Hold On, I Have a Point

Ashley Luxenberg

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Real-life thoughts, entertainment industry truths, married life, parenting chaos, and bold conversations about Jesus—nothing held back. For the overthinkers, multitaskers, and “wait—what was I saying?” crowd… it may wander, but it always lands somewhere that matters.

Jul 15

Sweet, Not Salty: With Tabitha Alexander (2 of 3)

Yesterday, we identified the salt. Today, we're choosing something sweeter. In Part 2 of our three-part summer mini-series, Sweet, Not Salty with Tabitha Alexander, we're diving into Galatians 5:22–23 and exploring the Fruit of the Spirit—not as a checklist, but as the evidence of a heart being transformed by Christ. If bitterness, resentment, criticism, or frustration have been quietly damaging your marriage, this episode offers biblical encouragement and practical ways to begin restoring your relationship. Healing doesn't happen overnight, but every healthy marriage is strengthened one intentional choice at a time. Join us as we move beyond recognizing the problem and begin cultivating the fruit that brings life, peace, and lasting change. Then don't miss tomorrow's final episode, where we'll talk about how to move from healing to truly thriving in your marriage and your walk with Christ.
Jul 14

The Salty Wife with Tabitha Alexander (1 of 3)

Episode 13: The Salty Wife / Part 1 of 3 mini-series "SWEET, NOT SALTY" Is it possible to smile at church on Sunday while bringing bitterness home on Monday? In this honest and convicting conversation, Ashley Luxenberg and Tabitha Alexander tackle a topic many Christian wives would rather avoid: hidden resentment. What does a "salty wife" look like? It isn't always yelling or obvious conflict. Sometimes it's sarcasm, criticism, keeping score, withholding affection, constant complaining, or quietly believing we've become the victim while refusing to examine our own hearts. Together, they explore what Scripture says about self-examination, the danger of bitterness, and how small attitudes can slowly erode even strong marriages. This episode isn't about blaming women—it's about inviting every wife to ask God to reveal the areas where pride, unforgiveness, or selfishness may have quietly taken root. If you've ever found yourself frustrated, emotionally distant, or wondering why your marriage feels stuck, this conversation offers biblical encouragement, practical wisdom, and the hope that God can soften even the saltiest heart. Because a thriving marriage doesn't start with changing your spouse—it starts with allowing God to change you. 💗 IG: @ThePlayfulWife @AshleyLuxe
Jul 7

Love and Respect with The Playful Wife

🎙️ Hold On, I Have a Point is a Christian podcast that tackles today’s biggest conversations with biblical truth, practical wisdom, and a healthy dose of humor. What does the Bible really say about love and respect in marriage? In this episode of Hold On, I Have a Point, Ashley Luxenberg is joined by special co-host Tabitha Alexander to unpack the bestselling book Love & Respect: The Love She Most Desires; The Respect He Desperately Needs by Emerson Eggerichs. Together, they discuss the powerful concepts that have helped countless couples strengthen their marriages, while also asking important questions about what the book gets right, where Christians should use biblical discernment, and how God’s design for marriage goes far beyond formulas and feelings. With plenty of laughter, honest stories, and practical application, Ashley and Tabitha explore what it looks like for husbands to love sacrificially, wives to show respect biblically, and both spouses to pursue Christ above all else. Whether you’re newly married, have been together for decades, or are simply curious about the conversation surrounding this popular book, this episode will encourage you to build your marriage on God’s Word instead of the world’s expectations. Scripture Focus: Ephesians 5:22–33, Colossians 3:18–19, 1 Peter 3:1–7
Jul 1

