What if the way to more joy in your life was closer than you think? In the debut episode of Soul Swim, Dr Deb Roberts, author of No Guilt, Just Love and Hilary Raynor, co-owner of the Brighton Baths Health Club in Melbourne, sit down for an honest, warm and deeply human conversation about joy. Not the Instagram-filtered version. Real joy. The kind that cracks you open, lives in your body, and quietly waits for you to notice it. They explore why joy and sorrow are inseparable, how open water swimming - be it ocean swimming at Brighton Baths or elsewhere - creates a sanctuary for the soul, and asking "what did I enjoy today?" might be the most powerful wellness practice you're not doing yet. If you've ever felt like joy was out of reach, or like life has just been a little too heavy lately, this episode was made for you. And if you're in Melbourne, there's a community of people already living this at Brighton Baths Health Club, and the door is open for you too. Key Takeaways: Joy is felt in the body as expansiveness, not thought in the mind. Joy and sorrow are inseparable; you can't deeply feel one without the other. You can recall a joyful memory and physically feel it again, use this as a tool on hard days. Presence is the gateway to joy; you have to slow down to notice it. Ask "What did I enjoy today?" instead of "What brought me joy?" for a more accessible daily practice. This podcast was born at Brighton Baths Health Club, Melbourne's beloved beachside wellness sanctuary. Founded on the belief that community, ocean swimming and mindful living can transform your health and happiness, Brighton Baths is so much more than a gym or a swim club. It's a place where people come as they are, let go of what's weighing them down, and leave with more vitality. Whether you're drawn to open water swimming, fitness classes, or simply being part of a warm and welcoming community, Brighton Baths has something for everyone. 👉 Learn more and join the community at brightonbathshealthclub.com.au Books Mentioned: The Book of Joy by the Dalai Lama & Desmond Tutu (Lasting Happiness in a Changing World) The Consolations: The Solace, Nourishment and Underlying Meaning of Everyday Words by David Whyte Atlas of the Heart by Brené Brown No Guilt, Just Love by Dr Deb Roberts ABOUT YOUR HOSTS Dr Deb Roberts is an author, speaker and wellness advocate, and has recently published her first book No Guilt, Just Love. She teaches at Brighton Baths Health Club and is passionate about helping people find joy, meaning and resilience in everyday life. Hilary Raynor is co-owner of Brighton Baths Health Club alongside her husband Paul. She is a qualified yoga teacher, enjoys winter swimming at The Baths and believes in the power of community, presence and the sea to heal and uplift. 💬 ENJOYED THIS EPISODE? If this conversation moved you, made you think, or reminded you of something you needed to hear, please share it with someone who needs it today. And if you're in Melbourne and curious about what life feels like on the other side of a cold morning swim, come and find us. 🔔 NEVER MISS AN EPISODE If this resonated, hit follow or subscribe wherever you listen. New episodes drop regularly.