Magic Seeds

Laura R. Gries
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Join Dr. Adam Gries, DACM, L.AC. and Laura Gries, Health & Spiritual Coach on their weekly podcast where they discuss how to navigate life's highs, lows, and everything in between. As professional spiritual and life coaches, they offer a holistic approach to finding peace and happiness using ancient wisdom. They cover topics such as setting good boundaries, love, marriage, raising children, finding your purpose, and more. With guests and in-depth discussions on personal experiences, their show gives listeners a roadmap to living in harmony and getting the most out of life. Tune in weekly and connect with their community on their website and social media pages. Don't miss out on the opportunity to live your best life today!

  1. 4d ago

    Episode 149: Is This the Life You Imagined?

    When you were younger, what did you imagine your life would look like by now? Did you picture a certain career, financial security, a particular kind of marriage, family, home, or lifestyle? And how much of that picture actually came from you? In this episode of Magic Seeds, Laura and Adam explore the expectations we carry into adulthood and what happens when the lives we are living don't quite resemble the ones we thought we'd have. Inspired by Laura's recent return to her hometown in Pennsylvania, the conversation begins with an interesting realization: some of the very things she couldn't wait to leave behind as a young woman are now the things she appreciates most. It raises a bigger question about how our priorities change over time and why we continue measuring our lives against dreams we may have outgrown. The conversation introduces Self-Discrepancy Theory, a psychological concept that explores the differences between who we believe we are, who we wish we were, and who we think we're supposed to be. Those gaps can create feelings of disappointment, guilt, anxiety, or dissatisfaction, sometimes even when our lives are genuinely good. Laura and Adam consider how easily we can confuse an unmet expectation with an unsuccessful life, especially when the expectations themselves were formed decades ago. And then there's social media, which has introduced an entirely new layer of comparison. We're exposed to endless images of successful careers, beautiful homes, extraordinary vacations, seemingly perfect families, and people who appear to have figured everything out. Without realizing it, we can begin incorporating pieces of other people's lives into our own definition of success. Something we never particularly wanted can suddenly feel like something we're missing. Laura and Adam also explore the lives we didn't live. The careers we didn't pursue, the places we didn't move, the opportunities we passed up, and the different versions of ourselves we might have become. Is it possible to appreciate the life we have while still feeling curious about, or even grieving, the possibilities that never happened? And how often do we romanticize those imagined lives without considering the challenges they might have brought? Perhaps one of the more interesting parts of getting older is realizing that the person who created our original vision of success had very little understanding of the experiences, relationships, losses, and unexpected turns that would eventually shape us. What mattered enormously at 25 may barely matter at 50, yet we can continue holding ourselves accountable to those old expectations. This conversation invites us to reconsider the measuring sticks we've been carrying around for years and ask whether they still reflect what matters to us today. Because sometimes the life we're living deserves a fairer assessment than the one we're giving it. This Week's Magic Seed: Are you disappointed with the life you're living, or are you still measuring it against a dream you've outgrown? Continue Your Wellness Journey At Awakenings Online, we believe caring for yourself should be something you can weave into the life you're actually living. Our membership offers guided meditations, breathwork, yoga and movement, practical nutrition and recipes, thought-provoking workshops, and our growing Six Minutes to Yourself Mini Series. Whether you have six minutes or an entire hour, you'll find accessible ways to support your physical, mental, and emotional well-being, build healthier habits, and reconnect with yourself. Explore everything available at AwakeningsOnline.net. For those in the Raleigh area seeking personalized, hands-on care, Awakenings Health offers an integrative approach to wellness through acupuncture and Chinese medicine, therapeutic massage, yoga therapy, corrective exercise, wellness coaching, and individualized support. Whether you're navigating chronic pain, stress, physical limitations, or simply want to feel and function better in your body, our team works with you to develop care that meets your individual needs. Learn more or schedule an appointment at AwakeningsHealth.com

