The Vincent William Podcast

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Build a life of freedom—spiritually, emotionally, relationally, physically, and practically—through the transforming love of God. Each week Vincent William shares biblical wisdom, practical tools, and honest conversations to help you heal, grow, and become the person God created you to be.

  1. Oct 13

    The ONE Thing That Will Transform Your Mental Health (and Your Walk With God)

    If you could do only one thing to transform your mental health and your walk with God, it would be this: find someone who accepts you as you are, and learn to receive their love. If your faith feels like striving, performing, fear, guilt, shame, or perfectionism, this episode is for you. All healing comes from relationships, but so does all brokenness. When someone you can see, hear, and touch knows your weaknesses and still chooses to love you, it changes how you view God, how you view yourself, and how you view everyone else. In this episode, I share why safe, loving relationships are one of the most powerful ways God heals us, and why you don't need a perfect person, just a safe one. In this episode, you'll learn: → Why human love becomes your reference for what God's love is like→ How words, good and bad, form into core beliefs through repetition and emotion→ Why you're not looking for a perfect relationship, but one that is good enough and safe enough→ How perfectionism can keep you from the very people God puts in your life→ How to tell whether someone is relationally safe: watch their fruit, not just their words→ Why you can ask God for a safe person, and why that desire may be God-given Healing doesn't happen alone. Love is what heals. 📞 BOOK YOUR FREE BREAKTHROUGH SESSIONDon't have a safe person in your life right now? Let's sit down together, talk about whatever is on your heart, and find your next step toward peace and freedom.👉 https://calendly.com/thevincentwilliam/free-1-1-coaching-session-with-vincent 🎁 GET YOUR FREE DAILY IDENTITY RESETStart your day rooted in who you are in Christ, not fear or shame.👉 https://www.thevincentwilliam.com/identity ⏱ EPISODE TIMESTAMPS0:00 The one thing that transforms your mental health0:48 Why opening up feels so hard1:06 How human love shapes how you see God2:08 All healing comes from relationships2:22 You can't force it, but you can ask God2:35 Why God wants us in real relationships3:11 How words become beliefs3:57 Not perfect, just safe4:36 How to tell if someone is safe5:11 Free breakthrough session5:38 How God answered my prayer6:08 You have not because you ask not6:42 Who I am 📖 SCRIPTURES MENTIONED1 Corinthians 13:4 – Love is patient, love is kindJames 4:2 – You have not because you ask not ABOUT MEI'm Vincent William. I help Christians with OCD and CPTSD heal their minds, hearts, souls, and relationships without more striving to earn the approval of God or others. 🎧 If this episode was a blessing to you, please follow the show and leave a rating or review. It helps other Christians who are struggling find this message. And share it with a friend who needs to hear it today. ▶️ Prefer to watch? Find the video version on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@thevincentwilliam 📸 Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thevincentwilliamofficial/ Remember: there are safe people out there, and you can ask God to lead you to them. You are fully seen, fully known, fully loved, and safe right now.

  2. Oct 6

    Why You Feel Like God Is Never Pleased With You

    Do you feel like God is never really pleased with you? Like you're always doing something wrong, and you have to perform to stay in His good graces? For years I prayed to God mostly as "God" or "Lord," and I felt distant, condemned and unsure where I stood with Him. What changed it for me was coming to Him as His beloved child and calling Him Father, the way Jesus taught His disciples to pray. In this episode: ✔️ What "Abba" really means ✔️ Why so many Christians end up in a punishment-based relationship with God ✔️ How your earthly parents shape the way you see God ✔️ Why knowing God's love in your head isn't the same as feeling it in your heart 🙏 THE 7-DAY CHALLENGE: For the next 7 days (or even 30), call God Father in your prayers. Watch what happens to your peace. 📅 Book a FREE breakthrough session with me: https://calendly.com/thevincentwilliam/free-1-1-coaching-session-with-vincent 🎁 Get your FREE Daily Identity Reset: https://www.thevincentwilliam.com/identity ⏱️ CHAPTERS 0:00 Feeling like God is never pleased with you 2:04 The shift: coming to God as Father 3:22 Why Jesus taught "Our Father” 5:32 What "Abba" really means 5:59 You don't have to perform for His love 7:00 Why we end up in a punishment-based relationship with God 8:02 What changed when I started calling Him Father 8:41 The 7-day challenge 9:36 Knowing it in your head vs. feeling it in your heart 11:52 You'll never "arrive" (and that's okay) 13:53 You're fully seen, fully known and fully loved If this episode blessed you, share it with someone who needs it, and follow for more! #ChristianMentalHealth #GodsLove #IdentityInChrist

  3. Oct 2

    What If God Wants to Be Your Father, Not Just Your Lord?

