The Healing Room

Philipp & Kacheve
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Inspired by our talks we want to share the evolving process of healing and coming home  to yourself. The first element of a confession is a playful reference to our religious and spiritual  backdrops, the ambivalent and still important relation with faith, twisted into something  truly liberating, speaking out what moves you, makes your ashamed, you keep  processing and want finally to get rid of by giving words to it. The second element of inspiration gives depth, background and understanding to our  confessions, using our own backdrops and sources of inspirations and those of guest as  well. By bringing in philosophical elements, literature, personal experiences, art and  everything else that can serve as a source of inspiration. The third element is asking back to public, the topics for deepening and activating.  The final recurring element is the playful, still honest benediction and sending.

  1. 4d ago

    Show #13 A Frame Is Not a Home - Coming Home to Yourself

    One of us shaped himself into a brick to fit other people's walls. The other gave away every brick to build homes for everyone else, until only a frame was left. And a frame is not a home. This week, Kacheve and Philipp finally name the theme that has been sitting quietly behind every episode of The Healing Room: coming home to yourself. Not to a house or an address, but to the inner place where you can ground, rest, and be at ease. In the Confession, Kacheve opens up about years of cheering everyone else on while self-care, self-awareness and a sense of direction slipped away. Philipp confesses to becoming a blank wall for other people's expectations, from the gifted historian to the perfect nerd. He also talks about feeling displaced from within as a German who made his home in the Netherlands. For Inspiration, Philipp turns to Christopher Nolan's The Odyssey: a hero cursed by the god of the sea and off course for years, with home still burning at the core of his heart. He links it to the inner compass, the polar star Fernando Gideon spoke of a few episodes ago. Kacheve answers with something practical: an inner map, built step by step, where sometimes going back is the only way forward. We close with a benediction for every traveler still at sea: you will find your Ithaca. You may lose it again. You will find it again. Winter is coming. Let us be your human blanket. You are seen. You are not forgotten. You are never alone. — 🎧 Special thanks to DJ Rakim, whose music carries this room, from the first beat that opens the door to the last one that sends you home. Follow DJ Rakim! The Healing Room: Speak It Out: conversations on relationships, faith, and coming home to yourself. Confess · Inspire · Ask · Benediction. New episodes every week.

  2. Oct 26

    Show #12 Give the Light Its Weight: On Gratitude

    Pain can be totalitarian. It swallows everything, even the good moments that were really there. This week we talk about how gratitude gives those moments their weight back. It’s just the two of us in the healing room this time, in the season of harvest and thanks. Philipp confesses first. As a boy at the Erntedankfest, the harvest thanksgiving in a small rural Catholic church, he sat among the fruit and grain carried in from the fields and felt completely cared for. Somewhere along the way he decided gratitude was naive. Now he wants to find that child again. Kacheve confesses to forgetting what was always there: the musician, the connector who brings strangers together, the great cook. It all came back once Kacheve wrote down 25 sentences about it and read them back days later. From there, Philipp brings in Édouard Louis’s idea of the totalitarian nature of pain: suffering as a black hole that absorbs everything and gives nothing back. Gratitude, he says, is the counter-poison. It isn’t sugarcoating or toxic positivity. It means giving the light its fair share of weight. Kacheve goes back to Saturdays at the beach with grandpa, bathing a pack of ten dogs, and finds where a gift for connection began. And we return to Fernando’s vessel from last week, the joy that makes pain bearable, and to what gratitude adds to it.Then we ask: how do you practice gratitude without making it an obligation, and how do you learn to receive it?Our benediction: remain humble, stay grateful, and give weight to the light. The point is not to outweigh the hard things but to counterweigh them. And if you can, turn your darkness into light. Confess. Inspire. Ask. Benediction.

  3. Oct 19

    Show #11 Who Am I to Feel Joy When the World Is Hurting ft. Fernando Gideon

    Grief doesn’t get smaller. You grow around it and joy is what makes you big enough to carry it. Fernando Gideon returns, live from Curaçao, for an episode about the joy so many of us were taught to tone down.We open with three confessions. Fernando always believed life ran on willpower, with joy saved for spare time. Philipp assumed joy could never hold the depth that pain does. Kacheve grew up feeling that showing joy was simply too much, too visible, almost arrogant.From there, Fernando takes us from the sober restraint of Dutch Protestantism to his first trip to Brazil...

  4. Oct 12

    Show #10 Hopeful for Everyone But Myself - Why Hope Isn’t Naive

    What if you’re the one everyone leans on for hope, and you can’t find any for yourself?This week in the Healing Room, Kacheve confesses that he speaks hope into other people’s lives while living in doubt about his own. Philipp admits the news sometimes floods him so completely that hope starts to feel absurd.Then one sentence from a documentary changes the conversation: cynics are easy to rein in. Hope, it turns out, isn’t denial and it isn’t naivety. It’s a form of peaceful resistance.We talk about mirror work and the practice of letting go. We also talk about why coming out is a lifelong and sometimes lonely process, and why hope is the counter-poison. Plus a recap of last week’s conversation with Tyrone Clinton, Mr. Africa UK, on men’s mental health.Confess. Inspire. Ask. Benediction. And a heartfelt “Bye Felicia” to doubt.You are seen. You are not forgotten. You are never alone.