  2. Oct 10

    Episode 148: When the Board Gets Wiped Clean

    What happens when the identities that have helped define us for decades begin to change? In this episode of Magic Seeds, Laura and Adam begin with Laura’s experience moving through perimenopause and the unexpected identity shift that has come along with it. From the time we are young, so much of who we believe ourselves to be is shaped by what is reflected back to us. Appearance, relationships, marriage, parenthood, careers, strength, success, usefulness, and the roles we play for other people can slowly become part of the answer to the question, “Who am I?” For Laura, perimenopause has brought some of those identities into question. The body changes. Energy changes. Children grow older and begin needing their parents differently. The way we see ourselves can change, and sometimes the way the outside world responds to us changes too. After a difficult year of experiencing some of that herself, Laura began picturing it as a dry erase board filled with all the identities collected over a lifetime, slowly being wiped clean. At first, a blank board can feel like loss. There can be real grief when something we have relied upon to understand ourselves is no longer there in the same way. But Laura and Adam explore another possibility: what if there is also freedom in that empty space? Instead of immediately trying to restore everything that used to be written on the board, what if this is an opportunity to decide for ourselves what belongs there now? The conversation begins with women and menopause, but it quickly expands beyond both. Men experience their own versions of the board being wiped clean as identities connected to providing, careers, physical strength, fatherhood, marriage, success, and being needed begin to shift. Eventually, most of us will encounter a time when something we have used to define ourselves no longer fits the way it once did. Laura and Adam also explore the uncomfortable question of how much responsibility we have for the identities we continue to carry. The outside world may have praised us for being beautiful, strong, successful, intelligent, or useful, but at some point we may have accepted that reflection as part of who we are. When that quality changes or disappears, it can be easy to become angry at the world for having valued it so much without recognizing how deeply we may have come to value it too. There is room to grieve what changes. There is room to be angry, confused, or unsure of who we are without something that once felt fundamental to us. There may also come a point when we can become curious about what is left behind and whether the empty space is something we need to fear at all. Maybe one of the opportunities of getting older is finally having enough erased from the board to ask a question we haven't had to ask in a very long time: Who do I want to be now? This week’s Magic Seed: When the board gets wiped clean, we don’t necessarily have to rush to write everything back the way it was. The empty space may give us an opportunity to decide what belongs there next. If you’re looking for support as you navigate your own changes, challenges, or simply the demands of everyday life, Awakenings Online was created to make wellness something you can actually use. Membership gives you practical ways to care for your mind and body wherever you are, with guided meditation and breathwork, yoga and movement, nutrition and recipes, monthly workshops, and our growing collection of Six Minutes to Yourself Mini Series. Visit AwakeningsOnline.net to explore the membership and begin wherever you are. If you’re in the Raleigh area and need more individualized, hands-on support, Awakenings Health brings that same whole-person approach into the clinic. Our experienced team offers acupuncture and Chinese medicine, massage therapy, therapeutic yoga, corrective exercise, wellness coaching, and personalized care designed around what your body and life actually need. Visit AwakeningsHealth.com to learn more or schedule an appointment.

