Those Prayer Guys

Ben and Brian

Does your prayer life feel forced, hollow, or you simply run out of things to say to God? We believe prayer is more than a list of requests. It’s about building a genuine, deep relationship with Him. This channel is for those who are ready to stop going through the motions and start showing up as true friends of God. Whether you're learning to hear God's voice or looking for a practical prayer strategy, we're here to help you move from "casual acquaintance" to a close, vibrant relationship with the Father.

  1. Jun 23

    Episode 13: Why are my prayers not being answered?

    Have you been praying for something for weeks, months, or even years, yet the heavens feel like brass? It is incredibly frustrating and confusing—especially when Jesus explicitly tells us to "ask and it will be given." So why the disconnect? Why do so many of our prayers seem to go completely unanswered? In this episode of Those Prayer Guys, we strip away the abstract formulas and have a raw, honest conversation about the real spiritual and practical reasons your prayer life might feel stalled. We break down the scripture—looking into James 4, 1 John 5, and First Peter 3—to uncover the hidden barriers that block our breakthroughs and explore how a simple shift in posture can change everything. We look at the common traps we all fall into, and share practical insights on: The Whining vs. Praying Matrix: How spending more time complaining to others or worrying about a problem actually delays the very breakthrough we are seeking. The Root of Motivation: Disarming selfish ambition, transactional faith, and the subtle trap of "Western Christianity greed" (Colossians 3:5) that treats God like a genie instead of a Father. The Power of the Dual-Tongue: Why speaking declarations of faith in prayer, but then speaking curses, doubt, or complaints over your marriage, kids, or finances throughout the day cancels out your prayers (Proverbs 18:21). The Hindrance of a Fractured Marriage: Looking at 1 Peter 3:7 and why a lack of covenant alignment or treating your spouse poorly completely shuts down the pipeline of answered prayer. Holy Persistence vs. Meaningless Babbling: The massive difference between the transactional "repetition" of the Pharisees and the faith-filled, relational persistence of the widow in Luke 18. Stop fighting on an island and wondering if God is ignoring you. Your character as a believer isn’t built on the immediate outcome of your prayers—it’s built on your commitment to show up and stay connected to Him even in the waiting. Wrap up this episode by joining us in a powerful, 30-second prayer of release—letting go of resentment, expectations, and entitlement, and opening your hands to fully receive what the Father has for you. Connect With Us:If you want to move from a dry, non-existent prayer life to confidently praying 30 minutes or more in less than 30 days, you need a brotherhood. Come step out of isolation and join our virtual community! Join the Prayer Camp:⁠ https://www.skool.com/prayercamp/about⁠ Youtube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@prayercampwithbenandbrian⁠ Follow on Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61590200536240⁠ Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/_prayercamp/⁠ Tiktok: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@_prayercamp⁠

  2. Jun 16

    Episode 12: How to Win the Spiritual Warfare in Your Mind

    Are you feeling overwhelmed by negative thoughts, constant discouragement, or crippling anxiety? In this episode, we are diving deep into the real battlefield of spiritual warfare: your mind. We break down the foundational truths of Scripture—including Ephesians 6:12, Romans 12:2, and 2 Corinthians 10:3-5—to expose the enemy’s primary strategy. Spoiler alert: It isn't to turn you into a crazed lunatic. It’s simply to get you isolated, living in fear, and sliding right out of alignment with the incredible identity and purpose Jesus has for your life. If you feel trapped in a continuous loop of worry, bad habits, or intrusive mental loops, this episode is your roadmap out. We share highly practical, real-world tools that you can apply immediately to take territory back from the enemy, including: The Canvas Method: A powerful visual strategy to hand intrusive thoughts over to the blood of Jesus. The Weapon of Brutal Honesty: How radical transparency with God completely disarms condemnation. Defense vs. Offense: Knowing when to rest safely in God as your Strong Tower, and how to aggressively advance the Kingdom of God through love and community when you are pushed. Stop fighting this battle on an island. It’s time to renew your mind, break the cycle of fear, resist the enemy, and watch him flee. Connect With Us:Join our thriving community for more resources, structured mentorship, and daily declarations to anchor your soul. Head over to our Skool group to grab our free "Declarations and Decrees" blueprint! Don't forget to follow the podcast, leave a 5-star review, and share this episode with a brother or friend who needs to hear this truth today! Join the Prayer Camp: https://www.skool.com/prayercamp/about Listen on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/033qWKsLEsgBW0LR89dZ5E?si=605a6cab94094742 Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@prayercampwithbenandbrian Follow on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61590200536240 15 Minute Prayer Blueprint: https://drive.google.com/file/d/15Zn1JN_DSKX-HMleC7DzH63ZX1rHQNd6/view?usp=sharing

