Black Fatherhood Conversations

Mike Owens
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Welcome to Black Fatherhood Conversations — a podcast dedicated to authentic discussions about fatherhood, marriage, brotherhood, manhood, mental health, relationships, and personal growth from a Black male perspective. Join us as Black fathers and men come together to share real-life experiences, challenges, victories, and lessons learned while navigating family, marriage, parenting, careers, and community. Through honest conversations and “iron sharpening iron,” we create a space where men can grow, support one another, and become better fathers, husbands, leaders, and brothers. Whether you’re a father, husband, mentor, young man, or someone seeking meaningful conversations about Black family life and manhood, this channel offers relatable stories, practical advice, and powerful perspectives designed to inspire and encourage.

Episodes

  1. Aug 13

    “My Teen Is Being Bullied but Doesn’t Want Me Involved—What Should a Black Father Do?”

    Your teen tells you they’re being bullied—but begs you not to step in. Do you respect their wishes or get involved anyway? In this episode, we discuss how parents can protect their children, build trust, and handle bullying without making things worse.

  2. Aug 8

    Black Fatherhood Conversations Presents: Marriage Talk — Real Conversations About Marriage!

    Black Fatherhood Conversations Presents: Marriage Talk — Real Conversations About Marriage With Our Wives Marriage takes love, communication, patience, sacrifice, faith, and a whole lot of teamwork! In this special episode of Black Fatherhood Conversations, the wives join the conversation as we have an open and honest discussion about the realities of marriage. We’re talking about communication, disagreements, intimacy, parenting, expectations, supporting one another, keeping the spark alive, and the lessons we’ve learned along the way. No perfect marriages. No pretending. Just husbands and wives having real conversations about what it takes to build, maintain, and strengthen a marriage. 💬 Join the conversation: What’s one lesson marriage has taught you that you wish you knew before saying “I do”? ❤️ Like, comment, share, and subscribe to Black Fatherhood Conversations for more conversations about fatherhood, marriage, family, faith, and relationships.

  3. Aug 6

    Spanking vs. Gentle Parenting: What Should Black Fathers Do?

    Disciplining children has become one of the biggest parenting debates today. Should Black fathers continue traditional forms of discipline like spanking, or is gentle parenting a more effective way to raise respectful, responsible children? In this episode of Black Fatherhood Conversations, we have an honest, respectful discussion about discipline, accountability, love, and leadership in the home. Our panel shares personal experiences, how they were raised, what has worked with their own children, and whether spanking still has a place in modern parenting. This conversation isn’t about judging parents—it’s about exploring different perspectives and helping fathers make thoughtful decisions that strengthen their families.

  4. Jul 29

    Should Fathers Apologize to Their Children? | Does Saying “I’m Sorry” Make You a Better Dad?

    Does apologizing to your child make you look weak—or does it make you a stronger father? In this episode of Black Fatherhood Conversations, we tackle an important question every dad will face: Should fathers apologize to their children when they’re wrong? We discuss the impact of humility, accountability, grace, and how saying “I’m sorry” can build trust, strengthen relationships, and model Christ-like leadership in the home. Join us as we share personal experiences, biblical principles, and honest perspectives on discipline, respect, forgiveness, and raising emotionally healthy children. Whether you’re a new father, a seasoned dad, or someone who values strong families, this conversation will challenge and encourage you. 💬 Question of the Day: Have you ever apologized to your child? How did it affect your relationship? 👍 Don’t forget to Like, Comment, and Subscribe for more authentic conversations about Black fatherhood, faith, marriage, leadership, and family. #BlackFatherhood #Fatherhood #Parenting #ChristianDad #BlackFathers #Family #Leadership #ParentingAdvice

  5. Jul 22

    Your son tells you he’s scared during a police stop. What advice do you give him?

    The episode features a discussion on mental health, police interactions, and the decision to attend college or pursue entrepreneurship. The hosts and guest share personal experiences and insights, emphasizing the importance of having a plan and maintaining emotional intelligence in various life situations. The conversation covers the topics of commitment, perseverance, and spiritual guidance for children. It emphasizes the importance of finishing what you start, the value of hard work, and the significance of attending church as a family. The conversation covers the topic of church attendance, personal relationships with the church, and the challenges of finding a church community. It also delves into the importance of setting an example for children and the impact of church hurt on individuals. Takeaways Emphasize the importance of mental health check-ins and support among black men.Encourage a balanced approach to police interactions, focusing on compliance, emotional intelligence, and the importance of getting home safely.Highlight the significance of having a clear plan and vision for the future, whether pursuing college or entrepreneurship. Commitment and perseverance are essential qualities that should be instilled in children from a young age.Attending church as a family is a non-negotiable aspect of spiritual upbringing and should be prioritized. Church hurt is a real and significant issue that affects people's relationship with the church.Finding a church community that aligns with personal beliefs and values is essential for a meaningful and fulfilling church experience. Chapters 00:00 Decision to Attend College or Pursue Entrepreneurship35:51 The Importance of Attending Church47:28 The Challenge of Church Attendance48:15 Personal Relationship with the Church49:37 Impact of Church Hurt56:26 Setting an Example for Children58:48 The Importance of Ironing and Personal Grooming01:00:25 Closing Remarks and Gratitude

  6. Jul 15

    What Do You Tell Your Son When He Says, “Real Men Don’t Cry?”