    Feeling distant from God, even though you're praying, reading your Bible, and trying so hard to draw close to Him? Wondering if He's mad at you or disappointed in you? He's not. 📅 Book a FREE breakthrough session with me: https://calendly.com/thevincentwilliam/free-1-1-coaching-session-with-vincent 🎁 Get your FREE Daily Identity Reset: https://www.thevincentwilliam.com/identity In this episode, I share one simple shift that changed my prayer life. It comes straight from how Jesus taught His disciples to pray: stop coming to God only as "God" or "Lord," and start coming to Him as your Father. You'll learn: ✔️ Why so many Christians struggle to see God as a loving Father ✔️ How your relationship with your earthly father shapes how you see God ✔️ How to tell God's voice apart from your inner critic ✔️ Why knowing you're His son or daughter changes everything 🙏 Your 7-day challenge: For the next 7 days (or 30, if you're up for it), call God "Father" every time you pray. Then come back and tell me in the comments what changed. 🎧 Listen next: Why You Feel Distant from God (It's Not What You Think): https://open.spotify.com/episode/0MbaCtLFQbNnbc6szT6Rkv?si=ee4226d051f5408a  ⏱️ Chapters 0:00 Feeling distant from God? 3:35 The one shift: how you address God in prayer 4:45 How Jesus taught His disciples to pray 8:50 Why so many Christians feel tormented 10:00 How your earthly father shapes how you see God 13:25 Your inner critic vs. God's voice 17:25 God knew everything and still chose to adopt you 19:45 The pressure to "have arrived” 24:14 Free breakthrough session 26:03 Recap 28:00 Your 7-day challenge 29:14 Why your identity as God's child changes everything Hi, I'm Vincent William. I help Christians heal and grow in their relationship with God, with others, and with themselves. No more striving, pressure, or performing. Just the grace and love of God. If this helped, share it with someone who needs it, and subscribe for more.You're fully seen, fully known, and fully loved. 🤍 #christian #prayer #identityinChrist

  4. Sep 25

    Why You Struggle to Trust God (It's Not Your Fault)

    Do you struggle to trust God even though you love Him? It's not your fault — here's how to heal your attachment to God and finally experience peace and consistency. In this episode, I share why healing your attachment style to God is the key to peace, fulfillment, and consistency in your relationship with God. We'll unpack what has shaped your view of God — past relationships, trauma, church experiences — and how to renew your mind so you can feel safe, secure, and loved by Him again. You probably don't have to pray more, read more, or fast more to get the freedom you desire. Instead, let's work on healing from the inside out. In this episode: Why you feel distant or inconsistent with God What is attachment to God and why it matters How past trauma and relationships shaped your faith How to start healing and trust God again If this blessed you, please follow for more on renewing your mind, overcoming anxiety, and growing in faith. FREE RESOURCES FOR YOU: Get Your Free Daily Identity Reset here: https://www.thevincentwilliam.com/identity Book Your Free Breakthrough Session here: https://calendly.com/thevincentwilliam/free-1-1-coaching-session-with-vincent Why You Struggle to Trust God (It's Not Your Fault) #ChristianHealing #TrustGod #FaithOverFear

