Hope for the Home with Jerry and Becky Drace

Jerry Drace & Becky Drace
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Hope for the Home is a weekly conversation about family and home life, hosted by Jerry Drace and Becky Drace and recorded from the campus of Union University in Jackson, Tennessee. Heard Sunday afternoons on American Family Radio, the program brings a biblical perspective to the issues families face at every stage of life. Jerry and Becky don't shy away from difficult subjects. With warmth, humor, and decades of pastoral and ministry experience, they sit down with guests who bring front-line expertise, always returning to Scripture for direction and hope. Whatever season your family is in, Hope for the Home offers a Christ-centered voice for the journey.

  1. Oct 18

    Seed Planters and Quiet Rooms: Finn Jacobs on Campus Ministry and Meeting Jesus

    Finn Jacobs says the biggest question any college student will ever answer isn't about religion or relationships. It's "Who is Jesus to me?" Finn Jacobs, a campus minister in Jackson, Tennessee, returns for a second week with Jerry and Becky in their series on single young adults. Finn shares how a planned road trip turned into leading a campus ministry, and how he hopes to plant a church out West someday. The conversation explores what he looks for in a future wife, why couples should talk through the big questions of calling and ministry before marriage, and why being single doesn't mean going it alone. Finn and the hosts discuss the recent wave of baptisms on college campuses, the importance of discipleship after a decision, and the encouragement that believers are called to plant seeds even when they never see the harvest. Finn names discipline and community as his greatest needs as a single young man, and the group reflects on how a person can feel lonely even in a crowd. He closes with practical advice for anyone curious about Jesus: read the books of Mark and John, and seek him in a quiet room. Topics discussed: - How Finn ended up leading a campus ministry - Hopes for church planting in a city out West - Talking through calling and ministry before marriage - Qualities to look for in a spouse: a life obsessed with Jesus and full of the Spirit - Campus revivals and baptisms, and why discipleship matters afterward - Planting seeds without always seeing the harvest - A single young man's greatest needs: discipline and community - Why people feel lonely even in a crowd - Reading Mark and John to answer "Who is Jesus to me?" - Seeking Jesus in a quiet room, away from the big events

  2. Oct 11

    Single, Free, and All In for Jesus: Finn Jacobs on Singleness and Campus Ministry

    Finn Jacobs says singleness gives him something rare: the freedom to be out late, up early, and give his life away so more people can meet Jesus. Jerry and Becky turn to the single young man's perspective with guest Finn Jacobs, a recent Union University graduate who now serves as a campus evangelist at three colleges in Jackson, Tennessee. Finn describes how he came to faith after years of lukewarm Christianity, how he started sharing it right away, and how free lunches and worship nights on campus have grown quickly. He shares what he sees on campuses that aren't explicitly Christian: students who are lonely, empty, and hungry for real conversation. The conversation covers the freedoms and challenges of being single, why Finn disagrees with the idea that you don't need marriage for a fulfilling life, practical ways to start spiritual conversations by finding common ground, and why loneliness is the single hardest part of this season of life. Jerry and Becky also share survey findings about Gen Z and singleness. Topics discussed: - Survey findings about Gen Z, singleness, and marriage - The freedom of singleness to serve and share the gospel - Finn's journey from lukewarm faith to a real relationship with Jesus - Campus ministry in a city with four colleges - Starting spiritual conversations by finding common ground - Why students on non-Christian campuses often feel lonely and empty - Disadvantages of singleness: isolation and the desire for marriage - Why loneliness can exist even in a crowd, and what fills it - Finn's favorite passage, Philippians 2

