Send us Fan Mail Send us Fan Mail Your race is your race. That's the tension this episode of She Said, She Prayed sits inside. Diamond and Candi get honest about comparison — watching friends buy houses, get promotions, hit milestones on a different timeline, while still being genuinely happy for them. One host talks through the hardest season of her marriage, when her husband was drafted for almost nothing, and she carried the weight nearly alone, wrestling with resentment even while believing in him completely. The other shares what it took to obey a move she still isn't thrilled about, landing on Hebrews 12:1 — "run the race set before you" — and John 21:22, where Jesus tells Peter, "What is that to you? You must follow me." This isn't a five-step guide to not comparing yourself to anyone. It's two friends admitting that minding your own business, spiritually speaking, is a discipline — and that timing you didn't choose can still turn out to be exactly right. In this episode: Why comparison doesn't cancel out being genuinely happy for someone elseHebrews 12:1 — running the race set before you, not someone else'sJohn 21:22 — "What is that to you? You must follow me."The real cost of a season neither of them was prepared for"Soft era" vs. "get it done era" — and why that shift isn't a betrayal of the season before itWhat it means to "mind your business" with God, not just with peopleIf this episode gave you language for something you've never known how to explain, the most helpful thing you can do is leave a quick rating and review — it's how new listeners find us in these first few weeks. Timestamps: 0:00 – Cold open + intro 0:29 – Check-in: what are you most proud of yourself for? 2:30 – Today's topic: trusting your journey doesn't have to look like anyone else's 3:00 – Hebrews 12:1 — "run the race set before you" 4:50 – John 21:22 — "What is that to you? You must follow me." 6:17 – The move to the desert — "I'm here because Jesus told me to" 12:57 – How comparison affects confidence 13:43 – Losing motivation as a wife and mom 20:44 – The baseball season — resentment, $5,000, and carrying it alone 27:25 – Personality segment: "soft era" vs. "get it done era" 32:18 – What do you do when you didn't understand the weight of what you agreed to? 36:28 – The fast, and hearing "it's your season" 39:51 – "Mind your business" — your journey is yours 43:19 – Where do you feel the most comparison, and how do you ask God for it? Topics: comparison and faith, trusting God's timing, Christian women podcast, faith and marriage, motherhood and identity, seasons of life, Christian girl talk, emotional healing podcast, faith and ambition, and more New episodes every Tuesday. Catch up on the series: Part 1, "Rediscovering Who I Am Beyond Being a Wife and a Mom", and Part 2, "When You Feel God Pulling You Toward Something You're Not Prepared For", before this one. Email us at shesaidsheprayed@gmail.com — we want to hear from you. WEBSITE: 🔗 She said. She prayed. 📱 SOCIAL LINKS: Instagram: / shesaidshep. . Facebook Community: She said. She prayed. Community Tik tok: / shesaidsheprayed Youtube: / @shesaidsheprayed