The Imperfect Podcast

Wendy Lloyd Curley

Welcome to the Imperfect Podcast! I'm your host, Wendy Lloyd Curley, and I am thrilled to have you join me on this journey. In this podcast, we delve into four major topics that are close to my heart: professional speaking, BNI networking, networking strategically, and of course, music. Whether I'm sharing insights through interviews or flying solo, you can expect a short, sharp conversation that will leave you inspired and informed. So sit back, relax, and enjoy the unique perspective and discussions that Imperfect Podcast has to offer.

  1. Jul 3

    17. Life is One Big Adventure: Business, Belonging, and Finding Your People

    In this episode of The Imperfect Podcast, Wendy Lloyd Curley speaks with Andrea Hernandez from Adventures Web Digital about business, belonging, bravery, and the very human side of networking. Andrea shares her story of moving from Colombia to Spain, then to the UK, and eventually to Australia, where she and her partner began building their own digital agency. With a background in creativity, web development, public service, and a deep desire to help people, Andrea’s journey into business is thoughtful, honest, and refreshingly real. Together, Wendy and Andrea explore what it feels like to start a business in a new country, how isolating entrepreneurship can be, and why finding the right business community can make such a profound difference. Andrea speaks openly about her early experiences of networking, from awkward rooms and superficial connections to discovering BNI and finding not just referrals, but confidence, accountability, friendships, and a renewed sense of identity. The conversation also touches on generational differences in networking, especially the way younger business owners often begin relationships online, while still deeply craving genuine face-to-face connection. At the heart of the episode is a simple but powerful idea: no matter our age, background, or business experience, networking works best when it begins with human connection. This is a warm, reflective conversation about building a business, finding your people, and remembering that life really is one big adventure.

  2. 07/25/2025

    12. Inviting Visitors to a BNI Chapter

    Podcast Summary: “Inviting Visitors the Right Way – Strategic Networking with Wendy Lloyd Curley” In this insightful episode, Wendy Lloyd Curley, keynote speaker, BNI Executive Director, and the author of Stop Wasting Your Time Networking, dives deep into one of the most important (yet often misunderstood) parts of growing a strong BNI chapter: inviting visitors. But this isn’t your typical “bring a friend” talk. Instead, Wendy brings the BNI Passport out of the glove box and uses it as a map to guide members back to the basics of strategic networking. With her signature clarity and energy, she walks listeners through a practical and mindset-focused approach to inviting visitors that aligns with BNI values and avoids sounding like recruitment. Key Takeaways from the Episode: Understand the Strength of Your Network Before you invite anyone, pause and reflect. Wendy encourages members to take stock of their existing network... clients, suppliers, referral partners, and professional acquaintances. Who do you already know? Who trusts you? Who could benefit from meeting your chapter? Categorize Your Network with Intention Using the BNI Passport framework, Wendy explains how to segment your network into meaningful categories. This allows you to pinpoint potential visitors who align with your chapter’s open seats or who could benefit from strategic introductions. Extend Invitations, Not Recruitment Pitches Wendy is clear: “Don’t recruit. Invite.” The goal is not to “sign people up”... it’s to offer genuine value. By positioning your invitation as a gift of opportunity rather than an obligation, you’ll get better responses and create a more welcoming visitor experience. Understand the Values of Your Prospective Visitors A key ingredient in strategic networking is alignment. Wendy shares tips for identifying people in your network who value long-term relationships, trust, and giving before receiving. These are the people who will resonate with the BNI philosophy—and who will elevate your chapter if they choose to join. Add Value (to Them AND to the Chapter) Every visitor should feel like their time at your meeting was well spent—even if they’re not yet ready to join. Wendy explains how to be intentional about who you invite and how to ensure they leave the meeting with introductions, insights, or inspiration. Spot What’s Missing in Your Network Growth isn’t just about more people; it’s about the right people. Wendy encourages chapters to be proactive and strategic in identifying which professions, industries, or types of referral relationships are underrepresented. Use this awareness to guide your invitations each week. Every Week is Visitor Week This is not a seasonal activity. Every single BNI meeting is an opportunity to bring someone new into your network, showcase your chapter’s culture, and spark fresh referral energy. Wendy urges members to make inviting a consistent and joyful habit. 💡 Final Thought: Inviting visitors isn’t about filling chairs. It’s about creating meaningful, mutually beneficial relationships. Wendy’s approach is grounded in authenticity, clarity, and strategy. Whether you’re a new member or a seasoned leader, this episode will leave you inspired to invite with purpose, not pressure. Action Step: Pull out your BNI Passport. Reflect on your network. And this week, extend an invitation that feels genuine, generous, and aligned with the power of Strategic Networking.

    12. Inviting Visitors to a BNI Chapter

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Welcome to the Imperfect Podcast! I'm your host, Wendy Lloyd Curley, and I am thrilled to have you join me on this journey. In this podcast, we delve into four major topics that are close to my heart: professional speaking, BNI networking, networking strategically, and of course, music. Whether I'm sharing insights through interviews or flying solo, you can expect a short, sharp conversation that will leave you inspired and informed. So sit back, relax, and enjoy the unique perspective and discussions that Imperfect Podcast has to offer.