  3. Sep 25

    Episode 147: Fear Is Stealing Your Relationship With Yourself

    Fear has a way of convincing us that the answer is somewhere out there. If we can make enough money. If the relationship works out. If our children are okay. If the business succeeds. If our health stays intact. If we can somehow arrange life in just the right way, maybe then we can finally relax. So we think. We plan. We strategize. We worry. We run every possible scenario through our minds, trying to create an outcome that will make us feel safe. But while we're doing all of that, something interesting happens. We leave ourselves. In this episode of Magic Seeds, we explore the idea that one of the things fear quietly steals from us is our relationship with ourselves. Fear of not having enough. Fear of not being enough. Fear of losing something we love. Fear of an outcome we desperately don't want. Sometimes that fear sends us into constant striving and doing. Other times, it makes us retreat from life altogether. Either way, the mind takes over and starts looking for a solution. But what if the thing we're trying so desperately to solve isn't actually asking to be solved? What if, underneath all of that noise, we're simply scared? Maybe the relationship with ourselves begins right there. I'm scared. I'm really attached to this working out. I don't know what I'm going to do if it doesn't. I don't want to lose this. There is something incredibly human about allowing ourselves to admit that without immediately trying to make the feeling disappear. We also talk about the difference between the emotion itself and everything the mind builds around it. Fear may be uncomfortable, but then comes the story: I can't handle this. Something has to change. I have to figure this out. What if this happens? What if that happens? And suddenly we're carrying the original fear plus an entire future that hasn't happened. Perhaps peace doesn't require knowing how everything is going to turn out. Maybe it begins with staying in relationship with ourselves while we don't know. Because life will always contain uncertainty. There will always be people, outcomes, dreams, and circumstances we're deeply attached to. We can care tremendously about what happens without requiring ourselves to control every possibility before we're allowed to be okay. And even if nothing outside of us changes, something inside the experience can. We can be scared without abandoning ourselves. This week's Magic Seed: Fear doesn't only make us afraid of life. It can make us leave ourselves in an attempt to control it. For guided meditations, workshops, yoga, breathwork, recipes, coaching, and tools for bringing wellness into real life, visit AwakeningsOnline.net. For acupuncture and holistic care in Raleigh, visit AwakeningsHealth.com.

  4. Sep 7

    Episode 146: The Big Rest Summer

    Every summer, I question myself. While families around us are filling their calendars with camps, activities, and plans, I intentionally leave a large part of our girls' summer open. And even though I've done this for years, I still find myself wondering if I should be doing more. Then August comes around, and I'm reminded why I keep making the same choice. Our summers aren't empty. There is competitive swim, travel, time with grandparents and extended family, friends, camping, sleepaway camp and plenty of adventures along the way. But there are also mornings when the girls sleep until their bodies wake them up. Afternoons spent reading, building Legos, riding bikes, lying in hammocks or wandering around trying to figure out what to do next. And yes, sometimes they're bored. In this episode, we look back on another Big Rest Summer and ask whether children really need every open space in their lives filled for them. During the school year, so much of a child's time already belongs to someone else. Teachers, coaches, homework, practices, activities and schedules determine what happens next. Summer can offer something completely different: the opportunity to listen to themselves. Maybe boredom isn't always something parents need to fix. Maybe sleeping late doesn't mean a child is lazy. Maybe an afternoon that produces absolutely nothing still has value. And then our conversation took an unexpected turn. We realized this isn't only about children. Somewhere along the way, many adults have lost the ability to do exactly what we're giving our kids permission to practice. We don't know how to stop. We live in a culture that places enormous value on productivity, and eventually it can become difficult to separate what we accomplish from how we feel about ourselves. An empty afternoon can make us restless. Sitting still can feel irresponsible. Rest often comes with the nagging thought that there is something more useful we should be doing. So maybe our kids aren't the only ones who need a Big Rest Summer. Perhaps we need seasons in our adult lives when we intentionally step out of constant production long enough to hear ourselves again. Not because we've stopped caring about our responsibilities, but because self-regulation also means recognizing when it's time to push and when it's time to recover. Children eventually have to learn how to manage their own energy, time and attention. Adults do too. Maybe one of the greatest things we can teach our children isn't how to stay busy. It's how to recognize when they need rest without believing something is wrong with them for needing it. And perhaps we could stand to learn the same lesson. Every summer I worry that I'm not giving my kids enough. By August, I usually realize that maybe what I gave them was time. And this year, I'm realizing that might be something the rest of us need a little more of too. For guided meditations, workshops, yoga classes, breathwork, recipes, and a community dedicated to living with greater awareness and intention, visit AwakeningsOnline.net. If you're in the Raleigh area and would like support through massage therapy, therapeutic yoga, corrective exercise, wellness coaching, acupuncture, and holistic health services, visit AwakeningsHealth.com.

  5. Aug 31

    Episode 145: What Happened to Us?

