Planning Your "I Do"

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Planning Your "I Do" is the wedding podcast for couples who want a meaningful, memorable, and stress-free wedding. With over 25 years as a wedding officiant and DJ and more than 400 weddings performed, each episode from You Had Me At I Do shares insider tips, planning advice, ceremony ideas, and real-world lessons to help couples create a wedding day that feels personal, polished, and truly theirs. It's everything you need to know but are afraid to ask...plus a few things you've never even thought of.

  1. 4d ago

    First Look or Aisle Reveal? (No Wrong Answer)

    Episode 20: First Look or Aisle Reveal? (No Wrong Answer) Choose based on what YOU want to feel — not what photographers prefer. Chris Truitt, owner of Planning Your I Do and You Had Me At I Do, shares what brides actually ask on wedding forums — with 26+ years and 400+ weddings of real-world experience as an officiant and DJ. In this episode: First look pros: private moment, timeline flexibility, cocktail hour together Aisle reveal pros: anticipation, public emotion, tradition The myth that first look "ruins" the aisle moment Tight timelines — when logistics push the decisionFull show notes: https://youhadmeatido.com/podcast/first-look-or-aisle-reveal/Planning help: https://youhadmeatido.com Planning Your I Do is a production of You Had Me At I Do — warm, practical wedding planning for brides-to-be.

  2. Aug 13

    Registry, Cash Funds, and Gift Etiquette

    Episode 17: Registry, Cash Funds, and Gift Etiquette Never put registry info on the invitation. A wedding website registry tab + a few physical items keeps everyone comfortable. Chris Truitt, owner of Planning Your I Do and You Had Me At I Do, shares what brides actually ask on wedding forums — with 26+ years and 400+ weddings of real-world experience as an officiant and DJ. In this episode: The etiquette evolution — cash is normal in many circles, taboo in others Honeymoon funds vs "we're saving for…" when people ask Hybrid registry: some stuff, some experiences Platform fees — who pays themFull show notes: https://youhadmeatido.com/podcast/registry-cash-funds-and-gift-etiquette/Planning help: https://youhadmeatido.com Planning Your I Do is a production of You Had Me At I Do — warm, practical wedding planning for brides-to-be.

  3. Jul 30

    Your Wedding Website FAQ (So Guests Stop Texting You)

    Episode 16: Your Wedding Website FAQ (So Guests Stop Texting You) A good FAQ page is a gift to yourself. Cover dress code, parking, timeline, kids, and gifts in one place. Chris Truitt, owner of Planning Your I Do and You Had Me At I Do, shares what brides actually ask on wedding forums — with 26+ years and 400+ weddings of real-world experience as an officiant and DJ. In this episode: Top 10 FAQ categories (RSVP, directions, dress code, plus-ones, gifts) Dress code wording that actually helps guests Timeline / weekend itinerary for out-of-town guests Hotel blocks and transportation — say it once, link it everywhereFull show notes: https://youhadmeatido.com/podcast/your-wedding-website-faq/ Planning help: https://youhadmeatido.com Planning Your I Do is a production of You Had Me At I Do — warm, practical wedding planning for brides-to-be.

  4. Jul 21

    The RSVP Black Hole

    Episode 15: The RSVP Black Hole Set a deadline 3–4 weeks before the wedding, build in a chase week, and use one system — not texts, cards, and DMs. Jackson Thomas, owner of Planning Your I Do and You Had Me At I Do, shares what brides actually ask on wedding forums — with 26+ years and 400+ weddings of real-world experience as an officiant and DJ. In this episode: When to send invites (6–8 weeks) and when RSVPs are due Online vs paper — hybrid is normal; one master guest list The chase script (personal, not mass guilt) Meal counts, dietary restrictions, plus-one names — collect it onceFull show notes: https://youhadmeatido.com/podcast/the-rsvp-black-hole/ Planning help: https://youhadmeatido.com Planning Your I Do is a production of You Had Me At I Do — warm, practical wedding planning for brides-to-be.

