Christian Dad's Podcast

James Pellicane
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Welcome to the Christian Dad Podcast, your place to find sound encouragement and practical advice so you can win as a Dad. Whether you have toddlers or teens, I want to help you enjoy, not endure your family. Learn how to make the most of these parenting years and be the Dad your kids really need.

  1. #60 Toddler Bedtime Rebellion: When Dad's Wounds Let the 2-Year-Old Win

    1D AGO

    #60 Toddler Bedtime Rebellion: When Dad's Wounds Let the 2-Year-Old Win

    Dad's old abandonment wounds are sabotaging Mom's push to get their 2-year-old out of the family bed—leading to 2 a.m. meltdowns, that hit Dad right in the gut. In this raw coaching session, host James calls it straight: You're not your absent dad, boundaries aren't abandonment, and your big-hearted "benefactor" nature is getting played by a toddler who knows exactly which button to push. With baby #2 arriving soon, the stakes are high. Game plan essentials: Apologize to your wife, lock arms on unity, return her to bed consistently (no rewards for chaos), lock the door if you have to, and commit—even when it hurts. Stop the midnight rescues. Step up, lead your home, and give your wife and kids the leadership now before the battles get bigger.

    33 min
  2. #59 - Biblical Discipline for Toddlers: A New Dad's Guide to Consistent, Loving Correction

    12/16/2025

    #59 - Biblical Discipline for Toddlers: A New Dad's Guide to Consistent, Loving Correction

    In this raw and heartfelt episode, new dad Josh D'Ambrosio sits down with host James to share his unexpected journey into fatherhood—one forged through personal hardship, renewed faith, and the wild reality of raising a spirited 2-year-old. Josh presses James for hard-won wisdom on what actually works when the toddler years hit. James lays it out plainly: staying fully present even when work pulls hard, locking arms with your spouse on a unified front, and intentionally building self-control and respect from the earliest age. With unflinching honesty, they dive into real discipline that gets results—including the when, why, and how of spanking as a calm, private, and dignified act of teaching rather than angry punishment. You'll hear practical strategies on staying consistent so kids aren't confused, staging everyday scenarios at home to prepare them for life, handling disrespect without losing your cool, and pairing clear consequences with generous rewards—all while protecting a warm, loving home and keeping parents from burning out. If you're a dad in the trenches (or about to be), this is the no-nonsense, faith-grounded conversation you didn't know you needed. Timeline 00:00 Introduction to Josh D'Ambrosio's Journey 04:33 Navigating Fatherhood as a New Dad 07:15 Discipline and Parenting Techniques 10:04 The Importance of Consistency in Parenting 12:53 Balancing Work and Family Life 15:40 The Role of a Father in Child Development 18:21 Challenges of Parenting a Two-Year-Old 30:12 Unified Parenting Strategies 32:12 Creating Scenarios for Learning 36:06 Rewards and Consequences in Parenting 38:54 Managing Disrespectful Behavior 41:57 The Importance of Timing in Discipline 49:02 Understanding Child Behavior and Needs   To Watch on Youtube: https://youtu.be/PsTzC_zvwrQ https://podcasts.apple.com/jo/podcast/59-biblical-discipline-for-toddlers-a-new-dads/id295386637?i=1000741536482 https://open.spotify.com/episode/7x7QnQcoINiSFuwU7TVY0x?si=uEYZwI86RtuK9KSLtw_ceQ Pellicane Coaching: happyhomeuniversity.com/coaching

    55 min
  3. From Parent to Peer: Raising Kids Who Become Your Friends

    12/02/2025

    From Parent to Peer: Raising Kids Who Become Your Friends

    In this powerful and practical conversation, Bill Farrel — pastor, author of 61 books, father of three sons, and grandfather of eight — shares the proven principles that helped him raise confident, capable young men who are now three of his closest friends. Bill walks through the two core commitments that shaped his parenting: being fully present and becoming a student of each child. He discusses how parents can manage busy careers while staying relationally close, how to understand a child's motivation and stress points, and why every kid needs individualized leadership, not cookie-cutter parenting. You'll also hear Bill's insights on launching young adults, guiding teens through puberty, shifting your role from coach to consultant to friend, and handling dating, decision-making, and conflict with wisdom instead of control. If you want to raise children who grow into responsible, confident adults—and actually enjoy being around you—this rich, honest conversation will equip and encourage you. To enjoy on Youtube:  https://youtu.be/VXcKT8NJsrA Pellicane Coaching: happyhomeuniversity.com/coaching

