The Power of Connection

Bobby Umar
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Conversations on leadership, storytelling, and staying human in a noisy world. I'm Bobby Umar. 5x TEDx speaker, Inc Magazine Top 100 Leadership Speaker, and 2x LinkedIn Top Voice. For 25 years I've spoken on stages across 4 continents about the one thing that actually drives careers, businesses, and lives: the power of connection. This show is where influence gets human again. Each episode gives you one big idea and something you can use right away, whether that's telling stories that move people, building a personal brand rooted in who you really are, becoming a thought leader without becoming a performer, or leading with the kind of vulnerability that builds real trust. Expect solo teaching sessions, masterclasses with brilliant guest experts, and honest conversations about what it takes to be seen, heard, and remembered. If you're a leader, entrepreneur, speaker, or anyone building something that depends on people trusting you, this show is for you. New episodes weekly. Let's get into it.

  1. 2d ago

    Where Your Next Client Is Already Hanging Out

    Send us Fan Mail Sarah Noel Block went three months without landing a new client. So she ran a 30-day business development blitz, tried several strategies and tracked every one. One of them produced 40% of the work she closed. She ran it again to make sure it was not a fluke. It was not. The strategy is niche communities: the Slack groups, paid memberships, Discord servers, industry forums and invite-only circles where your ideal clients already spend their time. And none of it involves self-promotion. In this session Sarah walks through the whole system. How to find the right communities (start by asking your network), why you should join three and track them for 30 days, and her "magic DM" that qualifies people before they even accept your connection request. Then how to scale it: Slack keyword alerts so you are first to answer, pitching a talk to community owners, offering a paid resource with a 100% promo code instead of a freebie, and building an owned stage like a podcast or a short "capsule" season before you commit to forever. She also explains her gateway offer, a paid, named first engagement that replaces the free proposal and brings every decision maker into the room. Sarah Noel Block is the founder of Tiny Marketing and host of the Tiny Marketing podcast, helping independent consultants with marketing and sales systems. 0:12 Niche communities and the 30-day blitz 3:21 How to find the right communities 5:52 Join three and track them 6:59 Step 1: the directory and the magic DM 10:02 The 15-minute connection call 10:51 Step 2: Slack keyword alerts 12:28 Step 3: pitch a talk to the community owner 13:37 Why a paid resource beats a freebie 14:36 Step 4: invite them to your events 16:18 Step 5: build an owned stage 21:44 Start with a capsule podcast 22:32 Step 6: value first, then a signature resource 25:33 Step 7: analyze and refine 27:33 Finding communities for corporate buyers 30:18 What to track 32:01 The gateway offer 33:51 Are LinkedIn groups worth it? 35:44 Where the best communities actually live The Power of Connection is hosted by Bobby Umar, 5x TEDx speaker and Inc Magazine Top 100 Leadership Speaker. For weekly insights on personal branding and thought leadership, join his newsletter: https://bobbyumar.substack.com

  2. Oct 27

    How AI Changes Personal Branding (and What Doesn't)

    Send us Fan Mail William Arruda has worked in personal branding longer than anyone. He read Tom Peters' "The Brand Called You" in July 1997, put the magazine down and decided to start a personal branding company. His three-step process, Know, Show and Grow, has not changed in 25 years. What has changed is everything around it. In this conversation William walks through how personal branding moved from senior executives to everyone, then from the real world to the digital one, and why AI is the biggest shift of all. Not because it replaces the work, but because the people who use it well will pull ahead. He shows how AI fits each step. In Know, he uses ChatGPT as a voice-based brand coach and feeds it years of outside feedback to find patterns no human could spot. In Show, he trains it on his best writing so a bio comes back 98% there. In Grow, he turns one article into ten. Along the way: why you should name your methodology so AI credits it to you, why you should ask "how can AI help with this" before every task, and why most people create far more content than they need. The Q&A covers how to measure a brand by the depth of relationships rather than follower counts, how to carry a past career into a new one, the shift from SEO to GEO, and how to sell personal branding to companies that will not buy it by name. His answer: sell them what they are buying. William Arruda is the founder and CEO of Reach Personal Branding, a Forbes columnist and the author of "Ditch. Dare. Do!" and "Career Distinction." 0:12 Bobby on first hearing the words "personal brand" 1:09 William Arruda joins 2:43 From Tom Peters to LinkedIn to COVID to AI 7:05 Know, Show and Grow 8:59 AI as your brand coach 13:42 Feed it your best work 16:58 Say it again: repetition and repurposing 19:15 Why the Know phase matters most 21:43 Name your methodology so AI credits it 22:43 Pick one AI tool and build the relationship 27:19 The biggest trend: owning your use of AI 29:59 Measure relationships, not followers 32:30 Changing careers? Take your story with you 33:54 From SEO to GEO 35:51 Share the same idea 7 times 39:09 Sell them what they are buying 41:23 A named AI that knows everything about you 44:26 Client acquisition is relationships 46:36 Where to find William The Power of Connection is hosted by Bobby Umar, 5x TEDx speaker and Inc Magazine Top 100 Leadership Speaker. For weekly insights on personal branding and thought leadership, join his newsletter: https://bobbyumar.substack.com

