The Gentleman's Forum and Gentleman of Faith Podcasts

Anthony Buntyn
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The Society of Ordinary Gentlemen is a modern brotherhood built on timeless standards of character, conduct, and personal responsibility. It is a place for like-minded individuals, regardless of sex, who believe that how one lives, speaks, and carries oneself still matters.Through shared values, mutual accountability, and a commitment to continual self-improvement, the Society fosters camaraderie, integrity, and a higher standard of everyday life, proving that refinement is not about status but about discipline, intention, and respect. The Gentleman's Forum is a weekly Podcast forum designed to cultivate modern gentlemen by teaching the skills, habits, and mindsets that elevate personal style, communication, health, and lifestyle, delivered through a disciplined community, practical courses, and meaningful mentorship. Gentlemen of Faith Most men feel spiritually disconnected, overwhelmed, and struggling to live with purpose—yet few know where to start. What if the key to becoming the man God calls you to be isn’t just in effort, but in understanding your divine identity and biblical masculinity? Anthony Buntyn reveals a transformative—yet practical—approach to restoring strength, faith, and integrity in today’s world. In this compelling episode of the Gentleman's Faith Podcast, Anthony shares his personal journey from a life of complacency to embracing true biblical masculinity. Discover how dressing with purpose and walking in confidence can echo your walk with Christ, influence your relationships, and rebuild your sense of identity. You’ll learn why accountability, purpose, and community are vital for authentic growth—also how to start making those changes today, regardless of your past or current struggles.

  1. 6d ago

    Why De-Digitizing Your Life May Be the Smartest Move You Make

    Your phone may be making you less productive, less present, and less like yourself. Anthony Buntyn shares how a year of deliberately “de-digitizing” his life helped him regain focus, improve his memory, and create more meaningful routines, relationships, and habits. From limiting notifications and checking email only twice a day to swapping endless scrolling for handwritten notes, a daily planner, books, vinyl records, and even a safety razor, Anthony breaks down the real-world changes that made the biggest difference. He explains why slowing down can actually make you sharper, calmer, and more intentional in work, family life, and conversation. You’ll discover: Why constant notifications fragment your attention and drain productivityHow handwriting, journaling, and cursive can strengthen memory and retentionThe surprising way analog rituals like shaving, reading, and listening to records create calm and reflectionHow setting phone boundaries can improve marriage, meetings, and real presenceWhy privacy, discretion, and fewer digital distractions matter more than everAnthony also shares practical steps for anyone who wants to reduce digital dependency without going off the grid, plus the mindset shift that helped him reclaim his time instead of reacting to algorithms all day. If you’ve ever felt controlled by your devices, overwhelmed by scrolling, or simply ready for a more grounded way to live, this episode is for you. Perfect for men who want to sharpen their focus, restore old-school habits, and become more intentional in how they live, work, and connect.

    Why De-Digitizing Your Life May Be the Smartest Move You Make

  2. Sep 3

    The Hidden Cost of Loneliness Nobody Warns Men About

    Loneliness is hitting men harder than most will admit, and the damage goes far beyond feeling isolated. Anthony Buntyn confronts the numbers, shares his own battle with a speech impediment and social fear, and breaks down how something as simple as posture, clothing, eye contact, and a firm handshake can radically change the way people respond to you. He also reveals the exact turning point that helped him move from avoiding people to confidently walking into rooms, starting conversations, and building real connections. Along the way, he explains why chronic loneliness is tied to serious health risks, why your appearance shapes first impressions more than you think, and how learning to present yourself like a gentleman can unlock confidence, respect, and opportunity. You'll discover: Why nearly half of Americans and the world report feeling lonelyHow Anthony turned a painful speech challenge into a growth storyThe small etiquette shifts that make people actually approach youA practical method for remembering names and improving conversationWhy dressing well changes not just perception, but self-beliefAnthony also introduces the Society of Ordinary Gentlemen as a community for men who want mentorship, accountability, style guidance, and a way out of isolation. From ties and fragrances to live conversations and brotherhood, he makes the case that you do not have to stay stuck in the cycle of being alone. If you need a push to rebuild confidence, improve your presence, and connect with other men who are leveling up, this episode delivers both the wake-up call and the roadmap. Essential listening for any man who feels overlooked, isolated, or ready for a reset.

