Wish my mother told me Podcast

Tess Lehman

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Sometimes you'll get to adult hood and realise there are things you've missed. And it's not someone's fault but you might find yourself thinking, wish my mother told me. This is all those conversations you might've missed. iwishmymothertoldme.substack.com

Aug 15

Purpose

I was talking to someone recently about jobs and work and purpose. This person was sort of like, oh, you know, like, I just feel like I don’t have any purpose. And I was said, well, okay. Like, I mean, that could be true for sure. But also what if your job and your purpose are not the same thing? What if your job is just something that you do to earn money so that you can use your money to live your life? And what if your purpose is something completely different? If you find work that's a s****y boring job but allows you to do things that light your soul up or be a person who has a lit up soul because you can pay your bills and you have more space to do your spiritual work or to do your creative work or whatever, that's great too. There is I think many ways to have a purpose filled life. But work surely is not the only way. Have a listen let me know what you think and as always you are doing great sweetie. Get full access to Wish my mother told me at iwishmymothertoldme.substack.com/subscribe
Aug 11

on the rigours of moving

On Moving, states, countries, towns. Moving house. Get full access to Wish my mother told me at iwishmymothertoldme.substack.com/subscribe
Aug 2

Joy, can you cultivate it

this episode we dive into joy. I have a couple of theories about joy, about cultivating it versus noticing it. Noticing requires paying attention. attention to the little things. the funny things. The oddities. And cultivating it requires sometimes a little effort. A making of time, or of space for it to bloom. Have a listen and let me know what you think. You are doing great sweetie. Tess Get full access to Wish my mother told me at iwishmymothertoldme.substack.com/subscribe
Jul 21

Comparison, when it works, when it doesn't.

Have you found yourself comparing you to other people? of course you have we all have. But when was the last time you compared yourself to the you of two years ago, or five years ago, or ten years ago. Comparison can be a helpful tool when used well and it can be the stick we use to beat ourselves with when used poorly. So come along for a listen while I chat all things comparison sharing some of my own stories along the way. Thanks for listening you’re doing great sweetie. If you think this episode might benefit someone please feel free to send it on. Thank you Tess Get full access to Wish my mother told me at iwishmymothertoldme.substack.com/subscribe
Jul 14

do the thing that's calling you!

Hi loves have you had something calling your name? Maybe for a while? something that’s wanting to be made, and maybe you’ve been worried about how its going to be received. Don’t worry. please. less people are paying attention than what you think. Also if you have a question you’d like me to explore on the pod please shoot me a message I'd love to dive into it. Talk soon Tess Get full access to Wish my mother told me at iwishmymothertoldme.substack.com/subscribe
Jul 2

Do you need a spiritual practice?

I’ve had many a spiritual practice in my life, and even when i’ve tried running from that part of myself it always gently beckons me back. I’d love to know do you have a spiritual practice what does it look like? Does it help you? I have a daily meditation/yoga practice that gets a bit weird but always brings me more of myself which I am so completely grateful for. I’ve had Wiccan practices, hiking in nature, yoga, swimming, journaling, and the things they all have in common is what we dive into today. Get full access to Wish my mother told me at iwishmymothertoldme.substack.com/subscribe
Jun 24

Roos, cows and Owls oh my!

Roos, owls and cows oh my! what to do when you hit an animal wild or otherwise and what you can keep in your car to help. Resources below https://www.legalaid.nsw.gov.au/my-problem-is-about/my-car-or-a-driving-offence/car-accidents/who-is-responsible/car-accidents-involving-animals https://www.youi.com.au/car-insurance/articles/tips-on-what-to-do-if-you-hit-an-animal Get full access to Wish my mother told me at iwishmymothertoldme.substack.com/subscribe
Jun 17

Enthusiastic Consent and is sex like good chat?

As far as i’m concerned Emily Nagoski is the leading expert about good sex. You can find her here. I have bought her book and given it to people numbers times I always try and keep one copy on hand. That is the Come as You Are book she also has other books I’m halfway through Come Together. https://www.emilynagoski.com My absolute favourite quote of hers is “What matters is not what you do, but that you both like what happens.” So this week we are chatting sex and consent. I’ve shared some of my own experiences and some metaphors about sex. If you’ve got thoughts, experiences, questions or what not feel free to comment below. And if this was fun for you to listen to please give me a subscribe and let me know your home address so I can send a thank you card in the mail. Thanks for being here Tess Get full access to Wish my mother told me at iwishmymothertoldme.substack.com/subscribe
Jun 12

Why do we believe what we believe

Hi folks I’m super glad you’re here. For more info on some of the topics I dance across in this episode i’ve put some resources below. Thanks for listening about that time I went to a strip club and the rest and please if you subscribe send me your address so I can send you a note to say thank you. I appreciate you being here and I’m keen to hear your thoughts. There is the info on personal contract theory https://www.ebsco.com/research-starters/social-sciences-and-humanities/personal-construct-theory the absolute truth that philosophy discusses https://www.allaboutphilosophy.org/absolute-truth.htm a book by Neal Leavy called Bad beliefs: why they happen to good people https://academic.oup.com/book/38980 Get full access to Wish my mother told me at iwishmymothertoldme.substack.com/subscribe

9 Episodes

Sometimes you'll get to adult hood and realise there are things you've missed. And it's not someone's fault but you might find yourself thinking, wish my mother told me. This is all those conversations you might've missed. iwishmymothertoldme.substack.com

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Tess Lehman
Years Active

2026
Episodes

9
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Explicit
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Wish my mother told me Podcast