The Imperfect Podcast

Wendy Lloyd Curley

Welcome to the Imperfect Podcast! I'm your host, Wendy Lloyd Curley, and I am thrilled to have you join me on this journey. In this podcast, we delve into four major topics that are close to my heart: professional speaking, BNI networking, networking strategically, and of course, music. Whether I'm sharing insights through interviews or flying solo, you can expect a short, sharp conversation that will leave you inspired and informed. So sit back, relax, and enjoy the unique perspective and discussions that Imperfect Podcast has to offer.

  1. 12. Inviting Visitors to a BNI Chapter

    07/25/2025

    12. Inviting Visitors to a BNI Chapter

    Podcast Summary: “Inviting Visitors the Right Way – Strategic Networking with Wendy Lloyd Curley” In this insightful episode, Wendy Lloyd Curley, keynote speaker, BNI Executive Director, and the author of Stop Wasting Your Time Networking, dives deep into one of the most important (yet often misunderstood) parts of growing a strong BNI chapter: inviting visitors. But this isn’t your typical “bring a friend” talk. Instead, Wendy brings the BNI Passport out of the glove box and uses it as a map to guide members back to the basics of strategic networking. With her signature clarity and energy, she walks listeners through a practical and mindset-focused approach to inviting visitors that aligns with BNI values and avoids sounding like recruitment. Key Takeaways from the Episode: Understand the Strength of Your Network Before you invite anyone, pause and reflect. Wendy encourages members to take stock of their existing network... clients, suppliers, referral partners, and professional acquaintances. Who do you already know? Who trusts you? Who could benefit from meeting your chapter? Categorize Your Network with Intention Using the BNI Passport framework, Wendy explains how to segment your network into meaningful categories. This allows you to pinpoint potential visitors who align with your chapter’s open seats or who could benefit from strategic introductions. Extend Invitations, Not Recruitment Pitches Wendy is clear: “Don’t recruit. Invite.” The goal is not to “sign people up”... it’s to offer genuine value. By positioning your invitation as a gift of opportunity rather than an obligation, you’ll get better responses and create a more welcoming visitor experience. Understand the Values of Your Prospective Visitors A key ingredient in strategic networking is alignment. Wendy shares tips for identifying people in your network who value long-term relationships, trust, and giving before receiving. These are the people who will resonate with the BNI philosophy—and who will elevate your chapter if they choose to join. Add Value (to Them AND to the Chapter) Every visitor should feel like their time at your meeting was well spent—even if they’re not yet ready to join. Wendy explains how to be intentional about who you invite and how to ensure they leave the meeting with introductions, insights, or inspiration. Spot What’s Missing in Your Network Growth isn’t just about more people; it’s about the right people. Wendy encourages chapters to be proactive and strategic in identifying which professions, industries, or types of referral relationships are underrepresented. Use this awareness to guide your invitations each week. Every Week is Visitor Week This is not a seasonal activity. Every single BNI meeting is an opportunity to bring someone new into your network, showcase your chapter’s culture, and spark fresh referral energy. Wendy urges members to make inviting a consistent and joyful habit. 💡 Final Thought: Inviting visitors isn’t about filling chairs. It’s about creating meaningful, mutually beneficial relationships. Wendy’s approach is grounded in authenticity, clarity, and strategy. Whether you’re a new member or a seasoned leader, this episode will leave you inspired to invite with purpose, not pressure. Action Step: Pull out your BNI Passport. Reflect on your network. And this week, extend an invitation that feels genuine, generous, and aligned with the power of Strategic Networking.

    22 min
  2. 10. Tom Etherington & Strategic Networking on LinkedIn

    06/07/2025

    10. Tom Etherington & Strategic Networking on LinkedIn

    The Imperfect Podcast – Episode 10: Strategic Networking, Online and Offline with Tom Etherington In this milestone episode... our very first interview! Wendy Lloyd Curley sits down with longtime friend and LinkedIn strategist Tom Etherington to explore the powerful intersection of in-person and online networking. Tom, founder of Connect Content and a former journalist, shares his philosophy on using LinkedIn as a relationship-building tool rather than just a content megaphone. Together, Wendy and Tom compare approaches, swap stories, and offer practical advice on everything from crafting a compelling “About” section to making real connections that begin either at a networking event or in a comment thread. Whether you're starting a conversation in a conference room or with a QR code scan, this episode is packed with insights to help you blend authenticity and strategy in every connection you make. 🧠 Topics covered: Building trust before making the ask Strategic outreach vs. spammy selling LinkedIn content that starts conversations (not lectures) How to use personality to connect with the right audience Why your “About” section isn’t just about you 🔗 Plus, hear about Tom’s signature LinkedIn Roadmap process and how he helps professionals stand out online with integrity and voice. 🎯 Perfect for: Business owners, BNI members, professional networkers, and anyone wanting to get more out of LinkedIn. https://www.linkedin.com/in/tom-etherington/

    30 min

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Welcome to the Imperfect Podcast! I'm your host, Wendy Lloyd Curley, and I am thrilled to have you join me on this journey. In this podcast, we delve into four major topics that are close to my heart: professional speaking, BNI networking, networking strategically, and of course, music. Whether I'm sharing insights through interviews or flying solo, you can expect a short, sharp conversation that will leave you inspired and informed. So sit back, relax, and enjoy the unique perspective and discussions that Imperfect Podcast has to offer.