    The Hidden Cost of Loneliness Nobody Warns Men About

  3. Aug 26

    Why Good Things Happen to Bad People - The Grace Answer

    Why do bad things happen to good people? Anthony Buntyn says that question is backwards - and the answer changes everything. If you have ever wrestled with grief, anger, or the feeling that God has forgotten you, this episode offers a blunt, faith-filled reframing of suffering, grace, and what it really means to endure loss. Anthony opens up about losing his mother, sister, and niece within 18 months, and how that season of devastation forced him to confront the hardest questions believers ask in private. From there, he walks through a radical shift in perspective: Scripture does not point to "good people" getting bad outcomes, but to all of us living under sin and sustained by grace. What looks unfair on the surface may be part of a deeper reality we cannot see. You'll discover: Why the real question is not "Why do bad things happen to good people?"How grace, not circumstance, explains the difference between lasting peace and temporary pleasureWhat Revelation and other scriptures say about death, timing, and preordained momentsWhy suffering does not mean God has abandoned youHow the choice to respond with faith, patience, and humility changes the way you carry painAnthony also shares how his own journey toward becoming a "gentleman of faith" was shaped by more than belief - it was shaped by how he carried himself, dressed, spoke, and represented his family and his faith in public. He explains how the Society of Ordinary Gentlemen helped him grow in confidence, etiquette, discipline, and brotherhood, and why that community matters for men trying to live with purpose. This episode is for anyone grieving a loss, questioning God's justice, or trying to make sense of why life can feel so unfair. It is also a call to men who want more than passive faith - men ready to grow in character, live with intention, and find strength in grace. If you need a honest reminder that you are not alone and that grace still meets you in the dark places, this one is worth your time. Anthony Bunton is the host of Gentlemen of Faith Podcast and a leader within the Society of Ordinary Gentlemen, where he helps men pursue faith, dignity, and intentional living.

    Why Good Things Happen to Bad People - The Grace Answer

  4. Aug 26

    Why Every Gentleman Should Learn How to Fight

    The fastest way to become calmer, tougher, and more confident in real life might be learning how to fight - not to start trouble, but to handle pressure, fear, and conflict without falling apart. Anthony Buntyn makes the case that every gentleman should train in some form of combat discipline, and he connects that mindset to everything from business negotiations to relationships, stress, and self-control. Anthony gets personal about his own journey through karate, military life, Taekwondo, and regular sparring, showing how being choked, knocked down, and forced to keep going changes the way you think long after you leave the mat. He argues that physical training builds muscle memory, emotional control, and the ability to stay rational when everyone else is panicking. You'll discover why learning self-defense can make you better at reading opponents, asking for a raise, leaving a bad relationship, and protecting the people who count on you. Anthony also breaks down the power of verbal judo, why confidence can help you avoid violence entirely, and why regular training gives your nervous system a reference point when real pressure hits. He also makes a provocative point about law enforcement, firearms, and why self-defense should not begin and end with a weapon. Instead, he calls for a broader standard of readiness, discipline, and calm under stress - the kind that comes from repetition, sparring, and experience. If you want a tougher mindset, better stress management, and a more grounded sense of personal power, this episode is for you. It is especially valuable for men who want to level up physically and mentally while becoming the kind of person others can rely on when things get hard.