    This conversation began with a question that neither of us could shake. What happened to us? Not what happened to politics. Not what happened to our country. What happened to the way we see one another? After seeing the image of a three-year-old little girl standing in her Bluey pajamas beside the body of her father, everything else seemed to disappear. For one brief moment, there were no headlines, no opinions, no political parties - only a child whose world had changed forever. And yet, it made us wonder why our first instinct has so often become asking who someone is before deciding how we feel about their suffering. In this episode, we explore what fear does to the human nervous system, why our brains naturally reduce people to categories, and how awareness asks something more of us. What if awareness isn't simply noticing our breath during meditation? What if awareness is noticing the exact moment another human being disappears behind a label? We talk about the armor we all wear—our beliefs, identities, past experiences, certainty, and fear—and imagine what might happen if, before a difficult conversation, we quietly set that armor on the ground and simply met another person, heart to heart. This is not a conversation about abandoning convictions. It is a conversation about refusing to let compassion depend on agreement. Because perhaps healing doesn't begin when we finally convince someone else. Perhaps it begins the moment we choose to see the human being standing in front of us. If today's conversation resonated with you, we invite you to continue reading Laura's companion blog: "When We Stop Seeing One Another" Read the blog here We would love to hear your thoughts. Share this episode with someone who values thoughtful conversation, and if Magic Seeds has become part of your week, leaving a review is one of the most meaningful ways to help others discover it. For guided meditations, live workshops, yoga classes, breathwork, recipes, and a community dedicated to living with greater awareness, visit Awakenings Online. If you're in the Raleigh area and are looking for massage therapy, therapeutic yoga, corrective exercise, wellness coaching, acupuncture, or holistic healthcare, visit Awakenings Health.

  6. Aug 29

    Episode 144: Hustle or Scramble?

    There is a kind of effort that feels alive. It comes from interest, momentum, curiosity, and the desire to see what is possible. Then there is another kind of effort that looks almost identical from the outside but feels completely different from within. It is driven by fear, pressure, obligation, and the belief that everything will fall apart if we stop pushing. In this episode, we explore the difference between hustle and scramble. Hustle can feel joyful. It can be connected to purpose, play, passion, and the natural fire that moves us toward something meaningful. Scramble carries a different weight. It begins when effort becomes desperate, when momentum turns into pressure, and when the need to keep everything going starts overriding our own well-being. This conversation grew out of what happened after vacation. For the first time in years, there was enough space for the constant motion to stop. Once that happened, it became possible to see how much energy had been spent maintaining the wave of life and how much of that effort had quietly been coming from fear. What happens when we stop creating movement simply because we are afraid of what will happen if we do not? What happens when we allow an old rhythm, expectation, role, or attachment to end before life is forced to end it for us? We talk about the discomfort of stepping into a slower season, the fear that everything may fall apart, and the wisdom of letting go before life demands it through illness, exhaustion, conflict, or crisis. There are times when the healthiest thing we can do is stop forcing what no longer feels supported. That may look like power-saving mode. It may mean doing what is necessary and allowing everything else to quiet down. It may require enough trust to stop manufacturing passion and let it return from a deeper place. The real question is not whether we should care less about our lives. It is whether we can stop carrying them in a way that slowly drains the life out of us. We cannot avoid cycles. Endings are part of every beginning. When we resist them long enough, life often creates the pause for us. Maybe the invitation is to let go on our own terms. To release what has become heavy before it creates more suffering. To stop scrambling long enough for genuine fire, clarity, and desire to rise again. For guided meditations, yoga classes, workshops, wellness resources, and a community centered around conscious living, visit AwakeningsOnline.net. For massage therapy, therapeutic yoga, corrective exercise, wellness coaching, and holistic health services in Raleigh, visit AwakeningsHealth.com.

