Chasing Glass

Kaduvamma

You can spend years staring at the same ceiling without realizing it's there. Chasing Glass is about the moments people finally see it, and what it takes to break through. Hosted by Kaduvamma, the show sits inside life's quiet turning points: the conversations, the unraveling, the slow climbs back into yourself. Mental health threads through every story. It's a complicated journey, because some things you don't see until the glass breaks.

Episodes

  1. Oct 22

    Are You Fighting Your Partner or Your Past? | Terrence and Trevor Payton

    Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! Are you fighting your partner, or your past? In Part 2 of my conversation with Terrence Payton ⁠@terrencepayton4060 ⁠ and Trevor M. Payton, we go deep into rejection, blended families, and healing old wounds in marriage. Trevor almost didn't marry Terrence because she didn't feel healed enough. Terrence says pretty much every argument they've had led back to rejection. He tells me about the day he stood in the bathroom mirror blaming her to God, and what he heard back. We also talk about bringing 7 kids together, why they still apologize to their kids years later, setting boundaries with adult children, and the difference between who you are and who you perform to be. Missed Part 1? Start with how they met at FedEx in the last episode! Which part hit home for you? Tell me in the comments. CHAPTERS 0:00 When the kids want their biological father 2:00 Should you stay together for the kids? 7:45 Joining a family after the kids lost their mom 11:45 When everything hit at once 14:00 Still apologizing to our kids years later 17:30 How to ask a child to forgive you 21:20 Signs you're reacting to old wounds 24:40 When rejection rules your relationship 29:15 The bathroom mirror moment 32:00 The HALT rule for arguments 32:25 Identity is discovered, not learned 37:30 How to tell when you're performing 40:55 How to take constructive criticism 43:45 Rejection as redirection vs. avoidance 45:30 Healing if you're not religious 48:05 “I chose her for you” 51:25 Motherhood and rejection from your kids 54:15 Grace vs. boundaries 57:00 Do kids get boundaries with their parents? 1:00:20 Who Jus Relationship is for 1:03:10 Their glass ceiling moments FOLLOW TERRENCE AND TREVOR YouTube: ⁠ @terrencepayton4060 ⁠ Jus Relationship on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/6gAl0RcHiPT06GN3fQDMDi?si=3de18836671743e4 Jus Relationship on Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jus-relationships/id1875401154 NEED SOMEONE TO TALK TO? Clearapy is here for the moments that are hard but not a crisis. Call (863) 334-2447. If you are in crisis or thinking about suicide, call or text 988 to reach the 988 Suicide and Crisis Lifeline. It is free and open 24/7 in the US. #blendedfamily #relationshipadvice #podcast

    Are You Fighting Your Partner or Your Past? | Terrence and Trevor Payton
  2. Sep 14

    Fail Cheap While You're Still Young┃Joe Tomco: Entrepreneur and Family Man

    Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! This is part two of my conversation with Joe Tomco, and it goes even deeper than part one. Joe tells me about the weekend he closed a massive deal with General Electric Latin America before his product was even finished. He was up almost 20 hours a day for four days straight, running the whole thing by hand behind the scenes, because he had already promised his customer something automated. That story alone says everything about what building a business actually looks like behind closed doors. We also get into venture capital and what he calls the golden handcuffs, the pressure to grow faster and faster until you feel more like an employee of your investors than the owner of your own company. Joe opens up about the exact moment 50 million users stopped feeling like the win he thought it would be, and why he eventually walked away from tech to run a pool store instead. Joe is also a bishop, and he talks honestly about mental health, empathy, and the idea that almost everyone you pass on the street is carrying something you can't see. He shares the line that changed how he thinks about work and family, that nobody lies on their deathbed wishing they had worked more. If you're a student, a founder, or anyone who feels stuck on a path that doesn't feel like yours, this episode is for you. If this conversation brings something up for you, Clearapy is a warmline for anyone who needs to talk it out. Call 863-334-2447. Catch part one if you haven't yet, and new episodes drop every week on Chasing Glass.