    Why Every Gentleman Should Learn How to Fight

  5. Aug 24

    Respects Starts At Home

    Parents are losing the house, the authority, and the relationship with their kids - and Anthony Buntyn and Angela Fossey say the fix starts at home. This conversation cuts straight into the modern parenting crisis, exposing why discipline, reverence, and real involvement matter more than ever. Anthony opens up about the strict-but-loving foundation that shaped their family, and Angela brings the perspective of a mother, grandmother, former daycare worker, and author who has written about parenting and grandparent rights. Together, they contrast the way they were raised with what they see happening now - children treated like friends, parents afraid to correct them, and families drifting without structure. You'll discover: Why "love" without boundaries leaves kids unprepared for real lifeHow parental absence, fear, and entitlement are reshaping disciplineWhy grandparents are increasingly stepping in when parents walk awayWhat it means to raise children with reverence, accountability, and purposeHow strong family foundations help people survive grief, conflict, and reconciliationAngela also shares the hard-earned wisdom behind her books Black Onyx and Protective Measures, including why protecting grandchildren and restoring family structure is more urgent than ever. Anthony connects those lessons to the broader mission of the Society of Ordinary Gentlemen; a movement focused on helping men reclaim responsibility and leadership in the home. This episode is a wake-up call for parents, grandparents, mentors, and anyone concerned about the next generation. If you care about respect, discipline, and rebuilding family from the ground up, this one belongs in your queue. When you compare parenting now to the way many of us were raised, the difference can feel enormous. In this conversation, Anthony Buntyn and his sister Angela Fossie revisit what made their upbringing strong - and why they believe many modern families are losing important ground. They are not arguing that every child is the same or that every parent is failing. Their point is simpler and more urgent: children need active parents, clear boundaries, and a family structure that teaches respect before the world teaches entitlement. If you are a parent, grandparent, teacher, or someone who cares about the next generation, this conversation offers a direct look at what has changed and what still works.

    Respects Starts At Home

  6. Aug 20

    1. Choose Respect Over Fear

    Fear is not making you stronger - it is making you smaller. Anthony Buntyn breaks down why the image of the "tough guy" can sabotage your life, your relationships, and your future, and why respect is the real foundation of leadership, faith, and influence. Anthony shares the personal journey that shaped this message, from growing up with a speech impediment and insecurity to realizing that intimidation may get attention, but it never builds trust. He draws a sharp line between being feared and being respected, showing how fear creates distance, silence, and hidden opposition, while respect creates support, loyalty, and real connection. You'll discover: Why people judge you in the first 10 seconds - and why that mattersHow a "tough" persona can cost you opportunities at work, at home, and in businessThe difference between fear, reverence, and genuine respectWhy changing how you dress, speak, and carry yourself can change how people respond to youHow faith and character shape the way others see youWhy Anthony believes the best version of a man is one who leads with dignity, not intimidationHe also shares how the Society of Ordinary Gentlemen helped him grow into the man he wanted to become, along with practical encouragement for men who want to improve themselves, mentor the next generation, and live in a way that reflects their calling. Along the way, Anthony highlights the power of community, accountability, and intentional self-presentation - including the details of his journey with suits, etiquette, and even fragrances that help reinforce a gentleman's standard. If you have ever felt pressure to act hard, hide vulnerability, or prove your strength by making others uncomfortable, this episode will challenge that mindset. It is a direct, honest call for men of faith to choose respect over fear and to become someone people can trust, follow, and support. Perfect for men who are rebuilding their identity, growing in faith, or learning how to lead with confidence and character.

    1. Choose Respect Over Fear

  7. Aug 19

    Why Men Must Take Care of Themselves, Even After Marriage

    Looking sharp is not superficial. For men, it can change how people treat you, how your kids see you, and how confidently you move through the world. Anthony Buntyn sits down with Chad Smith, newly appointed Director of International Affairs with the Society of Ordinary Gentlemen, for a conversation about style, fatherhood, military discipline, and what it really means to lead a family well. Anthony and Chad break down why presentation still matters, even when you are married, busy, and juggling work, kids, and responsibilities. Chad shares how he balances civilian contract work after 26 years in the Australian Navy, an active role in his daughters' lives, and a marriage built on teamwork while his wife serves in the Australian Air Force. You'll discover: Why your appearance creates instant assumptions, for better or worseHow Chad uses daily routines like school drop-offs, coffee runs, and outfit prep to stay connected with his daughtersThe difference between being the "man of the house" and building a shared householdWhy fatherhood is about modeling standards, not just providingHow military training, preparation, and discipline carry into civilian lifeWhy having an outlet with other men matters for mental health, perspective, and growthAnthony also explores the deeper stakes behind the conversation - from how children learn what healthy masculinity looks like to why too many men and fathers stay disconnected until a crisis forces them to pay attention. This episode is perfect for men navigating marriage, parenting, military transition, or simply trying to become more intentional about how they show up every day. If you want practical wisdom on being a better husband, father, and gentleman, this is a conversation you will want to hear.

