Out Here with Kids

Dr. Nancy L. Weaver
  • 5.0 (13)
  • Parenting

Out Here with Kids is a parenting and family podcast about what actually happens when adults and children move through the world together... on airplanes, in grocery stores, in libraries, in parking lots, everywhere life is loud and unpredictable. Hosted by Nancy L. Weaver, a public health professor and the founder of Support Over Silence, this show starts from an honest place: kids will always be raised by imperfect adults trying to navigate an increasingly complicated world.This podcast is an authentic look at raising kids, doing our own healing on the fly, and finding connection in the moments we hope no one is filming. Each week, Nancy shares a real story, a bit of research, and the steady reminder that we’re all learning as we go, out here, together, with kids.#OutHereWithKids #Parenting #ParentingPodcast #RaisingKids #ChildDevelopment #FamilyLife #MentalHealth #PublicHealth

Episodes

  1. Oct 9

    Autonomy and Prevention: Why Confident Kids Are Safer Kids

    Modern parenting, psychology, neuroscience, and child development all point to the same conclusion: helping children build autonomy is one of the most powerful ways to support their mental health, brain health, emotional regulation, and long-term safety. In this episode of Out Here With Kids, Support Over Silence explores how self-determination theory can reshape our parenting mindset through positive parenting, empathy, and practical parenting advice. Dr. Nancy Weaver examines the connection between child autonomy, abuse prevention, and healthy development, explaining why the same factors that help children thrive also help protect them from manipulation and exploitation. Drawing on behavioral science, Montessori principles, play therapy, and self-determination theory, she explores how competence, autonomy, and belonging work together to build confident, independent kids. Through relatable parenting examples, Dr. Weaver shows how age-appropriate responsibilities and opportunities to make choices help children trust their instincts, strengthen decision-making skills, and develop resilience. Rather than viewing independence as something to fear, this conversation reframes it as one of the greatest gifts caregivers can offer within safe, supportive boundaries. Whether you're a parent, educator, coach, or caregiver, this episode offers practical parenting tips rooted in science that strengthen families, build healthier parenting communities, and support children's lifelong well-being. Learn more about Support Over Silence, our nonprofit organization, and how to bring community support and caregiver support training to your school, workplace, or neighborhood: https://www.supportoversilence.com/

  2. Sep 25

    Science Says: Helping Other People Makes You Happier

    What if one small act of kindness could improve someone else's day, and your own brain health too? In this episode of Out Here With Kids, Dr. Nancy Weaver explores the neurobiology of kindness and why everyday moments of connection matter more than we realize. From helping a parent whose hands are full to simply greeting a stranger, she explains how these interactions calm our nervous system, release oxytocin, and strengthen our sense of community. Rather than viewing kindness as charity, this conversation reframes it as something that benefits everyone involved. Drawing on neuroscience, public health, and child development, Dr. Weaver explains why loneliness has become a growing health concern, how social isolation activates our brain's threat response, and why children and adults alike thrive when they experience safety through connection. She also explores how technology has changed the way we interact, and why even brief face-to-face moments still matter. This episode is an invitation to become an agent for the community. Because when we choose connection over isolation, we don't just support caregivers and children, we strengthen our own well-being and help create healthier, more compassionate communities. For more insights, check out Out Here With Kids, a YouTube podcast brought to you by Support Over Silence. Learn more about us and our mission, or how to bring training to your community on www.supportoversilence.com

