Anchored In Grace Marriage Podcast

Eric & Sharris Nicholson

Our vision is to answer God’s call by using our marriage—its experiences, lessons, and redemption—to help couples seek God for true transformation. Through Christ, we stand to reclaim marriages from the enemy, reminding the world that marriage belongs to God, was redeemed by Christ’s sacrifice, and is meant to reflect His love, grace, and covenant faithfulness. We envision marriages elevated, restored, and anchored in God’s truth so they may glorify Him and strengthen families for generations to come.

  1. 8h ago

    Surface-Level Attacks: When Old Pain Resurfaces

    Send us Fan Mail Podcast Intro: Surface-Level Attacks—When Old Pain Resurfaces Have you ever thought you were healed from something—only for one conversation, one disagreement, or one unexpected moment to bring all those old emotions rushing back? Sometimes the attack is not about what is happening right now. It is connected to a wound from your past that was never fully surrendered, healed, or replaced with the truth of God’s Word. Welcome to Anchored in Grace. We are your hosts, Eric and Sharris, and today we are talking about “Surface-Level Attacks: When Old Pain Resurfaces.” In relationships and marriage, past rejection, betrayal, disappointment, abandonment, and unresolved hurt can suddenly rise to the surface. Before we realize it, we may respond to the person in front of us based on the pain of someone or something from our past. But God does not want us living as prisoners of old wounds. He wants to heal us completely—beneath the surface—and replace our pain with His love, grace, peace, forgiveness, and joy. Today, we are going to discuss how to recognize emotional and spiritual triggers, how unresolved pain affects our relationships, and how surrendering those wounded places to God can help us respond from a place of healing instead of hurt. So, take a deep breath, open your heart, and prepare to go beneath the surface—because what resurfaces is not always meant to destroy you. Sometimes God allows it to come up so He can finally heal it. Homework: The Seven-Day Surface-to-Surrender Challenge Day One: Ask God to Search You Read Psalm 139:23–24. Pray: “God, reveal what is beneath the surface of my heart.” Write down anything God brings to your attention. Day Two: Identify Your Triggers Write down three situations that regularly produce a strong emotional reaction. For each one, ask: “What does this situation remind me of?” Day Three: Identify the Lie Write down the negative message connected to each trigger. Examples: “I am not enough.” “Everyone will eventually leave me.” “I cannot trust anyone.” “My feelings do not matter.” Day Four: Replace the Lie With Truth Find a Scripture that speaks against each lie. Examples: “I am not enough” can be replaced with the truth that God’s grace is sufficient. “Everyone will leave me” can be replaced with Hebrews 13:5, where God promises never to fail or abandon us. “I am unlovable” can be replaced with Romans 8:38–39, which teaches that nothing can separate us from God’s love. Day Five: Have an Honest Conversation Married and engaged couples should set aside uninterrupted time to discuss one emotional trigger. Use this structure: “When this happened, I felt…” “It reminded me of…” “The story I began telling myself was…” “What I need from you is…” “What I am asking God to heal in me is…” Singles can have this conversation with God, a trusted mentor, counselor, or pastor. Day Six: Release the Pressure Spend at least fifteen minutes in prayer, worship, journaling, or quiet reflection. Name every burden you have been trying to carry. Then surrender each burden to Jesus. Day Seven: Practice Replacement Choose one fruit of the Spirit from Galatians 5:22–23 that you want to practice intentionally. Ask God: “What would love look like in this situation?” “What would patience look like?” “What would self-control look like?” “What would peace look like?” At the end of the week, share what God revealed and how your responses began to change. Support the show

  2. Jul 8

    Embracing New Seasons Letting Go and Letting God

    Send us Fan Mail Welcome to the 15th episode of the Anchored in Grace Podcast/Devotional. We’re so grateful you’ve joined us for this special moment as we close out 2025 together. Today’s episode, “Embracing a New Season: Letting Go and Letting God,” is more than just a conversation—it’s an invitation to pause, reflect, and prepare your heart for what God desires to do next. As this year comes to an end, many of us are carrying lessons learned, prayers answered, prayers still waiting, and even things God is gently asking us to release. In this final podcast of 2025, we’re creating space to let go of what no longer serves God’s purpose in our lives and to trust Him fully as we step into 2026. Together, we’ll share encouragement, practical wisdom, and faith-filled reminders to help you move forward with clarity, confidence, and peace. Wherever you are on your journey, know this: God is not finished with you. He goes before you into this new season. So settle in, open your heart, and let’s walk into the new year anchored in His grace, trusting His timing, and ready for all He has prepared. 📚 Homework Section (For the Week Ahead) 1. Reflection Journal: What season do you believe God is calling you into for 2026? What is He asking you to release? 2. Scripture Study: Read Genesis 12, Genesis 50, Matthew 14, and Isaiah 43 this week. Write down one truth from each passage. 3. Action Step: Do one thing this week that stretches your faith. Obey God promptly in something small. Support the show

  3. Jul 7

    Putting on the Armor of God

    Send us Fan Mail 🌿 Grace Marriage Devotional — Introduction & Invitation “Anchored in Grace with Eric & Sharris” In today’s world—where marriages, families, and our own hearts face constant spiritual pressure—God has not left us unprotected. He has equipped us with everything we need to stand strong, love boldly, and remain anchored in His truth. That’s why in our latest Grace Marriage devotional, we’re diving into the life-changing power of putting on the full Armor of God. Today we learned that: 1. The Armor of God is essential for spiritual protection. 2. Each piece of the armor has a purpose that strengthens our daily walk. 3. God gives us everything we need for victory. 4. The Word of God is our strongest weapon in every season. 5. Now we want to invite you to join us and discover how applying this armor can protect your marriage, guard your family, and strengthen your personal walk with Christ. Ephesians 6:11 (NLT) reminds us, “Put on all of God’s armor so that you will be able to stand firm against all strategies of the devil.” And Ephesians 6:17 (NLT) declares, “Take the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God.” In this devotional, we break down each piece of the armor in a practical, relatable way—showing how it can transform communication, deepen unity, and create a spiritual covering over your home. So tune in… learn… grow… and let’s walk together in the strength that Christ provides. Your marriage, your family, and your spiritual life can and will flourish when covered with His armor. Support the show

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Our vision is to answer God’s call by using our marriage—its experiences, lessons, and redemption—to help couples seek God for true transformation. Through Christ, we stand to reclaim marriages from the enemy, reminding the world that marriage belongs to God, was redeemed by Christ’s sacrifice, and is meant to reflect His love, grace, and covenant faithfulness. We envision marriages elevated, restored, and anchored in God’s truth so they may glorify Him and strengthen families for generations to come.