    55 min
  4. When a Husband Feels Discounted: James & Arlene talk

    11/19/2025

    When a Husband Feels Discounted: James & Arlene talk

    What happens when a husband feels unseen, unheard, and flat-out discounted in his own home? He stops leading. He stops speaking up. He quietly gives up on the role God gave him.  If you've ever felt dismissed in your marriage, or if you're the one doing the dismissing (even unintentionally), this episode is for you. Christian dads, you're not alone. Hit play, lean in. To enjoy on Youtube: https://youtu.be/bqf5Z3FeCmw Pellicane Coaching: happyhomeuniversity.com/coaching

    37 min
  5. What Dad Did Right

    10/11/2025

    What Dad Did Right

    In this heartfelt episode, Noelle Pellicane shares her perspective on what her dad did right while raising her — offering an honest and insightful look into successful fathering techniques that truly make a difference. From love and consistency to guidance and faith, this conversation will encourage dads everywhere to reflect, grow, and lead with intention. Whether you're a new father, a seasoned parent, or someone who values family and faith, this episode delivers inspiration and practical wisdom for raising confident, grounded kids in today's world. To see on Youtube:  https://youtu.be/6GiWB-FOssI Pellicane Coaching: happyhomeuniversity.com/coaching

    37 min
  6. The Power of Shutting Up: What Happens When a Dad Finally Listens

    08/25/2024

    The Power of Shutting Up: What Happens When a Dad Finally Listens

    James used to believe the loudest voice in the room won. Then he discovered the opposite is true. In this warm, personal episode he shares his journey from constant talker to grateful listener—and the beautiful things that started happening the moment he got quiet: His wife felt safe and began sharing her real heart His kids stopped bracing for lectures and started opening up He finally heard what his own soul had been trying to tell him And best of all, God's voice—gentle, clear, unmistakable—became impossible to miss If you've ever wondered what might happen if you talked less and listened more, this episode is living proof: marriages soften, kids bloom, hearts heal, and God shows up in ways you never expected. Pellicane Coaching: happyhomeuniversity.com/coaching

    12 min
  7. Stop Talking Over Your Family – James 1:19 Made Practical (and Funny)

    05/31/2024

    Stop Talking Over Your Family – James 1:19 Made Practical (and Funny)

    In this funny-but-convicting episode, James admits his own failures (loudly) and then hands you doable habits that actually turn you into the listener your wife and kids secretly wish you were. No therapy-speak, no guilt trip—just practical, dad-tested moves that calm the room, lower your blood pressure, and make your family feel heard.  Pellicane Coaching: happyhomeuniversity.com/coaching

    32 min
  8. Families Need Core Values and a Mission Statement (Here's How to Build One That Actually Works)

    05/16/2023

    Families Need Core Values and a Mission Statement (Here's How to Build One That Actually Works)

    Businesses live or die by their mission statement—yet many dads run their homes without one. Result? Endless debates about screen time, sports schedules, money, and holidays because nobody knows what actually matters most. In this hands-on episode, James walks you through the exact process he used to create a short, memorable family mission statement and 4 core values that now guide every decision—big and small—in his home. You'll leave with: A simple template you can finish in one evening with your wife Real-life examples that stick (even with teenagers) A clear filter for saying "yes" or "no" without guilt or arguments Pellicane Coaching: happyhomeuniversity.com/coaching

    13 min
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Welcome to the Christian Dad Podcast, your place to find sound encouragement and practical advice so you can win as a Dad. Whether you have toddlers or teens, I want to help you enjoy, not endure your family. Learn how to make the most of these parenting years and be the Dad your kids really need.

Information

  • Creator
    James Pellicane
  • Years Active
    2008 - 2026
  • Episodes
    59
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2012
  • Show Website
    Christian Dad's Podcast