  3. Oct 20

    How to Get Paid to Speak (and When to Say No)

    Send us Fan Mail Paid speaking is paid consulting. You are an expert in something, and you should get paid for sharing that expertise. In this session Bobby lays out the system he uses to land paid speaking gigs, and it is simpler than most people expect. It starts with three things: be clear on your speaker story, build one to three topics with a clear benefit to the organization and to the attendee, and have a plan for pitching. If you pick only one, pick the topic. A buyer has to look at it and say, yes, we need that. Bobby walks through the triangle behind his own Power of Connection talks (connection with self, with others, with the world), why your target is the people who serve your audience rather than the audience itself, and a visualization exercise for picturing the room you were born to speak to. Then the practical side: the one-minute speaker video, collecting testimonials now, and three talks anyone can give tomorrow at their old high school or college. On outreach: where speaking gigs actually hide, why your pitch should be short enough that they have to ask for more, and the best email subject line he ever tested, the one that landed him a lot of international gigs. He is also candid about when to speak for free and when to walk away, including the conference that charged 1,000 attendees $600 each and paid its speakers nothing. Also in the room: Mitch, who has sold from the stage for 38 years, on recording every talk you give and capturing "the money shot." 0:12 Everyone has expertise worth paying for 2:09 Three talks, and the Power of Connection triangle 3:24 Let a LinkedIn poll pick your topics 4:15 Target the buyer, not the beneficiary 5:16 Visualize your ideal audience 7:31 Your speaking style and your speaker type 9:59 If you pick one thing, pick the topic 10:49 Portfolio, testimonials and the one-minute video 12:27 Three talks you can give tomorrow 13:52 Where to find speaking gigs 16:31 Keep the pitch short 17:52 The subject line that worked 19:58 Pricing international gigs 21:49 When to speak for free 24:38 Mitch: record everything and make the promoter money 26:45 Paid speaking is paid consulting, and when to say no The Power of Connection is hosted by Bobby Umar, 5x TEDx speaker and Inc Magazine Top 100 Leadership Speaker. For weekly insights on personal branding and thought leadership, join his newsletter: https://bobbyumar.substack.com

  4. Oct 13

    What If Your Story Is the Strategy?

    Send us Fan Mail This episode was recorded as a guest appearance on Michael J. López's show, now called The Top Voice Podcast and known as Top Voice Tuesday when we recorded. Shared here with his blessing. Go and subscribe to him: https://www.youtube.com/@topvoicepodcast Michael asks Bobby to trace the whole arc, from motivational speaking twenty years ago to where thought leadership actually sits now, and the conversation keeps circling back to one question. If your story is the strategy, what do you do about the part of the story you would rather not tell? Bobby is direct about the early blocks, the years when vulnerability felt like a liability rather than a tool, and what changed. He talks about the 80/20 split he runs his content on, and makes an unfashionable argument about virality: it buys awareness, not conversion, and the two get confused constantly. On getting started, which is where most people stall: if you can just start, that is something. If you can keep going, that is another thing entirely. He also names the worst career decision he made, which was choosing a path because he was good at it rather than asking what he actually cared about. It is the question he now puts to his own kids. What problems do you want to solve? The Power of Connection is hosted by Bobby Umar, 5x TEDx speaker and Inc Magazine Top 100 Leadership Speaker. For weekly insights on personal branding and thought leadership, join his newsletter: https://bobbyumar.substack.com

  5. Oct 6

    Why LinkedIn Comments Beat LinkedIn Posts

    Send us Fan Mail Digital relationships run on a longer clock than in-person ones. Several comments and a couple of messages spread over weeks, rather than one good fifteen-minute conversation at an event. Most people quit long before it works. In this session Bobby is joined by Niraj Kapur, Ariel Lee and Jonaed Iqbal to work through how relationships actually get built on LinkedIn. Why comments are the currency that drives reach, and why a good one runs twelve words rather than "great post." The sequence that turns a stranger into a familiar face before you ever send a connection request. Voice notes and video over typed messages. And why effort is the entire differentiator when almost nobody makes any. Bobby closes with his own approach. He is a huge advocate for multiplatform content, because we are all on rented space. And he makes the case that personal branding is what gives the whole thing direction, so that every comment and every reach-out is purposeful instead of scattered. Niraj Kapur is a LinkedIn Top Voice in sales and author of "Everybody Works In Sales," based in Northern Ireland. Ariel Lee is a LinkedIn coach. Jonaed Iqbal is the founder of NoDegree. The Power of Connection is hosted by Bobby Umar, 5x TEDx speaker and Inc Magazine Top 100 Leadership Speaker. For weekly insights on personal branding and thought leadership, join his newsletter: https://bobbyumar.substack.com

