Life Beyond the Ladder

Dalisia Coppersmith
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For accomplished women who've ever wondered, “Is this all there is?... Is this all I am?” Let's design a second act you can't wait to live! Join Career Strategist & Midlife Reinvention Guide Dalisia Coppersmith each week for personal growth, inspiration, and a reminder of all you can still become. We'll move from those questions to a next chapter you're excited about as you step into becoming that woman now--not "someday." Let's bring your future into focus!

  1. Oct 13

    Dodge the Advice Trap with Adult Kids!

    What happens when your adult child still sees you as the person you used to be—or when you’re still holding on to an old role yourself? In this episode of Life Beyond the Ladder, host Dalisia Coppersmith explores the identity shifts that can reshape relationships between midlife mothers and their adult children. Dalisia unpacks three midlife parent traps that can keep relationships with our adult children stuck in time: • Your adult child hasn’t fully moved into an independent role, although they believe they have. • Your adult child has grown and changed but still sees you through an outdated lens. • Your adult child has grown but you’re still holding on to the old dynamic or seeking reassurance. You’ll hear why trying to change your adult child’s perspective can keep you frozen in time forever, how to recognize when boundaries are needed, and how to reflect on your own needs and behaviors. Dalisia also shares a journaling exercise to help you consider what’s happening in the relationship and what kind of connection you want to build. This is an honest conversation about self-respect, boundaries, letting go of approval, and creating a healthier kind of closeness with your adult children. In this episode you'll discover: • Midlife identity and the empty-nest transition • Why old family roles can linger longer than you realize • The futility of trying to change someone else’s perspective • A journaling exercise for reflecting on adult-child relationships Subscribe to Life Beyond the Ladder for more conversations about career strategy, midlife, and reinvention. Visit Dalisia online: ⁠https://dalisiacoppersmith.com⁠ Follow on social: YT: ⁠ / @dalisiacoppersmith LI: ⁠ /dalisiacoppersmith⁠ IG: ⁠ /dalisia.coppersmith⁠ FB: ⁠ /the-second-act-architect⁠

    Dodge the Advice Trap with Adult Kids!

  2. Sep 25

    A Day in Your Ideal Future (Visualization)

    What if the life you want is not a fantasy, but a decision away? If you dream of waking up in a slightly (or completely) different life someday, this is for you. In this guided visualization episode of Life Beyond the Ladder, Dalisia Coppersmith takes you through an ordinary day in your ideal future—a life where your mornings feel lighter, your work feels like yours, and the people around you truly see you. This isn’t about imagining a perfect life. It’s about getting honest about what energizes you, what drains you, what you’ve outgrown, and what your body may already know before your mind catches up. If you’re in midlife, at a crossroads, or quietly wonderingwhether it’s still possible to build a life that fits, let this episode help you imagine what “different” could feel like—and identify the one true thing that needs your attention now. Write down what you see. Notice what surprises you. Then take one, immediate step toward it.   Resources:   Vine & Vision Retreat for Midlife Women (Nov. 5-8, 2026): ⁠⁠https://dalisiacoppersmith.com/vine-vision-retreat⁠⁠   Visit Dalisia online: ⁠https://dalisiacoppersmith.com⁠   Follow on social: YT: ⁠  / @dalisiacoppersmith  LI: ⁠  /dalisiacoppersmith⁠  IG: ⁠  /dalisia.coppersmith⁠  FB: ⁠  /the-second-act-architect⁠    Music licensed through Soundstripe. Code: HXJCN3BLN4DC16RB

    A Day in Your Ideal Future (Visualization)

  3. Sep 18

    Your 50s Are Not a Waiting Room!

