Lexie Loman has already lived a few different lives. She started college planning to be a journalist, switched to psychology after one semester, spent five years working with kids at a psych hospital after swearing she never would, and then spent the next several years touring regionally as a musician, topping red dirt charts in Texas and even playing a couple of weeks in Ireland. Somewhere in there she also became a licensed therapist, opened a private practice, wrote a book, and eventually built a ketamine assisted psychotherapy clinic from the ground up. She told us she's about 90% energized by her clients, which is the good news. The harder truth is that she's also the person editing her own podcast, building her own website, and trying to figure out marketing on her own time, and none of that is what she actually wants to be doing. Lexie is ready to move out of one on one sessions and into retreats, workshops, and the kind of framework based coaching that lets her work with a room full of people instead of one person at a time. In this episode we get into why "I work with everybody" sounds generous but actually makes it harder for the right person to recognize themselves in her marketing, what it looks like to finally name the framework she has been quietly using with clients for years (it involves gremlins, goats, and giving your inner critic a face and a name), and why the retreat she is building this fall needs one clear person to speak to before it needs five different landing pages. Lexie walked away with a much clearer picture of who she is actually building Lighthouse for, permission to stop editing a podcast that isn't converting into bookings, and a reminder that the fastest way through the overwhelm is more conversations, not more time spent perfecting a website. About Lexie: Lexie Loman is a licensed therapist, published author, and the founder of Above All PATC, a ketamine assisted psychotherapy clinic, now expanding into Lighthouse, a coaching and retreat brand built around her Gremlins and Goats framework for shedding shame. She has spent nearly a decade in private practice and is currently building out retreats, workshops, and continuing education offerings for fellow clinicians. Connect with Lexie: Above All PATC: aboveallpatc.com Above All PATC on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/aboveallpatcompany/ Lighthouse: lighthouseokc.com Lighthouse on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61578012923828 Lighthouse on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lighthousewellnessokc/ Lighthouse on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@LexieLomanLighthouse The Business Reality Check Podcast is your dose of clarity. Hosted by Jonna and Lori, Co-Founders of Thrive Collective. This podcast is for business owners and solopreneurs who feel burnt out and unfulfilled. They dive deep to uncover the strategic misalignment that is silently sabotaging your success. Learn to eliminate the exhaustion, anchor your foundations with intentional processes and firm boundaries, and achieve total alignment between your life, your offer, and your dream client to stop the cycle of burnout and truly thrive. Real conversations. Real problems. Real solutions. Watch more episodes and apply to be a guest: https://www.thrivecollective.shop/podcast