    Why Men Must Take Care of Themselves, Even After Marriage

  8. Aug 12

    How One Man Built Eight Outfits From Two Suits and a Sports Coat

    The smartest wardrobe move is not buying more clothes - it's building a style that changes how you carry yourself. William Wehrs returns to share how he went from wearing all black in college to becoming the kind of man who can travel for weeks with just two suits, a sports coat, and eight different outfits. What starts as a conversation about menswear quickly becomes a deeper look at confidence, discipline, and identity. William breaks down how shows like Mad Men and The Night Manager, affordable finds like a $90 suit, and style education from places like Real Men Real Style and Gentleman’s Gazette reshaped the way he presents himself. Anthony Bunton pushes the conversation further, showing how dressing with intention is really about mindset, maturity, and the signal you send to the world. You'll discover: Why looking sharp has less to do with price and more to do with intentionHow to build a flexible travel wardrobe without packing a closetWhy repeating suits is not the issue if you rotate shirts, ties, pocket squares, and detailsHow wearing formal clothing regularly can make confidence feel naturalWhy style can be a powerful tool for teachers, young men, and anyone trying to define who they areThe conversation then shifts into something even more meaningful: how learning never stops. William shares how his summer travel included a Chicago History Museum workshop on using Library of Congress documents, visits to museums and historic sites, and time spent thinking about how to turn history into an active experience for students. As a teacher preparing to take on AP European History, he explains why he wants students to interrogate material instead of memorizing it, and why history should be something you live with, not just study for a test. Anthony and William also explore the importance of family history, historical memory, and the lessons hidden in places like cemeteries and memorials. From Susan B. Anthony and Frederick Douglass to Vietnam veterans and the cultural stories behind a simple grave marker, this episode makes the case that understanding the past shapes how we live now. Perfect for men interested in style, fathers and mentors, teachers, history lovers, and anyone who wants to raise thoughtful young people. If you care about looking better, thinking deeper, and becoming more intentional in how you live, this conversation belongs in your queue.

    How One Man Built Eight Outfits From Two Suits and a Sports Coat
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The Society of Ordinary Gentlemen is a modern brotherhood built on timeless standards of character, conduct, and personal responsibility. It is a place for like-minded individuals, regardless of sex, who believe that how one lives, speaks, and carries oneself still matters.Through shared values, mutual accountability, and a commitment to continual self-improvement, the Society fosters camaraderie, integrity, and a higher standard of everyday life, proving that refinement is not about status but about discipline, intention, and respect. The Gentleman's Forum is a weekly Podcast forum designed to cultivate modern gentlemen by teaching the skills, habits, and mindsets that elevate personal style, communication, health, and lifestyle, delivered through a disciplined community, practical courses, and meaningful mentorship. Gentlemen of Faith Most men feel spiritually disconnected, overwhelmed, and struggling to live with purpose—yet few know where to start. What if the key to becoming the man God calls you to be isn’t just in effort, but in understanding your divine identity and biblical masculinity? Anthony Buntyn reveals a transformative—yet practical—approach to restoring strength, faith, and integrity in today’s world. In this compelling episode of the Gentleman's Faith Podcast, Anthony shares his personal journey from a life of complacency to embracing true biblical masculinity. Discover how dressing with purpose and walking in confidence can echo your walk with Christ, influence your relationships, and rebuild your sense of identity. You’ll learn why accountability, purpose, and community are vital for authentic growth—also how to start making those changes today, regardless of your past or current struggles.

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  • Creator
    Anthony Buntyn
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    30
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Anthony Buntyn