Kingdom Spouse Disappointment | Healing, Heartbreak, God Revealed Relationship, The One,

Lori-Kaye Myles
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Have you ever believed God showed you your future spouse… only for the relationship to end, never begin, or unfold completely differently than you expected? If you’ve ever said, “I thought God told me he was my future husband,” this podcast is for you. Welcome to Kingdom Spouse Disappointment, a podcast for Christians where we talk openly about christian relationship disappointments, dating struggles, and the pain of believing in a God promised marriage that didn’t happen. We explore how to rebuild trust in God after a "kingdom spouse" heartbreak; whether you’re navigating a relationship that ended or questioning a marriage promise about "the one". This isn't a place for quick fixes. Rather, it's a safe space to bring your questions, your tears, your faith, and your story. Whether you're grieving a relationship that ended, waiting for clarity, or rebuilding your confidence in God's leading, I pray each episode reminds you of one truth: Your disappointment is real-but it is not the end of your story. I'm Lori, and I'm so grateful you're here. Let's walk this healing journey together—one honest conversation at a time. ---------- 🌿 Continue your healing journey If today's episode resonated with you, I'd love to stay connected. Visit lorikayemyles.com to  explore my free devotional, and other free resources created to encourage you on your healing journey. And if you're ready to go deeper, you'll find information about my book and other resources designed to support your journey toward healing and hope. Remember—you don't have to walk through this alone.

  1. 1d ago

    Discernment in Relationships: Is He My Future Husband/ She My Future Wife Syndrome"

    Have you ever met someone and wondered, " Could this my future spouse?" Do you find that after basic conversations you start imagining the possibility of what a future life with this person might be? In this episode -the last of a mini series on discernment- we explore what I call the " Is He My Future Husband/ She My Future Wife Syndrome" where we sometimes start imagining marriage and a future with someone too early; or find ourselves whisked away in our imagination and fantasies... so much that our discernment get blurred .   Listen as the the host shares her persons experience of having this "syndrome" as well as shares  practical tips and encouragement on discernment.   ------ 🌿 Continue your healing journey If today's episode resonated with you, I'd love to stay connected.   Visit lorikayemyles.com to explore my free devotional, and other free resources created to encourage you on your healing journey.  And if you're ready to go deeper, you'll find information about my book and other resources designed to support your journey toward healing and hope. Remember...you don't have to walk through this alone. Have you ever met someone and wondered, " Could this my future spouse?" Do you find that after basic conversations you start imagining the possibility of what a future life with this person might be? In this episode -the last of a mini series on discernment- we explore what I call the " Is He My Future Husband/ She My Future Wife Syndrome" where we sometimes start imagining marriage and a future with someone too early; or find ourselves whisked away in our imagination and fantasies... so much that our discernment get blurred .   Listen as the the host shares her persons experience of having this "syndrome" as well as shares  practical tips and encouragement on discernment.   ------ 🌿 Continue your healing journey If today's episode resonated with you, I'd love to stay connected.   Visit lorikayemyles.com to explore my free devotional, and other free resources created to encourage you on your healing journey.  And if you're ready to go deeper, you'll find information about my book and other resources designed to support your journey toward healing and hope. Remember...you don't have to walk through this alone.

  2. Oct 15

    Discernment in Christian Relationships Part 2

    Have you ever had questions about discernment in Christian relationships? Especially after heartbreak? In this episode -the second of a mini series on discernment- we explore what biblical discernment really means, and how it is not just about the "what" but also the "how". Moreover, we speak about what are some things that can impede or blur discernment in relationships. Listen for practical encouragement on making decisions, recognizing what pleases God, and finding hope and healing when discernment feels uncertain. ------ 🌿 Continue your healing journey If today's episode resonated with you, I'd love to stay connected. Visit lorikayemyles.com to explore my free devotional, and other free resources created to encourage you on your healing journey. And if you're ready to go deeper, you'll find information about my book and other resources designed to support your journey toward healing and hope. Remember...you don't have to walk through this alone.

  3. Oct 8

    Discernment in Christian Relationships

    Have you ever had questions about discernment in Christian relationships? Especially after heartbreak? In this episode -the first of a mini series on discernment- we explore what biblical discernment really means while I share my  own story of believing God showed me who would be my future spouse but it didn’t work out. We contrast common misconceptions—like expecting a supernatural, error-free inner knowing—with a biblical view that involves Scripture, growing relationship with God, practice, and trusting His grace when answers aren’t clear. Listen for practical encouragement on making decisions, recognizing what pleases God, and finding hope and healing when discernment feels uncertain.     ------ 🌿 Continue your healing journey If today's episode resonated with you, I'd love to stay connected.   Visit lorikayemyles.com to explore my free devotional, and other free resources created to encourage you on your healing journey. And if you're ready to go deeper, you'll find information about my book and other resources designed to support your journey toward healing and hope. Remember...you don't have to walk through this alone.

  4. Sep 28

    Navigating Healing When You ” Miss Them” After Heartbreak

    Do you feel like you’re trying your best to heal and move on after relationship disappointment... but somehow you find yourself reminiscing, or even missing the person who hurt you? You might be thinking "Why do I miss them even though I know what happened?" If so, this episode is for you. In this honest conversation, we talk about the tension of "I miss them even though they broke my heart.” Missing someone doesn’t mean you failed at healing, and it doesn’t mean you should return. You can feel the feeling without obeying the feeling. Press play, journal along, and let’s take this next healing step together. ------ 🌿 Continue your healing journey   If today's episode resonated with you, I'd love to stay connected. Visit www.lorikayemyles.com to explore my free devotional, and other free resources created to encourage you on your healing journey.   And if you're ready to go deeper, you'll find information about my book and other resources designed to support your journey toward healing and hope.   Remember...you don't have to walk through this alone.