  3. Oct 4

    Contentment, Red Flags, and Wisdom for Single Young Adults: Leah Sutton, Part 2

    Leah Sutton avoids praying for a future spouse, and her reason may surprise you: the more she prayed for one, the more discontent she became. Leah Sutton, a residence director for freshmen at Union University, returns for a second week with Jerry and Becky in their series on single young adults. Leah shares what she looks for when getting to know someone: a person who is walking closely with the Lord on their own, has mentors, and is active in a church. She and the hosts talk about how to tell whether someone is being honest, why decisions made out of desperation so often go wrong, and why a person who is content with who they are is better prepared for marriage than one hoping to be completed by someone else. Leah offers a candid look at the downsides of singleness, including safety concerns, making big decisions with no one to consult, loneliness, and doing ministry alone. The conversation also touches on social media, couples moving in together, and whether churches talk enough about singleness. Topics discussed: - Using the freedoms of singleness to serve others - What to look for in someone you're getting to know: faith, mentors, and church involvement - Telling whether someone is being honest: follow-up questions, actions that match words, and the company they keep - Why decisions made out of desperation lead to bad outcomes - Contentment in singleness and why no one "completes" you - Why Leah doesn't pray for a spouse, and how others in her church pray for her - Qualities worth putting on a list, like self-control and gentleness - Disadvantages of singleness: safety, loneliness, and making decisions alone - Social media, living together before marriage, and how churches can talk about singleness

  4. Sep 27

    Single and Waiting on God's Timing: Young Adults with Leah Sutton

    Why are young adults waiting longer to marry? Leah Sutton, 25, says it comes down to independence, opportunity, and a culture that values marriage less. Jerry and Becky open a new series on single young adults with guest Leah Sutton, who works at Union University. Leah talks openly about why people end up single, from choice to divorce to loss, and how she has come to trust that God is sovereign over her season of singleness. She shares why she thinks marriage is happening later, the pressure she felt from friends and family in college, and how singleness can be a gift: a month of mission work overseas this summer, more freedom to serve and share meals with others, and the discipline of living on one income. The conversation turns to where Christian young adults can meet like-minded people, from church to social media to dating apps, and Jerry and Becky invite listeners to share their own experiences as the series continues next week. Topics discussed: - Why people are single: choice, divorce, death, and disability - Why young adults are marrying later than previous generations - Trusting God's sovereignty and timing in a season of singleness - Feeling pressure from friends and family to date or get engaged - Using the freedom of singleness to serve others and pursue mission work - Managing life and finances on a single income - Where Christian young adults can meet like-minded people - An invitation for listeners to share how they met their spouse

  5. Sep 13

    "Do I Even Matter?" What Single Fathers Need Most, with T.C. Talley

    The biggest challenge single dads face isn't money or time, says T.C. Talley. It's the quiet belief that they don't matter. T.C. Talley returns once more to talk with Jerry and Becky about what he sees as the number one struggle among the fathers he mentors: feeling unneeded in a culture that often treats dads as a paycheck or an afterthought. T.C. shares what he's seen at Birth Choice, where he meets several fathers a week, and how he responds when a father walks in hostile or unsure: short, direct, honest, and with a promise never to lie. He and the hosts urge single mothers to encourage a father's involvement, to communicate the child's needs rather than their own hurts, and to resist playing children against one another, reminding listeners that a child's heart has room to love many people without loving anyone less. The conversation also touches on how few pregnancy centers have fatherhood programs, and why parents should teach purity in every area of life before their kids leave for college. Topics discussed: - Why single fathers need to hear that they matter - Mentoring hostile or unsure fathers with honesty and directness - How Birth Choice has reshaped its space to welcome fathers - Why so few pregnancy centers have fatherhood programs - How single mothers can support a father's involvement - Keeping resentment from spilling onto the child - A child's heart can love more people without loving anyone less - Teaching purity in every area of life before kids leave for college

  6. Sep 6

    The Real Cost of Single Fatherhood: More from T.C. Talley

    Two jobs, weekend custody, and child support he set up himself the day his first wife left: T.C. Talley knows exactly how thin single fathers get stretched. T.C. Talley returns for a third week with Jerry and Becky, this time digging into the practical realities of single fatherhood: working two jobs to make ends meet, voluntarily setting up child support the moment his first wife left, and navigating the nurturing side of parenting that didn't come naturally to him. T.C. also opens up about his own education struggles as a visual learner in a traditional school system, and shares his current work directing both the fatherhood mentoring program and an abstinence education program called Stone Covenant, which he brings into schools and churches to teach purity in relationships. The conversation takes a candid turn when T.C. shares his personal conviction that Christians shouldn't casually date, sparking a discussion about red flags in early relationships. Jerry and Becky close with a look at single-father income and another reminder for single dads to request their free study Bible. Topics discussed: - Income challenges for single fathers - Working multiple jobs and taking on child support as a single father - Navigating the nurturing side of parenting as a father - Being a visual learner and finding an educational path that worked - T.C.'s dual roles directing fatherhood mentoring and abstinence education programs - Teaching purity and relationship "red flags" in schools and churches - Why T.C. believes Christians shouldn't casually date - The stereotype of the "deadbeat dad" and the reasons behind it

