The Wicked Daughter - Caring For Your Aging Parents, One Meltdown at a Time

Lori
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This podcast is for every daughter, son, spouse, partner, friend, and caregiver who has ever sat in a doctor's office taking notes, answered a call from the emergency room, argued about a walker, searched for the missing phone, or cried in a parking lot before pulling themselves together and walking back inside. Here you'll find stories, dark humor, hard-earned lessons, and the occasional reminder that you're not losing your mind. You're just doing one of the hardest jobs there is. So welcome. Pull up a chair. Hide your emergency chocolate. And join me as we navigate aging parents, impossible decisions, and caregiving chaos one meltdown at a time.

Episodes

  1. 2d ago

    E007 - This is Only Temporary

    For the first time since my mom's accident, it finally feels like we're moving in the right direction. After days of hospital stays, setbacks, and learning what it really means to become a family caregiver overnight, we're finally seeing progress. Mom is getting stronger, working with physical therapy, and every small victory feels like another step toward recovery. If you're caring for an aging parent or elderly loved one, you know these moments. You celebrate every milestone because you've learned that even the smallest improvements can feel like miracles. This episode is about hope, resilience, caregiver stress, and the emotional highs that come with seeing someone you love begin to heal. ⚠️ Spoiler Alert: If you'd rather experience the ending without knowing what's coming, stop reading here. 🧻 Grab your tissues. Just when it seems we're finally turning the corner, an unexpected medical emergency changes everything. The episode ends in the ICU, where I make my mom one heartfelt promise: "This is only temporary." Send us your comments! Before you head back to medication schedules, insurance paperwork, and explaining to your parent for the fifteenth time why they can't climb on a chair to change a lightbulb... Grab your free Caregiver Emergency Checklist at TheWickedDaughter.com. If you're enjoying the podcast, please leave a review. It helps another unsuspecting caregiver find us. Then come join The Wicked Daughter Community on Facebook, where we swap stories, share practical tips, and prove that a slightly twisted sense of humor is sometimes the best medicine. https://www.facebook.com/wickeddaughter And if you'd like to help support the show, you can always Buy Me a Coffee. It helps keep the stories coming, the microphone on, and my caffeine levels high enough to survive another week of caregiving chaos. https://buymeacoffee.com/wickeddaughter Thanks for being here. It really does mean the world.

  2. Jul 14

    E006: Okay Means Something Different in a Hospital

    When the phone rings at 2:45 in the morning, you already know your night is over. Just when it seemed like Mom had survived the worst, a new complication appeared—AFib. Overnight, I found myself learning another medical term, coordinating multiple specialists, and discovering that being a caregiver often means making sure one doctor's treatment doesn't create another doctor's problem. This episode is about becoming the air traffic controller of someone else's healthcare, the importance of long-standing relationships with doctors, and how the smallest details—like an enema that keeps getting delayed—can suddenly become the biggest priorities. Sometimes the biggest victories aren't dramatic at all. Sometimes they're simply hearing the words, "No surgery." In this episode: The 2:45 a.m. phone call that changed everythingWhat happens when AFib suddenly enters the pictureWhy every caregiver should keep their loved one's doctors close at handHow multiple specialists can unintentionally work at cross purposesThe unexpected relief of avoiding yet another surgeryWhy the "little things" in a hospital are often anything but littleBut just when I thought we were finally turning the corner... the heart had other plans. Send us your comments! Before you head back to medication schedules, insurance paperwork, and explaining to your parent for the fifteenth time why they can't climb on a chair to change a lightbulb... Grab your free Caregiver Emergency Checklist at TheWickedDaughter.com. If you're enjoying the podcast, please leave a review. It helps another unsuspecting caregiver find us. Then come join The Wicked Daughter Community on Facebook, where we swap stories, share practical tips, and prove that a slightly twisted sense of humor is sometimes the best medicine. https://www.facebook.com/wickeddaughter And if you'd like to help support the show, you can always Buy Me a Coffee. It helps keep the stories coming, the microphone on, and my caffeine levels high enough to survive another week of caregiving chaos. https://buymeacoffee.com/wickeddaughter Thanks for being here. It really does mean the world.