  5. Jul 21

    Building Your Wedding Party (Without the Drama)

    Episode 14: Building Your Wedding Party (Without the Drama) Your wedding party is about who you need beside you — not symmetry, not obligation. Jackson Thomas, owner of Planning Your I Do and You Had Me At I Do, shares what brides actually ask on wedding forums — with 26+ years and 400+ weddings of real-world experience as an officiant and DJ. In this episode: How many is too many? (Venue space, cost, coordination) Uneven parties are fine — stop forcing symmetry Cutting someone from the list — gut check vs obligation House party / honorary roles for people you still loveFull show notes: https://youhadmeatido.com/podcast/building-your-wedding-party/ Planning help: https://youhadmeatido.com Planning Your I Do is a production of You Had Me At I Do — warm, practical wedding planning for brides-to-be.

  6. Jul 21

    Two Families, Two Traditions (Without Choosing Sides)

    Episode 13: Two Families, Two Traditions (Without Choosing Sides) Ask each family for 2–3 non-negotiables — not 20. Depth beats breadth. Jackson Thomas, owner of Planning Your I Do and You Had Me At I Do, shares what brides actually ask on wedding forums — with 26+ years and 400+ weddings of real-world experience as an officiant and DJ. In this episode: Two ceremonies vs one blended vs ceremony + fusion reception The "non-negotiables" conversation with each family Explaining rituals to guests (programs, emcee, signage) Food and music as the easiest fusion pointsFull show notes: https://youhadmeatido.com/podcast/two-families-two-traditions/ Planning help: https://youhadmeatido.com Planning Your I Do is a production of You Had Me At I Do — warm, practical wedding planning for brides-to-be.

  7. Jul 21

    Too Many Opinions, One Wedding

    Episode 12: Too Many Opinions, One Wedding You can't control what people say — only how you respond. A united "we've decided" ends most debates. Jackson Thomas, owner of Planning Your I Do and You Had Me At I Do, shares what brides actually ask on wedding forums — with 26+ years and 400+ weddings of real-world experience as an officiant and DJ. In this episode: The spotlight snatcher (family making it about them) Unsolicited opinions — thank you, we've decided Who actually needs a vote vs who needs an update Using vendors as buffer ("our photographer recommends…")Full show notes: https://youhadmeatido.com/podcast/too-many-opinions-one-wedding/ Planning help: https://youhadmeatido.com Planning Your I Do is a production of You Had Me At I Do — warm, practical wedding planning for brides-to-be.

  8. Jul 21

    When Your Partner Isn't Planning Like You

    Episode 11: When Your Partner Isn't Planning Like You Divide by strength, not 50/50. One planning night a week beats wedding talk 24/7. Jackson Thomas, owner of Planning Your I Do and You Had Me At I Do, shares what brides actually ask on wedding forums — with 26+ years and 400+ weddings of real-world experience as an officiant and DJ. In this episode: Solo planner syndrome — when one person carries it all The weekly planning date (and wedding-free days) Task division: who cares more gets the decision (within budget) When wedding stress reveals bigger relationship patternsFull show notes: https://youhadmeatido.com/podcast/when-your-partner-isnt-planning-like-you/ Planning help: https://youhadmeatido.com Planning Your I Do is a production of You Had Me At I Do — warm, practical wedding planning for brides-to-be.

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Planning Your "I Do" is the wedding podcast for couples who want a meaningful, memorable, and stress-free wedding. With over 25 years as a wedding officiant and DJ and more than 400 weddings performed, each episode from You Had Me At I Do shares insider tips, planning advice, ceremony ideas, and real-world lessons to help couples create a wedding day that feels personal, polished, and truly theirs. It's everything you need to know but are afraid to ask...plus a few things you've never even thought of.

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  • Creator
    You Had Me At I Do
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    18
  • Rating
    Clean
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