  7. Aug 30

    From the Streets of Chicago to Mentoring Fathers: T.C. Talley's Story, Part 2

    Content note: this episode includes discussion of a past abortion decision within a marriage. T.C. Talley's mother once told him plainly: the day you join a gang is the day you leave my house. It worked, and it's part of what shaped the man who now spends his life mentoring fathers. T.C. Talley returns for a second week with Jerry and Becky, picking up his story from the streets of Chicago to his current work as a fatherhood mentor at Birth Choice. T.C. describes his mother's fierce boundaries that kept him out of the gangs surrounding his family, his move to California as a teenager, and getting married for the wrong reasons in his early twenties. He opens up candidly about a painful chapter of that marriage: a decision to end a pregnancy that he opposed but felt powerless to stop, and how that experience now shapes his empathy for the fathers he counsels. T.C. walks through the actual structure of his mentoring program: a ten-week curriculum built around honesty, earning trust, and a documentary screening families watch together. Jerry and Becky close with an offer for single dads to request a free study Bible and a teaser about T.C.'s mother and wife's stories still to come. Topics discussed: - Growing up in Chicago and avoiding gang life because of his mother's strict boundaries - Moving to California as a teenager and finishing high school while working - Getting married for the wrong reasons and the strain that followed - A painful decision within that marriage to end a pregnancy - How that experience shapes his work mentoring fathers today - The structure of his ten-week fatherhood mentoring program at Birth Choice - Why building trust and honesty comes before anything else in mentoring - Preview of upcoming stories about his mother and his wife

  8. Aug 23

    A Father's Story: Single Parenting from a Man's Perspective with T.C. Talley

    He never heard his father's voice, saw his face, or spoke to him — not once. Decades later, T.C. Talley is the one mentoring other men through fatherhood. After weeks of listeners asking when they'd hear the single-parenting series from a father's point of view, Jerry and Becky welcome T.C. Talley, Director of Fatherhood Mentoring and Abstinence Education at Birth Choice, for the first of what will be a multi-week conversation. T.C. shares his remarkable story — growing up on the streets of Chicago without ever knowing his father, surviving two violent altercations in a single weekend as a teenager, and starting over in California at his cousin's urging. He opens up about coming to faith through a friend's invitation to church, being single-parenting his four children on joint custody after his first marriage ended, and the painful, ongoing estrangement he now has from his adult children. Jerry and Becky share statistics on single fathers in America and set the stage for a series that promises to be, as Jerry puts it, "the rest of the story." Topics discussed: - Statistics on single fathers in the United States - T.C. Talley's introduction: his work mentoring fathers at Birth Choice - Growing up without a father and the pain behind an absent parent's silence - A violent turning point in Chicago that led to a fresh start in California - Coming to faith through a friend's invitation to church - Being a single father of four on joint custody after his first marriage ended - Praying for estranged adult children rather than trying to control the outcome - Preview of an ongoing multi-week series on single fatherhood

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Hope for the Home is a weekly conversation about family and home life, hosted by Jerry Drace and Becky Drace and recorded from the campus of Union University in Jackson, Tennessee. Heard Sunday afternoons on American Family Radio, the program brings a biblical perspective to the issues families face at every stage of life. Jerry and Becky don't shy away from difficult subjects. With warmth, humor, and decades of pastoral and ministry experience, they sit down with guests who bring front-line expertise, always returning to Scripture for direction and hope. Whatever season your family is in, Hope for the Home offers a Christ-centered voice for the journey.

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