Selfish Muva Talks

Kyy Mosely
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Welcome to Selfish Muva Talks, a space dedicated to protecting your peace, choosing yourself first, and growing through real-life experiences. Hosted by Kyy, this podcast explores womanhood, personal growth, boundaries, wellness, self-care, motherhood, and the lessons that shape our journeys. Through honest conversations, reflections, and practical insights, each episode encourages women to prioritize their well-being, build confidence, protect their energy, and live with intention. Protect Your Peace. Choose Yourself First.

Episodes

  1. Oct 28

    You've Changed. So What?

    Hey Selfies!! Welcome back to another episode of Selfish Muva Talks! We're continuing Season 2, The Maintenance Season, with Episode 2: You've Changed. So What? Your New Life Requires New Habits. Everybody wants growth, but are we willing to change the habits that come with it? This week, we're talking about what happens when your goals, priorities, and routines start looking different. From outgrowing old habits to learning the difference between consistency and perfection, we're getting into what it actually takes to maintain the person you're becoming. Because wanting a new life is one thing, but creating habits that support that life? That's where the real work begins. Pour Decisions: We're sipping on Unapologetic, a peach cobbler matcha, while talking about embracing healthier choices without apologizing for them. Faith Moment: Romans 12:2 reminds us that transformation begins with renewing our minds. Muva Moment: The Habit Reset! Choose one habit you want to change, replace it with something that supports your goals, and practice it for seven days. Selfie Check-In: What's one habit you've had to change or know you need to change to become the person you want to be? Don't forget to join the conversation over on Instagram @selfishmuva! Share your thoughts, connect with other Selfies, and keep the conversation going. Remember, Selfies: Becoming her was the beginning, but remaining her is the real work. Protect Your Peace. Choose Yourself First.

  2. Oct 21

    Don't Go Back: Trust the Woman You've Become

    Hey Selfies!! 🤎 Welcome back to Selfish Muva Talks! Season 2 is officially here, and we're calling it The Maintenance Season. Becoming her was the beginning, but staying her is the real work. In this episode, we're talking about why the past can feel so comfortable, what happens when old situations come knocking, and how to trust the decisions you've made while healing. Just because you miss something doesn't mean it still belongs in your life. 🍹 Pour Decisions: We're moving Forward with a butter pecan black tea topped with cold foam. ✝️ Faith Moment: Isaiah 43:18–19 reminds us that God is doing something new. 🤎 Muva Moment: The Rearview Check-In: before revisiting something from your past, ask yourself what's genuinely changed. And don't forget our new Selfie Check-In! We're continuing the conversation over on Instagram. Would you give someone from your past another chance if they genuinely changed? Follow @selfishmuva on Instagram and join the conversation! Remember, Selfies: Protect Your Peace. Choose Yourself First.

  3. Aug 9

    Becoming Her: The Woman You’re Becoming Is Waiting on You

    Over the last ten weeks, we've talked about boundaries, comparison, rest, rejection, closure, identity, and protecting our peace. But after all of those conversations, one question remains... Who are you becoming? In this Season 1 finale of Selfish Muva Talks, we're reflecting on the journey, celebrating how far we've come, and embracing the woman we're becoming one intentional choice at a time. Because becoming isn't about perfection; it's about having the courage to keep growing. In this episode, we discuss: Reflecting on your growthLetting go of the need to have it all figured outChoosing progress over perfectionTrusting the journey you're onBecoming the woman you've been praying to be Pour Decisions: Becoming — a reminder that growth happens one intentional choice at a time. Muva Moment: Write a letter to the woman you hope to become one year from today. Encourage her, celebrate her, and remind her of the promises you're making to yourself now. Thank you for choosing yourself, protecting your peace, and growing with me this season. This may be the end of Season 1, but it's only the beginning of your becoming. 🎙️ Selfish Muva Talks Protect Your Peace. Choose Yourself First.

  4. Aug 4

    Protect Your Peace Without Feeling Guilty

    Have you ever felt guilty for choosing yourself? Whether it's saying no, setting boundaries, taking a break, or walking away from something that no longer serves you, protecting your peace often comes with guilt. But what if choosing peace isn't selfish? What if it's necessary? In this episode of Selfish Muva Talks, we're talking about why protecting your peace is one of the greatest acts of self-respect, how to let go of the guilt that comes with disappointing others, and why you don't need permission to choose yourself. In this episode, we discuss: Why we feel guilty for protecting our peaceLetting go of people-pleasingSetting boundaries without overexplainingChoosing peace over perfectionBuilding a life that protects your well-beingPour Decisions: Protected because peace isn't something you find; it's something you choose to protect. Muva Moment: This week, choose one boundary you've been avoiding and honor it without apologizing. Remember, protecting your peace isn't selfish. It's one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself. 🎙️ Selfish Muva TalksProtect Your Peace. Choose Yourself First.