  3. Sep 11

    Neurobiology Says: Yelling Doesn't Stop Kids Kicking Airplane Seats

    Why do kids kick airplane seats, melt down in public, or seem to ignore parents? In this episode, child psychology expert Dr. Nancy Weaver explains how neurobiology, emotional regulation, and modern parenting reveal why yelling doesn't stop challenging child behavior. Ever been on a flight with a child kicking the seat in front of them? Or watched a family struggle through a public meltdown and wondered what anyone could actually do to help? In this episode, Dr. Nancy Weaver, founder of Support Over Silence, explores the neuroscience behind children's behavior in public spaces. Drawing on child psychology and neurobiology, she explains why children become dysregulated, why yelling often makes the situation worse, and why a calm, connected adult is one of the most powerful tools for helping a child regulate again. From airplanes to restaurants, grocery stores, and other everyday settings, this conversation challenges the assumption that children simply need to be "under control." Instead, Dr. Weaver reframes these moments through the lens of nervous system regulation, showing how stress affects both children and caregivers, and how compassion from the people around them can help everyone feel safer. Whether you're a parent, caregiver, educator, or simply someone who shares public spaces with families, this episode offers a practical way to understand difficult moments with more empathy and less judgment. When we understand what's happening beneath the behavior, we can replace frustration with curiosity and become part of the support children and caregivers need. For more conversations about parenting, child development, emotional regulation, and supporting families, subscribe to Out Here With Kids, a YouTube podcast brought to you by Support Over Silence. Learn more about our mission or bring training to your community: https://www.supportoversilence.com/ #SupportOverSilence #Parenting #ChildDevelopment #EmotionalRegulation #ChildPsychology

  4. Aug 28

    Is Your Parenting Style Stunting Your Child’s Motivation?

    Why does it matter when kids order their own food, count out change, or struggle through small public moments on their own? In this episode of Out Here With Kids, Dr. Nancy Weaver explores the science behind autonomy, competence, and belonging: 3 core psychological needs that shape children’s motivation, resilience, and long-term development. Drawing from Self-Determination Theory and child development research, Dr. Weaver explains why letting children participate in everyday tasks helps build confidence, emotional regulation, and real-world problem-solving skills. From ordering lunch at a restaurant to navigating playground challenges, these moments may feel uncomfortable for parents when everyone is watching, but they are essential opportunities for growth. This conversation also takes a closer look at modern parenting culture (remember Helicopter Parenting?) and why kids need safe opportunities to practice independence while still feeling supported. Because when they are trusted to explore the world around them, they begin to see themselves as capable, connected, and valued. Learn more about us and our mission, or how to bring training to your community at https://www.supportoversilence.com/

  5. Aug 14

    Parenting from the Sidelines (and How Other Fans Can Help)

    What actually helps kids grow when they make mistakes, especially in high-pressure moments like youth sports? This episode invites a shift: from reacting in the moment to leading with empathy, connection, conscious parenting, and care.  In this week’s Out Here With Kids, Dr. Nancy Weaver talks about parents’ emotional responses on the sidelines and how those shape a child’s confidence, learning, and long-term development. Through real stories and behavioral science, she shows how calm, supportive responses can build trust and resilience while anger and correction can make the situation harder. Dr. Weaver explains that when kids feel safe and supported, they’re more likely to take responsibility, recover from mistakes, and keep growing. From a forgotten jersey to a tough moment on the field, this conversation highlights how children experience stress, disappointment, and pressure, and teaches you what they need from the adults around them. Because when adults stay grounded, children learn how to do the same. Learn more about us and our mission, or how to bring training to your community on https://www.supportoversilence.com/

  6. Jul 31

    Why Punishment Doesn't Work: A Neurobiology Perspective

    Rethink parenting! Dr. Nancy L. Weaver uses neuroscience & child psychology to offer modern parenting tips for better child development and mental health, for both parents and kids. In this episode of Out Here With Kids, Dr. Weaver, founder of Support Over Silence, takes a closer look at punishment, parenting, and the science of how children really develop. Drawing from child psychology and neuroscience, she challenges long-held beliefs rooted in reward and punishment systems and offers a more compassionate, evidence-based approach. From public meltdowns to classroom struggles, this conversation reframes behavior as communication. When children are overwhelmed, their nervous systems—not their characters—are driving what we see. And when we respond with punishment or disconnection, we may be reinforcing shame instead of supporting growth. Instead, this episode explores what happens when we lead with curiosity, connection, and calm.  Dr. Weaver invites a shift from judgment to understanding, from control to connection. Because when caregivers feel supported, children are safer and communities grow stronger. For more insights, check out Out Here With Kids, a YouTube podcast brought to you by Support Over Silence. Learn more about us and our mission, or how to bring training to your community on https://www.supportoversilence.com/