    Your 50s are not a waiting room—they’re your workshop. Andyou are making choices right now, whether you realize it or not. If you’ve felt the nudge to do more than just wait to see what happens with the rest of your life, this conversation is for you. In this episode of Life Beyond the Ladder, Dalisia Coppersmith challenges women to stop drifting through the second half of life and start making intentional decisions about what comes next. You’ll explore five choices that shape your future: • What you want from the rest of your life • Who belongs in your life—and who no longer fits • Who you are becoming • What you are ready to release • What you are meant to create or leave behind Waiting for the “right moment” to put a stake in the ground can feel safe, but waiting is a decision too. This conversation is an invitation to stop postponing the life you want and start creating it through purposeful action. Key Takeaways • Relationships may need boundaries, renegotiation, or release. • Releasing people-pleasing, overwork, and outdated identities creates room for growth. • The moment you want may not arrive on it’s own—you may need to make it. Key Topics Midlife reinvention, women over 40, intentional living, personal growth, life transitions, relationships and boundaries, identity, letting go, purpose, second-act success, and creating a meaningful future.

    Your 50s Are Not a Waiting Room!

  4. Sep 11

    Why Wait? Reinvent Yourself Before You Retire!

    Retirement shouldn’t be the beginning of your reinvention. It should be the result of it. And the smartest reset isn’t a last-minute pivot. If you’re 45+, this is your sign to start now — before work starts feeling like a cage. In this episode of Life Beyond the Ladder, Dalisia Coppersmith explores why waiting until retirement to reinvent yourself may be one of the biggest mistakes you can make. Rather than treating retirement like a cliff you suddenly fall off of, the conversation reframes it as a more intentional transition into your next next chapter of life. You’ll hear why midlife reinvention is about much more than choosing a hobby or picking a new job. It’s about looking across your life lessons, patterns, desires, talents, and even the things you once loved but set aside years ago. The episode also breaks down why starting early can help you reduce career frustration, preserve your energy, and build a future you genuinely look forward to. Whether you’re thinking about retirement, considering a career shift, or simply wondering what comes next, this episode will help you see reinvention as a process of discovery, design, and alignment across your whole life. Key Topics: • Career transition and discovering your next chapter • Midlife reinvention and retirement planning • Life patterns and lessons to bring into the future• Starting before retirement to reduce work frustration • Purpose after career and personal growth in later life Most women reach midlife realizing how much more they have to offer. If you feel the same, don't leave it to chance. Create your future now and work toward it with a real plan. Reach out to Dalisia to find out how she helps midlife women tackle this exciting phase of life. Resources: Fall Retreat for Midlife Women: ⁠⁠https://dalisiacoppersmith.com/vine-vision-retreat⁠⁠ Visit Dalisia online: ⁠https://dalisiacoppersmith.com⁠ Follow on social: YT: ⁠ / @dalisiacoppersmith LI: ⁠ /dalisiacoppersmith⁠ IG: ⁠ /dalisia.coppersmith⁠ FB: ⁠ /the-second-act-architect⁠ #MidlifeReinvention #RetirementPlanning #CareerTransition #NextChapter #PersonalGrowth #LifePurpose #ReinventYourself #SelfDiscovery #PurposeDrivenLife Music licensed through Soundstripe.Code: HXJCN3BLN4DC16RB

    Why Wait? Reinvent Yourself Before You Retire!

  5. Sep 4

    Loosen Your Grip! Finding Peace by Releasing Control

    What looks like strength in midlife is often the very thing that is wearing you out. If you’re constantly managing outcomes, people, and every possible problem before it happens, this episode shows why that death grip on control is costing you more than you think - and how to start loosening it without becoming passive. Midlife reinvention guide, Dalisia Coppersmith takes on the sneaky way control disguises itself as competence, responsibility, and being the one who holds it all together. She breaks down why so many accomplished Gen Xers and “senior millennials” were rewarded for anticipating everything, fixing everything, and never letting the ball drop. But that same habit starts draining your energy, killing your joy, and quietly straining relationships. You’ll discover why letting go is not the same as giving up. Instead of walking away from what matters, she offers a practical way to notice when you’re stepping into someone else’s job, pause long enough to ask what you’re afraid will happen, and use that answer as a path back to trust. If you’ve been holding on so tightly that it’s starting to cost you peace, connection, or presence, this episode is your invitation to open your hand. Perfect for anyone who’s tired of carrying what was never theirs to control, and ready to discover what opens up on the other side. Reach out to Dalisia to learn about the Vine & Vision Retreat this fall and her upcoming mentoring program for midlife women.   Resources Fall Retreat for Midlife Women: ⁠https://dalisiacoppersmith.com/vine-vision-retreat⁠   Visit Dalisia online: https://dalisiacoppersmith.com   Follow on social: YT: ⁠  / @dalisiacoppersmith  LI: ⁠  /dalisiacoppersmith⁠  IG: ⁠  /dalisia.coppersmith⁠  FB: ⁠  /the-second-act-architect⁠

