The Becoming Her Podcast with Dr. Bethel Chioma

The Becoming Her Podcast
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Welcome to The Becoming Her Podcast. This is a space for women who want to heal , who want to embrace life again , who want to expand on every facets of life . I understand that sometimes , the situation of life can become so overbearing that it tempts us into changing our core personality. I understand that sometimes the temptations are much , that we don’t want us to stay true to ourselves . This is the reason I created this channel , to make you understand that you are not alone . In this Podcast, we understand that vulnerability is strength and we have decided to always choose to tell the truth no matter how difficult it seems . We are going to be have real life conversations about Healing , Mental health , Trauma , Self Discovery, Self Development, Relationships etc , . The only thing stopping us is our mind , our mind is constantly lying to us , it’s making us believe the voices in our head . But I want you to silent any voice telling you that you can’t conquer the world. You have what it takes to become very great . Tap into your real potential and power. The Becoming her podcast was created for women that want to truly ‘BECOME HER’. We are all evolving, Nobody has life all figured out , But we will keep figuring out life and learning from people’s experiences. Together, we can build a community that can outlast generations and generations to come. Together we can conquer the world 🌍, together we can do big things in our industry. Let’s grow together , Let’s become her together. Welcome to the journey. New Episode every Friday .#BecomingHerPodcast #BecomingHer #SelfAwareness #SelfGrowth #SelfLove #SheHeals #SheEvolves #SheRises

  1. 4d ago

    90 days can make a difference in your life | Becoming Her Podcast Ep.16

    The reason why most financial expert teach about compound interest is because they understand that when an interest is compounded over time , the profit is massive . This is the same thing that happens when you decide to do things daily that can change your life .  Do you know that if you can dedicate the next 90 days to your dreams and goals , you can form a habit and that habit slowly builds your future .  But what if you simply gave yourself 90 intentional days? 90 days of waking up and choosing yourself. 90 days of keeping promises to yourself. 90 days of working on the thing you’ve been postponing. 90 days of healing instead of returning to what hurt you. 90 days of learning instead of scrolling. 90 days of showing up even when nobody is watching. Do you know your life can get better the day you decide it should get better . What if we stop procrastinating and start doing the internal work ? I understand that betting on your yourself can be difficult especially if you have failed many times trying to do that ? But what if you decide today that you will make intentional decisions to grow every aspect of your life .  You can do it , don’t let your mind lie to you . Keep pushing , keep grinding , keep becoming . We will get to the permanent site soon . God is in this story .  New Episode every Friday .  #BecomingHerPodcast #16thEpisode #90DaysChallenge #MentalGrowth #Resilience #ChallengeYourself #YouCanDoIt #Healing

    90 days can make a difference in your life | Becoming Her Podcast Ep.16

  2. Sep 25

    The courage to walk away | Becoming Her Podcast Ep. 15

    When you finally have the courage to leave a toxic situation, you become so unstoppable . I understand that sometimes our mind makes us believe that no one is going to love us , so we prefer to stay in a familiar place than leaving a painful situation. When we spend years in the wrong situation , our mind tricks us into thinking that this is all there is , so we don’t even want to make a change because we are scared of what the unknown will bring .  Healing takes time , healing doesn’t happen abruptly. But one thing I need you to know is that healing is an intentional act . You have to decide that enough is enough at a point . You have to love yourself to the point that you don’t take any ill treatment from anybody .  In this episode , we discussed on steps to know the pattern that is keeping you stuck in a toxic situation and how to slowly start choosing to do better and heal . You will achieve a lot of things when you have peace of mind . Peace is one of the greatest gift of man kind . Choose peace over chaos . Choose Happiness over strife . You gat this , you can liberate yourself.  New Episode every Friday .  #BecomingHerPodcast #15thEpisode #CourageToWalkAway #Healing #PeaceOfMind #MentalHealth #MentalGrowth