  7. Jul 23

    Episode 143: The Life We Shouldn't Need to Escape

    We recently took a family vacation, and while it was beautiful, this episode really is not about the destination. It is about what happened after we got there. Within a couple of days, we both noticed something changing. The constant mental chatter began to quiet. There was nowhere we had to be, nothing demanding our attention every few minutes, and for the first time in a long time, there was enough space to simply breathe. That space changed everything. It made us wonder why so many of us have accepted a pace of life that requires us to leave it just to feel like ourselves again. In this conversation, we explore the invisible weight so many people carry every day. Not necessarily the people we love, but the endless responsibilities that surround them. The planning, the decisions, the errands, the upkeep, the feeling that there is always one more thing waiting for us before we can finally relax. Somewhere along the way, we started believing that rest is something we earn after everything else is finished. But what if everything else is never finished? We also talk about what has always fascinated us about many European cultures. There seems to be a different relationship with time. Meals are shared instead of rushed. Walking is part of the day instead of another task to complete. Vacations are protected. Time with family and friends is woven into life instead of squeezed in around it. The goal is not simply to work hard, but to build a life that leaves room to actually enjoy living. That perspective challenged us. The greatest gift this trip gave us was not a week away. It was perspective. We came home realizing that what we needed most was not an escape. We needed recovery. We needed space to think, to reconnect, to laugh, to remember what life feels like when every moment is not driven by obligation. It reminded us that there is a difference between existing and living. If you find yourself constantly saying, "I'll rest after this project," "when the kids are older," or "when life settles down," maybe it's worth asking a different question. What if life is not going to slow down on its own? What if creating space for recovery is not a luxury, but one of the healthiest decisions we can make for ourselves and the people we love? Because perhaps the goal is not building a life you constantly need to escape. Perhaps the goal is building a life that regularly gives you a reason to stay fully present in it. For guided meditations, workshops, yoga classes, recipes, breathwork, and a supportive community, visit AwakeningsOnline.net. If you are in the Raleigh area and would like support through massage therapy, therapeutic yoga, corrective exercise, wellness coaching, or holistic health services, visit AwakeningsHealth.com.

  8. Jul 19

    Episode 142: Choose Loneliness Over Losing Yourself

    Loneliness is hard. There is no reason to pretend otherwise. Most of us have experienced seasons where we wondered if we would ever find our people, where relationships changed, friendships drifted apart, or life simply felt quieter than we wanted it to. But there is something even more painful than loneliness. Slowly becoming someone you no longer recognize. In this episode, we explore the quiet compromises people make to avoid being alone. Staying in relationships that no longer feel healthy. Remaining silent to keep the peace. Saying yes when the answer inside is no. Shrinking ourselves just enough to fit into places we may have already outgrown. Over time, those small decisions can add up, leaving us disconnected from our own values, voice, and authenticity. We also talk about the difference between fitting in and belonging. Fitting in often asks us to change who we are to gain acceptance. Belonging asks something entirely different. It invites us to be fully ourselves and trust that the right people will meet us there. That journey is not always easy. There are seasons in life when we outgrow relationships, habits, careers, or old versions of ourselves. Those in-between spaces can feel lonely, but they can also become some of the most important seasons of growth we'll ever experience. Instead of rushing to fill the silence, perhaps there is value in listening to what it has to teach us. Sometimes solitude becomes the place where we rebuild trust in ourselves, rediscover our voice, and create space for relationships that no longer require us to pretend. Because the goal is not simply to have people around us. The goal is to be surrounded by people who allow us to remain fully ourselves. Choose loneliness over losing yourself. Loneliness is a season. Living someone else's life can become a lifetime. For guided meditations, yoga classes, workshops, wellness resources, and a community committed to living with greater awareness and intention, visit AwakeningsOnline.net. If you are in the Raleigh area and are looking for massage therapy, therapeutic yoga, corrective exercise, wellness coaching, or holistic health services, visit AwakeningsHealth.com.

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Join Dr. Adam Gries, DACM, L.AC. and Laura Gries, Health & Spiritual Coach on their weekly podcast where they discuss how to navigate life's highs, lows, and everything in between. As professional spiritual and life coaches, they offer a holistic approach to finding peace and happiness using ancient wisdom. They cover topics such as setting good boundaries, love, marriage, raising children, finding your purpose, and more. With guests and in-depth discussions on personal experiences, their show gives listeners a roadmap to living in harmony and getting the most out of life. Tune in weekly and connect with their community on their website and social media pages. Don't miss out on the opportunity to live your best life today!

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  • Creator
    Laura R. Gries
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    150
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Show Website
    Magic Seeds