  5. Jul 28

    Who Are You Outside of What You Do?

    Who are you when no one is asking what you do? So much of our identity becomes wrapped up in our careers, accomplishments, responsibilities, and the roles we play for everyone else. But when you remove the titles, the to-do lists, and the expectations... who are you? In this episode of Selfish Muva Talks, we're having an honest conversation about identity, purpose, and learning to separate your worth from your productivity. Because you are more than your résumé, your responsibilities, or what you can offer to others. In this episode, we discuss: Why we often tie our identity to what we doThe difference between being productive and being fulfilledRediscovering yourself outside of your responsibilitiesGiving yourself permission to evolveFinding your identity beyond titles and accomplishmentsPour Decisions: Rediscovered: a reminder that sometimes the person you've been searching for has been within you all along. Muva Moment: This week, introduce yourself without using a title, career, or accomplishment. Instead, describe yourself using the qualities that make you who you are. Your worth isn't determined by what you produce. It's found in who you are. Selfish Muva TalksProtect Your Peace. Choose Yourself First.

  6. Jul 19

    Ghosting: Is Closure Something We’re Owed?

    Have you ever been left without an explanation? Whether it's a friendship, a relationship, a job opportunity, or someone who simply disappeared, ghosting leaves us with unanswered questions and a desire for closure. But what if closure isn't something someone else gives you? What if it's something you choose for yourself? In this episode of Selfish Muva Talks, we're having an honest conversation about ghosting, unanswered questions, and learning how to move forward even when you never get the explanation you were hoping for. In this episode, we discuss: Why ghosting hurts so muchWhy we crave closureLearning to stop waiting for an explanationFinding peace without an apologyChoosing healing over unanswered questionsPour Decisions: Unanswered — because not every question gets an answer, but every unanswered question doesn't have to keep you stuck. Muva Moment: This week, choose peace over proof. Stop waiting for someone else's explanation and give yourself permission to move forward. Remember, your healing doesn't have to wait for someone else's apology. GIVEAWAY ALERT! Our giveaway officially starts Monday, July 20! Be sure to follow us on Instagram for all the giveaway details, entry rules, and how you can participate. Selfish Muva TalksProtect Your Peace. Choose Yourself First.

  7. Jul 13

    The Right People Will Stay: Stop Begging for a Seat at Every Table

    Have you ever found yourself trying to prove your worth to people who had already decided not to choose you? Whether it's friendships, relationships, careers, or opportunities, we've all experienced the pain of feeling overlooked. But what if rejection isn't always a loss? What if it's redirection? In this episode of Selfish Muva Talks, we're talking about why we chase acceptance, how to stop auditioning for spaces that don't appreciate us, and why the right people will never make you beg for a seat at their table. In this episode, we discuss: Why we crave acceptance from othersThe danger of seeking validationHow to recognize when it's time to walk awayTrusting that rejection can lead to redirectionFinding peace in the people and places that genuinely choose you Pour Decision The Invitation — because sometimes losing one seat creates room for a better one. Muva Moment Stop chasing what's forcing you to prove your worth. This week, pay attention to the people who choose you without hesitation. Remember, the right people won't require a performance. They'll simply make room for you. Selfish Muva TalksProtect Your Peace. Choose Yourself First.

  8. Jul 5

    Rest Is Productive: Giving Yourself Permission to Pause

    We live in a world that celebrates hustle, productivity, and being busy, but what if constantly being "on" is actually keeping us from experiencing the peace we're searching for? In this episode of Selfish Muva Talks, we're unpacking why so many of us feel guilty for resting, how hustle culture has shaped the way we view our worth, and why choosing to slow down isn't a sign of laziness; it's an act of self-care. In this episode, we discuss: Why we feel guilty when we restThe difference between being busy and being productiveHow hustle culture affects our mental and emotional well-beingWhy rest looks different in every season of lifeWhat it means to give yourself permission to pause Pour DecisionsThis week's featured drink is The Reset, a reminder that slowing down doesn't mean you're falling behind. Sometimes the most productive thing you can do is pause, reset, and pour back into yourself. Muva MomentThis week's challenge is simple: schedule intentional rest. No guilt. No pressure. Just one moment this week that's completely for you. Remember, your worth isn't measured by how much you accomplish. Rest isn't something you have to earn—it's something you deserve. Selfish Muva TalksProtect Your Peace. Choose Yourself First.

