't lower your standards because you got wiser. You lowered them because you got tired. If you've been on the apps long enough — you already know the difference. You just haven't said it out loud yet. In this episode of Done Swiping, luxury matchmaker to the 1% pulls back the curtain on what actually happens to accomplished women after years of dating the wrong way. It's not that the right man doesn't exist. It's that the system you've been using was never built for a woman like you. We'll discover: — Why the apps don't just waste your time — they change you — What "performing approachability" is costing you and why you can't see it — The real reason accomplished women quietly remove things from their list — and why that's not wisdom, it's exhaustion — The one thing to do before this week is out that will shift everything Plus this week's Love Line — a listener asks the question every woman over 38 has thought but never said out loud: "Kai, I'm 47 and I've never been married. Is it too late for me?" Kai's answer will stay with you. If you've been telling yourself you're fine — but you come home to quiet and reach for your phone before you even make it to the couch — this episode is for you. Text LOVE to 808-978-9508 to submit your question to be featured on a future Love Line. At Black Tie Introductions, the right introduction changes everything. Join the registry today: www.theblackbook.blacktieintroductions.com Life without love is not an option. Stay Smitten.

  4. Jun 12

    Done Swiping | The Second Audition Nobody Talks About

    The first date was perfect. He was present, engaged, asked real questions. Then — silence. Three days. She replayed every word wondering what she said wrong. In this episode you'll discover the silent test high-value men run after every promising first date...and the one response that fails it every single time. Text READY 808-978-9508 to apply for a complimentary Match Readiness Review — a $997 value.

  5. Jun 11

    Done Swiping | He's Not Emotionally Unavailable.

    She called him emotionally unavailable. Eight months later she found out he was engaged. How did she find out? On LinkedIn. In this episode Kai reveals why emotional unavailability is almost never permanent — and the one dynamic that makes high-value men quietly exit without a single conversation. Done swiping and ready for a curated introduction? Text REGISTRY to 808-978-9508 or visit www.theblackbook.blacktieintroductions.com to join the Black Book by Black Tie — a private curated registry of accomplished singles serious about finding the right person.

  6. Jun 10

    Done Swiping | Done Swiping Isn't Giving Up. It's Getting Serious.

    She deleted the app for the fourth time. Felt relieved for six hours. Reinstalled it by midnight — because at least it felt like doing something. In this episode, In this episode, the Matchmaker to the 1% exposes what the apps are actually designed to do; and why the moment you stop swiping is the most serious decision you've made about your love life in years. Text CLIENTS to 808-978-9508 for Kai's free weekly private audio note, and discover what she tells her clients.

  7. Jun 3

    Done Swiping | Where He Actually Is Right Now

    The man who is ready to commit is not on Hinge. He's not on Bumble. He's not refreshing his queue. In this episode, luxury matchmaker to the 1%, Kai reveals exactly where high-value men over go when they get serious — and why dating apps for women over 30 will never surface him. After years and hundreds of private consultations, this is the pattern nobody in the online dating space will say out loud. If you keep meeting men who aren't ready, this is the episode that explains why.  Visit: theblackbook.blacktieintroductions.com if you're ready to stop swiping.

  8. Jun 2

    Done Swiping | Why Do Men On Apps Choose "Casual" When I Want Forever

    He said he wanted a relationship. He meant it. Then the app spent four months rewiring his brain — and by the time he found you, he was already gone. In this episode, the Matchmaker to the 1%, Kai breaks down the real reason men go cold on dating apps — and it has nothing to do with you, and everything to do with what 'the apps' do to a man's psychology over time. If you've ever matched with someone who seemed serious and disappeared, this episode is the missing explanation.  Email Kai: Blacktie@Blacktieintroductions.com and put CLIENTS in the subject line to get insights on what she tells her private clients every week — yours free.

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You're done swiping. Done with algorithms that treat you like a data point and dates that feel like interviews for a job nobody wants. Done Swiping is for accomplished singles — executives, doctors, athletes, entrepreneurs, professionals — ready for a love worthy of the life they've built. Every episode, matchmaker to the 1% Kai tells you what no app ever will. This is not dating advice. This is the conversation your most trusted friend would have with you if she happened to know everything. New episodes drop weekly. Discretion guaranteed. Put the phone down. Stay Smitten.

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  • Creator
    Kai Lovè · Matchmaker to the 1%
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    14
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Kai Lovè · Matchmaker to the 1%
  • Show Website
    Done Swiping