  3. Jul 7

    E005: As Needed

    New here? Welcome! This podcast follows my real caregiving story -  managing my aging parent, one meltdown at a time. If you'd like to hear how it all began, start with Episode 1: Welcome to the Right Waiting Room. Caregiving isn't always about doing more. Sometimes it's about making sure the important things don't quietly fall through the cracks. While waiting days for Mom's second surgery during the Christmas holiday, I discovered that hospitals run on a phrase that every caregiver needs to understand: "as needed". Whether it's breathing treatments, test results, or something as simple as noticing swollen hands, I learned that if you don't ask questions, the answers don't always come. In this episode, I share one of the biggest caregiving lessons I learned in the hospital: you don't have to know everything—but you do have to pay attention. Because sometimes the most important role you play isn't fixing the problem. It's making sure the problem doesn't get forgotten. Just when I finally think we're turning the corner after Mom's second surgery, a middle-of-the-night phone call changes everything. #Caregiving #FamilyCaregiver #AgingParents #ElderCare #CaregiverSupport #HospitalLife #AFib #TheWickedDaughter Send us your comments! Before you head back to medication schedules, insurance paperwork, and explaining to your parent for the fifteenth time why they can't climb on a chair to change a lightbulb... Grab your free Caregiver Emergency Checklist at TheWickedDaughter.com. If you're enjoying the podcast, please leave a review. It helps another unsuspecting caregiver find us. Then come join The Wicked Daughter Community on Facebook, where we swap stories, share practical tips, and prove that a slightly twisted sense of humor is sometimes the best medicine. https://www.facebook.com/wickeddaughter And if you'd like to help support the show, you can always Buy Me a Coffee. It helps keep the stories coming, the microphone on, and my caffeine levels high enough to survive another week of caregiving chaos. https://buymeacoffee.com/wickeddaughter Thanks for being here. It really does mean the world.

  4. Jun 30

    E004: It Shouldn't Be Much Longer

    "The doctor will be with you shortly." "It shouldn't be much longer." If you've ever waited in a hospital, you know those words can mean absolutely anything. In this episode of The Wicked Daughter, surgery is scheduled... then mysteriously canceled... after the cafeteria apparently gets the memo before the nurses. Between endless waiting, another day without food, and the quiet fear of anesthesia, I learn that sometimes the hardest part of caregiving isn't doing something... it's waiting to do anything at all. And when Mom finally returns from surgery, nothing could have prepared me for the sight of an external fixator holding her shattered leg together. It's a story about hospital time, impossible waiting, and discovering that "normal" means something very different inside a hospital. If you've ever spent hours in a waiting room wondering what happens next... this one's for you. Send us your comments! Before you head back to medication schedules, insurance paperwork, and explaining to your parent for the fifteenth time why they can't climb on a chair to change a lightbulb... Grab your free Caregiver Emergency Checklist at TheWickedDaughter.com. If you're enjoying the podcast, please leave a review. It helps another unsuspecting caregiver find us. Then come join The Wicked Daughter Community on Facebook, where we swap stories, share practical tips, and prove that a slightly twisted sense of humor is sometimes the best medicine. https://www.facebook.com/wickeddaughter And if you'd like to help support the show, you can always Buy Me a Coffee. It helps keep the stories coming, the microphone on, and my caffeine levels high enough to survive another week of caregiving chaos. https://buymeacoffee.com/wickeddaughter Thanks for being here. It really does mean the world.

  5. Jun 30

    E003: Hospital Time

    The sheriff said Mom was alive. That was the good news. Everything after that...got complicated. In this episode, I take you inside the emergency room, where fear, uncertainty, and "hospital time" collide. If you've ever waited hours for answers that never seemed to come, replayed worst-case scenarios in your head, or discovered that every medical update somehow creates three new questions, you'll understand exactly what happened next. This is the beginning of the hospital journey that would change both of our lives forever. In this episode: The frantic drive to the hospital after the sheriff's callWhat it's really like waiting for answers in the emergency roomWhy time moves differently in hospitalsHow your brain fills in the blanks when no one has answersThe first hints that this was going to be much bigger than a broken boneThe sheriff's phone call was only the beginning. The hospital had its own story to tell...and we were just getting started. Welcome to The Wicked Daughter. Managing your aging parent...one meltdown at a time. Send us your comments! Before you head back to medication schedules, insurance paperwork, and explaining to your parent for the fifteenth time why they can't climb on a chair to change a lightbulb... Grab your free Caregiver Emergency Checklist at TheWickedDaughter.com. If you're enjoying the podcast, please leave a review. It helps another unsuspecting caregiver find us. Then come join The Wicked Daughter Community on Facebook, where we swap stories, share practical tips, and prove that a slightly twisted sense of humor is sometimes the best medicine. https://www.facebook.com/wickeddaughter And if you'd like to help support the show, you can always Buy Me a Coffee. It helps keep the stories coming, the microphone on, and my caffeine levels high enough to survive another week of caregiving chaos. https://buymeacoffee.com/wickeddaughter Thanks for being here. It really does mean the world.