    Fail Cheap While You're Still Young┃Joe Tomco: Entrepreneur and Family Man
  3. Sep 6

    Immersion Taught Him to Rise┃Joe Tomco, Entrepreneur and Family Man

    Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! Joe Tomco has started six companies, employed over 2,000 people, and built an AI language learning company that reached tens of millions of people in over 180 countries. So you'd think this episode is about tech. It's not. Joe grew up as the sixth of ten kids, followed his siblings toward medicine, and then one business plan competition in college changed the entire direction of his life. He built companies, sold companies, and eventually walked away from the tech world to buy pool stores in Athens, Georgia. In this episode, we talk about what it really means to be the top and the bottom of your own company. We get into the puffer fish principle, the psychology behind rejection, and why 90 percent of businesses fail in their first five years. Joe opens up about two years spent in the Dominican Republic with no one who spoke his language, and how having his back against the wall became the foundation for everything he built after. We also talk faith, family, mental health, and why chasing the wrong kind of success can quietly cost you everything, even when it looks like winning from the outside. This episode is a reminder that you're allowed to change your mind. You're allowed to want a different kind of win. If this episode brings something up for you, Clearapy is a warmline for anyone who needs to talk it out. Call 863-334-2447.

    Immersion Taught Him to Rise┃Joe Tomco, Entrepreneur and Family Man
  4. Aug 8

    An Artist's Gold in the Cracks┃Nuçi's Space┃Teri Drake-Floyd

    Got something to say to this podcast? Send a voicemail, and you might hear yourself on the next episode! Teri Drake-Floyd works at Nuçi's Space, a musician's health and resource center in Athens, Georgia built to prevent suicide and keep working musicians alive, healthy, and making music. By night, she writes southern gothic and horror fiction under the pen name Lillah Lawson, pulling from her own family's history to tell stories most people are too afraid to tell. In this episode, we talk about the language shift Nuçi's Space uses on purpose, calling it "brain illness" instead of "mental illness," and why that one word change can change how someone accesses care. We talk about the moment Teri realized a friend had once used a real crisis intervention method to save her life, years before she got trained in that exact method herself. And we talk about the family story, and the great-great-grandmother nobody would speak about, that became the seed for her debut novel. This is a conversation about grief, about the stories families keep quiet, and about what it actually looks like to rebuild after your glass breaks. Mental Health Resources: If you or someone you know is struggling, the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline is available 24/7. Call or text 988 to reach a trained counselor, day or night, anywhere in the U.S. Clearapy is a call-in support service for the moments when you're not in crisis, but you still need someone to talk to. For $15 an hour, you can call and be connected with someone right away, no waitlist and no scheduling weeks out. It's built for that in-between space, not a crisis, not nothing, just needing a real person on the other end of the line. Call (863) 334-2447 to connect. If you are in crisis, please use the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline instead. Nuçi's Space: Nuçi's Space is a nonprofit in Athens, Georgia built to prevent suicide, with a focus on musicians. They provide referrals for depression, anxiety, and suicidal ideation, underwrite the cost of care for musicians, and help anyone find low-cost or sliding scale mental health support. Website: nuci.org Blog: https://www.nuci.org/blog "Beautiful Here: Emerging from the Overwhelming Darkness" by Linda Phillips, Nuçi's mother and the founder of Nuçi's Space. https://www.amazon.com/Beautiful-Here-Emerging-Overwhelming-Darkness/dp/1537413678 Also available for purchase through the Nuçi's Space website. Teri's Books (writing as Lillah Lawson): https://bookshop.org/beta-search?keywords=Lillah+Lawson&bkshp-astro=thttps://www.amazon.com/stores/author/B00ZGWF2DM

    An Artist's Gold in the Cracks┃Nuçi's Space┃Teri Drake-Floyd

About

You can spend years staring at the same ceiling without realizing it's there. Chasing Glass is about the moments people finally see it, and what it takes to break through. Hosted by Kaduvamma, the show sits inside life's quiet turning points: the conversations, the unraveling, the slow climbs back into yourself. Mental health threads through every story. It's a complicated journey, because some things you don't see until the glass breaks.