  9. Jun 28

    Comparison Is the Thief of Joy: Running Your Own Race

    Have you ever celebrated someone else's success... only to question your own five minutes later? Comparison has a way of making us feel like we're behind, even when we're exactly where we're supposed to be. In this episode of Selfish Muva Talks, we're unpacking how comparison quietly steals our confidence, our peace, and our joy. From scrolling through social media to measuring ourselves against friends, family, or even the version of ourselves we thought we'd be by now, we're learning what it truly means to run our own race. In this episode, we discuss: Why comparison isn't always jealousyThe truth about social media and highlight reelsLetting go of unrealistic timelinesCelebrating your own growthFinding joy in your unique journeyYour journey doesn't lose value because someone else's looks different. What's meant for you will never require you to race someone else to get it. If this episode encouraged you, share it with someone who needs the reminder that they're not behind—they're becoming. 🎙️ Selfish Muva TalksProtect Your Peace. Choose Yourself First.

  10. Jun 21

    Soft Doesn't Mean Weak: Redefining What Strength Looks Like

    Society often tells us that strength means being tough, unemotional, and always having it together. But what if true strength looks different? In this episode of Selfish Muva Talks, we're redefining what it means to be strong. We'll talk about embracing softness without seeing it as weakness, allowing yourself to be vulnerable, protecting your peace, and choosing grace over survival mode. Softness isn't about being fragile, it's about having the courage to remain kind, compassionate, and authentic in a world that often tells us to harden our hearts. In this episode, we'll discuss: Why softness is a form of strengthLetting go of the belief that vulnerability is weaknessHealing without becoming hardenedSetting boundaries while remaining true to yourselfChoosing peace, grace, and authenticityRemember, you don't have to become hard because life has been hard. Your softness is still your superpower. Share this episode with someone who needs this reminder today. Selfish Muva TalksProtect Your Peace. Choose Yourself First.

  11. Jun 14

    Navigating Womanhood: Learning Yourself in Every Season

    Womanhood is often portrayed as beautiful, empowering, and fulfilling, but what about the parts no one talks about? In this episode of Selfish Muva Talks, we're having an honest conversation about the realities of navigating womanhood. From the pressure to have everything figured out, to grieving old versions of yourself, setting boundaries, and learning how to choose yourself without guilt, this episode is a reminder that growth isn't always pretty, and that's okay. If you've ever felt overwhelmed, uncertain, tired, or like you're figuring life out one day at a time, this conversation is for you. In this episode, we discuss: The pressure women face in everyday lifeOutgrowing people, habits, and old versions of yourselfLearning who you are outside of survival modeGiving yourself grace while you growWhy choosing yourself is necessary, not selfishRemember, you don't have to have it all figured out. You are allowed to grow at your own pace. Share this episode with a woman who needs this reminder. Connect with Selfish Muva:Instagram: @selfishmuvaTikTok: Selfish Muva Selfish Muva TalksProtect Your Peace. Choose Yourself First.

  12. Jun 7

    Choosing Yourself Without Guilt: Why Boundaries Matter

    In the very first episode of Selfish Muva Talks, we're talking about something many of us struggle with: choosing ourselves without guilt. For years, I believed that being a good friend, mother, daughter, and supporter meant always being available and putting everyone else's needs before my own. But eventually, I learned that constantly saying yes to others often meant saying no to myself. In this episode, we're exploring what boundaries really are, why setting them can feel uncomfortable, and how protecting your peace isn't selfish, it's necessary. If you've ever felt guilty for saying no, taking a break, or prioritizing your own well-being, this conversation is for you. Grab your favorite drink and join me as we navigate womanhood, growth, and the journey of becoming.

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Welcome to Selfish Muva Talks, a space dedicated to protecting your peace, choosing yourself first, and growing through real-life experiences. Hosted by Kyy, this podcast explores womanhood, personal growth, boundaries, wellness, self-care, motherhood, and the lessons that shape our journeys. Through honest conversations, reflections, and practical insights, each episode encourages women to prioritize their well-being, build confidence, protect their energy, and live with intention. Protect Your Peace. Choose Yourself First.

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  • Creator
    Kyy Mosely
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    12
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Kyy Mosely
  • Show Website
    Selfish Muva Talks