  6. Jun 30

    E002: How Caregiving Made Me The Wicked Daughter

    One phone call changed everything. One minute I was just a daughter. The next, I was navigating hospitals, impossible decisions, and a role nobody ever prepares you for: caregiver. In this first episode, I share how I became The Wicked Daughter—not because I was mean, controlling, or bossy...but because loving an aging parent sometimes means becoming the person who takes away the car keys, argues with doctors, worries about falls, and somehow ends up discussing bowel movements before breakfast. If you've ever hidden in your car for twenty minutes just to hear yourself think... If you've ever been told to "just let them live their life"... Or if you've discovered that caregiving is equal parts love, guilt, exhaustion, and dark humor... You're in the right place. This isn't a polished caregiving podcast full of perfect advice. It's an honest look at what really happens after the phone call—the one every caregiver knows is coming, but hopes never will. In this episode: Why I became "The Wicked Daughter"The moment my life changed foreverWhat I wish someone had told me before caregiving found meWhy laughter sometimes becomes survivalNext episode, I'll tell you what happened after the sheriff called...and why that was only the beginning. Welcome to The Wicked Daughter. Managing your aging parent...one meltdown at a time. Send us your comments! Before you head back to medication schedules, insurance paperwork, and explaining to your parent for the fifteenth time why they can't climb on a chair to change a lightbulb... Grab your free Caregiver Emergency Checklist at TheWickedDaughter.com. If you're enjoying the podcast, please leave a review. It helps another unsuspecting caregiver find us. Then come join The Wicked Daughter Community on Facebook, where we swap stories, share practical tips, and prove that a slightly twisted sense of humor is sometimes the best medicine. https://www.facebook.com/wickeddaughter And if you'd like to help support the show, you can always Buy Me a Coffee. It helps keep the stories coming, the microphone on, and my caffeine levels high enough to survive another week of caregiving chaos. https://buymeacoffee.com/wickeddaughter Thanks for being here. It really does mean the world.

  7. Jun 29

    E001: Welcome to the Right Waiting Room

    Nobody hands you a manual for becoming a caregiver. They just hand you a clipboard. No one prepares you for the waiting. The worrying. The impossible decisions. Or the moments so completely absurd that you can't help but laugh. The Wicked Daughter is an honest, darkly funny podcast about the real life of caring for an aging parent. Because no one should have to navigate this journey alone. You're in the right waiting room. Send us your comments! Before you head back to medication schedules, insurance paperwork, and explaining to your parent for the fifteenth time why they can't climb on a chair to change a lightbulb... Grab your free Caregiver Emergency Checklist at TheWickedDaughter.com. If you're enjoying the podcast, please leave a review. It helps another unsuspecting caregiver find us. Then come join The Wicked Daughter Community on Facebook, where we swap stories, share practical tips, and prove that a slightly twisted sense of humor is sometimes the best medicine. https://www.facebook.com/wickeddaughter And if you'd like to help support the show, you can always Buy Me a Coffee. It helps keep the stories coming, the microphone on, and my caffeine levels high enough to survive another week of caregiving chaos. https://buymeacoffee.com/wickeddaughter Thanks for being here. It really does mean the world.

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This podcast is for every daughter, son, spouse, partner, friend, and caregiver who has ever sat in a doctor's office taking notes, answered a call from the emergency room, argued about a walker, searched for the missing phone, or cried in a parking lot before pulling themselves together and walking back inside. Here you'll find stories, dark humor, hard-earned lessons, and the occasional reminder that you're not losing your mind. You're just doing one of the hardest jobs there is. So welcome. Pull up a chair. Hide your emergency chocolate. And join me as we navigate aging parents, impossible decisions, and caregiving chaos one meltdown at a time.

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