Fear is Not Welcome Here

Season 1, Episode 11: Fear Is Not Welcome Here Host: Ashley Luxenberg Fear doesn't have to have the final say. In this episode of Hold On, I Have a Point, Ashley Luxenberg dives into what the Bible says about fear, spiritual warfare, and the power of God's Word. From nightmares and anxiety to the fears that quietly creep into our homes and families, Ashley encourages listeners to stop letting fear take up residence where Christ reigns. Together, we'll walk through Scripture, including 1 Peter 5:8–9, James 4:7, Psalm 27:1, James 1:5, Proverbs 3:5–6, Ephesians 6:17, Hebrews 4:12, and Revelation 1:3, Psalm 20, discovering how God's Word is meant to be spoken, believed, and lived. Learn why reading Scripture aloud is more than a routine—it is a declaration of truth that points our hearts back to God. Whether you're praying over your children before bed, battling anxious thoughts, or simply longing for greater peace in your home, this episode will encourage you to stand firmly on God's promises. Fear is not welcome here—because where the Lord is trusted, His peace has the final word.
Jun 23

Taking Every Thought Captive with The Playful Wife

Season 1, Episode 10: Taking Every Thought Captivewith Host Ashley Luxenberg and Summer Series Co-Host Tabitha Alexander, The Playful Wife Our minds are busy places—and not every thought deserves a permanent residence. In this funny, honest, and faith-filled conversation, Ashley Luxenberg and Tabitha Alexander dive into what it means to take every thought captive and put Philippians 4:8 into practice. From overthinking text messages and assuming the worst to spiraling over everyday frustrations, they're sharing real-life stories, plenty of laughs, and biblical wisdom for winning the battle of the mind. Together, they'll explore how our thoughts shape our attitudes, relationships, and walk with Christ, while encouraging listeners to focus on whatever is true, honorable, just, pure, lovely, commendable, excellent, and praiseworthy. If you've ever let your imagination run wild, argued with someone in your head, or created an entire crisis that never happened, this episode is for you. Scripture Focus: Philippians 4:8 Podcast: Hold On, I Have a PointHost: Ashley LuxenbergCo-Host: Tabitha Alexander, The Playful Wife
Jun 12

Biblical Submission with The Playful Wife Tabitha Alexander

In Episode 9 of Hold On, I Have a Point, Ashley Luxenberg is joined by recurring co-host Tabitha Alexander, The Playful Wife, for an honest conversation about Biblical Submission. Together, they unpack common misconceptions, explore what Scripture actually teaches about submission in marriage, and share real-life insights on respect, partnership, communication, and God's design for healthy, Christ-centered relationships. Whether this topic makes you curious, cautious, or uncomfortable, this episode offers biblical truth, practical encouragement, and a few laughs along the way.
Jun 4

The Playful Wife with Tabitha Alexander

Marriage isn't always easy, and nobody knows that better than wives trying to balance faith, family, expectations, and the everyday realities of life. In this episode of Hold On, I Have a Point, Ashley Luxenberg sits down with Tabitha Alexander, known as The Playful Wife, for an honest conversation about what it takes to build a strong, lasting marriage in today's culture. Together they discuss communication, respect, conflict, forgiveness, intimacy, biblical roles, and the challenges many couples face but rarely talk about openly. Whether you're newly married, have been married for decades, or simply want to strengthen your relationship, this episode offers practical wisdom, encouragement, and faith-based perspective for navigating marriage with purpose. Join us for a candid discussion filled with truth, laughter, and real-life insights that can help you grow closer to your spouse and closer to God. Connect with Ashley:Podcast: Hold On, I Have a Point FOLLOW TABITHA @ThePlayfulWife Subscribe, share, and leave a review if this episode encouraged you.
May 8

More Than "Just Mom"

Motherhood is more than what the world sees. In this episode, we unpack the strength behind the calling of a mother and challenge the idea that being a “helper” means being secondary—because biblically, it means being a vital support system, built with strength and purpose. We also dive into Titus chapter 2 and what it truly says about a woman’s role in her home, her marriage, and her character. This is an honest look at the weight moms carry, the expectations we navigate, and the reminder to endure the hard days while still embracing them before they’re gone.

Real-life thoughts, entertainment industry truths, married life, parenting chaos, and bold conversations about Jesus—nothing held back. For the overthinkers, multitaskers, and “wait—what was I saying?” crowd… it may wander, but it always lands somewhere that matters.

Creator

Ashley Luxenberg
Years Active

2026
Episodes

14
Rating

Clean
Copyright

© Ashley Luxenberg
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