Who's Your Daddy? The Podcast

Who's Your Daddy? The PODcast.

In 2023, a DNA test hit the "delete" key on my life story. Like 40 million others, I sought my roots, but instead of Taino chiefs, I found a seismic shift: I’m an NPE (Not Parent Expected). Who’s Your Daddy? – The Vodcast is a raw space for anyone navigating the "After." From "Genetic Bewilderment" to rebuilding an identity from scratch, we peel back the double helix to explore family secrets and the ache of misplaced kinship. Whether you’re an NPE or just love a family plot twist, join us as we navigate the messy, beautiful work of finding where we truly belong.

Episodes

  1. May 12

    Who's Your Daddy? An Intro

    In March 2023, I officially became a statistic. Like 40 million otherpeople, I spat into a tube, hoping to find insights into my ethnicbackground.  As a proud Puerto Rican andan Afro Latino, I was hoping to find that there was a direct line between meand a great Taino Cacique.  As well asfinding out where in Africa my ancestors migrated from. I was able to find the indigenous and African roots I knew wherethere.  What I didn’t expect to find wereresults that hit the “delete” key on the story I was told about my life andpaternal lineage. Suddenly, I was part of the "1% to 3%" club: the NPEs (NotParent Expected). As an adolescent, I’d spent my mornings looking in the mirrortrying to find a trace of my father’s features in my own reflection. I thoughtI was just bad at seeing the resemblance; it turns out, I was auditioning for arole in a family movie I wasn't even cast in. The truth wasn’t just a surprise—it was a seismic shift. I’ve livedthrough the "Genetic Bewilderment". I know the weight of"Identity Foreclosure," the sudden panic of losing your medicalhistory, and that weird, quiet ache of "Disenfranchised Grief" whereyou aren't sure if you're allowed to mourn a life that didn't exist. "Who’s Your Daddy? – The Vodcast" is a raw, visual space forthose of us navigating the "After." We’re peeling back the doublehelix to explore family secrets, awkward first meetings, and the messy,beautiful work of rebuilding a self that was there all along. You see, I believe there is a profound power in sharing this with peoplewho actually get it. We who are NPE are looking for kinship in acommunity whose kins have been... often times, a bit misplaced. So, whether you’re a fellow NPE trying to find your footing, a familymember or friend navigating this new reality alongside a loved one, or acurious observer fascinated by the ultimate family plot twist—you’re welcomehere. Grab a seat, and let’s take this journey together.

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In 2023, a DNA test hit the "delete" key on my life story. Like 40 million others, I sought my roots, but instead of Taino chiefs, I found a seismic shift: I’m an NPE (Not Parent Expected). Who’s Your Daddy? – The Vodcast is a raw space for anyone navigating the "After." From "Genetic Bewilderment" to rebuilding an identity from scratch, we peel back the double helix to explore family secrets and the ache of misplaced kinship. Whether you’re an NPE or just love a family plot twist, join us as we navigate the messy, beautiful work of finding where we truly belong.