  6. Sep 29

    What They Say When You're Not in the Room

    Send us Fan Mail A live keynote from the DYPB conference, and the clearest single statement of the ideas Bobby has built a career on. He starts in the room, pulling the leadership struggles people actually name out loud: getting others to do the work without sounding bossy, patience when someone moves at a different speed, the confidence to take a risk, and knowing when to ask for help. Then the definition that anchors everything. A personal brand is what people say about you when you are not in the room. It is a living thing built from a thousand small gestures, accumulated over time, and you have had one since the day you were born. A corporate brand is a promise to its stakeholders. Your personal brand is a promise you deliver to every single person you meet. The back half turns to networking, and to the follow-up math that became Bobby's signature stat. He once offered 500 people in a room a free coaching session if they came and got his card. Get the card and you are in the top 15 percent. Follow up and you are in the top 4 percent. Build the relationship and you are in the top 0.4 percent. His closing argument: the number one barrier to networking is your own mindset. And the more digital we get, the more human we have to be. The Power of Connection is hosted by Bobby Umar, 5x TEDx speaker and Inc Magazine Top 100 Leadership Speaker. For weekly insights on personal branding and thought leadership, join his newsletter: https://bobbyumar.substack.com

  7. Sep 22

    Speaking Is the Fastest Way to Build a Brand

    Send us Fan Mail Public speaking bundles networking, expertise and live content into one high-trust room, which makes it the fastest thought leadership tool there is. In this session Bobby is joined by Melanie Deziel and Lorraine K. Lee for a candid look at the business of speaking. The three of them get into how event decisions get made 12 to 18 months out, why you pitch what the buyer's audience will get rather than why your talk is great, and why you are better off running one to three core talks you know cold than building a new one every time. They are also refreshingly blunt about money. Melanie's rule is to open at $1,000, because if you ask for $500 they will talk you down to $200, and then you are losing money to teach on someone else's time. She is candid that she should have charged more sooner, and she names who that costs most, which is speakers from marginalized backgrounds who get taken advantage of precisely because nobody told them they could ask for more. She also has a better move than working for free. Instead of saying you will do it for nothing, say you are willing to waive your fee in exchange for something you actually want, whether that is video footage, testimonials or introductions. You are still a speaker who charges. You have just decided what to charge in. Lorraine's practical counterpart to all of it: you do not need a paid gig to get the assets in the first place. There is a stage at any university nearby, a friend can take the photos, and the reel gets built from there. Also covered: how to choose a coach, what agents and bureaus really do (they manage demand, they do not always create it), whether you need a sizzle reel to pitch, and the pre-stage mindset that beats nerves every time. Bobby's version of it: be a teacher, not a speaker. Melanie Deziel is a keynote speaker, two-time author and co-founder of The Creator Kitchen. Lorraine K. Lee is a speaker, LinkedIn Learning instructor and teaches at Stanford Continuing Studies. The Power of Connection is hosted by Bobby Umar, 5x TEDx speaker and Inc Magazine Top 100 Leadership Speaker. For weekly insights on personal branding and thought leadership, join his newsletter: https://bobbyumar.substack.com

  8. Sep 15

    Know Your Value (And Everyone Else Will Too)

    Send us Fan Mail Most people think pricing is a number problem. It isn't. It's a clarity problem, and usually a packaging problem wearing a price tag. In this session Bobby walks through the full pricing system he uses with coaches, consultants and speakers, built on one idea: the moment you know your value, everyone else will know it too. He opens with two clients who got it wrong in opposite directions. A therapist with 30 years of experience charging only $500 for a three-hour workshop, later coached up to $2,500 an hour. And a speaker asking $10,000 a keynote with no speaking history, who got silence from every organizer she approached. What's covered:  - The two failure modes, underpricing and overpricing, and why overpricing produces silence rather than a "no"  - Why one offer beats five half-offers  - Low ticket under $1,000: publish the price, because clarity beats charisma  - High ticket above $4,000: sell the process, not the strategy, and publish the starting point rather than the price  - Value-metric pricing, where you price the return instead of your hours  - How to handle an objection without ever discounting  - The scope leak that keeps people stuck at their ceiling  - When to raise your price, and the signal that tells you it's already too low He closes with live coaching on real member offers. The Power of Connection is hosted by Bobby Umar, 5x TEDx speaker and Inc Magazine Top 100 Leadership Speaker. For weekly insights on personal branding and thought leadership, join his newsletter: https://bobbyumar.substack.com

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Conversations on leadership, storytelling, and staying human in a noisy world. I'm Bobby Umar. 5x TEDx speaker, Inc Magazine Top 100 Leadership Speaker, and 2x LinkedIn Top Voice. For 25 years I've spoken on stages across 4 continents about the one thing that actually drives careers, businesses, and lives: the power of connection. This show is where influence gets human again. Each episode gives you one big idea and something you can use right away, whether that's telling stories that move people, building a personal brand rooted in who you really are, becoming a thought leader without becoming a performer, or leading with the kind of vulnerability that builds real trust. Expect solo teaching sessions, masterclasses with brilliant guest experts, and honest conversations about what it takes to be seen, heard, and remembered. If you're a leader, entrepreneur, speaker, or anyone building something that depends on people trusting you, this show is for you. New episodes weekly. Let's get into it.

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  • Creator
    Bobby Umar
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    17
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