Becoming with Erika Podcast

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Becoming with Erika is a podcast for the dreamers, the healers, the entrepreneurs, and the people rebuilding themselves one day at a time. Through honest conversations about faith, healing, mindset, relationships, and growth, Erika shares real-life lessons on overcoming fear, breaking cycles, and becoming who you were always meant to be. This is a space to heal out loud, grow through what tried to break you, and keep becoming. Thank you and God bless🥹

  1. Oct 27

    Afraid of being Seen Trying— Stop Hiding Your Beginning

    Afraid of Being Seen Trying | What If You’re Not Afraid to Fail, but Afraid of Who’s Watching? Have you ever held yourself back from chasing a dream—not because you didn’t believe in it, but because you were afraid of what people might think? What if you’re not afraid of failing… you’re afraid of being seen trying? In this episode of Becoming with Erika, we’re talking about the fear of judgment, the embarrassment of being a beginner, and why we sometimes hide our biggest dreams from the very people who know us. Whether you’re starting a business, building your confidence, going back to school, sharing your voice, or simply becoming a different version of yourself, the fear of being watched can keep you from taking that first step. We’re diving into the neuroscience behind social judgment, how avoidance can reinforce fear, and why learning to show up imperfectly is part of growth. And of course, we’re bringing faith into the conversation—because sometimes the opinions of others become louder than the purpose we believe God has placed on our hearts. Beautiful soul, you cannot become good at something you refuse to let yourself be new at. You don’t need everyone’s approval. You don’t need a perfect beginning. And you certainly don’t need to have it all figured out. You are allowed to learn, grow, make mistakes, and become while people are watching. A question for you: What’s one dream you’ve been afraid to pursue because of what other people might think? Keep healing. Keep growing. Keep becoming. 💕

    Afraid of being Seen Trying— Stop Hiding Your Beginning

  2. Oct 23

    Morning Mayhem: From Missing Shoes to Grateful Hearts

    This Is Raw but Real: Finding Gratitude in the Chaos What happens when your morning goes completely sideways before your day has even started? Missing shoes, a debate over spaghetti for lunch, a mysterious yogurt smell in the car, and a gas light reminding me of one more thing I need to do. Yep, that was my morning! 😂 Hey there, my beautiful souls! 💕 Today’s episode of Becoming with Erika is a little different. No perfectly planned script, no polished message. Just me, a frustrated mama, showing up in the middle of my emotions and choosing to heal out loud. But somewhere between the chaos, the tears, and wanting to lose my mind, God reminded me of something. Sometimes the very things we’re complaining about are the blessings we once prayed for. The children who drive us crazy. The car that needs gas. The home that needs cleaning. The job we have to get ready for. What if we stopped for a moment and remembered how grateful we are to have them? This episode isn’t about pretending life isn’t frustrating. It’s about recognizing that we can have a hard moment and still have a grateful heart. So come laugh with me, vent with me, and maybe even shift your perspective with me. Because becoming isn’t always pretty, peaceful, or perfectly put together. Sometimes becoming happens right in the middle of the mess. Keep healing. Keep growing. Keep becoming. 💕 Becoming with Erika — Where we heal out loud, grow through what tried to break us, and become everything we’re meant to be.

  3. Oct 22

    Softer Life, Bigger Dreams

    In this episode Erika explores how to pursue meaningful dreams while creating a softer, more present everyday life—making room for rest, asking for help, and keeping faith in the process. She offers practical steps: choose one dream to focus on, take a small weekly step, reduce one unnecessary demand, and pick one thing to enjoy—plus a short prayer to invite God into the ordinary moments.

  4. Oct 22

    Things I’m ghosting this October

    This episode of Becoming with Erika guides listeners through five things to "ghost"—the habits and reactions that keep us stuck: apologizing for rest, late-night comparison and scrolling, over-explaining to those who won’t understand, rereading old conversations, and saying yes too quickly and resenting it later. Erika explains why repetition makes patterns feel safe to the brain, offers practical alternatives (pause before answering, set phone closing times, rest without guilt), and grounds the practice in faith with Isaiah 43’s call to not dwell on the former things. The episode closes with a challenge to pick one habit to interrupt for October and practice small, faithful changes so you can notice and receive the new things God is doing in your life.

    Things I’m ghosting this October

  5. Oct 21

    Winter Arc: Protect Your Becoming

    In this episode Erika rejects the push-to-change winter trends and offers a protective winter arc designed to keep you becoming—not just surviving—through the busy, emotional end of the year. She names four common pulls back into survival (overcommitting, money pressure, family triggers and grief, and abandoning yourself) and gives a four-part protection plan: set boundaries now, choose one daily practice promise for the rest of the year, put rest on the calendar, and write a simple comeback plan. With practical steps and a faith-centered reminder that mercy and new mornings are available even in the middle of the season, Erika encourages listeners to finish the year with themselves and continue becoming without burning out.

    Winter Arc: Protect Your Becoming

  6. Oct 20

    October Theory: Start where you are, Walk with God

    You don’t need a new year to become her—and you don’t have to erase your story to move forward. In this episode of Becoming with Erika, we revisit October Theory through faith, grace, and a different perspective on “starting over.” You’re starting with experience, lessons, wins, and evidence of how God has carried you. We’re talking about releasing the pressure to transform overnight, honoring the woman who got you here, and choosing small, faithful steps that fit your real life. A missed day or an old reaction doesn’t erase your growth. You can learn, adjust, and keep coming back. Your challenge: prayerfully choose one small promise to practice—not perfectly, but with intention. Start where you are. Walk with God. Keep healing. Keep growing. Keep becoming.

  7. Oct 16

    How Full is your Plate: When do You Clear Your Mental Plate

    Erika explores how carrying unfinished tasks and equating busyness with worth leave us overwhelmed and guilty. She contrasts being busy with meaningful productivity and highlights how unfinished items keep our attention scattered. Throughout, she urges us to notice and celebrate small wins instead of punishing ourselves for what’s left undone. She offers a practical three-question exercise to identify what truly needs attention today, decide what can wait, and acknowledge what you've already accomplished. She also reminds listeners that rest is a necessity, not a reward, and that reprioritizing or letting go is okay. Challenge yourself to look at your plate, celebrate one win, and give yourself permission to rest and adjust.

  8. Oct 16

    Apparently, I have several voices

    Erika reflects on how others’ comments about her voice—sometimes soft, sometimes loud—have shaped her self-doubt and how she communicates. She explores different tones she uses (mom, customer service, excited), moments of frustration when she isn’t heard, and the habit of blaming herself for misunderstandings. Through honest reflection and faith, she gives herself permission to speak in different ways, set boundaries, and learn without rushing to judgment. The episode is a gentle conversation about identity, connection, and the ongoing process of becoming.

    Apparently, I have several voices
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Becoming with Erika is a podcast for the dreamers, the healers, the entrepreneurs, and the people rebuilding themselves one day at a time. Through honest conversations about faith, healing, mindset, relationships, and growth, Erika shares real-life lessons on overcoming fear, breaking cycles, and becoming who you were always meant to be. This is a space to heal out loud, grow through what tried to break you, and keep becoming. Thank you and God bless🥹

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  • Creator
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  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    74
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    Clean
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