    The courage to walk away | Becoming Her Podcast Ep. 15

  3. Sep 18

    Never go back to what broke you | Becoming Her Podcast Ep. 14

    When you go back to a place where you were mistreated , disrespected and abandoned, it says a lot about how you see yourself. And the person that you are returning back to won’t even value you because he or she understands that you don’t hold yourself in high esteem.  I understand when we have built emotional attachment with people , it’s sometimes difficult to let go , because we are scared of the unknown. We rather stay in a place that is familiar , than being alone or than getting to know new people . But you have to choose yourself. Choosing yourself means letting go of anyone or anything that will disrupt your mental health . Choosing yourself means saying NO and meaning it .  When we tell people, that they can disrespect us and enter back into our life , we are simply telling them ‘ I don’t love myself ‘ so don’t love me too much, that’s simply what we are doing . And it’s causing us more harm than good .  In this Episode, I explained how I helped myself when I was faced with similar situations, and how you can help yourself too . You are not alone .  New Episode every Friday.  #BecomingHerPodcast #14thEpisode #ChooseYourself #LoveYourself #DecideNowToLiveBetter #Healing #DontLookBack

    Never go back to what broke you | Becoming Her Podcast Ep. 14

  4. Sep 11

    The Power of Self Awareness | Becoming Her Podcast Ep. 13

    When you become self aware , it helps you take a step back and reanalyze your life . It helps you trace your habits , and to understand the role you are playing in your suffering.  Sometimes, the problem are not always other people, sometimes , we are the weapon fashioned against ourselves. Not to sound harsh , but this is a wake up call . If you really want your life to get better , you have to look inward . You have to self analyze.  The truth is that the one person we cannot lie to is ourselves. You might portray to have a flashy life , portray to live a good life , but when the doors are shut and you are by yourself, you know what you do in the secret , and you have to check if what you are doing is making or marring your life .  Self Awareness is the first step to self liberation. If you want to move forward in life , sit with yourself for minutes, take a paper and write , what can I change about my behavior, about my character that can change the trajectory of my whole life .  Again , nobody has life all figured out , so take it easy on yourself . But please do the internal work deliberately to liberate yourself totally .  In this Episode, we discussed on steps to start your self awareness journey.  New Episode every Friday .  #BecomingHerPodcast #13thEpisode #PowerOfSelfAwareness #SelfRealization #Truth #MentalGrowth #Healing

    The Power of Self Awareness | Becoming Her Podcast Ep. 13

  5. Sep 4

    Forgive yourself | Becoming Her Podcast Ep. 12

    Forgive yourself about the mistakes you made when you didn’t know better , forgive yourself for your past , forgive yourself for your shortcomings.  In life , sometimes we have to make mistakes to learn , to grow , to become better . So forgive yourself. Beating yourself up won’t help you , ruminating about the past and why you made such mistakes won’t help you . Instead it starts to turn to Self-Sabotaging attitude that now hinders us from moving forward. When you forgive yourself you become free . You break lose from shackles of the past and you start to make steps into a better tomorrow.  The choice is yours , nobody can make this decision for you , you have to do it for yourself, to liberate yourself from the chains that has held you stuck for so long . You gat this , you can do it. In this episode, we explained steps to take to start the journey of Forgiving yourself and how to avoid self-sabotaging attitudes .  There is a lot we can become , a lot we can achieve together. The sky is your starting point .  New Episode every Friday .  #BecomingHerPodcast #12thEpisode #ForgiveYourself #LetGo #Healing #SelfAwareness #AvoidSelfSabotagingThoughts #PersonalGrowth #MentalHealth

    Forgive yourself | Becoming Her Podcast Ep. 12

  6. Aug 28

    Don’t become what hurt you | Becoming Her Podcast Ep. 11

    Sometimes it’s really difficult to forget our pain because of how deeply wounded we felt by it . Sometimes we want to change from being good people because of our experiences .  Most times it’s easier said than done , when people tell you to forget your past , let it go , and preach a bunch of things , we start to say things like ‘You have not lived in my shoes , so you don’t know my pain . And we hear people say , the pain is so deep so it changed me .  Yea pain actually does change people , but I want you to let the pain change you positively. I don’t want you to go inflicting pains unto others that didn’t do you anything. I understand that most times we want to seek revenge , we want to hurt back , Infact we go as far as hurting people that didn’t do us anything because we want to heal from the pain that other people caused us . We think that hurting more people will make us feel better , but believe me it doesn’t help .  Do you know what I want you to do , I want you to learn from what the pain is teaching you , practice more discernment, ask God for direction and keep moving .   Let’s us stop recycling hurt , instead let’s choose healing . Healing will help you mentally , physically and emotionally. In this episode,we discussed deeply on how to save yourself from the pains that is keeping you stuck .  New Episode every Friday .  #BecomingHerPodcast #11thEpisode #DontAllowPainChangeYou #Healing #Peace #MentalHealth #MentalGrowth #PersonalGrowth #SelfAwareness #PraticeDiscernment