  5. Sep 22

    It's Okay to Take a Break From Reading Your Bible

    If you struggle to read your Bible or feel guilty when you miss a day, this episode is for you. Thinking God's mad at you? He's not. Here's how to find peace, joy, and a sound mind in God's Word again. In this episode, you'll learn why it's okay to take a break from Bible reading, how fear, shame, and religious OCD can hijack your time in Scripture, and how to shift from performance to relationship. You don't have to pray more, read more, fast more. You're good. We'll talk about how to read the Bible in a way that actually edifies you, why God's correction is gentle not shaming, and how to trust His grace when your consistency isn't perfect. If reading out of fear or to avoid guilt sounds familiar, this will help you become your own friend and stop thinking He's mad at you, please. Perfect for Christians working through scrupulosity, intrusive thoughts, anxiety, and that harsh inner critic around faith habits. Subscribe for more on renewing your mind, overcoming anxiety and OCD, and experiencing peace with God. 👉 Free Identity Reset PDF: https://www.thevincentwilliam.com/identity 👉 Free 1:1 Coaching Session with me: https://calendly.com/thevincentwilliam/free-1-1-coaching-session-with-vincent More resources: Visit: thevincentwilliam.com Instagram: @thevincentwilliamofficial #biblestudy #HowToReadTheBible #ChristianOCD #Scrupulosity #FaithOverFear

  6. Sep 18

    Why You Feel Distant from God (It's Not What You Think)

    Does your relationship with God feel like a roller coaster — close one day, distant the next? If your walk with God is marked by ups and downs, highs and lows, and a general sense of inconsistency, this episode is for you. It's not a faith problem, and it's not because you're doing something wrong. In this episode, I share three reasons why your relationship with God may feel inconsistent — and one practical step you can take to make it more steady, safe, and secure. Here's what I cover: how your first relationships shape the way you relate to God, why shame makes you interpret His silence as disappointment, and why performance can never earn the closeness you long for. Because all brokenness comes through relationships — and all healing comes through relationships too. If you're ready to stop feeling distant from God and start experiencing His presence as safe and consistent, grab one of my free resources below or book a call — I'd love to walk with you. 🔗 FREE Daily Identity Reset — https://www.thevincentwilliam.com/identity 🔗 FREE Breakthrough Session — https://calendly.com/thevincentwilliam/free-1-1-coaching-session-with-vincent #christiananxiety #spiritualgrowth #feelingdistantfromGod Why You Feel Distant from God (It's Not What You Think) If this helped you, share it with someone who feels far from God today. 💛

  7. Sep 15

    If You Feel Like God Is Disappointed In You, You Need to Hear This

    If You Feel Like God Is Disappointed in You, You Need to Hear This Do you feel like God is distant, silent, or never pleased with you no matter how hard you try? You're not alone — and there's a reason you feel this way. In this episode, I share one big insight that will help you understand why you're struggling in your relationship with God, why He feels so far, and what is actually keeping you from experiencing His peace, love, and approval. If you're dealing with feeling distant from God, constant guilt, or fear that you're disappointing Him, this will bring you clarity and hope. You'll learn what's keeping you from feeling close to God — and how to renew your mind so you can start living from sonship, not shame. If this encouraged you, follow for more episodes on overcoming fear and anxiety, renewing your mind, and growing in your faith. Share in the comments: What has made you feel distant from God lately? I read every comment. Be blessed, Vincent

  8. Sep 11

    Why You See God Like Your Parents (And How to Heal)

    Why do you see God like your parents? If you grew up feeling criticized, ignored, or never enough, it's normal to expect the same from God. In this episode, I share why all brokenness comes through relationships — and all healing comes through relationships too. You’re not meant to heal in isolation. You'll learn how a difficult relationship with your parents shapes your relationship with God, and how to start experiencing Him as safe, loving, and close instead of disappointed and distant. You don't have to pray more, read more, fast more. You're good. Let's work on healing the lens so you can finally connect with God and relate to God in a secure way. This goes together with "If You Feel Like God Is Disappointed In You, You Need to Hear This" — listen to that episode first if you missed it. 👉 Free Identity Reset PDF: https://www.thevincentwilliam.com/identity 👉 Free 1:1 Coaching session with me: https://calendly.com/thevincentwilliam/free-1-1-coaching-session-with-vincent Subscribe for weekly episodes on peace, spiritual growth, and healing anxiety with God.

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Build a life of freedom—spiritually, emotionally, relationally, physically, and practically—through the transforming love of God. Each week Vincent William shares biblical wisdom, practical tools, and honest conversations to help you heal, grow, and become the person God created you to be.

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  • Creator
    Vincent William
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    17
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 Vincent William
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    The Vincent William Podcast