  7. Jul 17

    What to Do When You See a Parenting Struggle in Public

    Watching a parent struggle in public can feel awkward, but knowing how to respond makes all the difference. In this episode of Out Here With Kids, Dr. Nancy L. Weaver dives into parenting challenges in public, why bystanders hesitate to step in, and how simple acts of support can create meaningful connections. Through real-life stories, including helping a mom at the airport with her stroller, Dr. Weaver shows how noticing parents in need, offering help with empathy, and modeling community care can teach kids the importance of compassion. Learn why being an ally in everyday parenting moments matters more than you think. For more insights, check out Out Here With Kids, a YouTube podcast brought to you by Support Over Silence.  https://www.supportoversilence.com/

  8. Jul 3

    Parenting Without Pressure: Raising Emotionally Healthy Kids

    Ever feel like you are trying to be the perfect parent and still falling short? In this episode of Out Here With Kids, Dr. Nancy L. Weaver talks about why perfection is not the goal in parenting and how learning to repair mistakes builds stronger connections with your kids. Through personal stories, including a memorable moment with flannel pajamas and ducks, she explains how children’s developing brains shape their reactions and why feeling seen and understood matters more than getting everything right. Dr. Weaver shares how modeling honesty, growth, and emotional awareness helps children feel safe and supported. Parenting is not about having all the answers. It is about showing up, learning together, and creating meaningful moments along the way. This episode offers reassurance for parents who want to raise resilient, emotionally healthy kids without burning themselves out. For more insights, check out Out Here With Kids, a YouTube podcast brought to you by Support Over Silence.  https://www.supportoversilence.com/

  9. Jun 26

    The Simple Shift That Makes Parenting Less Stressful

    Ever notice how parenting can feel like you are constantly performing? In this episode of Out Here With Kids, Dr. Nancy L. Weaver talks about parent performing—those moments when we search for the perfect response, follow all the rules, or try to be the “right” parent—and how it can get in the way of real connection with our kids. Through stories from an ice cream shop and everyday life, Dr. Weaver shows how being yourself, letting your children explore, and responding naturally can make parenting less stressful, more joyful, and more connected. Parenting isn’t about the perfect script, it’s about the small, authentic moments you share with your kids.  For more insights, check out Out Here With Kids, a YouTube podcast brought to you by Support Over Silence. https://www.supportoversilence.com/

  10. Jun 12

    Screaming Baby on a Plane: What This Mom Learned About Parenting

    Ever watched a child meltdown in public and wondered how to stay calm? 😰 In this episode of Out Here With Kids, Nancy Weaver shows how a single calm adult can break the cycle of stress using the science of co-regulation. Learn why parents who act as emotional “thermostats” (not thermometers) help children self-soothe, reduce anxiety, and build long-term resilience. From holiday travel chaos to everyday errands, discover practical tips to model calm, protect your own well-being, and turn stressful moments into opportunities for connection. For more insights, check out Out Here With Kids, a YouTube podcast brought to you by Support Over Silence. https://www.supportoversilence.com/

    Screaming Baby on a Plane: What This Mom Learned About Parenting
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Out Here with Kids is a parenting and family podcast about what actually happens when adults and children move through the world together... on airplanes, in grocery stores, in libraries, in parking lots, everywhere life is loud and unpredictable. Hosted by Nancy L. Weaver, a public health professor and the founder of Support Over Silence, this show starts from an honest place: kids will always be raised by imperfect adults trying to navigate an increasingly complicated world.This podcast is an authentic look at raising kids, doing our own healing on the fly, and finding connection in the moments we hope no one is filming. Each week, Nancy shares a real story, a bit of research, and the steady reminder that we’re all learning as we go, out here, together, with kids.#OutHereWithKids #Parenting #ParentingPodcast #RaisingKids #ChildDevelopment #FamilyLife #MentalHealth #PublicHealth

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  • Creator
    Dr. Nancy L. Weaver
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    10
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Out Here with Kids
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    Out Here with Kids