    Loosen Your Grip! Finding Peace by Releasing Control

  6. Aug 27

    Stop Editing Your Dreams!

    What if the life you think you want is only the edited version? In this episode, Dalisia Coppersmith guides women through a powerful exercise to unshrink their dreams, helping them identify what they truly want beyond societal and self-imposed limitations. Discover how to reconnect with your authentic aspirations and start living a more fulfilling life.   She opens with a question most women answer too quickly: What do you actually want? From there, she shows how we learn to pre-shrink our desires long before we ever speak them aloud, and why the “reasonable” answer is often just the safest one. If you’ve been feeling caught between the life you built and the one you secretly daydream about, this episode gives you a way to hear yourself more clearly. You’ll discover: - Why your first answer is usually the most socially acceptable, not the most honest - The internal editor that trims down ambition before it reaches the surface - The  Dream Bigger  exercise, a three-round process to uncover what you want without filtering yourself - How to move from “what’s realistic” to “what would I want if I couldn’t fail?” - Why the answer that makes you nervous and alive may be the one worth trusting Dalisia also explores the origins of desire-shrinking and explains why the goal is not to force a massive reinvention overnight. Sometimes the real shift is a reorientation, a deeper alignment, or a desire you abandoned so long ago you stopped naming it as a desire at all.   This conversation matters because unspoken dreams staysmall. Once you say them out loud, even just to yourself, they start taking up space - and that space is where possibility begins. If you’re a midlife woman ready to stop living inside the edited version of your life, this is the nudge you’ve been waiting for.   Perfect for anyone who knows there’s more ahead but hasn’tyet given herself permission to say it. Start here, then give yourself 15 minutes today to find your real answer. Resources Vine and Vision Retreat in Paso Robles: https://dalisiacoppersmith.com/vine-vision-retreat Follow on social: YT: ⁠   / @dalisiacoppersmith  LI: ⁠  / dalisiacoppersmith⁠  IG: ⁠  / dalisia.coppersmith⁠  FB: ⁠  / the-second-act-architect⁠    Get Dalisia’s book here: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0D38P1GVD⁠ Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Dream Bigger Exercise 00:16 How Early Feedback Shapes Our Ambitions 01:15 The Three Rounds of Dreaming Bigger 02:43 Identifying Your True Desires 04:06 Overcoming Fear of Failure 05:36 The Power of Speaking Your Dreams 06:32 Discovering New Directions 07:00 Taking Action on Your Dreams 07:31 The Nervous and Alive Feeling 08:01 Closing and Invitation to Retreat #midlifereinvention #midlifereinvention #LifeBeyondTheLadder#DalisiaCoppersmith #TheSecondActArchitect

    Stop Editing Your Dreams!