    The conversation begins with salutations and introductions, followed by a discussion on mental well-being and the importance of expressing emotions. The hosts share personal experiences and insights, emphasizing the significance of embracing vulnerability and redefining strength. The conversation then transitions to a discussion on personal achievements and triumphs, highlighting the importance of celebrating successes and acknowledging individual accomplishments. The conversation covers topics related to education, personal growth, faith, family, support, brotherhood, parenting, and values. It delves into the value of education and personal growth, the importance of a foundation in Christ, the significance of support and brotherhood, and the challenges of parenting and instilling values in children. The conversation delves into the importance of setting boundaries in relationships, the role of professional help in resolving conflicts, and the need to avoid involving family in relationship disputes. Each theme is explored in depth, emphasizing the significance of these aspects in maintaining healthy and respectful relationships. The conversation delves into the impact of involving family in disagreements, emphasizing the importance of keeping family out of marital disputes. It also highlights the significance of listening to understand and the negative effects of external influence on marriage. The importance of setting boundaries with family is also discussed. Takeaways Embracing vulnerabilityRedefining strengthCelebrating personal achievements Value of educationFoundation in Christ Setting boundaries in relationships is crucialProfessional help is important in resolving disagreementsAvoid involving family in relationship conflicts Keep family out of disagreementsListen to understand Chapters 00:00 Setting the Stage02:59 The Importance of Crying22:02 Personal Achievements and Triumphs28:15 Education and Personal Growth30:05 Faith and Family32:11 Support and Brotherhood34:45 Parenting and Values42:36 Setting Boundaries in Relationships47:37 The Role of Professional Help53:02 Avoiding Family Involvement in Conflicts56:25 The Impact of Involving Family in Disagreements57:03 The Importance of Listening to Understand59:24 The Dangers of Involving Others in Marriage01:00:17 The Negative Effects of External Influence01:11:33 The Importance of Setting Boundaries with Family

  7. Jul 8

    Protecting Our Sons: What the Nolan Xavier Wells Story Teaches Black Fathers

    The Nolan Xavier Wells story has sparked difficult conversations about parenting, accountability, and protecting our children. In this episode of Black Fatherhood Conversations, we discuss what Black fathers can learn from the situation, the importance of being present in our children’s lives, and how honest conversations today can shape better decisions tomorrow. Join us as we explore fatherhood, responsibility, and the role men play in raising the next generation.

  8. Jul 1

    Your Son Gets a Girl Pregnant in High School! What Do You Say?

    The conversation begins with introductions and salutations, followed by a mental check-in with the guests. The main theme of the discussion revolves around fatherhood and unexpected challenges, particularly the scenario of a son getting a girl pregnant while still in high school. The guests emphasize the importance of unconditional love, open communication, and supporting the child while encouraging responsibility and planning. The conversation delved into the challenges faced in black households, particularly related to young parenthood and the aftermath of difficult situations. It also explored the impact of hurtful words on men and the vulnerability and emotional impact in fatherhood. Additionally, the discussion highlighted the importance of unity in parenting and the need for private discussions on parenting approaches. Takeaways Unconditional love and support for the child is crucial in the face of unexpected challenges.Open and honest communication with the child about the situation and the responsibilities ahead.Encouraging the child to have a plan and take responsibility while providing support and guidance. Unity in ParentingTrust in GodPrivate Discussions Chapters 00:00 Fatherhood and Unexpected Challenges32:12 Challenges in Black Households50:52 Disciplining Children

  9. Jun 28

    Should Married People Have Friends of the Opposite Gender?

    The episode features a panel of fathers discussing their mental well-being and reflecting on their experiences as fathers. They share their current mental states and discuss the mistakes they would erase as fathers, focusing on the importance of patience and being mentally present for their children. The conversation revolves around the theme of marriage and the dynamics of relationships within it. The participants discuss the importance of family, parenting styles, and the role of men and women as friends when married. They also touch on the rarity of faithful marriages and the challenges of maintaining fidelity in a society that often devalues the sanctity of marriage. The conversation covers a range of topics related to marriage, family, work-life balance, and the impact of artificial intelligence. The speakers share personal experiences, insights, and advice on these subjects, emphasizing the importance of faith, commitment, and intentional time management. Takeaways Patience is a crucial aspect of fatherhood, and having patience with children is essential.Being mentally present for their children is a priority for the fathers, and they reflect on times when they were physically present but mentally elsewhere. Family and marriage require intentional effort and prioritization.The value of fidelity and the rarity of faithful marriages in today's society. Commitment to marriage and family is a sacred covenant that requires continuous growth and improvement.Prayer, faith, and intentional time management are essential for maintaining a healthy work-life balance and family relationships. Chapters 00:00 Reflecting on Mistakes as Fathers17:29 Prioritizing Family and Marriage23:14 Men and Women as Friends When Married34:25 Challenges of Fidelity and the Sanctity of Marriage01:03:14 The Influence of Artificial Intelligence

  10. Jun 23

    What Fathers Need to Tell Their Daughters!

    What would Black fathers say to their daughters when they see a successful Black woman publicly criticized, mocked, or disrespected? In this powerful episode of Black Fatherhood Conversations, we discuss the controversial comments made about Michelle Obama and the lessons fathers can teach their daughters about self-worth, confidence, character, and resilience. As Black fathers, it is our responsibility to help our daughters navigate a world that can often be unfair and judgmental. We explore how to build strong self-esteem, overcome negativity, and embrace the beauty, intelligence, and strength that Black women bring to society.

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Welcome to Black Fatherhood Conversations — a podcast dedicated to authentic discussions about fatherhood, marriage, brotherhood, manhood, mental health, relationships, and personal growth from a Black male perspective. Join us as Black fathers and men come together to share real-life experiences, challenges, victories, and lessons learned while navigating family, marriage, parenting, careers, and community. Through honest conversations and “iron sharpening iron,” we create a space where men can grow, support one another, and become better fathers, husbands, leaders, and brothers. Whether you’re a father, husband, mentor, young man, or someone seeking meaningful conversations about Black family life and manhood, this channel offers relatable stories, practical advice, and powerful perspectives designed to inspire and encourage.

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