  5. Sep 19

    Who Am I After Heartbreak? Reaffirming Identity After Christian Relationship Disappointment

    Do you feel as if a piece of you is missing after heartbreak? Or as if you are not sure who you are anymore?   If so, this episode is for you.   In this episode we explore how heartbreak can make you feel like you lost a part of your identity. Moreover, we go through some reminders about what the Bible says about your worth and identity in Christ, and not in a relationship outcome.   We discuss common emotional questions after relationship disappointment and provide encouragement to reaffirm your identity in God.   -------- 🌿 Continue your healing journey   If today's episode resonated with you, I'd love to stay connected. Visit www.lorikayemyles.com to explore my free devotional, and other free resources created to encourage you on your healing journey.   And if you're ready to go deeper, you'll find information about my book and other resources designed to support your journey toward healing and hope.   Remember...you don't have to walk through this alone.

  6. Sep 14

    Forgiveness After Relationship Disappointment and Heartbreak

    Do you find that you are are finding it more difficult than usual to forgive, after your last relationship disappointment or heartbreak?   Do you have questions about what forgiveness truly is, why do you need to forgive and if you can forgive while maintaining healthy boundaries?   If so, this episode is for you.   Using Scripture, practical imagery, and gentle guidance, the episode offers steps to release the burden of unforgiveness, maintain healthy boundaries, and invite God’s healing while processing real emotions.    ------ 🌿 Continue your healing journey If today's episode resonated with you, I'd love to stay connected. Visit lorikayemyles.com to explore my free devotional, and other free resources created to encourage you on your healing journey. And if you're ready to go deeper, you'll find information about my book and other resources designed to support your journey toward healing and hope. Remember...you don't have to walk through this alone.

  7. Sep 6

    When Someone Else Gets the Future You Wanted: Christian Dating, Comparison & Relationship Disappointment

    What if you’re not just grieving the person, but the future you thought you were going to have? What if you believe that someone received the relationship or future you believed was going to be yours? In this episode of Kingdom Spouse Disappointment, we talk about how to release jealousy and comparison when you believe someone else got the future you wanted. If you’re navigating heartbreak, kingdom spouse disappointment, or the pain of watching someone else live the future you once imagined, this episode is for you.     ------ 🌿 Continue your healing journey If today's episode resonated with you, I'd love to stay connected. Visit lorikayemyles.com to explore my free devotional, and other free resources created to encourage you on your healing journey. And if you're ready to go deeper, you'll find information about my book and other resources designed to support your journey toward healing and hope. Remember...you don't have to walk through this alone.

  8. Aug 20

    When You're Tired of Trying to Figure It Out: Finding Rest After Christian Relationship Disappointment

    What if you’re not just heartbroken… you’re exhausted from trying to understand what happened? After a Christian relationship ends-especially one you believed God was leading-you may find yourself constantly replaying conversations, questioning your decisions, analyzing what God was doing, and searching for an explanation. In this restful episode of Kingdom Spouse Disappointment, we talk about the difference between processing disappointment and endlessly replaying it. You’ll be reminded that you don’t have to solve every unanswered question before you can begin healing. If you’ve been asking, “Why did this happen?” “What did I miss?” “Did I do something wrong?” or “What was God doing?”-this episode invites you to breathe, release the need to know everything, and find peace in God’s presence even when you don't have all the answers. If you’re healing from Christian relationship disappointment, heartbreak, spiritual disappointment, or confusion about God’s plans, this episode is a gentle reminder: you can rest without having every answer.   ---------- 🌿 Continue your healing journey If today's episode resonated with you, I'd love to stay connected. Visit www.lorikayemyles.com to explore my free devotional, and other free resources created to encourage you on your healing journey. And if you're ready to go deeper, you'll find information about my book and other resources designed to support your journey toward healing and hope. Remember...you don't have to walk through this alone.

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Have you ever believed God showed you your future spouse… only for the relationship to end, never begin, or unfold completely differently than you expected? If you’ve ever said, “I thought God told me he was my future husband,” this podcast is for you. Welcome to Kingdom Spouse Disappointment, a podcast for Christians where we talk openly about christian relationship disappointments, dating struggles, and the pain of believing in a God promised marriage that didn’t happen. We explore how to rebuild trust in God after a "kingdom spouse" heartbreak; whether you’re navigating a relationship that ended or questioning a marriage promise about "the one". This isn't a place for quick fixes. Rather, it's a safe space to bring your questions, your tears, your faith, and your story. Whether you're grieving a relationship that ended, waiting for clarity, or rebuilding your confidence in God's leading, I pray each episode reminds you of one truth: Your disappointment is real-but it is not the end of your story. I'm Lori, and I'm so grateful you're here. Let's walk this healing journey together—one honest conversation at a time. ---------- 🌿 Continue your healing journey If today's episode resonated with you, I'd love to stay connected. Visit lorikayemyles.com to  explore my free devotional, and other free resources created to encourage you on your healing journey. And if you're ready to go deeper, you'll find information about my book and other resources designed to support your journey toward healing and hope. Remember—you don't have to walk through this alone.

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