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We were raised by aunties. Now, we're becoming them. Decoding South East Asian cutlture, midlife & "log kya kahenge."

Episodes

  1. 6d ago

    The Anxious People Pleaser That Lost Herself

    She was the good one. The helpful one. The one who never caused problems. Sound familiar? Executive & Relationship Coach Naila Qureshi from MindBodySpiritss joins us on this episode to break down something we don't talk about enough — people pleasing isn't a personality trait, it's a defense mechanism. And for a lot of South Asian women, it started very early. In this episode, Naila helps us understand where it comes from, why we hold on to it, and what it's actually costing us. Because somewhere between log kya kahenge and keeping everyone comfortable, a lot of us lost the plot on who we actually are. Naila is here to help us find our way back. Episode Resources Connect with Naila Qureshi www.mindbodyspiritss.com

    56 min

  2. Jun 22

    Saema's Story: Can you be Pakistani and American?

    Can you be 100% Pakistani and 100% American at the same time? Saema certainly thinks so, but Zainab isn’t letting her off that easily. In this episode, the aunties dive into what it means to grow up between cultures, navigate competing expectations, and build a blended family that doesn’t fit neatly into any one box. Saema shares stories of identity, belonging, and the moments that made her question where she fits in. Maybe the answer isn’t choosing one side—it’s embracing all of who you are.

    31 min

  3. Jun 15

    Zainab’s Story: She'd Been Deaf Her Whole Life. Finding Out Set Her Free.

    In South Asian families, disability is often the thing no one names. Zainab lived that reality — moving through her early years deaf, undiagnosed, and surrounded by a culture that mistook her silence for something else entirely. This is the story of what it costs to go unseen, and what it means to finally find yourself on your own terms.

    38 min

  4. Jun 8

    What does a Perfect Pakistani Woman Look Like?

    What does it mean to be enough exactly as you are — in a culture that has spent decades telling you otherwise? In this episode, Zainab and Saema get into two of the most personal and least talked-about pressures facing South Asian women: colorism and body acceptance. Zainab shares the moment she realized she had spent years avoiding white clothing because someone told her it would make her look darker — and how one cream suit changed that. The conversation opens up into something bigger: what it means to carry your body as a life lived, not a problem to be solved. Zainab shares a story that will stop you cold — walking into a rishta meeting as a highly educated, professionally accomplished woman, only to be turned away because of her skin color. It is the kind of story South Asian women have never been supposed to tell out loud. This episode tells it. By the end, the takeaway is simple but hard-won: the glow up isn't lighter skin or a perfect body. It's finally deciding neither one defines you. In This Episode Why South Asian women were taught to fear their own skin toneThe real cost of colorism — not just to confidence, but to identityWhy our bodies are supposed to change — and how to make peace with thatWhat it looks like to rewrite the script, one cream suit at a time

    26 min

  5. May 29

    Log Kya Kahenge

    Auntie Please

    21 min
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We were raised by aunties. Now, we're becoming them. Decoding South East Asian cutlture, midlife & "log kya kahenge."

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