    Don’t become what hurt you | Becoming Her Podcast Ep. 11

  7. Aug 21

    Know your worth | Becoming Her Podcast Ep. 10

    Know your worth , Queen 👸🏽. You exude so much power , so much essence, so much elegance to settle for less . You are worth more than silver and gold , Infact there is no price tags to your worth because you are priceless! ACT LIKE IT . Carry yourself like it .  Do not stay in situations where you are not valued, where you are not loved , where you are not respected. You should have list of non negotiables , you should state how you want to be treated , and anyone that doesn’t want to meet up to the standards you created for yourself, you should leave the situation.  I understand that most times , because of how emotionally attached we are with some people , it’s difficult leaving even when we know they are not good for us . But I want to to decide that ENOUGH IS ENOUGH, I want you to love yourself to the point where you no longer wanted to be treated less .  Trust me , people watch how you treat yourself to know how  to treat you , so treat yourself with so much kindness and love ! Carry yourself like the queen that you are and do not take any less treatment from anyone.  We have accepted Breadcrumbs for so long , it is time to level up ! You deserve anything beautiful.  I LOVE YOUUUUU MY SISTER🩷.  New Episode every Friday.  #TheBecomingHerPodcast #KnowYourWorth #Healing #YouAreAQueen #ValueYourself #BuildYourself #LoveYourself #Fyp

    Know your worth | Becoming Her Podcast Ep. 10

  8. Aug 14

    You are not your circumstances | Becoming Her Podcast Ep. 9

    You are not your current situation, you are not your past mistakes, you are not the pain that you experienced. Do not let any of those things define you , do not allow your life to stay stuck because you are living in regrets .  God can change your story , God can rewrite your story . Sometimes the pain becomes the stepping stone to your next level . I understand that when going through the pain , it’s difficult to even believe anything anyone is saying because of how unbearable it feels . But the last time you went through something tough , didn’t you come out of it ? What makes you think that you can’t come out of this one ? God is in this story . He will not leave nor forsake you .  He said cast all your anxiety to him , and he will care for you . He will heal your wounds , he will make a way in the wilderness for you .  In this episode of Becoming Her Podcast, We discussed on how to stay strong despite what life throws at you , we spoke about steps to take to harness your future .  Start today to decide that your past and your current situation will not define you .  New Episode every Friday.  #TheBecomingHerPodcast #YouAreNotYourMistakes #YouAreNotYourCircumstances #Healing #SelfDevelopment #SelfAwareness #Peace #Victory

    You are not your circumstances | Becoming Her Podcast Ep. 9
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Welcome to The Becoming Her Podcast. This is a space for women who want to heal , who want to embrace life again , who want to expand on every facets of life . I understand that sometimes , the situation of life can become so overbearing that it tempts us into changing our core personality. I understand that sometimes the temptations are much , that we don’t want us to stay true to ourselves . This is the reason I created this channel , to make you understand that you are not alone . In this Podcast, we understand that vulnerability is strength and we have decided to always choose to tell the truth no matter how difficult it seems . We are going to be have real life conversations about Healing , Mental health , Trauma , Self Discovery, Self Development, Relationships etc , . The only thing stopping us is our mind , our mind is constantly lying to us , it’s making us believe the voices in our head . But I want you to silent any voice telling you that you can’t conquer the world. You have what it takes to become very great . Tap into your real potential and power. The Becoming her podcast was created for women that want to truly ‘BECOME HER’. We are all evolving, Nobody has life all figured out , But we will keep figuring out life and learning from people’s experiences. Together, we can build a community that can outlast generations and generations to come. Together we can conquer the world 🌍, together we can do big things in our industry. Let’s grow together , Let’s become her together. Welcome to the journey. New Episode every Friday .#BecomingHerPodcast #BecomingHer #SelfAwareness #SelfGrowth #SelfLove #SheHeals #SheEvolves #SheRises

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