  3. Jun 16

    Episode 11: How to Personalize Decrees and Declarations for Breakthrough

    It is one thing to know that the Word of God is powerful; it is another thing entirely to know how to pick it up, apply it, and speak it intentionally over your life, your family, your finances, and even when you are facing a heavy spiritual attack. In this episode, we move away from abstract theology and look at the practical, real-world execution of biblical declarations. True decrees aren't just empty religious performance formulas—they are casual, conversational answers to real challenges, shifting the spiritual atmosphere and instating heavenly authority right where you stand. Using the rich legal foundation found in Psalm 2, we map out a step-by-step blueprint on how an everyday believer can shift from a passive prayer life to actively co-laboring with God for a genuine breakthrough. In this episode, we break down: The 5 Structural Steps to a Biblical Decree: A step-by-step breakdown from Psalm 2 on how to proclaim out loud, base your words purely on Scripture, direct it to a specific situation, and walk in total submission. [01:40] Why You Have to Say It Out Loud: Understanding the power of the spoken voice over silent thoughts, and why vocalizing truth aligns your mind and actions with heaven’s response. [02:11] Expectation vs. Anticipation: How setting rigid "expectations" on exactly how God should fix your life breeds bitter disappointment, and how shifting to limitless "anticipation" protects your faith. [05:15] How to Personalize a Verse (Romans 8:28): Real-world, practical walkthroughs on how to rewrite and speak Scripture over yourself, your spouse, your household, and even unexpected family hardships. [18:40] The "Saul Error" (Obedience Over Sacrifice): A stark warning about trying to outrun God’s timing, rushing ahead with our own plans, and failing to realize that God values your surrender more than your transactional performances. [15:16] Footprints vs. Drag Marks: Moving away from a legalistic, transactional relationship with God and learning what it truly means to casually walk with a sentient, loving Father who lives inside you. [18:02] Whether you are praying through a hard season, contending for peace in your home, or facing continuous discouragement, it is time to move past a passive prayer life. Grab your Bible, learn how to frame your words, and start establishing heavenly authority over your daily life. 🔗 Ready to turn these principles into a daily practice? Join our virtual community at Prayer Camp on Skool! Download our complete PDF list of scriptural decrees, access step-by-step prayer guides, and connect with a family of believers advancing the Kingdom together. Click the link in our bio to join today! [29:02] 🔔 If this episode built your faith and gave you practical tools, subscribe to the podcast, leave a 5-star review, and share this with a friend who is ready for a breakthrough! Join the Prayer Camp: https://www.skool.com/prayercamp/about Follow on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61590200536240 15 Minute Prayer Blueprint: https://drive.google.com/file/d/15Zn1JN_DSKX-HMleC7DzH63ZX1rHQNd6/view?usp=sharing

  4. Jun 6

    Episode 10: The Power of Declarations and Decrees (And How to Use Them)

    If you’ve spent any time in church culture or online ministries, you’ve likely heard terms like "naming and claiming," "decreeing and declaring," or the "prosperity gospel." For many, these phrases bring a lot of baggage—often feeling more like a mechanical attempt to manipulate God for personal gain than actual, relational prayer. In fact, using your own words to try and force a physical outcome for your own benefit borders dangerously on manifestation and witchcraft, treating the human tongue rather than God as the ultimate source of power. But what does the Bible actually say about decrees and declarations? In this episode, we tackle the misuse of these words head-on and break down the true, legal, and governmental framework of the Kingdom of God. When done biblically, declaring a decree isn’t about convincing God to do what we want—it’s about partnering with the Holy Spirit, aligning our hearts with the highest authority in heaven and earth, and echoing the promises He has already spoken. In this episode, we unpack: Manifestation vs. Biblical Agreement: Setting the record straight on the abuse of church language and why trying to manipulate spiritual laws for selfish gain is fundamentally flawed. [00:24] The Legal System of the Kingdom: Why a decree requires ruling authority, and how our true role is simply echoing the "legal orders" God has already signed into law. [06:12] The Practical Breakdown (For the Rest of Us): A simple definition—a decree is speaking the Word of God directly to a problem, while a declaration is speaking to what that Word is going to do to the situation. [08:52] How Jesus Fought in the Wilderness: An in-depth look at Matthew 4, examining how Jesus utilized "It is written" as a sword to take thoughts captive, conquer temptation, and expose the enemy's manipulation of Scripture. [16:56] Reading in Context: Why we can’t just pull random Old Testament promises out of context for personal gain, and how to use the Word as a grounded measuring stick for your everyday thoughts and feelings. [26:22] You are an heir to the Kingdom, and God has already written the decrees for an abundant, peaceful life. Stop trying to turn your prayer life into a performance formula. Learn how to take up the Word of God as your sword, align your thoughts with His truth, and speak with real authority over your daily challenges. 🔗 Want a full list of biblical decrees and declarations to use in your own prayer time? Join our virtual community at Prayer Camp on Skool! Access our free 15-minute prayer blueprint, guides, and walkthroughs designed to make your prayer life fulfilling and alive. Click the link in our bio to join! [30:11] 🔔 If this episode brought clarity to your walk, hit that follow button, leave a 5-star review, and share this with someone who is ready to ground their prayer life in deep, biblical truth! Join the Prayer Camp:⁠ https://www.skool.com/prayercamp/about⁠ Listen on Spotify: ⁠https://open.spotify.com/show/033qWKsLEsgBW0LR89dZ5E?si=605a6cab94094742⁠ Youtube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@prayercampwithbenandbrian⁠ Follow on Facebook: ⁠https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61590200536240⁠ 15 Minute Prayer Blueprint: ⁠https://drive.google.com/file/d/15Zn1JN_DSKX-HMleC7DzH63ZX1rHQNd6/view?usp=sharing⁠

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Does your prayer life feel forced, hollow, or you simply run out of things to say to God? We believe prayer is more than a list of requests. It’s about building a genuine, deep relationship with Him. This channel is for those who are ready to stop going through the motions and start showing up as true friends of God. Whether you're learning to hear God's voice or looking for a practical prayer strategy, we're here to help you move from "casual acquaintance" to a close, vibrant relationship with the Father.