  5. Oct 5

    Men Are Not Hardware | Tyrone Clinton (Mr. Africa UK 2026) on Men's Mental Health

    "It's not the fear of speaking. It's the fear of being seen as weak." Mr. Africa UK 2026 Tyrone Clinton joins Kacheve and Philipp in The Healing Room to talk about what happens to men who are raised to be hardware. Kacheve opens with a confession: raised to be perfect. Always pleasing, always fixing, always last in line, and it's heavy. Philipp confesses one of his deepest triggers: being approached as a patient. As a young man struggling with his sexuality, he was treated as a problem to be solved, until a different kind of therapy showed him there was nothing fundamentally wrong with him, only patterns he could learn to release. Then Tyrone, men's mental health ambassador and the voice behind Breaking The Silence, takes the room. Confess. Inspire. Ask. Benediction. For every man, and everyone who loves one. What were you told a man should be? Tell us. You are seen. You are not forgotten. You are never alone.

  6. Sep 28

    Show #8 Roll With the River

    Philipp believed that liking what he saw in the mirror was vanity. Kacheve, who can style anyone beautifully, changes his outfit ten, twelve times a day because something whispers not good enough. Show 8 is about what happens when you finally dare to see what you see.We begin in autumn's golden in-between light, that season with summer's fullness at its back and winter's melancholy still ahead. From there we turn to change: the kind that frightens us, the kind we resist, and the kind we need in order to keep moving. In the Confession, Philipp admits that the mirror work Kacheve recommended felt esoteric and confronting, until one day it didn't. Kacheve opens up about over-processing every outfit, and Philipp names the light side of that shadow: a fine attunement to others that sometimes turns against himself. In Inspire, the script flips... You are seen. You are not forgotten. You are never alone. Sin bravely. New episodes every week. Special acknowledgments to @DJRakim!

  7. Sep 21

    Show #7 Take Leave, Heal Anew

    Kacheve was told he was cursed. Covered in darkness, blocked, never going to succeed, because he chose to live as a queer man. Philipp learned something quieter and just as heavy: that growing means growing apart. No guest this week. It's just the two of us, back in The Healing Room, following a thread from last week's fashion confessions to the question underneath them. What does it take to grow, visibly and out loud, when growth has cost you people before? Kacheve confesses the generational curses spoken over him, and how he learned to answer every "you will never" with "I will, because I am me."  Philipp confesses years of self-sabotage, and the moment he realised he had found someone who doesn't fear his growth but wants it. For inspiration, there's a poem first heard in a Latin classroom, Hermann Hesse's Stufen. Philipp carried it quietly through dark years and shares it publicly here for the first time. Plus a fortune cookie, a drag queen's wisdom, and an endless blue horizon. Dare to grow. Take leave.  Heal anew. Two lovers, one healing room. You are seen. You are not forgotten. You are never alone. 🎧 New episodes weekly. Speak it Out. Special acknowledgments to DJ Ricky!

  8. Sep 14

    Show #6 Wear What You Feel: Odair Pereira on Fashion, Faith, and Daring to Be Seen

    Kacheve was eight years old when he tried on the dress. Then his grandfather walked in.This week we're joined in the healing room by Odair Pereira fashion designer, stylist, DJ, and the creative force behind DARE DESIGN for three confessions about what it costs to be seen. Kacheve goes first: his mother's stock of church dresses, the one he couldn't stop looking at, and the moment his grandfather found him wearing it. He wanted to disappear into a hole. He also felt something like power. Both things were true. Odair confesses the family pool, being called an elephant by his father in front of every cousin, niece and nephew and the mother who pushed him behind her and made a wall of herself. He didn't break. He walked into the fashion industry years later thinking: what are you going to tell me that I haven't already heard? Philipp confesses something quieter. For years he told himself a noble story: that he was above fashion, above consumerism, above appearing at all. The truth was simpler. He was afraid to be visible, and he dressed the fear up as principle. Then we go to Joseph the biblical dreamer in the coat of many colours, blessed for standing out and punished for exactly the same thing. Visibility as blessing and risk, in one garment. And we ask Odair the question a lot of queer people are still afraid to ask out loud: what happens when you love God and you're fabulous? His answer is disarmingly simple. There are no stops between him and God. Everything else is other people's insecurity. Two lovers, one healing room.You are seen. You are not forgotten. You are never alone. 🎧 New episodes weekly. Speak it Out.

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Inspired by our talks we want to share the evolving process of healing and coming home  to yourself. The first element of a confession is a playful reference to our religious and spiritual  backdrops, the ambivalent and still important relation with faith, twisted into something  truly liberating, speaking out what moves you, makes your ashamed, you keep  processing and want finally to get rid of by giving words to it. The second element of inspiration gives depth, background and understanding to our  confessions, using our own backdrops and sources of inspirations and those of guest as  well. By bringing in philosophical elements, literature, personal experiences, art and  everything else that can serve as a source of inspiration. The third element is asking back to public, the topics for deepening and activating.  The final recurring element is the playful, still honest benediction and sending.

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  • Creator
    Philipp & Kacheve
  • Years Active
    2026
  • Episodes
    14
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © Copyright Philipp & Kacheve
  • Show Website
    The Healing Room