  7. Aug 24

    Avoiding Comparisons in Midlife

    Comparison is always dangerous, but especially in midlife -when the woman you’re measuring yourself against looks like she’s already living your dream. This episode breaks down why that sting feels so much sharper after 50, and how to stop letting someone else’s highlight reel define your future. Dalisia shows how midlife comparison is really a comparison of timelines, not just outcomes - and why that matters when you start wondering whether there’s still enough time for your own second act. She also offers a practical question to replace resentment with possibility: what does her story suggest might be possible for me? In this episode, you’ll discover: • why comparison hurts differently in your 50s than it did in your 30s • how social media turns curated aftermath into false evidence • the hidden trap in asking, "Why not me?" • the one comparison that actually gives you useful information • a simple reframe to use the next time someone else’s success stings If you’ve ever admired another woman’s reinvention while quietly spiraling into self-doubt, this episode will help you reclaim your focus, your hope, and your next chapter. Essential listening if you’re ready to stop tracking everyone else’s life and start designing your own. Key topics include: • The mechanics of comparison at midlife • The difference between social media highlight reels and reality• The importance of comparing past and future self • Practical strategies to avoid harmful comparison • The value of personal timelines over external benchmarks Follow Dalisia on social: YT: https://youtube.com/@dalisiacoppersmithLI: https://linkedin.com/in/dalisiacoppersmithIG: https://instagram.com/dalisia.coppersmithFB: https://facebook.com/the-second-act-architect    Looking for my book? Get it here: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0D38P1GVD #midlifereinvention #comparison #lifebeyondtheladder #personalgrowth

    Avoiding Comparisons in Midlife

  8. Aug 24

    How to Be a Calming Force in Chaos

    Dalisia Coppersmith provides practical ways to protect your peace, lower the temperature in conversations, and avoid adding fuel to the fires of conflict. She shares how to move from argument to understanding, how ego and compassion shape our reactions, and how to tell the difference between real values and justifications for bad behavior. Originally aired on Dalisia's Frontline Women podcast, this conversation is a timely and critical call for midlife women to use their experience and emotional power in a chaotic world that desperately needs both. Dalisia shares ways of staying grounded amid political extremism, family conflict, and constant online outrage. The episode focuses on practical ways to protect your peace, avoid getting pulled into arguments, and choose compassion over ego in everyday conversations.   She challenges the instinct to “win” conversations, especially when people enter talks with family members, friends, or colleagues already determined to prove the other person wrong. Ego runs on anger and the need to feel superior, while real self-worth is fueled by compassion and calm.   Listeners are encouraged to reestablish healthy limits on how much fighting they will tolerate in their daily lives and to disengage from toxic conflict before it damages relationships and well-being. She emphasizes personal responsibility over ideological justification: values should not be used as cover for cruel or destructive behavior.   Her closing reminder is both practical and relational: ifa conversation is turning harmful, end it rather than letting it destroy the relationship. This is a direct call to action and responsibility for women over 45. The world needs us more than ever.   Learn about Dalisia's upcoming retreat for midlife women: ⁠⁠https://dalisiacoppersmith.com⁠/vine-vision-retreat   Follow on social: YT: ⁠   / @dalisiacoppersmith  LI: ⁠  / dalisiacoppersmith⁠  IG: ⁠  / dalisia.coppersmith⁠  FB: ⁠  / the-second-act-architect⁠    Looking for her book? Get it here: ⁠https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0D38P1GVD⁠ (00:00) Opening and setting the stage (02:57) Why chaos and extremism are affecting everyday life (04:30) Choosing peace in the middle of political noise (05:51) Protecting your heart, health, and relationships fromconstant input (06:48) The first step to being calm in chaos: change your job in the conversation (08:10) Why selective data and superiority keep argumentsstuck (09:35) Listening to understand instead of trying to win (10:57) Spending most of the conversation listening changes the temperature (12:51) Ego uses anger as fuel, but peace uses compassion (14:50) Setting a limit for how much fighting you will tolerate (16:14) Defining your mission before you speak (17:12) Why it is not your responsibility to change other people (18:10) Separating real values from behavior justified in the name of values (20:06) Ending toxic conversations before they damage relationships   #midlifereinvention #conflictresolution #combattingextremism#LifeBeyondTheLadder #DalisiaCoppersmith

    How to Be a Calming Force in Chaos
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For accomplished women who've ever wondered, “Is this all there is?... Is this all I am?” Let's design a second act you can't wait to live! Join Career Strategist & Midlife Reinvention Guide Dalisia Coppersmith each week for personal growth, inspiration, and a reminder of all you can still become. We'll move from those questions to a next chapter you're excited about as you step into becoming that woman now--not "someday." Let's bring your future into focus!

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  • Creator
    Dalisia Coppersmith
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    15
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Dalisia Coppersmith
  • Show Website
    Life Beyond the Ladder